JESUS WEEPS FOR SINNERS

In John 11: 35 Jesus wept over Lazarus’ death He subdued and then defeated at Calvary. Jesus loves to save all who receive Him and repent to be saved in the Kingdom of God. Christ’ significant victory over death is life in eternity with Him so does not want anyone to perish. Christ is seated at the Right Hand of God interceding for you for God’s mercy and forgiveness and His gift of eternal life. trio1 God is patient for a reason and a season as Loving Father to let in those who accept Christ. like anything with sell by date deadline time runs out as God’s timing is getting nearer. God is merciful, forgiving, wants all to trust Him to have confidence in Him as His Children to avoid hell so still pleading. As a Loving, Merciful father, Full of Compassion God warns, repent to be saved from hellfire.

trio10God loves you and wants all to be saved. Christ is crying over you to accept him, repent before it is too late to be saved from hell fire. Christ will reappear in great wrath eventually to destroy all His enemies, who will not let him Reign and over them. God will punish and deal with despiser of His Gospel in judgment.

trio6There is no exit point to transfer from hell into heaven because is it too far apart and too late. Accept Christ speaking from heaven with infinite tenderness and love to rescue the perishing before it is too late. Yet world promotes sin indulged flesh as lovers of pleasure more than LOVERS OF GOD. trio7Wakie! Wakie! If the trumpet sounds are you saved and ready for rapture, safe, with Christ?  It is not too late to choose to accept Christ to repent to change lifestyle. Signs and events are showing you need to be saved as the Child of God to belong to His Kingdom.trio8Printed T shirt’s advertise God’s love salvation message loudly and clearly to hear God. Your soul is more precious than all assets of world put together, priceless, paid for by Christ Jesus so repent and be saved. Life is going in a fast pace as world events reveal the end time prophecies coming to pass daily. trio11Repent means accept Christ and change your ways, be baptized, faithfully live for God, be light to the world. It is easy to obey and trust God, ask for strength and self-disciple to focus more on God as a believer. The Holy Spirit will take control of your life to guide, help and teach you to follow God better in the Name of Jesus. Come just as you are God loves you and will save your soul.trio12Christ will return when God decides time and moment. Only God Knows precise time and moment so redeem the times. Do not take time for granted because 1000 years is like 1 day in God’s Eyes and 1 day is like 1000 years to God. Are you in God’s Kingdom and ready for Saviour Jesus Christ’s in rapture? Red moon signs shows believers be alert.

