WE WILL ALL MEET AGAIN

The Queen’s royal speech addressed the nation with a message titled, “we will meet again” to tell people life goes on despite Covid-19. The Palace  stressed unity and giving thanks to the frontline workers so the broadcast is designed to reassure and inspire all people, in times like this. People across the UK gathered to watch the Queen’s address. But most of all the recast of coronavirus crisis is a defining moment for all nations forever in efforts to save vulnerable lives. NHS staff under enormous pressure to work without PPE adequate equipment. With Second World War metaphors around at the moment, the Queen remembers by a direct reference to her first radio broadcast in 1940. Then, Queen a young princess and her sister Margaret spoke to the children who were evacuated.

The Queen: “We will be with our friends again we will be with our families again we will meet again.” Reminds of times of innocence of childhood and sacrifices earlier generation of a long perspective on Britain’s history. Echoes of a struggle of the 1940s defined Britain’s self-image, through broadcast. Winston Churchill said, after fall of France in 1940, after a thousand years Britons say, “still finest hour.” The Queen says history will judge the nation and “those that come after us will say Britons of this generation are as strong as any.” “Life of who we are isn’t part of our past,” “it defines our present and our future.” The Queen celebrated communal feeling existing today by an  applause for care and essential workers. She said, “expression of our national spirit” and “symbols of rainbows drawn by children” displayed on the windows share hope in perilous times. The talk of peaceful national traits, “self-discipline” “quiet, good-humoured resolve” “fellow-feeling” of common good of the nation.Prince CharlesThe Queen’s eldest son, Prince Charles, spent seven days in isolation on testing positive for coronavirus. The queen’s speech is about collective effort to help each other. “Together we are tackling a disease,” she said. “If we remain united and resolute, we will overcome it.” “We will succeed,” she insisted, “and success belongs to each and every one of us.” So was time for some great-grandmotherly wisdom occupying often lonely position, offered her thoughts to all alone in self-isolation. In UK, almost all front pages carry photograph of Queen, delivering address to nation from Windsor Castle.A family watching the Queen's coronavirus speech on TVA family in Hampshire watched Queen’s TV address on coronavirus outbreak as The Daily Mirror and the Sun pick out the same message for headlines: “We will meet again.” For the Daily Mail, the historic address evoked the memories of Vera Lynn and “Britain’s Blitz spirit.” Thd Guardian’s sketch writer John Crace says monarch’s address is  “clear moral leadership” many political leaders have failed to provide in the current crisis. It is only a certain amount of head of state who can speak in times like these but a reference to the government’s efforts to tackle the outbreak is notably absent. It is important to support each other and to pray for prime minister in hospital with the Corona virus.A family watching the Queen's coronavirus speech on TVThe Queen’s speech encourages people to seek God, if a believer pray, meditate or non believer reflect. God’s earth faces things happening globally affects as the Bible in Isaiah 24 says apocalyptic event will happen to whole earth. 1. The LORD God makes earth empty to waste it. God distort plans of earth scatter inhabitants abroad. 2. Cataclysmic events shakes the people priests, servants, masters, maids, mistress, buyer, seller, lender, borrower creditor, debtor 3 The land is so empty its plundered as the LORD’s said. 4 The earth mourns, languishes and haughty proud panic. 5. The earth is destroyed as inhabitants transgressed God’s laws by breaking Covenant. 6. So curse devoures earth and all who dwell in it so desolate. The inhabitants of the earth are burned, and few men are left. 7. The new wine fails, vine languishes, the merry-hearted sigh. 8 The sound of tambourine ceases, noise of jubilants end, joy of harp cease. 9 They shall not drink wine with a song, strong drink is bitter to who drinks it. A 10 city of confusion is broken down the  houses are shut up so no one goes in. 11 There is cry for wine in streets, joy and pleasure of land is gone 12 The city is desolate gates struck with destruction. Prime minister hospitalized in intensive care unit as Covid-19 affects globally.People in Leicester watch the Queen deliver her addressThe Queen’s prayer is said for nations as 13. Land shake like olive trees, gleaning of grapes. 14 They will lift up their voice and sing; People sing on balconies and the majesty of the LORD is heard aloud from the sea. 15 Glorify the LORD at the dawn of light so name of the LORD God of Israel heard in coastlands of the sea. 16 From ends of earth we hear songs: “GLORY to the righteous God but some say, “I am ruined, ruined! Woe to me! Treacherous dealers deal treacherously. 17 Fear and snare on the inhabitants of earth. 18 All who flee from noise by fear fall into pit and are caught in snare. The windows on high open and foundations of earth is shaken. 19 The earth broken, splits open is shaken. 20 The earth shall reel to and fro like drunkard shakes. So transgressions shall be heavy it will fall and not rise again. 21 And shall come to pass that day the LORD  will punish the exalted ones on the earth and kings of the earth. 22 They are gathered together as prisoners shut in a prison after many days will be punished. 23 The moon will change, sun flare for the LORD of hosts reign at Mount Zion Jerusalem with HIS people GLORIOUSLY on earth.

We’ll meet again
Don’t know where
Don’t know when
But I know we’ll meet again some sunny day
Keep smiling through
Just like you always do
‘Till the blue skies drive the dark clouds far away
So will you please say hello
To the folks that I know
Tell them I won’t be long
They’ll be happy to know
That as you saw me go
I was singing this song
We’ll meet again
Don’t know where
Don’t know when
But I know we’ll meet again some sunny day
We’ll meet again
Don’t know where
Don’t know when
But I know we’ll meet again some sunny day
Keep smiling through
Just like you always do
‘Til the blue skies drive the dark clouds far away
So will you please say hello
To the folks that I know Tell them I won’t be long
They’ll be happy to
That as you saw me go
I was singing this song
We’ll meet again
Don’t know where
Don’t know when
But I know we’ll meet again some sunny day

1 God be with you till we meet again;
By His counsels guide, uphold you,
With His sheep in love enfold you;
God be with you till we meet again.

Till we meet, till we meet,
Till we meet at Jesus’ feet;
Till we meet, till we meet,
God be with you till we meet again.

2 God be with you till we meet again!
’Neath His wings protecting hide you,
Daily manna still provide you;
God be with you till we meet again!

3 God be with you till we meet again!
When life’s perils thick confound you,
Put His arms unfailing round you;
God be with you till we meet again!

4 God be with you till we meet again!
Keep love’s banner floating o’er you,
Smite death’s threaten wave before you. God be with you till we meet again!

