n-ikuboss-a-20160509With the long vacation approaching fast many working parents are faced with a dilemma of childcare. The high cost of childcare means some parents are better off at home caring for children. It is impossible to afford cost of hiring child minders or nannies like the few privileged. Parents must work at the same time looking after their children or their income support is cut off. This is because 24/7 full-time care of children is not legally recognised as paid work in Britain among many countries. Children go to nursery part-time paid for parents and it seems almost punitive to have a child in modern times. Children miss out on such expensive nursery places they cannot afford. Many parents are in debt and policy makers, often males, do not understand the depth of nurturing needs of babies and children. Wages are too meagre to pay rent, buy food and pay bills for most in these advanced wealthy countries throwing away tons of perfectly good food and material things everyday. Bankno_photo_4 balance seems to take precedence over priceless human lives. Worst of all in these countries the parents who leave children home alone are arrested and jailed but children are allowed free to roam the streets among paedophile predators and drug dealers. So with summer holidays parents are worried about safety of children and looking for relatives, family or friends to help look after children. The hardest job in the world is caring for children because they require 24/7 supervision. Anyone who cares for their, children, cooking, feeding, teaching, bathing, hospital appointments, doing laundry, garden, shopping, chores, running errands each day etc, plus looking after family other needs knows it is not easy or simple as often dismissed as unemployed person. 6a00d8341c4eab53ef01b7c7f5bfef970b-800wiHuman life of parents seems further displaced by machines yet unemployed must still pay their nursery fees, bills and mortgages through no fault of their own. So wonder what will happen if all the women in the world refused to have children due to attitude of government towards parents. There will be shortage of wives for men as happens in China and Japan. Germany and Russia after the war had to devise better maternity packages to entice women to repopulate the nation. With longer living of the elderly due to better medical care governments must address birthrate provisions with long-term vision into the future. Children and young people will be leaders and the carers in the future. So a great investment to nurture them today to help prepare them for their future roles. Treating children as unwanted nuisance draining state Resources is the greatest mistake every nation. Ignoring them as not an urgent issue keeps many out of schools and illiterate. Over 11 million children are out of school in Nigeria the highest record in the world. Most parents pay for education, buy books and pay exam fees so do not enjoy the privilege few. nursery3Yet education is taken for granted by the ones given their right to in education. In order not to lose vital front line staff it is essential to build company nursery to be included in building design by their architects. Employers can adapt their buildings to meet nursery standard to solve complex issues addressed by some compassionate companies. Their highly valued staff are retained for their input them after childbirth so children from 3-12 months provided for in workplace. Those not able to gain place must work from home to supervise children. These countries do not allow children to be left at home alone unsupervised like many other countries in other parts of the world. It is against the law and a nightmare for the majority of working parents without the flexible working hours to solve childcare cost problems. Affected by credit crunch and austerity budget cuts, that does not seem to dent the pockets of a privileged few. Holiday season makes childcare major problem for families. So recently, 20th July 2017 wrote on workplace child care facility in a bank in London.Amanda Wong, Goldman Sachs

Image caption Amanda Wong and her daughter Naomi use the Goldman Sachs nursery. So Head into nursery into the Goldman Sachs building on London’s Fleet Street and you’re greeted by wall to wall marble, a bank of receptionists and a water feature in the London City. But wind your way past lifts through an anonymous fire door and you enter a world that couldn’t be less corporate. The sounds, colours and laughter of a nursery. The Goldman Sachs Children’s Centre is both incongruous anomaly as the only on site childcare facility in the Square Mile. Started in 2003 to offer back up provision for staff, it takes kids between the ages of three months and 12 years old. The expense or regulatory requirements for such a facility are the main reasons why it is unique – and peculiar to a bank with deep pockets. This is part of a day of BBC coverage looking at the cost of holiday childcare. Find out at or follow conversation on social media using the hashtag #Childcare. According to latest figures from the Chartered Institute of Personnel and Development, only 5% of businesses in the UK offer childcare in workplace. Anecdotally, this is almost exclusively made up of large employers because they have the money and space to allow for it. They include government departments, Royal Mail, a variety of universities, Microsoft and Toyota. There are tax breaks for those companies that do.Goldman Sachs Children's Centre

Childcare facility at the Goldman Sachs takes children from three months to 12 years old. Employers who include their childcare costs as the part of employee remuneration package, attract tax and National Insurance and obligations. But employers that offer in-workplace nurseries do not and they get relief for the day-to-day running and capital costs of providing the service, for example heating and lighting, and premises.

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It might be seen as a perk but an onsite childcare flourished in the immediate post-war years out of necessity. A labour shortage meant women were needed to work and factories and mills started to offer the creches that allowed them to. Dr Laura Paterson of Oxford University, who specialises in history of women’s employment, says childcare provision by businesses died away in the 1950s as the need for women became less acute and the way they worked changed. The. “Part-time and flexible working hours reduced need for workplace nurseries to some extent,” she says, “Women who worked from the 1950s to the 70s tell us they did part-time jobs when children were young to fit around school hours. They worked in the evening so their Goldman Sachs Children's Centrepartner could care for their children. Goldman Sachs are allowed 20 days of emergency childcare a year. But what about the people working full-time at Goldman? For Amanda Wong, who project manages new trades for the firm and is a mum to 12-month-old Naomi, children’s centre has been a lifesaver. Ms Wong put her daughter into nursery same day she returned to work, shortly after Naomi turned nine months. “It has made me feel a lot more relaxed and mentally ready to come back to work a lot earlier than I would have and I think it helps new mums with separation guilt or anxieties about returning to work,” she says. Though she admits it is not ideal to take a one-year-old on the Tube through central London each day. Yet it makes a great difference child is within reach in vicinity giving parents peace of mind. Assured the child is in safe hands, well taken care of by employer pecks.6295314-3x2-940x627

Ishmeet Rayit, who manages Goldman Sachs Children’s Centre, tells me they have a higher staff ratio than Ofsted regulations require (one-to-two in the baby room rather than one-to-three), because they need to make children who might not be familiar with them, settle in quickly. Of the 5,500 people who work in the office, about a quarter are registered users. Each parent at the bank gets 20 free “back-up” days to use the centre, renewed each year. The most coveted facility in the centre is the after-school and holiday programme where the 5-12 year olds come. It’s stuffed full of bilingual books and toys, showing just how multicultural the bank is. “The kids call it an office day,” Ms Rayit says. “They get taken out for lunch by their parents and they make friends here.” Parents are only allowed to book 10 days of this holiday service at a time, the room can accommodate 12, and the waiting list to get in is long.Goldman Sachs office in London

Goldman Sachs is in two old newspaper offices on London’s Fleet Street. Sally Boyle, the international head of human resources at Goldman, says it is a “significant cost” to the firm – but it is worth it. We are definitely seen it have an impact on retention of a smallish group of women but important women who wouldn’t have stayed I suspect if they hadn’t been able to manage that childcare in a way that they can here,” she says. The centre is run by Bright Horizons, largest provider of workplace nurseries in the UK. Goldman pays it a monthly management fee, and parents who need childcare beyond that paid for by the bank, deal directly with the nursery. A spokesperson for company says demand for onsite care increasing. “In today’s competitive talent market, recruiting and retaining exceptional people is high priority for organisations. “On site childcare has been identified as a key factor in encouraging parents to return to work and, in turn, helping organisations to thrive”.