THE MESSIAH JESUS IS RISEN

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JESUS RISEN WITH THE DEAD

1555629384060-1313627143.jpgMatthew 27:51-53 says Jesus resurrected with Saints raised from death who came out of the graves and went to Holy City Jerusalem so appeared to many people. The Temple veil was torn, rocks split by earthquakes tombs opened many dead saints were raised from death. So they came out of graves as Christ was raised and went into Jerusalem so alive again.1555626585825-1635185667.jpgMatthew 27:51-53 is clear the dead were alive and so went home to their families seen by over 500 people. Some speculate they ascended into heaven like Jesus did after they were raised from death and seen after their appearances to many. A research of this true story does not talk about them anymore in the Bible after appearances during Jesus’ Resurrection. 1555626945722996338447.jpgThey symbolized and illustrated Christ’s victory over death to confirm God’s gift of the resurrection power of God. Christ defeated death and raised many people during his ministry. Victory over death is again revealed to prove to all that the dead in the grave for years came back to life as God promised will happen in resurrection of the dead for Rapture.1555629260277-160608383.jpgThey were alive not so like zombies or comatose walking dead but came back when the Spirit of life entered them to restore life. They were eating, drinking living normal lives like Jesus did after receiving His Glorified body in physical flesh on the earth. Bodily Resurrection is Life force restored to flesh, James 2:26 Resurrections in the Bible.1555627050162-1313627143.jpgThe Soul gets back into the body, 1 Kings 17:17-23 so the flesh is warmed again as seen in 2 Kings 4:32-35. The Resurrected speak, Luke 7:15 and bodily functions resumed in Luke 8:55; John 11:14, 17. A consciousness is regained in Acts 9:37 so life force is restored to a flesh in James 2:26. Resurrections in the Bible happen often through Jesus and His disciples. 1555627881500-1068246670.jpgThe Resurrection of the dead happens and is well documented in books, and you tube videos for testimonies to the GLORY of God. Again today in real life many churches witness resurrection all over the world of the dead as medically proven and certified dead by doctors. Some wake up in the mortuaries before burial or after in their graves still alive.wp-1555628187783..jpgJesus said the dead will arise so women received their dead back alive because though they died yet they shall live as Christ promised. The living in Luke 24:5 have physical bodies and Luke 24:36-43 says they are not invisible spirits ghosts but conscious, with cognitive physical activity. John 12:1-2 describe the human traits of those raised from the dead.1555627145304-860916511.jpgPeople were raised from death as an act of God’s mercy in Luke 7:12-13 provides confirming evidence of God’s POWER, presence and approval of life extended by the grace of God. Elijah as a prophet in 1 Kings 17:24 received God’s approval alive into God’s PRESENCE. Luke 7:16-17 is similar reason for Matthew 27:52-53 to prove God’s Authoriy over death. 1555627538404776795221.jpgProphets and Jesus already foretold that there will be resurrection here on earth for a reason. Resurrection accomplished increased faith in God’s Miracle POWER so many people believed in John 11:45; 12:10-11, 17-18; Acts 9:42 like Lazarus, Dorcas and saints of Matthew 27: 52-53 are favours of God miracle opportunity to Glorify God in Luke 7:15-16 proves Jesus True Witness Messiah Son of God.1555626657451-160608383.jpgLike Rapture resurrection of the dead to come to live in heaven they continued to live until eventually they died later. In 1 Corinthians 15:22 sees son lived in 1 Kings 17:22 so presented to his mother after raised from death. In Luke 7:15 Lazarus resumed his normal activities in John 12:1-2 they continued to live to ripe old age and succumbed to death.1555627968461990063215-1.jpg Ecclesiastics talks of mankind returned to dust and spirit returned to God after death. And Rapture says in the twinkle of an eye dematerialized body reformed instantly by the miracle POWER of God. It sounds illogical to human minds that a decayed body is restored with organs functions normally again. Supernatural things of God are beyond the analytical thinking process so is received by faith.1555628979164-1635185667.jpgAll in Christ will rise again in Rapture as the Saints did during the resurrection of Jesus. The Saints uplifted faith of those traumatized by Jesus death or suffering in state of fear for their lives. They had seen Jesus raise the dead but somehow could not understand Jesus telling them if his death and resurrection. So miracle helped to assure them of Eternal life in Christ in God’s Kingdom ruled by Jesus.1555630008624-1313627143.jpg1555629650846-1635185667.jpg1555740335876-160608383.jpg1555790225873-160608383.jpgEzekiel predicts the coalition union of return of two nations Israel and Judah in verses 15-22 by two sticks tied. This is symbolic of uniting of Jews and Gentiles in Christ and His Church. The prophet foretells the Kingdom of God in Christ to be set up in Israel and God’s Sanctuary to Glorify and worship God by His Grace in verses 23-28 to fulfill God’s Covenant.IMG_20190420_160925.jpg1555740700579-1313627143.jpgThose resurrected went to their homes in Matthew 27:53 appeared and then ascended into God’s PRESENCE later in paradise. This shows the sting of death had been taken away so lived out their physical lives and died like others raised but Jesus is the exception. In Acts 2:24; Colossians 1:18; Revelations 1:18 Jesus will resurrect the dead bodies in Christ in 1 Corinthians 15:22 together with those alive in Rapture to heaven.1555742807541-1635185667.jpgThe powers and authorities misjudged Jesus and thought killing Him will end the Kingdom of God. The lesson is Christ has Power over physical and spiritual death in John 11:25-26. Christ Jesus is real so have faith in Him and in His Power over death. Revelations 1: 18 says the dead in Chrit will experience first bodily resurrection in Rapture as John 5:28-29 confirms, live forever in eternal life with God, Jesus and family. 1555629445884-860916511.jpgResurrection stops death due to sins of Adam and Eve’s DNA passed into many generations after thousands of years so erased by the Blood of Jesus. In Christ is eternal life of Colossians 2 :12-13 and in Romans 6:4-6. Christ’s Power over both the physical and spiritual death is seen in John 11:25-26 to restore mankind to God. Through Role Model Jesus, nation of Israel returns to God in a life Eternal through Jesus Christ’s Power of defeat over death to live forever in Victory.