During self-isolation trust God in Christ.20200406_21365220200411_195113A 99-year-old war veteran raised £23m for NHS to be guest of honour to open Nightingale hospital in Harrogate. He aimed to raise £1,000 for NHS Charities Together to complete 100 laps in garden before his 100th birthday. The veteran, born in Keighley, West Yorkshire appear via video link at opening on Tuesday. He said its an honour and chance to thank NHS workers directly. May God bless all NHS workers sacrificing their precious lives in the frontlines to help others in these times. Thank you all soooo much.Harrogate Convention CentreCapt Tom, lives in Marston Moretaine in Bedfordshire, said: “I am still amazed by the amount of kindness and generosity from UK public who continue to give in spite uncertain times for many. “I think the amount raised demonstrates how much we all value the dedication and sacrifices made by our NHS workers. I fought during a war they are fighting in a war too. NHS Charities Together said its “truly inspired and humbled” by his efforts. What a great example to us all no matter what we are going through we can do whatever it takes to help and support others. No effort is too small or too insignificant to make a difference. It is so encouraging God bless him.

Simon Stevens, the NHS chief executive, said: “On behalf of the NHS our heartfelt thanks go to Captain Tom Moore for his remarkable fundraising efforts for NHS charities. “Inviting Captain Moore to be our guest of honour at opening of NHS Nightingale Yorkshire and Humber is to thank him. The Harrogate Convention Centre will be used for 500 beds the first of the field hospitals to be built outside a city. The veteran, served in Myanmar in Second World War, praised by Duke of Cambridge, described as a “one-man fundraising machine.” Prince William  donated undisclosed amount. God bless him and the royal family and all people.screenshot-2020-06-02-at-24449-pmhqdefault-1

IS MEGHAN RACISM VICTIM?

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Left behind clothes in storage in Canada despite intention to become British after marriage. Without clothes to wear given blank cheques to spend to excess orders clothes. Calculating ploy used to buy her clothes to copy Diana tricked Harry and took advantage of impressionable Harry to fall in love her strategy worked. But refused to wear tights, hats wore black nail varnish broke protocol for negative attention “racism” to justify her excuse of ‘intense media scrutiny’ to leave UK. A picture speaks a thousand words so her actions exposed by newspapers of schemes backfired as a con artist fraud. By the time she left her second husband Trevor, his $96million invested in a film dwindled to $12million so she left not quite the billionaire lifestyle she craves.wp-1580499286808.jpgwp-1580506607825.jpgwp-1580506691734.jpg20200208_181713IMG-20200512-WA0006wp-1580563965874.jpgwp-1580513649728.jpgwp-1580513632101.jpg20200208_18184720200208_18180920200514_051847

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IMG-20200212-WA001520200207_16202020200209_010814People don’t care what you know until they know you CARE because ACTIONS speaks LOUDER than word salads. So all achievements in life is nothing if self-centred, selfish, self-indulgent and rude to her majesty bamboozled by lies. Says will stay at home for quiet birthday but flys on private jet to celebrate in Ibiza. Said its a home birth and money spent to build room warned against by expert doctors. She wore fake prosthetic moon bumps but pretends to be pregnant and given “birth” in private hospital. Wasn’t pregant but lied nobody asked if she is OK going through “pregnancy.” Baby’s detail kept secret, a first in British Royal family history created more suspicions hiding surrogate birth? The privacy ten commandments to neighbours is don’t talk, touch, ask, go near them so people obeyed, isolated themselves but moans nobody asks if OK. The fake pregnancy announced on Eugene’s wedding day at their family meal, megxit announced on Kate’s birthday, hands on belly 300 days till ‘birth’ hands on hair. Royals not hold hands in public office insult queen or a family publicly on TV washing her dirty linen in public. They sue British press or demand more “progressive royal family and their financial independence.” But £100,000,000 is wasted by their reckless squandering of tax payer’s money. Uses royal titles but complain family “toxic” she does not want their child raised yet none saw baby. Insults and sues media by her artogant rules against 1000 year established royal family’s rota contract over 100 years. Fixated newspapers and media exposes their shenanigans trying to pull wool over British people’s eyes. Told queen St George church smells to spray perfume during wedding. Wanted red carpet treatment like a celebrity of Hollywood. She wants painful memory scandal crown of Russian family killed to embarrass queen stopped spoilt brat behaviour of ‘what she wants she gets’ “she gets what she is given.” Merching clothes, jewel, endorsing adverts a with royal eats cake and have it but despises royal duty. Lies the press chases her like Diana killed by drunk driver in France. Rejects royal protocol on duty members obey and insults the British stiff upper lip. Refused to go to Balmoral baby too young to travel flew baby. Refused visit to queen Prime Minusters visit. Refused to join family Christmas time took away Harry loved bombed from his brother, family and UK people. Preaches climate change but flies more unnecessarily has high carbon footprints. Threw out staff of listed property and took whole house, stopped them using carpark, rebuilt this listed property outdoor kitchen without planning permission. 5 million total for this home not good enough to live. Plans queen absent at son’s christening thinks a minor royal. Wakes her staff at 5am to give orders non stop during day but the working day from 9am to 5pm. Rejects security advise so swamped in a market security steps in to remove her. Royals are not allowed to earn an extra money alongside the money given them but got contract from Disney to do voice overs she did a conflict of interest. Took Harry from military duty to red carpet Disney event to ask for work said “this is why we are here.” Rate of spending spree on clothes so high engagement dress alone £80,000, maternity to Morocco £98,000+ queen stopped high costs before royals get bankrupted. Refused to wear a dress in the royal box so royal paranoia won’t allow anyone near her at tennis cleared viewers sat in a public domain with her guests from US so her security told off a man taking selfie. Pharrel and Beyonce told, “British don’t make her life easy yet taxpayers paid for £50 million wedding including security. Private jets £500,000 baby showers not allowed in this Royal family in austerity Britain. Seven staff members resigned in 18 months for no consideration for others. Abandons her father, siblings, family, friends over 30 years except her mother. Claims “toxic” “racist” ‘suffocating’ family hates son due to racism but holds on to their title, as an “internationally protected person” funded 24 hour security but wants “financially independence.” And gets millions from royal family for pocket money. Don’t gain whole world and lose soul. Foresight could have set up better plans. Coincident birthday is 4th August of Queen mother, dogs corgies, so which of all these actions people see through are racism?

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Articles rebloged from public domains are views and opinions of other people. So ‘Meghan can’t have it all’ says Royal author Anna Pasternak who warns that Meghan must realise she can’t live like an ‘A-lister’ while enjoying privileges of her role in the Royal family. And Anna insists it is crucial to the monarchy to have respect, value, honour the queen and the nation as a whole. Do you think these views are fair and accurate? What do you think about these comments?

TACKLING DIFFICULT PEOPLE

wp-1578833977605.jpgQuestion: “What does Bible say about dealing with difficult people?”