‘Chronic shortage’

But Rohan Silva, whose Second Home drop-in work spaces are planning in-house creches, says the barriers to entry today of setting up onsite childcare are enormous. “The Ofsted accreditation process takes at least three months, and costs hundreds of pounds in registration costs and consultancy fees. In addition, there are multiple additional inspections each year, plus a chronic shortage of trained staff,” he says.Second Home nursery plansSecond Home found designing its onsite creches difficultAnother challenge is the fact that so few architects and designers have ever designed childcare facilities, because so few are created by property developers. That means thinking from scratch the issues around access and child-friendly materials,” Mr Silva says. He believes it’s a vital way of allowing more parents to work. “The UK’s rate of maternal employment is 27% lower than other Western countries making childcare more accessible will make a big difference. “This is especially true of single parents – who are much more likely to be unemployed, and for whom access to childcare is the biggest barrier to finding work” Mr Silva adds. A recent Institute of Directors survey backs this up. It found over half of its members think that the cost of childcare hurts careers – particularly those of women. It is currently consulting on whether to open a creche for its members. For now, though unlike those women working in factories after the war, the option of taking your child to work is offered at a company’s largesse rather than out of compulsion. And it’s reserved for a privileged few.


proverbs-3-12-god-corrects-us-gold_1398839561The LORD God Almighty corrects those HE LOVES as a father or parents correct the children in whom they delight says the Bible in Proverbs 3:12. God reveals to HIS Children error by love to point out mistakes to reveal the correct way to change for good. Correction is done by God directly or through Jesus Christ the Eraser to wipe out errors to restart correctly to show a person unaware of a mistake due to lack of knowledge. This helps learn from mistakes to improve lives to please God. By doing so the lives transformed grow in righteousness and improves in faith, active listening skills in obedience to God. The person gains useful information previously unknown before. Hebrews 12:6-11 says the LORD chastens, disciplines, scourges all HE LOVES to receive correction to endure to gain better experience in life. God deals with people as individual, family or on corporate basis as required.proverbs-3-12-god-corrects-us-green_1078636053Correction of Bart Simpson is a classic example of the line writing exercise on the classroom board to highlight point of correction. Years ago, schools gave pupils correction exercise books for rewriting misspelt words. Of course, as children unaware of exact right words intended word teachers point mistake to teach learners to write many times in exercise books to help remember the correct words in future. The brain coordinates hand movements with eyes to record words. Repetition of the words written many times forever registers so etched in minds of pupils to remember better. But along came a contemporary educational theory it constitutes abuse to ask children to use repetition method to write lines for correction so avoidedsimpson-i will use google before asking dumb questions

So spell checker was born so people did not memorize words for rote learning for recall. Computers correct the words obviously misspelt but words like “cap” and “cup”or “hat” and “hut” for example though correct, if not in context can be incorrect. Drinking milk in “cap” does not show on spellchecker so the reader must know word “cup” in the first place to edit it. This affects spelling error not dealt still with by computer in modern times. Therefore it is important to teach correct words in academia for life as a whole. The Bible says if you correct wise people and they become wiser and love you but correct mockers and they hate you. Choose correction carefully at right time in right way to help improve lives. Purpose of correction is not to shame a person in a negative way for vengeance to hurt them. People who love and care about you help with any issues affecting you to deal with it by Godly correction, compassion, support, understanding as God disciplines us.  3

Godly discipline is for good so it is not punishment though unpleasant because one is compelled to conform or comply against own rebellious ideas. Proverbs 9:8 warns not to attempt to correct fools because they are offended so hate you. Adapting to change is uncomfortable so may seem harsh to recipient until they benefit when they correct the error. So Correction requires determination by the teacher to help ‘wise’ to be ‘wiser’ as challenge to one doing correction. Their unpredictable nature, response reaction to correction depends on the persona at receiving end. Element of risk means a teacher helps learners to avoid mistakes to help correct them through a training experience. Criticising a person affects correction as attack on ego or pride may refuse help or reject correction. In the long run, over a period of time, people realise an insolent person’s ignorance is caused by fear of change. So help stop the devices of mistakes damaging them. Lack of Frontal Cortex means those in crises do not know how mistakes can impact lives. Sadly, some learn the hard way by self-destruction that could be avoided if only they listened. proverbs3_11-12Through arguments a stiff neck refuses to take instructions so does not realise the errors done to themselves or to their family. Blinded by error mindset, causes havoc by process of fear rebuff or reject correction so avoid a pointed out error altogether for improvement. The theory that correction discourages children in the early years from learning affects the attitude to correction in general. Left to figure things out for themselves, many people are unaware of their mistakes. So it becomes problems affecting their performance if the person is allowed to be left to their own devices. In terms of future career the person carries on into other areas of life. Anyone who points out errors to them other than own ideas is not well received. Although a trainer from experience knows exactly what they are talking about, so foresees error, the learner does not accept help, refuses correction. Yet correction is specifically for their good, well-being of the whole family or work place, community and world in general.Profitable-for-RebukeIf a stubborn person resists wisdom at all cost to defy authority in the name of freedom to do as they please, they miss out on the Spirit of excellence. Realise boundaries of correction helps to learn better ways to protect them from a long winding road of mistakes. Like prodigal son, God forgives and restores the ways of error to rescue the lost or misdirected by the wrong choices they made. Proper correction helps to avoid, prevent worse case scenarios. A person corrected must be educated to visualise or understand benefits of the correction in advance. So learners must be taught advantages of correction to instill value of flexibility, humility to bring changes in learning methods. Correction is not to inflict pain or suffering but guidance to give correct information to the person taught. The teacher must be patient and tolerant because learners do not immediately see what they teachers know. Important to understand a soft stick bends because it is malleable than a hard dry stick. The concept that learners grow up to correct themselves is not always the wise move. As they continue in set ways without an understanding of the impact of previous years without correction. Many adults get offended when genuine people try to guide them to correct errors. Some explode in anger and rage so take anger on others. This even spills over into the others aspects of life treating anyone’s suggestions in good faith as an attack on their character or personality. 54126707d4518b751f9145ee5d192841