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JESUS DIED YET LIVES AGAIN

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KING JESUS ETERNAL REIGN

IMG-20190415-WA0000.jpgKING OF Kings Jesus Reigns Eternally in Israel in City of Jerusalem on Throne of King David. KING Jesus defeats nations opposing God in Bible says Zechariah 12:2-3. The world superpower’s threats to grapple for supremacy to dominate ends forever their thousands of years of human rule back to Theocracy of God’s rule. Daniel 9:25-27 says Messiah Prince the Anointed One after seventy weeks is determined for God’s people and HOLY City will finish transgression, make end of sin, makes reconciliation for iniquity to bring in everlasting righteousness. So sealed vision and prophecy of Anointed Most Holy One Jesus known understand that from going forth of the Command to restore and rebuild Jerusalem until Messiah the Prince shall be seven weeks and sixty-two weeks; the street shall be rebuilt again and wall in troublesome times. Know therefore and understand, from the going forth of the command to restore, rebuild Jerusalem until Messiah the Prince is seven weeks and sixty-two weeks; These streets shall be built again, and the wall in troublesome times. After sixty-two weeks the Messiah cut off, but not for Himself people of the prince will come to destroy City and Sanctuary. The end of it with is by the flood until the end of war desolations are determined.1555187816091513078032.jpgThe nagiyd Promised Messiah Yeshua is at Centre of focus of Daniel 9:26-27. And he shall confirm the covenant with many for one week in the midst of the week he shall cause the sacrifice and oblation to cease, for the overspreading of abominations makes it desolate, until consummation, determined poured upon the desolate.In verse 26, “the people of the Princenagiyd, as Scripture says is interpreted literally so evidently in this text. Messiah the Prince sends people to destroy City and Sanctuary to desolate Jews who reject Him as the Messiah “the Ruler over Kings of the earth,” includes the Romans, Greeks, all enemies of God. Jesus Christ is Faithful Witness FirstBorn from the dead, and Ruler over the Kings of the earth” says Revelation 1:5. Jesus is Commander-in-Chief so sent the prince Titus to desolate Temple, City and Jews. 1555073441200513078032.jpgThe prophecy is fulfilled by Roman’s abomination pagan rituals in Temple HOLY of Holies. And the Roman army surrounded City, as Messiah warned in Luke 19:43 in “days enemies built embankment around, surround and close in on every side.” Roman army in the HOLY of Holies in Jerusalem is ‘abomination of desolation,’ fulfilled Luke 21:20. Jerusalem surrounded by armies desolated the City. Control over Israel makes nations rage and plot vain things to fight God in Psalms 2:1. So KING Jesus defeats them all to rule the whole world physically on earth. All the nations come to Temple in Jerusalem to worship God to Honour Jesus or have no rain. If people on earth do not go to Jerusalem to worship the KING LORD of hosts then there will be no rain in their land stated in Zechariah 14:17. 1555156515108513078032.jpgSo Daniel 9:24 says after Messiah Prince was cut off many nations fight over the control of Israel. They were instruments used by God to fulfil HIS PLANS and HIS purpose for Israel. God recognizes Jesus KING of Kings a New structured Temple  buildings of GREAT Biblical significance on Mount Moriah. Importance of Mount Moriah is established by number of key historical events place there. Abraham Offered Isaac here as Abraham’s faith was tested. God instructed him to offer his son Isaac in sacrifice in Genesis 22:1. Is site of Solomon’s Temple in 990 B.C. when King David was instructed by God to build Altar on the threshing floor of Araunah the Jebusite, David purchased the land which later became the site of Solomon’s Temple in 2Samuel 24:18-25; 1 Chronicles 21:18-26; 2Chronicles 3:1. It’s very significant as a place of ULTIMATE SACRIFICE Crucifixion of Jesus.This is the mountain on which Abraham was asked to sacrifice his “only son,” Genesis 22:2, Genesis 22:12 God SACRIFICED HIS ONLY SON Jesus Christ Messiah. Temple Mount is the historic site of Solomon’s Temple proving old previous historical Jewish living presence on the Temple Mount. The Messiah is God in the flesh of GREAT Significance to Christians, for evidence is consistent with the purpose of God in Temple Mount location.  1555071342334-689469692.jpg1555236484115513078032.jpg1555070968130513078032.jpg1555236647959-689469693.jpg1555236766166570340261.jpg1555071189534513078032-1.jpg1555606685258-1635185667.jpg1555740538157996338447.jpgMount Moriah is God’s Chosen place of all places on the earth to dwell among men says Ezekiel 37:27. In Genesis 22:14 Abraham called this place The LORD Will Provide to this day it is said, “ On the Mountain of the LORD Jehovah Jireh is remembered. Solomon’s Temple stood on Temple Mount says 2 Chronicles 3 :1 that on the Altar all the burnt offerings, sacrifices points to Christ. The Temple Mount is place of His death hour on Golgotha where the veil between the HOLY and Holies tore apart into two directly for our bold approach to God through the BLOOD of Jesus in Mark 15: 38. Past desolation sacrileges that put itself against God in the HOLY of Holies on Temple Mount God were removed so that KING of kings temple is rebuilt as Ezekiel Temple foretold. The Messiah’s Reign is after Matthew 24:15 SEEN abomination of desolation spoken of by the prophet Daniel stands in HOLY of Holies place so who reads let him understand.” God is Compassionate and Merciful so does not want anyone to perish. So is given time to people to recognise HIS PLANS to be saved. After many years of persuasions and pleadings with people through HIS SON Jesus, Prophets and His WORDS HE IS READY TO ACT after warnings to the whole world. So Jesus will Reign as God planned through the Seed of the woman since Genesis on the Throne of David. 1555156833427-689469692.jpg1555156090314-689469693.jpgDaniel 2:44 says in the days of kings the God of heaven will set HIS kingdom that will destroy other kingdoms and put an end to them. Luke 1:33 says Jesus’ Reign over house of Jacob is forever and His kingdom never ends. People tremble in fear when the LIVING God takes over to Rule through Jesus’ timeless Kingdom when introduced. This Final Kingdom is continuation of explanation for Daniel’s vision of 4 beasts. Daniel 10, 11 and 12 makes up Daniel’s final from Chapter 7 on coming Kingdom of heaven. Daniel 10-12 says a New Reign in history starts with coming of Jewish kingdom that is never ruined. God’s Kingdom is Greatest as Daniel 2:44 foretold, “In the days of those kings and governments God will crush and put end to all of them. Jesus’ Kingdom is everlasting His dominion is from generation to generation. Daniel 4:34 says He is KING of future Kingdom of God as the Bible in Daniel 7 says ends present governments, United States and British nations. Daniel 6:26 says as God lives forever, His kingdom will never be destroyed. His Rule will never end. This kingdom God is beginning ultimately as foreseen in Nebuchadnezzar’s dream.

