0432fb5fe9e55ef968f9e0163760552a.400x268x1.jpg JESUS WILL VISIBLY RETURN IN PERSON AS FLESH AND BLOOD to earth as Bible says. The Bible says All Eyes shall SEE Jesus. An invisible person is not SEEN. Jesus is coming again! He said as He told His disciples,“I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again so where I am you will be also as stated in John 14:2-3. This message is repeated during time of His ascension as His disciples watched Him ascend into the clouds; two angels stood by them and said, “Men of Galilee why do you stand here looking into the sky? This same Jesus, who taken from you into heaven, will come back in the same way you have seen him go into heaven in Acts 1:11. This is plain enough. This same Jesus will come back in person in flesh in to earth in same way as seen to heaven!16_jesus-returnAnyone who does not believe Jesus is Coming Again in Flesh is antiChrist. The deceivers do not acknowledge Jesus Christ is Coming in the flesh. So go out into the world as deceivers and opposers of the Lord Jesus. Bible in 1 John 4:3, so anyone against Jesus Christ is not from God. So test every spirit because the ones who do not confess Jesus Christ, has come in Flesh is not of God. This is spirit of antiChrist. So beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits, whether they are of God; because of so many false prophets gone in the world as antiChrist. People who refuse to believe Christ will RETURN in PERSON VISIBLY in the FLESH fight God Himself. The Plan of God will not change or be stopped, twisted misinterpreted by those who continue to lie to cover up the error of false predictions of 1914 saying Jesus already appeared in spirit, not true.Rapture.jpgJesus has Not Yet Come Back in 1914 so stop deceiving people. Jesus WILL BE BACK IN PERSON SEEN BY ALL on earth. Do not believe lies God does not exists as Flesh and Blood except as invisible Spirit this is NOT True. Bible says all Eyes will SEE Jesus return to earth and Jesus Says when you SEE me you SEE Father God. So ask God’s Forgiveness for error like the wise churches who restored church after similar past errors of false predictions. It sin to mislead people according Bible in Ezekiel 33:3 /3:33. Stop insisting on lies pretending Jesus already returned and so will not return again in the Flesh. Again, further extended twisted versions teach Jesus turned into Archangel Michael so cannot Come back on earth to live here. Such misinformed ideas about Jesus is not true because Jesus and Archangel Michael still exist as two living beings. Jesus did not dematerialise into invisible form but REAL PERSON VISIBLE WILL BE SEEN BY ALL ON RETURN to earth. God APPEARED IN HUMAN FLESH 44 TIMES IN BIBLE SEEN, ATE WITH PEOPLE SO GOD DOES COME IN FLESH LIKE JESUS CREATED IN PERFECT IMAGE OF GOD. All humans are created in God’s Physical Flesh Image as Father to His Children.ahnsahnghong-in-the-flesh.pngWhen Jesus ascended first into heaven to present Himself to God after resurection in Glorified body in John 20: 17, Jesus told Mary, ‘Do not touch me, for I have not yet ascended to my Father; I must ASCEND to My Father and your Father and My God and your God. Jesus returned to earth on same day in John 20:19 so went through wall as the doors locked in Upper Room and visits disciples in GLORIFIED FLESH. Despite Glorified body Jesus was back on earth as Flesh and Blood before His final ascension in 40 days. Yet some continue fabricated lies using any selected verses to try to diminish, belittle, reduce Jesus Christ Highly Exalted HONOURED Son of God in Philippians 2:9. God Bestowed on Jesus Name Above all names at the Name of Jesus every knee shall bow and tongue confess Jesus is Lord to Glory of Father. Jesus Exclusively Earned His Sacrifice of redemption for mankind. No other name given among men under heaven can by mankind be saved, only Jesus Saves.the-second-coming-of-jesus-christ-when-why-and-how.jpgTEXT ABOVE SAYS THE LORD HIMSELF WILL DESCEND FROM HEAVEN WITH A SHOUT LOUD VOICE OF AN ARCHANGEL AND TRUMPET OF GOD. JESUS APPEARS BOLDLY AND PUBLICLY FOR ALL EYES WILL SEE JESUS NOT INVINSIBLE SPIRIT lies people to be claim God’s favourites by special covenant replacing Christ and Jews to rule earth