Recently we organised events for young people and invited people from all over the world to join in to make clear moral statement position. This stand of regard to moral process invited the local school and Churches. My preliminary personal visit to speak to clarify issues of concern to them to work on as a community. We got to a centrally located venue easy to access and had appropriately trained and experienced staff in place but is not received. For young people expressing a view of their enthusiasm interest adults must accompany those within a certain age range. Mostly its only few Christian schools willing to participate in event.Others made excuses and so bowed out because the theme of event was moral guidance for the young people to make wiser choices for their future. To apply Bible morals as a source of authority to build life foundation on. To know fully their role in relation to others always to help understand shared views expected of each for full support by co-operation.Always doing what is right a challenge as yearly records showed moral decay on the rise as consequences of choices were often for life. We were horrified to learn the same society accuses, blames youth for loose moral but encouraging indulgence. Sending a mixed message to trivialize matters since all young people lack frontal cortex brain do not fully realise the deeper issues of moral life.Many need guidance from and mentors to support and to help them make good decisions in life. Young people and need good hobbies, music, sports and a good habit to focus on interests and passions. They need to concentrate on the talents, and abilities to bring joy to keep them preoccupied as devil finds work for idle hands. To be trained must be supervised to join others to make up their mind to live based on God’s Biblical teachings.So responsibilities connected to certain right choices of how it impacts their life and forever was clearly explained with prayer. It was worthwhile so this event takes place all over the world in various venues each year. Yet liberal views on intimacy condone strong urges must be indulged in at all cost. Without any self-control or the respect for other people’s body Holy Temple of God and dwelling place of the Holy Spirit. Sex is trivialised sign of macho strength to get laid if one wants to without fear or restraints.Cartoons, videos, games, media, films all, highlight sex used to sell products. This desensitizes sex as the mere casual porn commodity for indulgence with no thought of long – term effect or damages to survivors. So many adults live with pain, grief, sorrow, nightmares reliving trauma of abuse devastating effects on life, affecting love, focus, peace of mind. The damage often beyond explanation unless a person is a survivor.Sanctity of relationship and treatment of people left to animal beastly instinct in such matters. Some may take undue advantage of naive children grooming them with paedophilia gangs. Some do network with each other to perpetuate abuse forget each human being created in the image of God. No matter how the circumstances or beliefs, God requires an account of how the children, young people are treated by those in charge.
Schools must give clear moral standards not just tell these children or the young people the responsible use of condoms. The question is how can children know when to bother to get condoms while subjected to undignified treatment. The idea that anytime intimacy is fun and is entertainment through perverted abuse is really apalling savagery. Destroys life of survivors beyond expression of word.Survivors live with the most damaging consequences while their perpetrators may not remember them as a human being. Intimacy is a sacred act created, approved and endorsed by the Almighty God for legitimate use. It is not intended a relief joke to indulge tension or lustful actions to abuse people. So many suffer, hurt in silence and compensations does not restore their hurt deflowered virgin to original state. Money cannot wipe out their grief or the pain caused by trauma retained for life affects future marriage. The intimacy required to consummate a marriage becomes memory of past pain.
Never compromise yourself in a group with false sense of security and to be involved to be attacked causes pain and damage to others for fun. For no matter how dense the crowd, one cannot hide from the roaming eyes of God of Justice. The creator of your priceless life or soul values you to be treated with a dignified respect and honour. God sees all secret things will fight for you and so vindicate a survivor to thrive in Jesus Name. And to overcome trauma, reproach, despair, shame or blame. Teach children, young people to respect God’s creation as they are precious to God so their angels fight for them in Jesus Name. Do not replay a role in abusing yourself by guilt not to forgive yourself. It takes two tango, ask God for His Mercy to forgive you for a situation beyond your control in Jesus Name. Thank God for your salvation in Christ Jesus so don’t let past define you.