Reprove not a scorner lest he hates you, rebuke a wise man and he will love you. Give instruction to a wise man so he will be still wiser, teach a righteous man and he will thank you and apply correction in their lives. Correct fools and they take offence. Do not despise chastening of the LORD God; neither be weary of HIS correction. So accept correction for your own goodAccept correction of God by Grace and wisdom of the Holy Spirit to lead you into all truth and teach you. A personal Bible study as a faithful Child of God is part of growth and maturity in the LORD. Start correction of children as early as possible from 2 years old to correct them in love at their level not by anger. Teach children by pointing out correct manner of behaviour as part of life for all to learn. It is imperative to carefully train a child to get rewards for their good behaviour to help reinforce correction. Follow up with apology and hug so child learns to accept teachers doing well to teach child to accept critique of work performance. Children with trained good sense accept correction and even recognise error by admitting error if unnoticed by teacher. A child can politely point out error to a teacher because all are human, so make mistakes in life. The secret is to get up immediately for good success not to feel disheartened by correction. Correction is good as it builds a person up to thrive.


IMG_4731All children are blessings from God to bring joy to the family to replenish the earth. The Bible describes all children as gift reward from God according to Psalm 127:3-5. So pray each day for each child throughout their lives and dedicate them to God. Speak blessings upon their lives through Jesus Christ as Christian believers. At the same time although the couple’s life may forever change throughout conception to birth, it is worth it as they enrich life. Children grow up very quickly so be well organised and prepared in advance before their arrival. Enjoy and accept as gifts from God as stewards entrusted with children.kate-middelton-prince-william-prince-georgeA woman’s career may also be often affected as hospital appointments, maternity leave and child care usually takes it toll on marriage relationship. Some women may be brought up to care for children with the support of other women. Family chores previously done by one may shared accordingly as required. Consult together in prayer with wisdom in Proverbs 13:10. Apply Bible advice in raising children for good effect on family as children draw best in parents to be less self-centred. The changes brought  about by children are for a season even if it feels sharp and intense. Capacity to cope in career is applied as a new dimension of progression promotion from God. Children teach unconditional love, acceptance, forgiveness, mercy and compassion.

2To bring more loving and understanding changes in a marriage. The child brings joy and also commitment responsibility of hard work. A child is for life so think carefully of indulging the hormones. Having children can seem as trophy to some but requires sacrifices, training and good upbringing with joy. With extended family not around as in previous years, the couple may be the sole carer of their child. It means centre of attention shifts from husband or bride to the infant. Some babies are quiet so easy to handle without bringing any major changes or long term stress on the couple. Simple sleeping patterns of the family may change to suit the child. Others may require extra attention and long-term care.  Real maturity is needed to raise children to deny self.

FMimage06Both parents may take turn during the night to feed the baby. Also it is important the husband must recognize pregnancy takes a toll on his wife physically and emotionally. A new baby can consume time and energy so affect intimacy remain emotionally. The couple can ensure a helpless, lovable baby is not a wedge to drives them apart but enrich the family. A new baby can consume a mother’s time to feel fulfilled because maternal instincts kicks in. This deep sense of emotional caring for baby overwhelms her. The husband may feel neglected by shift of focus from him to the baby so needs to change no matter how difficult it is to accept. oct2_02_obamafamily_2002 From two people a sudden inclusion of the baby may cause upheaval. This transition is very hard to preconceive or fully understand before it happens. However, the husband rises to challenge child to be the loving father to the child if is it acceptable to do so in their community. Some women may be brought up to care for children with the support of other women. Family chores previously done by  one couple may need to be shared accordingly as required. Consult together prayerfully with wisdom in Proverbs 13:10. Apply Bible advice in raising children for a good effect on the (1)Having children may seem trophy to some but requires sacrifice, training and good upbringing. Flexibility depends on community if men are depended upon as the sole income earners. So go out to work while the women may remain home full-time. If codependent the woman who gives up career may risk loss of earning, own source of income, pensions and insurance. So it is necessary to prepare for the children’s future financially. If blessed to have a sound finance, the ensure children’s future education is saved for in bonds or stable safe secured investments. Also, teach children to Fear and Love God and fellow humans above all in their lives. To study hard in school but to know eternal life university is limitless and endless.

Every-child-is-a-blessing-from-heaven1ChildrenTherefore, the woman becomes worse of after bereavement or divorce. There needs to be moral ethical clarity on economic and financial preparation without assuming marriage automatically provides for future security. Many women and some men have their lives completely ruined for lack of advance preparation. The Bible says no man builds a tower without first considering the costs involved. Love alone is not enough as statistics show the highest cause of divorce is arguments of finance. All children are blessings from God to be raised with great opportunities. Be transparent about debts before marriage and so not create undue debts during dating, courtship and marriage.d8a78b77cb49484ed09d09825f3c68a5

Some traditional families expect marriage exclusively to meet needs of the man as the head of household. So women may run the family, see to matters of cooking, cleaning, childcare as a team. In-laws or extended family may live nearby to help the couple. On the other hand, the couple may pay child minder, nannies, house keepers to look after child. Rather than designer gear from head to toe equip child to have good foundation in childhood. Remember each stage of child growth is dynamic. Discipline methods in childhood may not always work in teenage years. Therefore, work with each child in the family to help child understand the choices and consequences of all actions. Children copy adults and enact their behaviour than what they told to do.



Children draw the best in parents to be less self-centred. To bring more loving and understanding changes in a marriage. The child brings joy and also commitment responsibility of hard work. Children are part of the couples future so teach them to respect authority to honour adults. What a person sows is what they will reap. Couples must be there for young children to bond with them for adult children to care about them as elderly parents. Get help from experienced parents if struggling and unsure. There are no perfect parents no matter how good enough one may be so let God take control of your household. Jesus is a great example in obedience of earthly family and God Almighty. A child is for life so think carefully before indulging hormones. Jesus loves children so call upon Jesus to help.