Answer: We all know people we find so “difficult”and deal with difficult people. A difficult person is very condescending argumentative, belligerent, selfish, and flippant, obtuse, simply rude. Difficult people “push one’s buttons” and stir up trouble. Dealing with difficult people is an exercise in patience, love, and grace. Response to difficult people from Jesus’ interactions He never displayed attitude of harsh superiority or dismissive pride. He showed His authority under control to rebuke when necessary in John 8:47 to deal with the difficult people, remain silent in John 8:6 when asked questions in Mark 11:28–29 in Scripture in Mark 10:2–3 tells story in Luke 7:40–42. In the Sermon on the Mount Jesus dealt with difficult people in love and humility: “I tell you: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you pray for all who mistreat you.wp-1578834206139.jpg If someone strikes you on a cheek turn the other. If someone takes your cloak, do not stop him from taking your tunic. Give to who asks you, if anyone takes what belongs to you don’t demand it back. Do to others as you would have them do to you” in Luke 6:27–31. Never give tit for tat: “Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult repay evil with blessing, for this you were called inherit blessing” in 1 Peter 3:9. In dealing with difficult people guard against pride.wp-1578834096919.jpg Its important to recall advise given by apostle Paul in Romans 12:3: “By grace of God I say to you don’t think too highly of yourself. Think of yourself with the humility by faith God has given you” in Philippians 2:3–4. When difficult people approach you deal with the situation in meekness. Love is the key to “Love your neighbour as yourself” in Galatians 5:14 to show God’s love to all difficult people. Wisdom is needed to deal with difficult people. In Proverbs 12:16 patience is the key to such relationships: “A fool shows his annoyance at once but the prudent man overlooks insult.” Proverbs 20:3 says peace-making of honour to avoid strife but fools quickly quarrel.”wp-1578834341622.jpg Proverbs 10:12, encourages giving love, “Hatred stirs up conflict but love covers all wrongs.” Proverbs 17:14 is foresight on “Starting quarrel like breaching dam as disputes breaks out” Best to avoid the situation altogether choosing carefully whom we associate with: “Do not make friends with a hot-tempered person, do not associate with one easily angered” in Proverbs 22:24. Dealing with difficult people in life is unavoidable but do not respond in the flesh to bring out worst in you. Deal with difficult people by the fruit of Spirit in us in Galatians 5:22–23.wp-1578834322634.jpg By the grace of God, deal with difficult people in love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. Extend love, grace, and mercy God extends to us, careful not to be difficult people ourselves. 2 Timothy 3 says in the last days the perilous times shall come. People will be lovers of  self, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful and ungrateful. 4 Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, fierce, despisers of those who are good traitors, 5 heady, highminded lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; wp-1578833839523.jpgHaving a form of Godliness, but deny HIS power from such turn away. 6 This sort creep into houses and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts,7 Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of truth. 8 As Jannes and Jambres resisted Moses they resist truth: men of corrupt minds, reprobate concerning the faith. 9 They will proceed no further their folly manifests to all 10 Know God’s doctrine for life’s purpose, faith, longsuffering, charity, patience, love, forgive like Jesus.wp-1578833896562.jpg9 They will proceed no further 11 So endure persecutions afflictions for the LORD delivers out of all. 12 Live Godly life in Christ Jesus despite persecution. 13 Evil people and seducers get worse deceiving and deceived 14 Continue in the things you learn and know 15 From childhood. You know Holy Scriptures to make you wise unto salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. 16 All scripture is given by inspiration of God is profitable doctrine for correction and instruction in righteousness 17 so the people of God perfectly furnished to do good works.

Recommended Resource: Who’s Pushing Your Buttons? Handling the Difficult People in Your Life by Dr. John Townsend

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LIVING HAPPILY EVER AFTER

wp-1578155912388.jpgLiving happily ever after in book fiction novels of stories read by children and teenagers imprints toxic phrase on their minds during innocent years of life only to expect life to be happily ever after. So adults protect children from unsettling gory details of life to spare them from the horror tragedies of adult world. But reinforces ignorance is bliss mindset so misled, think real life happily ever after.wp-1578156074640.jpg Misinforms children, practical life cause stress and anxiety if unequipped to face challenges of life. Life gets complex and harder if unprepared for unpredictable circumstances. Mystery telling children Santa brings gifts through chimney over night at Christmas gives ‘peace of mind’ to adults pestered over presents. But the same children exposed to violent games online some parents are unawares of. wp-1578157623245.jpgModern theory says pointing errors to a child to correct them discourages them, seem think they are doing great, creates bubble fantasy spared feeling of children growing up unaware of counter balances of true realities of life. Encouraged to live in insulated bubbles cocoon only relate with peers don’t mix or interact with family on daily basis. So boxed in age groups live them versus us lives unprepared for real life in world. wp-1578156191693.jpgSponsored by some gigantic corporate business interests lives life in a virtual fantasy world on the surface all seems acceptable and cool. Children playing a computer game seen as having fun and not hurting anyone is preoccupied not disturbing adults too busy to interact with them. Told babies come from birds delivered to the family. After exhausting day at work cook, clean do chores tired with no time to spare in the routine set.wp-1578151833694.jpg Life seems alright and few times in the week taken to the music, piano lessons, football games tennis, swimming ballet, Kumon so list endless. Things work well until crucial transitions of encouraging children at their appropriate ages to be independent. Looked after and waited on hand and foot expected to get on as adult in life, moves to university or own apartment often in shock with anxiety. wp-1578156369899.jpgOld system does not allow to help in the family home growing up never help to cook, clean or run errands, considered against the law. Social services called if the child home alone, helps in family to cook, clean, farm etc. grow up naive. So bring laundry home weekends, packed meal to eat or buy take away junk foods. Children are great sources of income for multibillions industries making money at expense of children’s development. wp-1578156464232.jpgStunted brain growth from the years of playing computer games are distracted from focus on studies. Acquire excellent online gaming skills for the multibillion profits for few. UN says they experience mental illness addiction to online games and unable to focus on a school studies, grades drop. Many lack grades to study further or do a work route professional training. Coupled with lack of hands on practical life education without any job.wp-1578156646034.jpg Bored so nothing to do play more online games. Online games are so expensive they need money to pay for it to keep up globally. Without the consistent work or income need new games is conundrum creating scam to get money fuelling the  addiction to games. Few get real jobs or totally unprepared for work place stress demands pressure. In shock, can’t hold down jobs consistently fired from work. wp-1578156746563.jpgBut wants best quality most expensive things in without lifting a finger to help family feeding and looking after them. It helps earn multibillion dollars each year, preoccupied playing online games but frustrates the hopeless majority not knowing what to do with their lives. The families help seem nagging, demanding. Entitlement attitude struggle to make a sense of real world lived. wp-1578156946262.jpgMisconception continue raising children to “only live happily ever after” without preparing them to face realities of life to train to deal with life challenges. Needs to learn to endure, overcome hardship is part and parcel of life ethically right children understand the world at their level out of bubble to learn compassion. Not self-centred if others face trauma in tragic circumstances or in war zones. wp-1578156301675.jpgAs future leaders must be taught to live real lives in consideration of others and happily everafter life happens in fiction novels. Real life understanding helps enable people to cope better to know it’s not always living a perpetually happily ever after in the complex world. People can teach children real life histories of risks taken by many sacrifices, lives for safety and the happiness, peace others enjoy.wp-1578156583540.jpgGod did not promise a bed of roses but available to help those who believe and call Son Jesus to help. Life is not perfect psychologists say demanding perfection at everything all times is mental illness. Never content or at peace blame others not enabling self-indulgence. Academic brilliance is great, computer online skill is excellent, resources to enjoy good life is wonderful but why gain whole world and lose your soul. Beyond this life God waits to get account of HIS PROPERTY on earth. Make sure your name written in the book of life ready for the rapture ONLY GOD KNOWS THE TIME.