1555156764805513078032.jpg1555156008126513078032.jpgThe KING of Kings Messiah Jesus fulfills Prophecy to Reign in Millineal Kingdom of perfect peace after Glaring desolation sacrilege that cuts off Jewish worship of God on Temple Mount declared itself in HOLY place of YAHWEH. The antiChrist is already persecuting the whole world and killing those who refuse to bow and worship him. In 2 Thessalonians 2:3–4 “Let no man deceive you by any means: for the day shall not come, except there come a falling away first and the man of sin revealed, the son of perdition who is opposing and exalting himself above all that is called God or worshipped says he is God sits in the temple of God showing himself he is God.” The whole world has SEEN abomination sacrilege standing in the place of HOLY of Holies on Temple Mount refuse to restore to YAHWEH the LEGAL PATENT OWNER OF TEMPLE MOUNT ONLY WAY GOD PROVES HE is Rightful OWNER is to take it by force. A time of waiting ends as Jesus predicted.1555373094573513078032.jpg1555371941972513078032.jpgAs Jesus came into Jerusalem they soon thought He will conquer their enemies shouted Hosanna KING of Israel! Praise the King! Hosanna to Son of David. Jesus enters Jerusalem to manifest Coming of the Kingdom of the Messiah KING. He is welcomed into His City on Palm Sunday in His Triumphal Entry with, Hosanna! Blessed is He Who Comes in the Name of the LORD the KING of Israel. People’s expectations of Jesus into Jerusalem on donkey was peaceful entry but fulfilled by conquest of God’s enemies in Bible. It is getting closer Jesus at the door sooner than people anticipate so important to know the times and seasons to be alert to watch and pray in Jesus Name.