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Projection means seeing life through others to blame them for all life’s problems. So defends self against unpleasant impulses denying existence in themselves. So totally refuses to accept any responsibility of any part played in own life. Projection attributes own repressed thoughts to someone else so all problems blamed on parents, teachers, neighbours, spouse, friends and colleagues. Such ego defence mechanism projects and blames thoughts, impulses and feelings onto others. So transfers and also counter transfers past and present situation onto the dearest and nearest. Therefore loved ones bear most the brunt of projection as closest to the projector. Projector’s automatic mental behaviour is under girded by preconceived traditional standards so set in own ways. Feels strongly angry so uses defence mechanisms to repress, deny and project trouble onto others. All their frustrations, difficulties, failures, are somebody’s fault. Living in delusion of grandeur sets heights too high above their station in life so thinks too highly of  themselves. They do not care what damage or hurt they cause others. Life basically only revolves around them. They must always be the centre of focus or feel dehumanized. This pattern of unhealthy behaviour starts innocently from terrible 2 years running family around. So carries on into adulthood with warped worldview. Addicted to having own way not nibbed in bud in early years. So married unleashes to blame spouse for all their life problems. Each day, they find something wrong with those intimate with them. They may complain the spouse is too thin so must eat to avoid being seen as their child. So the spouses gains some weight they approve of. However, any extra weight is seen as fat so nagged to lose weight. So one is never sure where one stand with them though supposed to care about. Next they are told they are too short, so start wearing platform shows to increase height. Although, the spouse is forced to wear heels at all times to please them, they soon find the next thing wrong with the partner. On and on the go comparing their cooking with their mothers, house keeping with their mothers. It is as if they would have liked to marry their mother. forgetting their wife is not their mother. Eventually as spouse bears children so he must rise to the task to do his bit as a loving  father. Instead he feels abandoned, displaced angry and jealous of attention given to his own child. Sulking, complaining of poor housekeeping soon finds comfort elsewhere. So justifies his terrible betrayal by blaming the wife. In some primitive societies, wife is lashed with stick for not fulfilling intimate duties commitment whether she wants it or not. Feels sense of entitlement to whatever wanted whenever irrespective of impractical reality of demands so generally anxious. This projection behaviour extends to finances whereby all his personal needs are met but the family may lack food, electric, clothing, shoes, yet he is immaculately dressed. To the outside world he is a saint and a good role model. Yet the wife and children are suffering under his yoke of bondage too ashamed and too embarrassed to get help. Those who dare tom report him to the family or friends are not believed. Or he denies and undermines her more telling them she is a bitter jealous woman who hates his interaction with them. This continues until bruises appear on the woman and children with cover story not to expose him. He may threaten to treat them worse or will seek divorce and take away the children. So this takes place for years. The wife succumbs to his disrespectful relationship, bullying and his abusive ways for the sake of the peace.Meanwhile, spouse’s behaviour gets worse with unpredictable outburst constant arguments. So a terror at home who picks on the children. He may resort to violence by beating or punishing unreasonably for slightest perceived irritation. Forgetting children need to play to have innocent fun freely at home. So goes on attacking family wrongly believing entire life happiness depends on perfect performance of wife. After years tormenting wife may gamble, drink or do drugs to numb disappointments so cannot keep work schedules. Finance is affected because he has an insecure world view.

189377_298415886930257_435613120_n (1)Without rent, bills unpaid, debt piling begins to fight threats from creditors amid debt collectors. Instead of seeking help to address the situation picks on the wife more. So builds resentment towards wife and plots to poison,  maim, electrocute, kill wife. So begins secret preparation to plot her demise. Forgetting in the moment of anger and madness the consequences and effects of destruction upon himself. Does not think clearly ahead of impact on his future or where he will spend the rest of his life. So carries out such actions heard constantly in the news of a husband killing wife, electrocuting for only bearing daughters or hacking by chopping head off for a row. Do not recognise child’s gender is from both make and female chromosomes so not wife’s fault. Or acid attacks, gunshot wounds , strangling. Life is first own personal responsibility to God. Each must have direct connection with God first as a Christian believer. Then encourage partner to lead life in same way accountable to God first. Both must remain connected strongly to God with the first love in Christ Jesus. Then both will realise God is their source of ultimate fulfilment so stop demanding impossible from partner to meet all their emotional, physical and material needs. No man can save another except God through Christ so must learn to do the right thing acceptable for personal well being relationship. The man is the head of woman and Christ is Head of man and the church. Both must look up to Christ Jesus the perfect Bridegrooms example love and leadership. Not to copy romance from novels,  TV drama reality shows. Some may be useful during dating but true reality of marriage is give and take, compromise, forgiveness and building each other up. Though married with children in the home insists on keeping house spotless as show room. Neither keep it unkempt because the children untrained to tidy up after themselves. The husband must help the so stop comparing her to his mother. Some mothers were full-time so had time to clean and polish the silver ware. Do not insist your wife works full-time and must runs the home full-time as if unemployed. Neither sit reading papers or watch football full-time and leave her alone to fend for the children as a married single parent. God is able to keep both if the marriage is entrusted to God to make perfect all that concern both in Jesus Name with thanks to God. Confide dark thoughts to trusted people to seek help before too late to act wrongly. Develop talents, music, art, drama, dancing, painting, cooking, coaching, volunteer, preaching, teaching etc. Personal development interest in a team helps although married.needs_of_singles