 

HAVE A BLESSED NEW YEAR

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HAPPY MOTHER HAPPY BABY

The Duchess of Cambridge at Stockwell Gardens Nursery and Pre-SchoolThe duchess appeared on the podcast after visiting children at a nursery in south London

The Duchess of Cambridge has said her parenting inspiration is her “amazing granny” who involved her as a child in arts and crafts, gardening and cooking. In her first podcast interview, she said she wants to replicate experiences with Prince George, Princess Charlotte and Prince Louis. The episode of Five Big Questions On The Under Fives is survey launched by Catherine starts debate on early childhood has 200,000 responses so far. Speaking on Happy Mum, Happy Baby podcast, Catherine told author and host Giovanna Fletcher the survey aims to ask people “what is it that matters for them in raising their children today.” I had amazing granny who devoted a lot of time to us, playing with us, doing arts and crafts and going to the greenhouse to do gardening, and cooking with us,” she said. I incorporate lot of experiences she gave us at the time into experiences I give my children now.” The duchess said her priorities include providing her children with a “happy home” and “safe environment” she enjoyed as a child. So she is “passionate” about the children spending a lot of time outside is “great for physical and mental wellbeing to lay foundations for a healthy development. The Duchess of Cambridge and Giovanna FletcherIt is the first timeIt’s a great environment to spend time in, building quality relationship without distraction of ‘I’ve got to cook’ or ‘I’ve got to do this’. And actually, it’s so simple,” she said. A generational change starts from seeds sown in early years throughout family. Even if not ‘highly educated,’ one can invest time and resources in simple way to help children to be happy. Its possible to help children to progress beyond the parents by preparing them in the early years. Choices and priorities of focus to include learning materials from nature found free outdoors on walks to create opportunities for children. So it is the responsibility of the parents to help the children early not to depend entirely on schools for all learning experiences in life. A month-long online poll conducted by Ipsos Mori on behalf of Catherine’s Royal Foundation is to “spark a national conversation” on early childhood as the Kensington Palace has said. Launched in January, it is thought to be the biggest survey of its kind and the results are intended to guide duchess’ future workIMG-20200307-WA0002Its the first time duchess is interviewed on a podcast. “It takes family a long time for generational change but hopefully is a first small step: to start a conversation around importance of early childhood development,” Catherine said. “It’s not just about happy, healthy children. This has lifelong consequences of outcomes.” Ms Fletcher, married to Tom Fletcher from McFly has said Kate is “passionate” about the subject. Its ‘beyond wonderful to sit and talk further about the survey, and her work for she has so much real knowledge, and her own experiences of being a mother.” “It doesn’t matter who you are, what you have, or where you come from we’re all try to do our best with our children while continuously learning from decisions and wondering if we get it right. Talking helps unite us all,” she said on the ‘five big questions.’The Duchess of Cambridge at Stockwell Gardens Nursery and Pre-School1. What do you believe is most important for children growing up in UK today to live a happy adult life? Rank from most important to least important:

  • Good physical and mental health
  • Good friendships & relationships
  • Access to opportunities
  • Access to a good education

2. Which of these statements is closest to your opinion?

  • It is primarily the responsibility of parents to give children aged 0-5 best chance of health & happiness
  • Primarily responsibility of others in society to give children aged 0-5 best chance of health & happiness
  • Shared responsibility of parents or others in society to give children aged 0-5 best chance of health and happiness
  • Don’t know

3. How much do you agree or disagree with this statement? Mental health or wellbeing of parents, carers has a great impact on development of child(ren).

  • Strongly agree
  • Tend to agree
  • Neither agree nor disagree
  • Tend to disagree
  • Strongly disagree

4. Which of the following is closest to your opinion of what influences how children develop from the start of pregnancy to age five?

  • Traits child is born with (nature)
  • Experiences of a child in the early years (i.e. nurture)
  • Both nature and nurture equally
  • Don’t know

5. Which period of a child and young person’s life do you think is the most important for health and happiness in adulthood?

  • Start of pregnancy to five years
  • 5-11 years (primary school)
  • 11-16 years (secondary school)
  • 16-18 years (further education)
  • 18-24 years (young adulthood)
  • Don’t know
  • All equally important