as kings or queens. So nobody can ever replace Christ or Israel chosen by God, Saved First, due to the GREAT Sacrifice of Jesus as Jew to Jews First and all NATIONS according to God’s Agenda. Accept Jesus the ONLY CHOSEN VALID GOD’S SON not a replacement by some people in a special covenant. They claim Jesus not flesh and blood to inherit God’s Kingdom on earth special chosen ones ‘replacing’ Jesus and Jews in Spirit of God overcome flesh to live in spirit. A limited 144,000 randomly select few are changed in twinkle of an eye exclusively transfer by rapture to reign in heaven as kings, priests not true. The real 144,000 Jews are documented in Revelation 7:9 from the 12 tribes of Israel (Jacob). AND ABSOLUTELY TRUE JESUS WILL BE SEEN IN THE CLOUDS BY PEOPLE ON EARTH DURING RAPTURE OF ALL BELIEVERS IN CHRIST ALIVE WITH BELIEVERS RAISED FROM DEATH GO WITH JESUS TO THEIR PREPARED MANSIONS IN HEAVEN.tumblr_llig8qMvAV1qizvnso1_500.gifJews keeping accurate record of living history so know their family tree. Those who refuse to work with God hate Christ Trinity God twist word of God are setting themselves up to be slaughtered in great tribulation if stubborn antiChrist and do not repent. Some are rescued in Rapture others are left behind will face choice of consequences. Absolutely so true God’s Mercy and Compassion extends by Love so will not to wipe out completely earth to annihilate earth due to evil of sins of mankind. God allows all stubborn thrill horror seekers of evil remain on earth to be ‘entertained’ by wicked violence and destruction. Stay behind on earth due to unbelief mocking God’s Rapture as devil levitation. The Great Tribulation Rescue by Christ is Grace of God in Answer to prayers of remnant to shorten evil days. God grants relief and respite break from evil to those fed up from destructions of mankind among each other preferring instead the joyful peaceful PRESENCE of God through RAPTURE in the interim.the-rapture1.pngBelievers in Christ seen taken up in the great tribulation motivates to believe in shaken to the core by simultaneous evil happenings, awaken in their sense then receive Christ. Shocked intensity of type of evil violence unseen before on earth finally challenge some to understand the true exteng of wrath of God. Those who believe rapture into heaven publicly seen by the whole world. Believers in Christ stay in heaven for 7 years impacted by trust, confidence in God for all accepting Jesus Christ. Countless multitudes from various nations tribes, languages accept Jesus through the evangelism of 144000 Jews working with Moses and Elijah back in Flesh from heaven on earth to save people. In Revelation 7:9 says, After this vast crowd too great to count people from every nation, tribes, languages, standing before the Throne and before Lamb Jesus in Heaven. Serve God day and night 24/7 compared in chronological earth time to highlight understanding God’s Temple in HEAVENLY Dwellings praising God and Jesus for salvation and victory.1-thessalonians-4-5-rapture-7-638 Jesus physically returns with God and all saints in heaven back to earth in Second Coming. Rule for 1000 years in PERFECT PEACE but wicked evil rebellious people are completely wiped out for rejecting Christ as Son of God Only Chosen Way. After 7 years Jesus RETURNS TO earth PERMANENTLY to New Jerusalem living in their midst and satan bound in Abyss. More people living during the 1000 years accept Christ as their Saviour. At the end of the 1000 years satan let loose briefly then final judgement and punishment. If God’s Mercy extended time to persistent rejectors of God’s words expires is a final total annihilation in hell fire awaiting all non – repentant rebellious ones. Those who still refuse to change to accept Jesus as KING of Kings LORD of lords when He Returns to rule for 1000 years on earth will perish according to the word of God. Absolutely nothing else saves mankind except Saviour Jesus Christ. The Titles, Status, Ranks, wealth, riches, material possessions become totally useless so cannot save except by bowing knees to acknowledge Christ is LORD of all. Those ridiculing and mocking God better get their act together before it is too late to say sorry to God to be saved. Got it?