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Free expression sense of humour is directed at self, to take mickey out of self to diffuse tension, to take a sting out of conflict to amuse, to calm a situation to make people feel comfortable in company. It highlights one’s own body part like Will Smith tells jokes about his best most distinguished assets, his ears in the Prince of Bell Air. But some dark sense of humour, sarcasm jokes does not translate well with billions of majority of people in other cultural contexts. Poking fun at various traits in people, spots, birth marks, unique tribal features, physique, height, little or extra tall people, large nose, all these highlight God’s Majestic beautiful creation, marvelous wonders. God says Christian believers greet, speak words of God in Bible, Psalms, hymns, good report to build people up. God chose not to create 7+ billion identical clone feature of a particular kind of creation deemed better than all others. Diversity of different facial types, skin tones, head shapes are all part of God’s Bigger Picture to complement God’s Creation. The Bible says nobody can tell God how to design His variety creation. The world needs to realise, value, equal rights and opportunities of diverse people to stop ageism elderly abuse by young bullies. To conform, comply, agree with God’s Wisdom of diversity. It is extremely important, necessary to teach, train children on God’s diversity. Remember God in youth to give elders due respect and honour as youth too will grow old.
In the Bible in 2 Kings:2 – 25, Elisha a prophet of God went to Bethel to minister often. As he went by the way, young people came out from the city and mocked him and said to him, “Go up, you bald head; go up, you bald head!”Elisha regularly passed through to Bethel so had to put up with teasing for years of ridicule from some uncouth children. The elderly Elisha was stressed and exhausted from double responsibility left behind by Elijah in heaven who abandoned work due to torment of Jezebel. A toupe would have solved Elisha’s looks so the children probably would leave him alone or pick on another imperfection. Elisha was hoping for change but things got worse. Extremely tired on circuit from one place to another, would prefer a cup of tea, tumbler of water to quench thirst and bread to stop hunger. Instead he looked behind him and saw them mocking so cursed them in the name of the LORD. So 2 female bears came out of the woods and tore up 42 of them. 25 Elisha went from there to Mount Carmel and returned to Samaria. This action seems extremely harsh in liberal society. The youth children attacked God’s wisdom of creation design to query human form according to God’s will, purpose and plans. God permitted youths of Bethel destroyed for damaging Elisha’s character as God’s prophet. The youth mocked and ridiculed Elisha to go up like Elijah into heaven. The prophet was shocked by rude insolence of children brought up in Torah and Tanakh to honour elders so it is well to live long. Some feel punishment was too great for offence so consider mocking proceeded from great malignity. Disobedient rebellious children are corrected so taught to do the right thing if parents become aware.Possibly Elisha complained to parents and leaders in vain to taunting of the children on his way each time. Elisha felt children faced consequences by challenging God’s Power like devil asked Jesus in wilderness to turn stones to bread to perform miracle at devil’s command. Whole families, towns and cities gain through preaching of gospel. So wicked evil bullies change to be good citizens, bearing excellent fruits of righteousness through Christ to the praise and glory of God. Fear of God is instilled in believer converts to respect, honour God’s servants not making fun of others. Families, adults, young people, little children and infants are taught to reverence God and His prophets. This is crucial and important because not to mock, ridicule God’s leaders. This is a serious matter with the Living God Almighty Jehovah as things different for a reason. God’s discipline is strict for disciple’s own good. God’s prophet, man of God belongs to God, responsible for calling, choosing leaders. Bible teaches children to know their place to respect authority. As future leaders children must live by  golden rule to treat all with equal respect. God personally intervened on behalf of rebellion against Moses and Aaron led by Korah. God considers it serious offence directly against God to mock God’s creation by head shape, look, size, ethnic tribe, colour in Miriam’s leprosy punishment on Moses’ wife Zipporah.Jesus loves all children but God is not mocked by free liberal views on free expression at the expense of God’s servants as the matter is an offence provocation against God. In Western society some children think they are above correction, as the majesty the child served by adults. So Elisha’s Divine action seems strange and extreme in comparison. God permits Elisha’s reaction to stop rude malicious behaviour. In most cultures respect due honour is given to hierarchy of elders. Some kings and queens prostrate flat on the floor to greet others above them in authority. God is Glorified and Highly Esteemed as a Righteous God who hates sin so adults lead by example to honour authority. And young people are trained to be afraid of speaking wicked words against elders or leaders. They are severely punished with extreme discipline to correct them. God notices all said and done, recorded in Book of Life so detests mockery of defects in mind, body, peril scorn of those minding own business. Parents must train children and do the best to drive out foolishness in children’s hearts. Children grow to become parents so influence the next generation. So if undealt with, leads to everlasting condemnation in hell due to careless bad example of wicked teaching of adults. In Matthew 26:51, Mark 14:47, John 18:10, Peter in defence of Jesus during arrest in the garden of Gethsemane was rebuked. Jesus forgave Peter who drew sword and smote Malchus; servant soldier of high priest, whose right ear was cut off. Jesus forgave enemy and made Peter head of church. Jesus taught Peter it was not Peter’s business to defend God’s Mighty Power. God defends His Name, Plans, Purposes through His Son Jesus for God’s servants. Those who insist on teasing others have opportunity in a town in Brong Ahafo, Ghana to participate in a festival each year, approved to freely hail insults at each other without fights breaking out in revenge.

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The Prophet Elisha curses the children who mocked him, by Willem van Bundel

The Children of Bethel mourned by their mothers (Laurent de La Hire, 1653


Year ago, intimacy was treated with sanctity and few knew it took place even between married couples in the home. It was handled with utmost secrecy so innocent children did not have an awareness of existence of such moments. It was carefully done so people in the home did not hear any untoward sounds and disrespectful irritating noises by those without consideration for others in the vicinity of their premises . With modern exposure of access to all areas, knowledge of intimacy in adverts, porn, magazines, information abounds beyond expected limits required appropriately. This dis-synthesized sanctity of intimacy with graphic details splattered in papers, TV, Internet, etc.


As a result intimacy preoccupied the mind than expected so has become the center of focus of conversations and jokes at the expense of females often clad semi-naked in adverts. Such a heightened perception devalues sanctity of  intimacy so intensity the use and abuse sacred seed. God designed it to bring joy, affection, contentment, peace, relief, trust, acceptance, consummation of marriage by couples deeply in love with each other. The real glow shows after orgasm and the happiness of intimacy brings couples closer together united as one flesh. In addition those who desire to multiply and replenish the earth bring forth children to continue the next generation.

And this helps to create heirs for the family and continue blood line for inheritance of wealth and life to continue. The survival of the fittest in this essential ultra-million sperm race  for the winner takes all in the sperm war. This feeling is beyond description when approved by God because there in no guilt or stolen water thrill seeking with consequences between the parties endorsed as a spouse. The happiness achieved in this mystery of the bond of union is amazing.

Researchers Robin Baker and Mark Bellis (1), found ‘approximately 35 percent of sperm are ejected within half an hour of intercourse and those that remain are anything but home free. The womb’s biological structure  is constructed by God genetically to take care of excess sperm naturally. The female’s body perceives sperm as antigens foreign bodies promptly attacked by anti-sperm leucocytes which outnumber sperm 100:1. Only one in 14 million sperm reach the oviduct so sperm run into competition for winning race the race to attain the prize. So the womb is also naturally designed to co-operate to help the one egg select the ultimate winner by usually accepting just one sperm at a time.  A bit like lady Gaga whose head can wear only one sperm hat at a time.


In the Bible in Genesis, chapter 16 a similar opportunity arose for the aged Abraham to do the did and continue his family line. Abraham was called upon by Sarah to indulge himself with Hagar to create an heir Ishmael and the rest is history. Abraham urged on agreed to be laid with younger female servant as allowed to be concubines in those days. Abraham urged on agreed to be laid with a younger female servant as allowed to be his concubine in those days.

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However, something strange happened contrary to expectation in Onan’s case when requested to do a similar did. Onan knew the seed will not be his so it came to pass, when he went in, he spilled it on the ground so not give seed. And the thing which he did displeased slew him. Onan’s actions was not acceptable in the eyes of the Lord Jehovah because the sin of Onan was an offence against the sanctity and prosperity of the theocratic family of the Living God. So prejudicial to mankind and displeasing to God.