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BIBLICAL ENDTIME PLAGUES

COVID-19-Image-Courtesy-of-Thrive-Global-1280x640cegrab-20141117-180737-270-1_3558676Coronavirus spreading rapidly across the world affects 172 countries killed more than 20,000 lives. Over 850,000 confirmed cases worldwide, Southern Europe is at epicentre of the crisis and US facing a surge in cases. This series of maps and charts help you understand what is going on. The global pandemic continues to grow as the virus spreads rapidly in many countries. Over 370,000 confirmed cases outside China by these  latest figures Johns Hopkins University. Actual figure for number of people with coronavirus is higher, milder symptoms untested uncounted. Coronavirus global cases information is updated but doesn’t reflect latest total for all countries. Virus from China covid 19 spread globally to countries but epic centre is Europe. The coronavirus outbreak across the globe development guidance shows Covid-19 pandemic results in travel bans, event cancellations, school closures, panic buying as countries grind to a halt, self-isolation, social distancing, rationing is enforced. Marshall law enforced in Italy killed 500 people for non compliance by soldiers on streets. And a doctor alerted Chinese authorities at onset of virus in December 2019 but was arrested for “spreading false rumours.” They admit their error, apologised to his family but its too late, he died leaving behind his heavily pregnant wife as virus spreads.20200208_143022Johns Hopkins University, says to avoid contagion wash hands for 20 seconds with soap and hot water. The virus is not living organism is protein molecule (DNA) covered by a protective layer of lipid (fat), absorbed by cells of ocular, nasal or buccal mucosa changes genetic code. Mutates and converts to aggressor and multiplier cells. The virus protein molecule is not killed decays on its own. The disintegration time depends on the temperature, humidity type of material it lies in. The virus is fragile protects its outer layer by fat. Soap or detergent is the best remedy, because the foam CUTS the FAT rub hands 20 seconds or more, to make a lot of foam. Dissolving the fat layer protein molecule disperses, breaks down on its own. HEAT melts fat so use water above 25 degrees Celsius to wash hands, clothes. Hot water makes more foam so useful. Alcohol or any mixture with alcohol over 65% DISSOLVES FAT external lipid layer of virus. Mix 1 part bleach to 5 part water dissolves protein and breaks it down inside. Oxygenated water helps after soap and alcohol and chlorine, peroxide dissolves the virus protein if used pure hurts the skin. The virus is not living organism like bacteria is not killed by anthobiotics but quickly disintegrates structure washes fat away.20200208_153529 NEVER shake un/used clothing, sheets, cloth, porous surface, inert disintegrates 3 hours on porous fabric 4 hours copper is natural antiseptic; wood removes all moisture and does not let it peel off and disintegrates. 24 hours on cardboard, 42 hours on metal and 72 hours on plastic. If you shake it or use feather duster, the virus molecules float in air 3 hours can lodge in nose. Virus molecules remain in external cold air conditioners, houses and cars. Needs moisture to stay stable and darkness. Dehumidified, dry, warm and the bright environments degrades it faster. UV LIGHT on object breaks down the virus protein. To disinfect and reuse a mask is perfect. Be careful, it breaks down collagen protein in skin causing wrinkles, skin cancer. Virus CANNOT go through healthy skin. Vinegar is NOT useful because it does not break down protective layer of fat. NO SPIRITS, NOR strongest vodka 40% alcohol, need 65%. LISTERINE 65% alcohol. Confined space concentration of virus spreads use open natural ventilated spaces. Wash hands before and after touching face, mucosa, food, locks, knobs, or switches, remote control, cell phone, watches, computers, desks, TV, bathroom use. Use HUMIDIFY HANDS DRYER in washroom, molecules hide in micro cracks. Thick moisturizer is better. Keep NAILS SHORT stop virus.20200208_17044220200208_170922It spreads in Britain so Prince Charles is said to have virus so in self isolates. And Idris Elba informed by a doctor he’ll be ‘immune’ from coronavirus for some time if he leaves quarantine. The Luther actor self-isolating with his wife Sabrina Elba tested positive for the coronavirus in March. The virus is traced from those who went to Switzerland ski resort and in contact from others with Covid-19. It is spreading to almost a million people over 20,000 death and still counting.20200326_07342420200208_152057WHO, UN and EU nations developed a Coronavirus vaccine to be used to infect Africans. The vaccine are transported to Africa as a preventive treatment against Covid-19 but in really its not. So vaccine used to infect who accept it. This comes in the wake of the fact Africans are less infected by Covid-19. Pass this message on, so no black man or Africans accept injection with deadly vaccine. So WHO, UN, EU nations exposed as they infected people with HIV or Ebola by deception on pretext for polio vaccines. Bible says pandemic plagues, diseases, sicknesses part of unfolding prophecies foretold. Is pandemic diseases Ebola, coronavirus prompting many to ask why God allows or causes pandemic diseases or illnesses signs of end times. Old Testament shows how God brought plagues, diseases on HIS people or HIS enemies “to make you see MY POWER” in Exodus 9:14, 16. God used plagues on Egypt to force Pharaoh to free Israelites from bondage but HE spared His people from effects on them in Exodus 12:13; 15:26. God’s Sovereign control over diseases and afflictions so warn people disobedience consequence plagues in Leviticus 26:21,25. God used destroyed 14,700 and 24,000 people for disobedience in Numbers 16:49 & 25:9. In Mosaic Law God says all who disobey suffer many evils. In 2 Samuel 24 God used plagues to kill over 70,000 in three days by David’s error of counting God’s army in Israel. King David told Joab, the commander of army, “Go go all tribes of Israel and count army. Joan warned him but did it anyway brought punishment to all Israel until David built altar at Mt. Moriah Table Mount in Jerusalem then the plague stopped immediately plagues are like Ebola. The LORD will strike with the wasting disease fever inflammation plagues to perish in Deuteronomy 28:22 and Hantavirus diseases God allows.Global-examples-of-emerging-and-re-emerging-infectious-diseases-Red-represents-newly

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It’s hard to imagine how a LOVING and MERCIFUL God displayis wrath or anger towards His people. God’s punishments always have the goal of repentance and restoration. In 2 Chronicles 7:13–14, God said to Solomon, “I shut up the heavens so there is no rain and command locusts to devour the land. I send plague among MY people so if MY people called by MY name humble themselves and pray and seek MY face and turn from the wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land.” Here we see God using disaster to draw His people to Himself and to bring about repentance and desire to come to Him as children to the heavenly Father.1-s2.0-S0022191011002964-gr15

Bible says, Jesus healed “every disease and sickness,” as well as plagues in the areas He visited in Matthew 9:35; 10:1; Mark 3:10. God chose to use plagues and disease to show HIS POWER to Israel to correct them. Jesus heals by POWER to prove He is TRULY the Son of God. His healing POWER in His disciples works in the healing ministry in Luke 9:1. God allows sickness for HIS own purposes but sometimes disease and a worldwide pandemic are results of living in a fallen world. There is no way to determine if a pandemic has a specific spiritual cause. God’s sovereign control over all things in Romans 11:36 is God works all things together for good for those who believe and love HIM as in Romans 8:28. Spread of sicknesses, coronavirus is foretaste of pandemics as part of end time warning. Jesus referred to future plagues in last days in Luke 21:11. The two witnesses of Revelation 11 will have power “to strike earth with all kinds of plague as they want in Revelation 11:6. Seven angels wield seven plagues in a series of God’s final judgments described in Revelation 16 in Bible.The appearance of pandemic diseases may or may not be tied to God’s specific judgment of sin. Its the result of living in a fallen world. No one knows exact time of Jesus’ return so be careful saying global pandemics this proof may be living in end times. Those who do not know Jesus Christ as Saviour the disease is reminder life on earth is tenuous can be lost any moment. Plague pandemics hurt but hell is worse. Christians have assurance of salvation hope in eternity because of the Blood of Christ shed on the Cross in Isaiah 53:5; 2 Corinthians 5:21. A few years ago in London a high number of people dropped dead from plagues, foot and mouth disease and the salmonella food poisoning. Saved those in intensive care stops raising death toll. To locate contamination source it traced to exclusive restaurant owned by a well known celebrity chef. To pinpoint, this restaurant it was spotless from bottom to top. Discovered Clams sea creatures served there was source, contaminated with human waste excrements poured into the sea. Types of sea, land creatures like catfish, prawns, pigs, rabbits, birds, are scavenger nature’s waste bin. Such animals as bats, monkeys carry disease. 20200208_171326They are not created to be eaten; their purposes is similar to vultures or flies created solely to do cleaning up to get rid of nature’s waste on planet. Those located in the sea work on bottom of the sea to gobble up dead things etc. So land counterparts do the same performance on land some eat their own dead babies. Be alert to ensure food cooked properly to avoid raw sea food unless you know source. Disregarding God’s specification clarifying HIS law on what is suitable or not suitable to consume often can cause pain and suffering not solely for those indulging in such acts but can spread to those whom are not. Due to spreading of diseases from affected animal every now and then outbreaks like in China happens around the world. Avoid eating some of the creatures forbidden by God consumed by man as delicious to eat. So take time to listen to information on you tube messages on creatures like infected monkeys eaten causing Ebola or bats in China spreading Corona virus. Locusts in Saudi Arabia during Hajj, bats in Las Vegas and now Australia after the fires.