1555072645994513078032.jpgWhen kingdom of God suffers violence the violent take it back by force so God’s enforcers are endorsed with God’s OWN Supernatural POWER to cause flood and Great Earthquake destroy the Temple Mount as happened in the past. Temple Mount belongs to God and retakes it back. Those who resist God will face HIS WRATH and Wrath of Jesus, let reader understand these Biblical events taking place on earth in Israel in Jerusalem. It happening globally all the things Bible said through the prophets and Saviour Jesus Christ. God is using floods, fires, earthquakes to demolish idols causes desolation to restore HIS earth back to perfect world destroyed by satan. Make wise decision to accept Jesus as Lord to be saved during these Tribulations.  1555078356091513078032.jpg The KING of Kings Messiah Jesus fulfills Prophecy to Reign in Millineal Kingdom of perfect peace on earth. GOD recreates the earth as originally intended but was ruined finally happens. After centuries of allowing mankind to rule themselves in vain God takes back power to restore earth. God HIMSELF will Come to dwell among men on renewed PERFECT earth worthy of his PRESENCE and Holiness. There will be no tears, weeping, wars or fighting so the whole world will come to know the LIVING God in Jesus Name. Read these things in the Bible and follow God no what even if the people force you to think against God’s WILL. You will face God one day alone to account for your life and Jesus is the ONLY ONE God has CHOSEN as His SON to save you. Believe in God’s TRUTH to live for God in Christ. And Only those in Christ, are the Children of God and live in His Eternal Reign Kingdom forever. Pray for yourself and family, friends, loved ones remember it us better to OBEY God than men and do the right thing to save yourself first. The Bible says that love others as you love yourself. Start loving yourself and then people will see peace and joy radiating in you to love you by agape love of God.  