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Onan knew the child will be considered the son of his brother as a first-born of replacement marriage of late brother.  The child understandably is named after late husband to continue blood line to keep memory alive through child.


Although this happens only concerning the firstborn; all the rest of the children born afterwards were the children of two new real parents. This was a custom known to cohabit with her as man and wife having married her according to father’s direction. He did not want his first-born given to late brother as he wanted his own heir to inherit the estate.

This action of Onan is sin called Onania condemned by the light of nature. In some societies the earth is sacred so must not be allowed to be dumped without proper respect of living sperm seen as completely fully human. The sanctity attached to a sperm is taken for granted so carelessly discarded often with the protective condom and the contents seen all around some streets, in public places.

You can't be uncomfortable talking about sex while someone is dressed up as a bi ok sperm! Hooray safe sex!

This is unfortunately usually picked by innocent children playing about mistaking it for balloons. With HIV and STD’s it is not appropriate to let loose sacred seed anyhow and anywhere. After gaining knowledge and understanding of  the sacredness of the seed, it must be concealed and safely disposed of in the bin not publicly left out and about.

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Some stalkers looking for cheap source of money-making strategies from superstars like Britney Spears, once had a pregnancy testing kit taken from a bin in a hotel room. Sacred seed is obtained by bin divers looking for evidence for DNA to proof paternity for future record. In case of denial the man involved in act is helped to remember the precise timing of ovulation and monthly date of conception not often accurately kept . Some may be too drunk, high, stoned to be consciously aware of  involvement to know exact moment of the one responsible among various participants.

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So contributors to the fun check multiple sacred seeds in paternity test for identity of father. Others due to shock of feeling entrapped by women failing to protect sacred seed donated from gestation, blatantly refuse to honour a loyal and faithful partner so tarnish and taint her reputation. The vengeance of a woman scorned knows no boundaries so in turn accuse donor of irresponsible sacred seed wild oats sown carelessly to blame them for destroying life career.

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In some high society inner circles mistresses and escorts often fish for the sacred seed of very fabulously rich men’s sperm given to the head of the brothel to be used in spells to keep such rich men hooked as customers for life.  So in deliverance saved believers testify of  how rich men are influenced through such actions to make them impotent with spouse but active only with them until saved and healed from such witch craft. Sacred seed is precious so protect it.

Whenever you're feeling down, just remember, you're the sperm that won.

Such actions impact rich man’s family as the rich person sets up lavish homes for the other woman mistress, travels all over the world, indulges them while their own flesh and blood who stood by them through thick and thin before the wealth suffer in poverty. It is important to value sacred seed to preserve and protect human life itself.Seducers are not  after man’s wealth but such men die prematurely. Because their souls are tied to the wrong source of power which monitors their business and family so affects heirs. So sacred seed must be treated with dignity.

Sperm Cupcakes by mandypantz, these would be hilarious for an all guy baby shower for the daddy!

These cup cakes are suitable to demonstrate sperm entering egg and then tail is broken off  to explain with sacred seed wisdom for teaching intimacy consequences. God’s creation gift of sacred seed blessings are for continuity of life on earth. So is not based on aesthetic cosmetic looks, height, status so Mr. Right is not best dad biologically speaking. So believers need to remember God’s mercy, grace, favour to respect for God’s valued sacred seed as treasured asset.


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Jesus said in Luke 33:34, in His chicken and chicks sermon, He wants all to come under His wings like Mother Hen protects chicks from preys to be saved. Jesus has unconditional love so gave His life to save and protect believers like chicks safe under mother’s wings. Easter celebrations portray chicken, chicks and eggs as part of the message of resurrection of Christ. Jesus’ heart cry is to save adults and children He Loves dearly and died for. Adults and chicks today need extra attention with from Christ and God’s Help for Protection to grow wisely and live properly. As long as believers obey and remain under God’s authority within the range of Mother Hen’s fold, they are safely protected by Christ who defends and fends off all enemies trying to snatch them from God’s Kingdom. Despite what life throws at us Jesus keeps us all safely wrapped under His warmth and Loving arms to preserve and protect us like Mother Hen does her chicks. Jesus uses everyday happenings to tell parables and stories to help people get a visual image of His messages for better understanding, like the key point of Jesus’ death and resurrection to draw all under His wings.


As part of life, one experiences unexpected life altering changes that keeps one wondering how on earth one will survive after a traumatic event. As life unfolds, things happen, some become overwhelmed and wonder if life is worth living anymore. Others lose hope completely, due to sudden changes of unforeseen circumstances. Some become angry with themselves and blame others for not helping to guide or prevent them from making wrong choices. By putting all eggs in one basket, they fully assured themselves they are in charge until something happens beyond their control. Without back up plan B when that basket falls the eggs break beyond use, although absolutely certain during the preparation process and it seemed right during decision-making process, it was not possible to fully understand implications of choices until that basket fell and the eggs splattered beyond scooping. Similarly Christ shows us we must only put our confidence in God to protect us from situations trying to cause premature breaking and losing precious of life eggs human basket of life sometimes due to circumstances beyond control.

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An elderly grandmother testified about her teenangel who visited her every weekend, cleaned, dusted and hovered for her. He helped her wash clothes and ironed them, brought her presents from his pocket money while in College studying. However others grow and join conditioned groups of youth, aimlessly playing games, watching TV all day long or forced to attend unrealistic data enhancing, bonus paying scheme benefiting the rich at their expense as guinea pigs. The adults who created such Frankenstein, Teensteins and Teenzillars do not realize they contributed to it. By deliberately keeping them positively engaged without practical life skills, it results in mind-sets not to receive instruction with humility. Not allowing parents to train them from childhood means some grow up thinking they dared not be corrected for the right reasons because it was inbuilt so discourages active participation. Some generations were raised, without basic standard, acceptable parental discipline, due to state interference. Children fully recognize weakness in scapegoating parents so play system, schools by constantly reporting parents even for disciplining them appropriately. Toddlers and young children are removed without support for struggling families  helping their children, to change lifestyle to study and work harder to improve their lot in life with God’s help.