China prepares 100,000 ducks to battle Pakistan’s locust swarms. Ducks have a voracious appetite for locusts. China is preparing to deploy 100,000 ducks to neighbouring Pakistan to help tackle swarms of crop-eating locusts. Chinese agricultural experts say one duck eats more than 200 locusts a day is effective than pesticides. Pakistan declared emergency this month since locust numbers worst in more than two decades.Ducks at a poultry wholesale market February 26, 2006 in Nanjing of Jiangsu Province, ChinaMillions of insects too devastate crops in parts of East Africa. China is sending a team of experts to Pakistan to develop “targeted programmes” against locusts. Lu Lizhi, senior researcher at Zhejiang Academy of Agricultural Sciences, said ducks are “biological weapons.”He said chickens eat about 70 locusts in one day but ducks devour more than three times that number. “Ducks like to stay in large group so they are easier to manage than chickens” he told Chinese media. Swarm of locusts threaten to devastate crops in Pakistan. Trial involves ducks in China’s western Xinjiang province in coming months, Mr Lu said, to Bloomberg news agency. Pakistan’s worst-affected areas of Sindh, Balochistan, Punjab provinces. In 2000, China shipped the 30,000 ducks from Zhejiang to Xinjiang to tackle the infestation of locusts. UN said the heavy infestations are traced to cyclone season 2018-19 by the heavy rains into Arabian Peninsula. So the three generations of unprecedented breeding undetected so swarm spread to South Asia East Africa.How East Africa is battling devastating locust swarms

East Africa is battling devastating locust swarms In January, UN has called for international help to fight swarms of desert locusts sweeping through East Africa. Ethiopia, Kenya, Somalia face “unprecedented “devastating” swarms of food-devouring insects, the UN said. Locusts: UN calls for international help in East Africa. ‘Locust swarm’ forces the Ethiopian Airlines to divert plane locust invasion so UN warns: Ethiopia, Kenya, Eritrea and Sudan. China sent 100,000 ducks to battle Pakistan’s locust swarm. Ebola, Covid-19 are endtimes plagues:

HOPE FOR BROKEN HEARTED

IMG-20200219-WA0003 True love brings joy in marriage, single life celebrating love with people happy for couple to support the relationship. It is a festive season of affection so people  enjoy their company. But rift or damage of love needs hope to endure to adapt in healthy ways to adjust to family life. The couple not doing well need to know love is not just happy times. First count your blessings despite adversity you surprise others with what the LORD does in your life. Thank God be grateful for your life. 20200206_121949Write down good times in your life you felt most happy within yourself and felt good about yourself. What made you so happy and content you felt life is good and wonderful? When you felt happy can you recall how you celebrated those times. Did your happiness last long or did you self sabotage by indulgence that ruined the moment and you regret loss?20200206_122049To bounce back from hopelessness and loss to pick and start life over again. To learn from experience to grow wiser to repeating problems changed your heart, mind, feelings emotions into good for your sanity. Be honest with yourself in a choices or decision making for the good outcome to stay strong not compromise. The “love tank” syndrome is the mirage of shifting your love life to be “filled” by another person. Impossible, unrealistic, to expect to live your life by piggy back lovd void of genuine love and affection. wp-1580750543586.jpgTina Turner song says what has love got to do with it?  To expect love life to face no challenges and no uphill struggles is delusion causing pain of dissatisfaction. Life is tough so demanding perfection in a relationship of two people adjusting in a couple’s life is insanity driving people crazy. There is no such thing as perfect families though grass seems greener it’s a different story on a closer look. IMG-20200206-WA0007Changing circumstances in relationship can be shocking so cause anger, hatred bitterness and disappointment because if unmet needs or expectations. Its good to know NO SINGLE INDIVIDUAL is able to fulfil your entire life exclusively. This is why no wo/man is an island everyone in your life is put there by God for these reason to build you up and to encourage you. Do not cut yourself off from family or loved ones in the name of love it is a coercive controlling behaviour abuse.IMG-20200219-WA0003Recall the good times of personal joy of things you DID BY YOURSELF and made your life happy and feel fulfilled. Loving yourself FIRST is a command: Going for walk, read a book, listening to favourite music, write a story, visit, invite friends over, don’t isolate yourself. Meet up in a public place with friends, swim go for a massage in a reputable place, don’t wait for people to validate or tell you what to do. Do not think a damaged relationship means your life is destroyed beyond the repair of your circumstances. Although you may feel sad, recall past times you overcame and recovered your life. You will feel better than before what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger and WISER.wp-1580750500770.jpgAvoid repeating the mistakes to lose the precious time and waste money to miss friends, family, lose houses and lands, family but remember Creator God owns people not you. God restores a hundred times the loses in life and in life after no matter how wonderful your love life is you will account to God for your life, abilities, gifts, skills, God given talents. Its God who gives POWER  to get wealth to eat is a gift from God so look to God your maker your Source of life. Do not put anyone on a pedestal above God in your life. Celebrate the people in your life in your life, remember to celebrate yourself too. Don’t abandon your life to be controlled by anyone its not love, its coercive abuse Stockholm syndrome.13980530_f496Dr Carmen Bryant on you tube channel daily teaches on Narcissistic love bomb and educate people broken hearted or getting out of complex relationships. In her words in an excellent book is found further details describing a narcissistic behaviour of people. Most people do not realize narcissistic relationships. So find out everything they thought about their relationship was a lie. Hard to look over your life in a long-term or a short-lived relationship to find out the person you thought cared didn’t have capacity to do so because of their personality disorder. Personality disorder hides under charm and charisma destructive to themselves and anyone involved. It hurtful to find out that you were only an object/tool to accomplish their own personal goals so you were depleted of resources needed for their personal gain. The book allows you to look at the seeds planted through life and the thought process that led so many people into this type of abusive relationship. This book has honest look at real life experiences and emotional damage. And the reality of the lack of awareness within our society of how such individuals operate and leave trail of destruction everywhere they go.61FOQhSbQYLPRAYER: Almighty Father God creator  of Heaven and all things on earth we humbly come before You with thanks giving in our hearts, asking for Your never ending mercy. We lift Your name on high above all name that exist. Our Father and creator, we ask You to bless,
us protect, and pour Your supernatural favor upon us, our children, spouse and friends. God we ask You today a Divine intervention in our lives, for Your touch in all our lives, job promotion, freedom from debt, rebuilding relationships with our spouse and friends. And we pray for world peace, for your peace that passes all understanding in all Your children. We pray for your protection against the Corona virus and Your mercy on those who have fallen victim to it. Father any situation You touch, we believe is never the same. Father in heaven, let Your will be done in our lives as Your decision in our lives is the best and will always be the best, the please send double portion anointings and blessings in the quickest time to people follow and pray in Jesus’
Name. We worship and glorify you God in the name of your Son our personal Saviour, Jesus Christ. AMEN! We pray for protection during the storm and for those who feel unloved and unworthy. We pray for forgiveness of sins, healing and peace in our hearts. Jesus, You are our strength, We love You and need You, please heal family. LORD, thank you for wonderful days, food, work and day of life. LORD, bless our friends, enemies for all need You. The LORD bless you we pray you fulfill your dreams in victory. The LORD bless you with grateful heart in the Name Lord Jesus Christ. God bless you and your family working in areas of trauma witnessing the serious narcissist abuse, victimization and devaluation of people. Encouraging you to seek help on their behalf when no one believes them. Advocate and support abused people so worked hard to help them to restablish their self-esteem and self-worth. Guide in hope narcissism victim recovers from damage effects of abuse. To respond to people around the victim or survivor to tell their stories. To gve survivors hope to show what narcissist abuse looks like in action to outsiders. Books, knowledge to salvage their lives to restablish life.

