God head of marriage hierarchy in Bible told Adam its not good to be alone made Eve his helper and companion to replenish earth and multiply in Genesis 2:18. The LORD God Yahweh said, ‘Its not good the man is alone, made a helper for him. This fact originated from God’s system put in place a guideline to help family roles. God visits them in Garden of Eden to check on them interact with them. A closer look at their relationship required Adam takes lead to submit to God in Christ for support. Christ is the head of homes and husband is under God’s authority. Jesus said He doesn’t do anything without first talking to God about it. As Church of God in Christ is the bridegroom of Christian body so believer couple’s marriage like Jesus their role model. To love spouse as Christ loves His Church, to encourage, be faithful, loyal so marriage bed undefiled. To unite, respect, to lift each other up and have patience, share family goals and personal space as Jesus prayed alone in the wilderness. God said enjoy sexual intimacy don’t deprive each other unless agree to fast in prayer but rejoin spouse after. Do not use sex as revenge weapon to bully spouse or as a seductive tool to manipulate and lure your spouse to do your bidding. The body is God’s Holy Temple filled by Holy Spirit and Jesus so be God fearing to understand to nurture, care for youself, family, parents and others. Leaving father and mother to marry doesn’t mean abandon family or forsake relatives. Be quick to forgive and don’t make the list of offences to use to attack each other. As Bible says, don’t let sun set on your anger be angry but sin not. People’s individual differences in marriage can be annoying but you can only change yourself. Focus of good loving reason you married to serenade and go on dates. A couple can go out by themselves regularly so trusted family and friends baby sit for them.
You marry whole family for support in times of needs for help and good success. If you cut yourself off will end up too close for comfort, lonely, fights each other. The head of family is husband looking up to Christ. He sustains the family by supporting his wife who is the head of their children. Teamwork is essential by following teachings of the LORD from the word of God in Bible. Hierarchy structures of God in Christ Jesus of Nazareth is the Biblical foundations of marriages. There are other models but focus here is on a Biblical Godly model. Pastors needs to bring awareness and educate people on the Biblical models before they marry. Bible guides bornagain believers in Christ to study God’s model to please God, replenish earth if they want to. A man needs spouse as two heads better than one. A man is physically strong, but a woman’s feelings, insights and emotions are stronger. Men are externally referenced on the bigger pictures, women focus more on deeper family issues. Each plays different roles but flexible cases have exceptions to the rule. Those who want lifetime experience of marriage with spouse needs to study God’s words carefully before they commit to partner. People’s motives for marriage differs, Jesus said test the spirits to see if they are of God or elects deceived by a catfish scammer. He said marriage continues like days of Noah people, enjoyed themselves having fun until God shuts Noah’s Ark doors. The role of marriage is important, necessary and essential in many communities globally. Each country has rules, regulations, cultures pertaining to marriages. Some choose not to marry and that is alright by demands of the work they do or by personal choices. For the LORD’S Biblical Christian believers the word of God guides them with support of family and friends.
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