A viral text says, “I don’t wish you a wonderful new year for things to go right its a childish utopic fantasy. I wish you to take a look at yourself to love yourself as you are. Muster self-esteem to win battle in humility some battles are impossible to win, others are simply not worth fighting. My wish to you is accept reality of things you cannot change and recognize there are realities you can change if you stop complaining. Accept I cannots and recognize “I don’t want’s.” My wish for you is listen to your truth, express it but know its merely your truth not others. Best way to overcome your fears is face it its only way to overcome. Learn to tolerate the shortcomings of other you have them too so stops complaining. Don’t condemn others or yourself for being wrong. you aren”t perfect like God Almighty. Grow up and accept real life is tough do much in life ask other’s help. I don’t wish 2020 ‘happiness’ but I pray you learn to be happy in life. Happiness is a path not destination. Its unrealistic to expect you get happiness or be given happiness always by others. Life is what you make it so don’t blame other people for unhappiness you created yourself. Have consideration for other’s interest, look out for opportunity to bless not isolate yourself so lonely. Greatest secret of happiness Jesus says is reach out to help not self centredness. The greater good is dedicate time to help interests of others to make you thrive. Life’s domino effect ripples blessings to you mind your own life daily to share joys with family, friends, loved ones. They support you in the challenging times of needs. Do not feel entitled to underestimate or undermine others. Steve Gouves died a billionaire, with fortune of $7 billion aged 56 from pancreatic cancer here are his last words: In other’s eyes, my life is the essence of success, but aside from work I have little joy in the end in wealthy life accustomed to On sick bed realized all recognition, wealth meaningless in the face of imminent death. You can hire someone to drive your car and make money for you but can’t rent someone to carry disease for you. Get material things but can’t find or replace your lost “life.”
Treat yourself well cherish others as you get older get smarter to realize watch worth $30 or $300 displays same time. Purse or wallet worth $30 or $300 same amount of money. If you drive a car worth $150,000 or $30,000 the road and distance is same so all arrive at same destination. Drinks of bottles of wine worth $300 or $10,000 “stroller” is same. In house of 300 square meters or 3000 square meters loneliness is the same. A true inner happiness is not from material things. When you fly first class or economy class you arrive at same time. Understand you have friends to talk to is true happiness but do not talk too much!!! Do not educate all your children to be rich but educate them to love God to be happy. When they grow will know value of things value God’s gift of life. So eat food as medicine or your medicine is food.
Who loves you will not leave you for a 100 reasons finds reasons to hold on. Difference in child of God is humans. If you go fast you go alone but to go far you need others. So be humble in all stages of your life to thrive to enjoy healthy life. Love all people Almighty God sends you one day HE needs them back. Wishing prosperous years. Best doctors are:
1. Sunlight – Vitamins A, D, K, E soluble.
2. Rest – Sleep well to maintain body.
3. Exercise – To keep body in good shape
4. Diet & Water – Nutrients & circulation
5. Self-confidence – Secure in God / Jesus
6. Friends & Family – For love and Support Don’t gain the whole world to lose your soul greedy love of money God says is root of all evil. God gives power to get wealth, to eat is a gift from God. Trust God to help you lead a fulfilled life don’t manipulate people. Selfish gains enriched selling your soul to the devil ends in hell. Live life, think well of others so look after interest of others to be happy. The secret to happy life is make others happy to be happier in joy you bring to others lives is real meaning of happiness. Metanoia means dedicate your life to live in holiness for God
Written by Murti Medici, Argentinian psychologist, translated into English:
Steve Gouve Advise from a rich man