ISRAEL IS YAHWEH’S LAND

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NARCISSIST ABUSE VICTIMS

IMG-20190408-WA0000.jpgThe term describes narcissists who cons abused victims who are nice and decent people. A smear campaign launched by a narcissist makes them victims too in the situation. Ultimate goal of narcissist is to create maximum drama and chaos with themselves at the center of it. Their reason is all the negative attention feeds their insatiable ego. The more the chaos they can cause, the more important they feel. Their next victim is used to bully or to taunt, insult and further break down their last victim or if friends, family or children of the narcissist. They bully or encourage victim back to the narcissist for reconcilation. Look at what she or he made me do! This is a most common phrase in abusive relationship but these well-intentioned misled enforcers help to endorse actions in motion. The worse or more public and undeniable the bad behaviour by the narcissist is, the more abused victims needed to protect image and work to attack their victims. After exhibiting such bad behaviour of lying, cheating, stealing or all of the above, the narcissist goes running to inner circle exclaiming, ‘Look at what s/he made me do! Simultaneously blames both for their bad behaviours and never takes responsibility for their actions. Their  bad behaviour does not fit in with the carefully constructed public image the narcissist created for himself. Victims buy into the narcissist’s explanation of events and get all riled up wanting to come to their defense. To outsiders the situation and the narcissist is seen for what they are as a master manipulator who is the problem, not everyone else.wp-1554735998255..jpgTheir new victims quickly becomes the target, as they are now perceived to be the problem. According to the narcissist, the spouse is never home, does not pay attention to them or would not have sex with them. Blames their new victim for throwing themselves at them so in their mind it is not their fault for cheating! After all, look at what they made them do! So sets in motion: harassing emails, phone calls, text messages, driving by the victim’s home, hang up calls, mean and cruel posts on social media so that the victim and her family can see them, gossip, spreading lies launching a smear campaign against a victim that portrays them as crazy, evil, lazy, manipulative, selfish and uncaring. The narcissist has projected everything they are and done onto their victim, and they gone to great lengths to cultivate stellar public image their new victims believe them. Here’s a snippet of a conversation from a former victim of the narcissistic abuser: “OMG. Now I see what a crazy psycho he really is I feel some major empathy for his ex-girlfriend. He described her as utterly crazy, and said she’d even broken into his house. He said she was jealous and just couldn’t get over him, that he’d been trying to get rid of her for years, that he’d lost jobs because of her, and that she just kept stalking him. He wanted her to get the picture things were really over between them, and that he loved me, and joked that we should send her pictures and videos of us in bed, maybe she’d get it. So I did. I got her email and emailed her all kinds of things. Now I wonder if any of what he said was even true. I was so mean and insensitive to her situation. I wish I’d been nicer. They were together for four years. I can’t imagine craziness and hurt she’s going through.”1554717145784513078032.jpgBecause narcissists don’t think of people as people but in terms of “Supply” they always make sure to have ready supply handy for when they need a fix which is all the time. Without their supply, they cannot function so is why the narcissists are never single or alone for any length of time. This leads them to create supply chain of victims of plan A, B, C or so on depending on level of availability. Let it be clear everyone known to a narcissist is part of their supply chain: the friends, significant others, co-workers, church members, and especially their children. The order of Supply Chain is continually under evaluation and shuffled around by the narcissist. The spot of Supply A changes from their spouse, to a person they are cheating with, to their friends, coworkers and children. It is whoever strokes their ego most at that moment, as well as who has the most they can mooch off of earns that spot. If a target wants to leave that spot, because they are tired at losing at a game they never intended to play, the narcissist releases his new victims to get them back in line or create a smear campaign in order to devalue and discredit them and move on to next victim. And when it comes to sources of supply of significant others, a narcissist replaces them with lightning-fast speed. It’s so fast both victim A and victim B did not even see it coming. Due to the unexpectedness of this situation the narcissist is generally able to create suckers out of both victim A and victim B, pitting them their friends, children and other members of family, church and work, etc. against each other. The narcissist sits back and sucks up all the attention from them, used to validate their self-importance and self-worth.1554736812913-689469692.jpgThe narcissist has no remorse, empathy, accountability for their actions. They are perpetual victim, and everything is about them nothing is ever their fault. It is after order of narcissist’s supply line is reshuffled their victims see just how cruel and callous they really are. Their lack of empathy and remorse is hard for their targets to comprehend. They often wonder if they knew who they were in relationship to begin with. Then their confusion, fueled by anger intentionally made worse by additional crazy making provoking behaviour by themself. Often their intention to turn the victim’s rage against other sources of supply turned them into the most vicious entertaining abusive Victim, joins narcissistic queue. The second victim is manipulated by the narcissist to feel better than first Victim. Their