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Just as one size does not fit all, chicks have different personalities from introvert, ambovert and extrovert  so mother chick has to adapt to each chick’s needs like Christ meets our needs. Parents wait and hope for the bestall will turn out well after hatching to find out variety of gender needs required to support their chicks. The organic farmer entrusts free range mother hen, confidence,  ability to keep chicks safe, well fed and return on time despite birds of prey circulating all day around them while feeding unsupervised.  Yet human parents are constantly scrutinized and blamed without appropriate empathetic support for the excellent work they do. The state makes some children or youth untouchables allowed to do own thing with post codes rules. However, when it goes wrong, parents are held accountable for youth actions, though denied the necessary foundation of handling and disciplining, which plays a major part in the adults they become. Like mechanized poultry farming, families are compelled against their will to let their children be brainwashed by anti-Christ values. It seems they want them to fester so not be an obstacle force contending and competing against the chosen privileged few. Often parents of a rebellious child are hounded, hunted, punished yet child goes Scot free out of control so Jesus said bring children like chicks to save and protect.

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Christ keeps us hidden in Him with God so our strength is from God. However, some have no choice but to face the music and dance to the tune of chosen music or lie in their  made bed. Christ comes in to protect and deliver those expecting and may be  force to changes to combine school, work and parenthood or drop out because something has to give. When the rubber hits the road support systems available makes or breaks motherhood especially for youth. The impression created to let youth to enjoy innocence, freely explore, be curious, inquire about life, make mistakes in own way is not right. They are encouraged to focus on external, outward outlook on physical appearance, so materialism takes over, without substance and realistic long – term planning for the future of youth. The media, games, education, fashion, attract and boast ego of what is in it for me mentality so some think indulgence means growing up or certain lifestyles make considered matured. However, it cost emotionally, physically, spiritually and unbearable for the youth and families involved in picking up the pieces. Parents are made to feel they have no right to discipline or correct innocent with certain behaviours that need to be nipped in the bud. Some parents in denial wrap the majesty the child in cotton wool to fester as teenstein so no one dare advise their precious child to behave well while other families sacrifice to keep supporting children to fairly consider others.

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Believers need to realize the eggs of life must be handled gently and carefully within right environment temperature for the right chicks desired. At times incubators or surrogates nurture to produce young ones due to unavailability of Mother Hen for chicks want to be cared for with loving tender care as they cannot take look after themselves. So children’s lack of development of brain cortex makes it hard to fully grasp risk, consequences of wandering away from safe protection of  Mother Hen as believers need Christ. Chicks  roam freely until they hear the sound of Mother Hen calling to run to safety from preys. So believers hear the voice of God, run, hide, abide, in the dwelling place of the Most High God’s Secret Place in Psalm 91 from danger. Though some explore options of experiences from own frame of mind to act in a certain way before reality sets in to understand and accept what matured people know. Ignorant chicks roams  freely until something happens then they run to Mother Hen to be nursed back to health. Similarly, the believer’s shock from pain can be unbearable, some lose appetite for food, anorexic or comfort eat to develop weight problems. In some cases chicks like adults and children withdraw from fun age appropriate activities that they were once passionate about so need other’s input, support and help. Like mother hen does and becomes committed to seating on the eggs until hatched so is Christ committed to believers for spiritual delivery.



Some are bored without pragmatic knowledge relevant to history and culture so often see no point in wasting time to be educated. After all, the brainiest admired are poorer after university education, unemployed despite filling thousands of applications, numerous interviews, bonus enhancing placements, they owe debts, loans than them. Parents are crucified for daring to discipline their children to study hard to improve their lot in life. They are even persecuted by some teachers and other parents for being firm with their child to do better above average to have good success in life. Such parents are vilified and ostracized for doing the right thing and social services are called because those children are asked to finish the homework before playing games or addicted to social networks. Some children spend all night playing games so go to school tired and sleepless so cannot focus on school work. Others refuse to eat healthy nutritious home – made meals so addicted to junk foods which does not nourish the brain.

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Refusing to be led safely, protected due to rebellion, results in opposite effect of ignorance, lack of understanding of loyalty, duty and hard work so must be taught giving back respect. Youth rebellion becomes a force to reckon with at home, always on-line, on the phone, physically present in body but absent in mind and without spatial knowledge and basic survival skills without adult input. Some are taught at a certain age it is okay to indulge in sex and alcohol as long as they consent. However, those who gave them such advise do not live with the consequences of their choices for life. The girls often bear the brunt of the consequences of putting their trust and confidence in fellow youth as they are encouraged to hang around peers than adults. The blind leads the blind based on hormones dictating their profession of love for each other. The naïve youth think just because someone said they loved them they are sincere. After all, their family love is not fantastic like the soap opera happily ever after so they are always looking for affection in the wrong places. There must be a friendly transition from childhood into youth as chicks become hens or cockerels seems full of responsibility and contradictions from society and school to follow their leader.The chick whether a cockerel or hen still needs guidance from God for protection, so it is in their own interest to be trained from youth to grow equipped and prepared to handle life successfully.

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The pattern of rebellion cycle is broken when a young person understands who they are from within. This by teaching high self esteem not to repeated reinforced treatment by authorities of not letting parents freely do their job properly. Some give up because they feel it is too much to handle changes to face life under such circumstances and struggles. Yet the good news one can manage to turn life around in victory by the help and support of God, the team through Jesus Christ, helps those wanting  to do right if willing to do so. Social media non-denominational support group welcomes those joining to keep moving in faith. Our current interest among others is to help young people understand, endorsed choices permitted has long-term commitment and responsibility. A few minutes of momentary lust has life time of unexpected time – consuming, financial, psychological, generational consequences because a child is for life. Jesus said, what constitutes a person, is not outside influences, but what comes from within. So indulging the flesh by focusing on external physical body building and shape and size or fashion without own property or educating own child is not the right priority. It is difficult for a child to raise another child to keep them under control by themselves while their parents are already struggling but with God all things are possible.

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We focus on the within stuff by exploring practical solutions to help youth interested in building up their lives with the support of families believing in them and helping them to do so. It is not easy but with determination, perseverance, hard work, you will succeed at last if you choose to do so. After all, life has taught youth rebellion brings suffering to them, more than the illusion of happiness they thought they would get by putting their life, trust and confidence in the hands of fellow peers as they were misled to do from childhood. When it all goes wrong how many peers helped and took on the sleepless nights of babysitting and nappy changing with them? The ones who professed to love them most, run away when the going got tough and soon found someone to take advantage of. The greatest need of youth is peace of mind, joy, knowledge of God to fulfill their heart and purpose in life. To learn to honour and respect parents and adults so it will be well with them and they will live long. To deliberately focus on socializing a child with peers more than training them to have family values is the devil’s ultimate plan to divide and ruin families. Children who think they are free to do own thing end up gullible, vulnerable taken advantage of and destroyed by vultures out there looking for naive children to abuse. So become victims of seed of rebellion planted in them childhood by refusing to humble themselves for correction but blame everyone else for their problems.