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DEALING WITH LONELINESS

wp-1578499253965.jpgI lifted my windshield wiper to retrieve a frozen pink rose on a cold Valentine’s Day years ago. A freshman in college, I stopped by my car to eat a snack after a morning class. And excitedly wondered who sent me this surprise as my heart pounded in anticipation. Starting up the engine for warmth, I rubbed my palms together and opened the attached card. The rose was from my mother and her words in the card is kind, encouraging, so why did I still feel empty inside? The truth is, I wished the rose was from a secret admirer, a young man, not my mother. My last date spaced far after a previous one I longed for romance to fill me up. My loneliness combined into a frustrating mixture like a cup with no bottom. No matter what I put inside the cup, I didn’t feel full. Roses, chocolates, books, TV shows, fantasies relationships couldn’t fill it. Loneliness seemed to be the only thing filling a bottomless space, and I am weary of its constant haunting presence. My parents divorced when I was 4 years old, the day my daddy left was a day loneliness took up permanent residence in my heart and mind; though I wished it will go away I had no power to push it out the door loneliness lingers on every time I crave love and attention from people’s love its in short supply.wp-1578512659626.jpgIn high school, I developed resentment over flowers and gifts I saw lined up in the cafeteria every February 14. None of them were for me. I believed the devil’s whispered lie, None of them will ever be for you. You’ll always be lonely. About 15 years after that frozen-rose morning, I sat in a counselor’s office. Listening to my stories of constant loneliness, he said, “Relationships are very important to you, aren’t they?” It was his simple, judgment-free question that became a pivotal point in my spiritual journey. A few days after counseling session, God nudged me with a new idea: Perhaps its relationships too important to me yet I was a wife, mother of three and a friend to many, I still felt lonely. God showed me truth to learn from HIS Word: “It is better to take refuge in the LORD than to trust in people” says Psalm 118:8. For far too long, I looked to people to fill me up. My husband, children, best friend, small group companions couldn’t remove my loneliness. They were never designed to completely fill my needs and I realized only God can be my refuge and my safe place and my salvation in lone times.wp-1577904684292.jpgThough people are wonderful, they are not infinite so are not always available when we need them, and none of them provide perfect understanding. God is infinite Revelation 1:8, everpresent says Deuteronomy 31:6 and all-knowing says 1 Chronicles 28:9. As we study His ways, we learn God is ready, able and willing to fill us with HIS LOVE. We learn this best by hiding in HIS place of refuge so the more time I spent in God’s presence, the less I depended on relationships to meet all my needs. My time with loved ones became bonuses on top of loving intimacy I enjoyed with Jesus. No longer required evident proof of a human love on Valentine’s Day or any other day. God is our refuge in lonely times so is more than enough proof He LOVES us. Some inherit loneliness from their mothers. Angel KissiAngel Kissi says she has struggled with loneliness since she was a child she has inherited loneliness from her mother. A parent in the same way affects emotions inherited like hair and eye colour. Two women explain loneliness played a part in their lives and relates to their parents as children. “Loneliness is constant. No matter where I it just does not go away. It’s like you feel it in your bones a deep feeling of wanting to fit in and wanting to be around people you know and love, but you can’t. “So thinks inherited it. It’s been passed says Angel Kissi from her mum Hayley who struggles with anxiety depression and loneliness. Her mum’s spark by severe post-natal depression in Angel started when she was a child. “My family stood out in Peterborough. They all knew who we were because we look different. I’m tall and mixed race and I stood out,” says the 20-year-old. “When I went to university, things were good but still felt didn’t fit in. I thought moving to London would change it but it didn’t. “I felt I was quiet and awkward, struggled to connect with people or make friends straight away. Some go out for drinks after class but never invited. I felt like I did something wrong. I stopped going to lectures, got up, ready to go but back to bed. Avoids going to shared areas of my flat, shut myself away isolated. I went into the loneliness and let it take over.”Angel and HayleyHayley struggle with anxiety depression and loneliness after Angel was born. So unable to cope, Angel left the university before first year was over. She felt then a strong desire to go home and be close to her mum rented a room close-by. “It’s good we don’t live together because we bring each other up, down all the time. She helped me with some aspects of my mental health but at times I didn’t want to speak to her because I didn’t want to make her worse. “If she was different, I will be different. I don’t blame her at all, she didn’t choose to be like this, it’s not her fault. It’s something I have got from her. Personality traits or attitudes I have learnt from her without meaning to.”Angel Kissi struggled with the loneliness from a young age According to Age UK, loneliness is defined as feeling a lack of affection, closeness or social interaction with others.The charity Mind says it is not a mental health issue but research says its associated with increased risk of depression, anxiety, low self-esteem and stress triggered by major life events of bereavement, relationship break-ups or retirement, changing jobs and moving. Dr Rebecca Nowland, who researched the subject of loneliness said it can be passed down in families. “I don’t think we will find a gene for loneliness but it’s response to an experience of loneliness that may be genetic,” she said. “There is a number of studies that loneliness is hereditary so runs in families and there might be associations between parent’s loneliness and a child’s loneliness. The parent who has been lonely for a time may transmit some the negative feelings happening share loneliness experience.”Kirsty and sonKirsty McGrath fears passing feelings of loneliness to her children too. So Kirsty McGrath said her loneliness problem is after her son was born five years ago. She tried going to the mother and baby groups to make new friends, struggled to organise play dates so found herself increasingly isolated. Her husband does support her in the evening but she finds daytimes difficult because she is alone with no-one to talk to. The 33-year-old teacher, lives in Eltham, south London says she is worried of not being able to socialise her children will have an effect on them. She might pass own feelings of loneliness of “grey cloud.“I am paranoid of passing it on to the kids, I wouldn’t be surprised if I did. I am aware so I want them to feel comfortable around others not to feel like they don’t fit in. “My son came home from school and said to me he didn’t have friends so hasn’t played with anyone. I’m worried he is like this because of me didn’t put him in enough social situations to know how to mix in with others.” Loneliness is the common experience among new parents finding groups with shared interests to focus on new parenting skill way to cope says Dr Nowland. Dr Faruq Fazal a GP worked in mental health services on loneliness sats people lack a support network and believes teaching coping skills in school could help. “Nobody really teaches you how to cope through life’s challenges if suffering from loneliness. Its not about physically having people around you, it is when you feel you’re not able to talk to people without an emotional support. People need a support network so their coping strategy is better.” Do not isolate yourself from family or friends unless it is absolutely necessary to prevent virus.Child and parent holding handsExperts say parents may transmit their feelings to their children. Mind suggests a number of ways to manage loneliness, includes peer support talking therapies. Dr Nowland says seeking professional advice can help those stuck in a cycle of behaviour brought about by loneliness. “Loneliness leaves you with emotional feeling quite painful and distressing. If someone is lonely and they felt it for a long time but realising it’s not ok helps overcome developed negative thought patterns. “You need help with cognitive behaviour therapy to help you think and reframe things.” Angel’s counselling helped with anxiety but not helped with her feelings of loneliness. She returned to university but decided to focus on her mental health, work, and learning to drive. “Loneliness is different from anxiety and it’s different from not being able to make friends,” she says. “Anxiety isolates but loneliness felt at university separate from people in your own little world. I’m in a relationship and close to my family but loneliness is still there. To overcome loneliness of Covid-19 in UK children drew rainbow picture put at a window to support each other. Its a fun idea but God is surrounded by rainbows so its appropriate to remind HIM of HIS BIBLE PROMISES to save HIS creation.Rourke and Quinn are seen with their rainbow in CoventryRourke and Quinn are seen with their rainbow in Coventry. Children in UK are placing rainbows in windows of their homed to help keep others entertained during the coronavirus outbreak. These youngsters have been asked to colour in templates of rainbows or to draw their own and display them by their schools. The rainbows are then used as a tool to entertain children as they go on their daily walks with their parents. So this movement dubbed “The Rainbow Trail” helps share common ground interest to deal with corona virus staying indoors.Cllr Adam Clarke, deputy city mayor for Leicester, has displayed two rainbows in his window.Cllr Adam Clarke, deputy city mayor for Leicester, has displayed two rainbows in his window. And Donna Corcoran, 40, from Coventry, praised this movement and said it was a real highlight for her sons, seven-year-old Rourke, six-year-old Quinn and two-year-old daughter, Pearl. So public is warned to respect the personal space to limit spreading virus. Most parts of the world is on lockdown to try to contain the virus. Things to get worse but improves a lot, don’t know if it’s going to go.” Mayor inundated with many lonely citizens appoints specialist councillor. ‘Bureaucracy dehumanises so becoming living robots,’ says a mayor of a small Italian town before the virus.Antonella Argenti, mayor of Villa del Conte in the Veneto region.The mayor of a small town in northern Italy appointed a loneliness councillor being overwhelmed by citizens calling to discuss their problems. So Antonella Argenti elected mayor of Villa del Conte, town of 5,400 people in Veneto region, in May last year noted some inhabitants struggling to cope “You wouldn’t believe it,” she told La Stampa. “In the first few months of my mandate, so many people came to see me. All, young, old, wo/men, complained about problems of the same type of loneliness, the lack of a support network. “Alone with phone take care of bills talk to the automated switchboard refers you to yet other recorded voices. Relationships are missing. Bureaucracy dehumanise all becoming living robots. The Pescueza village in Spain with 130 people with two thirds over 65 years old is adapted to care and provide for their needs. Rails attached to walls to hold on to while walking out and about, slipfree floor to ensure the don’t slip and fall. Its said they are given phones to press red button for emergency needs urgently attended to. They are fed, their clothes are washed for them and transport sent to those who find walking challenging. They meet at daycentre to socialise and a gym tailored to their needs to exercise daily but isolated during corona virus. 20200215_113722