behaviours also includes inflicting additional torment of the real Victim/s by spreading false gossip and harassing phone calls, emails, texts, posting on the victim’s Facebook page or social media, notifying a Victim’s family to blackmail ignorant of a narcissist’s awful negative behaviour. Comments made to victim B is along lines of, “Die bitch,” “Slut,” “You are nothing to him, we are married and have kids, I hope you suffer you stupid whore,” “Don’t you have respect? Go find your own wo/man,” “You should do the world a favour and kill yourself.”1554736863592570340261.jpgIf the narcissist spoke to friends, family or church members about his version of the situation, their responses are along lines of, “You need to give them another chance, you have kids together,” “Don’t you value marriage? It’s a commitment after all and you made a vow to honour it,” “Think of the kids,” “The Christian thing to do is forgive and forget,” “They will change,” “All couples have issues so work through it.” Though the comments made to Victim A seems kind than ones made to Victim B, they are not reflecting different the true forms of a narcissist’s victimization for years. Slowly cracking under stress of trying to do or be better walking on eggshells he does not up and leave out of the clear blue yet again. The minimization, deflection, denials of the narcissist’s bad behaviour to their new Victim serves to erode self-esteem and perception of reality. Maybe things are not that bad if these trustworthy people are encouraging me to stay. Both forms of comments made by Victims can and do lead to severe emotional trauma or suicide of their abused Victims. Susie and John are married but John dropped Susie and replaced her with Molly. No one saw this coming not even Susie and Molly. John told Molly he is unhappily married for years and him and his wife in separate bedrooms and live together because the wife can’t afford to move out so he’s doing her a favour. John has fun with Molly a few weeks or months is giving Susie silent treatment and refusing to let her really know what happened or why. The more silent or aloof John is the longer it gives him time to play and drain his backup supply. Although Susie wants answers why John seems aloof, she knows John is a compulsive liar and won’t get the truth anyhow. After John gets his fix off Molly the next in line is his narcissistic Victim He returns to Susie with the story Molly threw herself at him and Molly is crazy/ bipolar/an addict/alcoholic and he cannot believe he fell for her tactics. He is the ‘victim’ of Molly. If only Susie had been more attentive at home/had sex more often and lost weight, etc. this would have never happened. And so his cheating is her fault. …Of course he was telling Molly Susie is crazy/bipolar/ and addict/alcoholic and he can’t believe he fell for her tactics creates triangulation. Unknown to either women they both and friends, family, coworkers, children all think the other woman is the problem. The other woman is crazy /bipolar and an addict, alcoholic so their relationship with the narcissist will be perfect if the other woman was out of the picture. So each woman is completely duped by the narcissist and the wife thinks girlfriend is a tramp not knowing all lies narcissist told her to manipulate her into having sex by Victim B status and the girlfriend thinks the wife is crazy, because look at the way she is acting spurred on by him.1554736714944513078032.jpgThe two sets of Victims he created serve their same master and he continually provokes hate by both Victims driving each other to emotional breakdowns and sometimes suicide. The more their damage is done, the more the narcissist takes delight in it, as their insatiable ego is stroked by Victims A and B fighting over them and other Victims reassuring or reinforcing how great a person they are. Notice the narcissistic created this mess managed to manipulate situation to become the ‘victim’ and has everyone working toward their evil outcome. So after years of ongoing behaviour lying and cheating it does not and will never stop the Victim confuses codependency with commitment so mistakenly thinks they are in a marriage but in fact they are in a manipulation. This confusion sends Victims to double up her efforts to save their “marriage,” and she buys into his manipulation issues as the problems with their marriage. The Victim spends countless sessions in therapy, reading self-help books or attending marriage retreats, while narcissist pretends to be invested in working things out at least for a few days or weeks or sits back and laughs as he dupes both targets again.

Dealing with Narcissistic Cycle Abuse

Educate Yourself: Get information to learn about narcissistic dependency and abusive relationships. Be strong, whole and do not depend on them.  

Get support. Personal therapy required in abused relationship to stop emotional or psychological and physical hurts get information on legal resources, hotlines, and domestic violence shelters.

Detach. Do not react or take personally their words and actions be empowered to reject their opinions of you or others. 

High Self-Esteem. Confidence in God to know your ability stops self-criticism to rebuild your self-worth through Christ. 

Be Firm: Be active to speak your mind, mean what you say in the appropriate tone of voice even if you feel angry. If argument peaks, walk away, agree not not follow each other, take a break, give private space to calm and cool down. 

Boundaries: Agree in advance when to speak about certain issues and how to resolve conflict using keywords to stop. IMG-20190404-WA0001.jpg

Reblogged/Adapted: Thrive After Narcissist Abuse

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I am a self-help, former advocate for victims of domestic violence, current psychiatric RN, as well as a recovering victim of narcissistic abuse. My goal is to educate, empower, and inspire other abuse victims in understanding more about what happened to them and how to prevent it from happening again and to go on to rebuild an amazing life.