Single people get married in experiment as apprehensive of love and marriage so given choice to try before you buy in test run before deciding if this is for them or not. Experiments strongly independent couple moving into relationship to hep over come phobia of giving up their love of their independence. So agree to live together for one week in this experiment filming every moment to figure out what they both want. They discover necessary the changes involved in setting up home together so making room and space for each other. It is interesting to find out how both learn to adjust to each other’s personality and differences. They visit friends to observe their married lifestyle to help them plan how to focus, include, interact to involve each more their new relationship. After visit the young man picks few tips on making couple photo in house to grace it to feel more like home. The man impressed by other’s marriage prepares a meal to surprise his wife too. The lesson here applies idea of marriage to find out potential problems to address them to solve problems. Choice is given to remain open to commitment to take it further in actual marriage if both agree. Sexual intimacy part is withheld to help focus more on bonding, learning to gel together to form a marriage relationship to meet each other’s needs better. This process can be a possible set up to help some people try before you buy to ensure they really want to join together for life. In other cases marriage is much deeper so week is hardly enough to get to know person enough to marry. Marriage is like taking up 30 year mortgage so the house and location must be right. So to keep up in order to achieve a very high standard required they felt best thing to do is to compromise. Both begun to take more notice of the other’s needs to care for the other. They had to learn to adapt to their friends to be more likable and to have special couple time acceptable to friends and family. It is similar in some ways to an experiment to choose couples based on personal profile, interests and hobbies among others. The experiment found couples who agreed to marry but it did not last long. It was not successful as an unnatural unrealistic setting live on TV. Though experiment was organised by team of talented experts, professionals and a free furnished home to live in. It did not last long as family plays major part in marriage relationship eventually.

An attempt to train young people on real life experiment to help learn to manage family life and work simultaneously. So a real home life including raising family and babies was arranged for potential young people who plan to have children to fulfil their lives to be happy. The real life crying babies given to some with the real parents nearby with expert support to guide the young people. This brought reality shock of family life to them with one refusing to corporate to do anything realising it was too much. So discovered it was nothing like a walk in the park as imagined in their fantasy utopia in their head. These experiments do bring reality check to awaken naive children thinking of finding love from a baby to feel loved. As they finally realised the sacrifice and the hardwork involved in raising family and children combined with work found out it was not a picknic in the park. It was not as much fun as they thought so in the end made up their minds to hold on to their youth further to enjoy their lives, go to college, train in a skill career before setting up home. Some had to call upon their parents to come over to help them run their home. It turned out that raising a family is not as easy as they had imagined prior to the experiment. These experiments attempt to replace a natural traditional family choosing or arranging marriage by mutual agreement. To some extent, anticipation of new relationship seems exciting adventure in beginning however, pretty soon dust settles down mundane work sets in to run home. It is shock of their lack of awareness of  the responsibility involved causes them to rethink their fantasies. In any case the world allows people freedom of choice to do what is best for them in personal life regardless of the outcome. This is a new way in addition to online dating or other methods that works best for people. So opportunity is given for some to fulfil the desire of their heart and enjoy their choice and decision. 



family-scripture-study_1300345_inlJoshua watched his parent’s reading the Bible to the family sharing stories about the Goodness of God. His parents told the family living history of God and Jesus with pictures and paintings illustrating the stories. He watched family routines daily whem his parents woke up in the morning till night time when he went to his room to sleep. His parents seemed so precise almost exactly on time each day like clockwork. They knelt by their beds each morning together as he walked in to say good morning. He sometimes also knelt by parents sides to join them pray. It was their dedication and love that was the best example he saw and wanted too.married_couple_praying-3Joshua noticed his parents thanked God for everything in their lives, for family, grand parents, friends, work, their home grateful for blessings asking God in Jesus for strength to overcome challenges plus endless list of other numerous matters. Sometimes he dosed off beside parents while at prayer. His little sister Charlene prayed with her dolls too beside her bed too in her room. She seemed to catch the prayer bug as he heard her prayers when he passed by her bedroom into his own bedroom. At times he heard her clearly praying with an innocent voice thanking God for family, favourite foods, siblings and her dolls. It is interesting for Joshua to watch his little sister seem to take to prayer like a duck to water effortlessly. So Joshua wanted some of what she has inside her to be as keen to love God and be full of joy and love. Each morning and night Joshua overheard sister’s prayers. Sometimes praying for him to be closer to God to enjoy a special friendship with Jesus the Special friend of all children.200322906-001Joshua heard Charlene talk to Jesus and God freely kneeling beside her bed like they were in her room with her. He was impressed with her trust and confidence in God and her Joy. At times his parents went with Joshua to pray in his room too with him and with Caleb in his room also Joshua began to pray by his bedside like the family telling God starting about his day, asking God for forgiveness, praying for his friends everyday and also at night time.  