A Facebook group had been set up for the people who want to help others and offer their services to neighbours who might be confined to their homes as a result of the outbreak of Covid-19. They volunteer to fetch their groceries, walk their dogs and pick up prescriptions or have a chat over the phone or Skype if they are feeling lonely or frightened. A young people’s chatroom also discusses people’s feelings and fears. And how to help prevent virus spreading by staying indoors at home. Not to meet in groups, or gather in large groups helps to deal with the virus to protect themselves and others. People are encouraged to try to be active indoors by being busy doing a favourite hobby or sing, dance, exercise write poems, be creative, draw, dribble use crayons, pens, paint with brushes to keep the mind occupied. Ask for help if in need, don’t be shy to suffer in silence people alone. Its said no one cares what you know but KNOW IF YOU CARE in a such a time as this. Actions speak louder than words so it is the time to be there for each other emotionally or physically in extreme cases for intervention by the experts. And for believers in God faith is shared to uplift with word of God in the Name of Jesus with texts, hymns, songs, music, prayer from Bible texts or verses.

Lord, thank You for never abandoning me in my lonely times. I confess I have tried too hard to fill up my lonely spaces with relationships or things that never fill me up. Remind me when I hide away in a safe place with You I will experience Your perfect peace. Meet me in loneliness with Your loving presence. In Jesus Name Amen. Thank you God as your words say I am not alone for Father God is always with me. Jesus you said I am with you in Spirit so will never leave or forsake me to the end of the age. Thank you God. Thank you Jesus. Thank you my comforter Holy Spirit. Thank you for your love and care for me, you supply all my needs in Jesus Name and through people helping bless them all and protect their families too. 

TRUTH FOR TODAY FROM THE BIBLE:

Psalm 118:8-9 Its better to take refuge in the LORD than to trust in people so put your CONFIDENCE IN GOD.

Jeremiah 17:5-8, Thus says the LORD God cursed is a man who trusts in man and makes flesh his strength so he heart departs from the LORD God.

Psalm 59:17, “O God my Strength, to you I sing praises, O God, my refuge, shows me unfailing love”

Psalm 142:5, “I pray to you, O LORD. I say, ‘You are my place of refuge. You are all I really want in life above all things”

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