Some families endures years of  unthankful, ungrateful, youth demanding to eat like elephants and lazy like lions because they believe they are superior above  humble beginnings. They wear the most outrageous expensive clothes, shoes and accessories they cannot afford, yet cannot pay household bills they incur above everyone. Some mess up sleep patterns that cannot keep up with realistic time keeping for normal working hours cannot hold down jobs. Others do not understand boundaries, time for work, leisure, pleasure, weekend rest for chilling out. To them life is one long big continuous party of indulgence for fun so nothing is taken seriously, they talk the talk but do not walk the walk. The expect those who provide for them or employ them to dance to their tune without understanding domino effects of deadlines and working seriously to build strong customer base for reliability success of  company. They seem to think life revolves around their spoilt brat behaviour bubble they live in. Some are even tolerated and entertained by the very people who should teach them to behave acceptably. Often they storm off to parasite off friends and family before long they show their true colours. They cannot keep house, cook or clean properly or on the streets with gang drug dealers yet not allowed in the safety and comfort of own home so overwhelms parents.


While some law makers hire chaperons, nannies, security body guards to look after their own, those children misled to rebel are left to street elements while parents do 3 or more jobs to keep a roof over their children’s heads. Those children therefore do not have servants, butlers yet have audacity to complain they feel neglected by the extremely hard-working parents who look after them and imposed grandchildren. They think they are born to be  indulged, so never want to be responsible to do the right thing. Often, children are flattered to think they are grown ups so falsely made to believe they are mature enough to handle life without adult input. They are the first running home for help from parents when burnt, battered and bruised, yet act like everything is alright so continue pattern of behaviour to repeat the cycle. They never learn from past mistakes so jump right back in where they left off, believing this time round it is different. They entangle themselves with multiple webs of lust relationships in spite of others helping them to change to restore their lives; often threatened by baby mamma who chose own destiny but blame others they are bitter against for their choice consequences. They refuse to listen to sound advice, complain of being judged yet  families deal with raising their children, feeding and taking care of them. Despite pain of heartache, tears, tantrums of ignorance, Jesus loves and accepts such teens kindly and treats them well like mother hen cares for her chicks.


God does not create mistakes for everyone is a perfect blessing from God but parents are often made to feel guilty or held accountable for rebellious teens. They forget when whispering sweet nothings parents had nothing to do with it or knew nothing about it yet innocent children are blamed for showing up unexpectedly and ruining their lives and careers. They are constantly made to feel unwelcome in the world but turn to the law to blackmail baby daddy they accuse of neglect. They refuse to use  protection, forgetting men do not get pregnant so onus is on them to prevent conception. Jesus said in the chicken and chick sermon, the rebellious argumentative do not listen to advise, though invited to do the right thing, refuse but the obedient are defended like mother duck protects young ones.


So chicks are not lured from safe protection like others who think and feel their ideas are always the best above God Himself. Some seduce and cunningly manipulate naïve boys for lust then blame them for issue sorrows but do not know or remember their cycle under influence of alcohol and substance abuse to clearly reflect on own actions. They turn in frustration to child maintenance to punish teens they knew had nothing before their indulged lust. For upkeep they sabotage, blackmail, threaten to make teen’s life miserable for their own  lustful rebellious failures. They do not feel responsible for actions, decisions so turn to blame, bad mouth innocent blood relations for loose moral consequences but Jehovah Jireh cares so forgives and provides like mother hen.

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After playing with ordinary plastic dolls for years children think they understand motherhood and childcare by baby sitting for family and friends. So some struggling children are misled by peer pressure to join others teenagers who think having children or indulging in lustful puppy love solves all life’s problems for happiness need help. With permission and support of interested parents, including potential trouble shooting boys and girls from 11 years, electronic plastic baby dolls taken care of to document thoughts, feelings and ideas about life and child care. This will follow-up again from time to time in the future keep to see how changes in development affect youthful thinking and experience. We strongly believe it is important to help millions of children bringing forth children all over the world in credit crunching season, totally unprepared, burdening an already over stretched parents who need break from life time of child raising to enjoy their freedom. Christ can help to strengthen the family to do all things to overcome.

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Some may not be available, to take over care of grandchildren for they must extend life time of working years to earn to secure own future. Some see parents as burdens but forget their sacrifices and input to build them up to grow to participate realistically by contributing to duties in the family. In simple task like cleaning, sweeping, removing rubbish, dish washing, wiping surfaces, ensuring the toilet is properly kept hygienically clean at all times for nest user, shopping, washing up, all help to equip, prepare and train child for the future.

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To stop and force parents to keep children ignorant and naïve, to have head knowledge without practical life skills is destroying their future. One young man doing apprentice course said he did not know a deep freezer was cold until the boss asked him to pick something for him at work and another blew his face in university trying to boil eggs in a kettle.God Almighty says where people made mistakes by permitting the mighty prey enemy to take them captive, He will contend with them to deliver them and feed their enemies with their own flesh. Every evil hand-writing of ordinances and curses contrary to youth because of the enemy who wants to put them to shame is removed out-of-the-way and nailed to the cross in Jesus Name.

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Some Easter festivities are full of technological jargon, games fantasies so at times cocoons from the reality of life in the shell. As a soft tree branch is malleable and easier to bend than a twig which breaks, teens must be trained in the formative years. Asking parents not to train children but to wait until teen years, after molded and influenced by society and set in ways is the cause of teenage rebellion. As a chick has specific number of days to hatch and grow so is right timing essential for training children. As Jesus said, He is calling people like Mother Hen to run under His Safe Wings to hide from birds of prey which dive unnoticed trying to kill them. By running to Safety of Jesus they are protected from evil pursuers chasing them to kill and eat them for a quick meal. However, stubborn and rebellious who refuse to receive Jesus’ help can be captured and destroyed by enemy if drawn away.


No weapons formed ever against youth will prosper neither will satanic divination and enchantments against the believer work in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. The battle for the souls of youth must continue to be fought relentlessly for devils sees their future destiny and wants to destroy them. God is in control so parents like Mother Hen with prayer and  fasting will not toil hard for enemy to take for free by seducing them to use and abuse them in vain for their selfish motives to exploit them for their selfish gratifications of lust. God loves them to be protected and raised according to His Will.


Easter message is enjoy chicken, chocolate eggs but remember Christ who gave His Life to die, to safely protect like chicks under mother hen’s wings. To stop enemy luring to deceive and destroy but never claim responsibility for seduction. No matter what believers face, it is important to trust God to hold on till Jesus Christ returns for rapture. A sound foundation from childhood keeps children trained, rooted, grounded in Christ so remain teenangels who grow as responsible adults like chick dancing by Asda in

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