He begun to understand what he was missing by not praying as much as his family members did. He found deep peace and calmness inside him so not as angry and frustrated as he used to feel. He felt Presence of God around him so did not feel shy anymore about praying.fall on your knees.jpgJoshua’s new found faith, trust in God to call on God always was highly significant knowledge impressed his parents. They raised him by good example. So did not pressurise him into following their belief but trusted he will discover God in his own time. His parents talked about God and worked on communicating clearly and frequently to ensure family tensions are resolved quickly. The family operates with utmost respect and best intentions as first port of call of duty of care to any emotionally triggered responses. Joshua begun to read the Bible online, on phone played healthy video games inspiring his faith. He was amazed by the wonderful Christian Biblical teachings confirming all his parents taught him at home. He was surprised to learn about good news promoted and shared among peers so realised the world was not just full of evil negative news. He was happy to discover God in other families and children who knowingly love God so want to do the tight thing by Pleasing God everyday.ne13may27-ALL-hearing-with-the-heart-N1305_Romney_Heart_2527_prayingFamilyJoshua was impressed by other families who lived like his own family praying so assured he doing the right thing, humble to believe in God. He was happy to know he had a Special Friend Jesus who Loved children and prayed for them too from heaven. He understood his parents did not have all the answers to problems of life but relied on God to be with them. As his confidence in God grew his strength in God increased because he realised the Bible has answers to all problems in life as his parents told him daily. He felt the joy seen in his parents especially in his little sister Charlene. Knew in his heart he was on the right track to focus on God as much as he enjoyed playing sport and playing football with friends. He learnt Bible living history creation of how God created all different people from same race in Adam and Eve praying to God too.Ghana-family-praying.jpgSo Joshua sees for himself that children from all over the world pray too and love God as much he does. He feels he truly belongs to a BIGGER Family of God’s Kingdom in Christ. He understand this life is not perfect yet as God Wants it to be caused by the world to go through the unecessary problems of life. He reads on matters affecting him and the world and asks for further clarification from parent if his unsure about anything he read. His parents are happy and willing to answer his questions pointing to specific Bible texts to prove these are God’s words to live by. Joshua continues to grow and to learn more about the world surrounding  him. He prays for all his friends and all still searching for answers in the wrong places encouraged by sceptism in God. He is believing God to continue helping him believe throughout his life into the future eternity into infinity. So learning to love all people as the children of God.praying-couple1-425x280.jpgThose not understanding about Love of God he prays for and applies God’s word to difficult asking what would Jesus do. He learns to torelate others knowing all have the same equal rights as himself to live on earth to enjoy family life as much as he does. He prays for others to learn more about God to remember God in the days of their youth as God Commands. He is learning to partake of good positive things to build up to respect others. He found out people may be less fortunate than himself but not reason to despise, mock or ridicule them. He looks out for children isolated without friends in the playground and encourages them. His mother sometimes gives extra food and fruits to share with children in need. MOM.jpgHe is understanding about Bible word and the world as a whole discovering God is changing things around to bring total peace on earth through Christ. He has good days and bad days, learning to lean more on God genuinely to help peers. He is building a good relationship with his parents to gain Godly Wisdom. He does his best to listen to his parents as God has Commanded to Obey parents so it will be well with him to live long. He is not perfect but does his best to please God to do the best he can. He sees other people enjoying precious times in parks playing music worshipping God. Realises God is praised and worshipped all over in the world in different places according to each culture. Joshua is trained to be nice to other people even if some people are different in lifestyle, tastes, demeanour.Karen-Ard-Photography-Beverly-Hills-Estate-engagement-session-Fab-You-Bliss-001.jpgAbove all, he learnt to Trust Jesus to be with him always surroubded by Heavenly hosts of God Sent to be with him always. He calls on God to be with him in tough times. He thanks God for all blessings he receives because of God’s Favour. There is so much to learn from the wonders of God and the universe. These information is so precious to Joshua he looks up with great confidence to coming of God day or night. This is the hope Joshua has always looking forward everyday to the joy of the LORD God as his source of strength. This confidence in believer holds onto to God to keep on keeping in God in Christ. Boy-Looking-at-Stars-MED.jpgThese days Joshua watches out with joy and hope to the beautiful universe and the wonders of God’s Creation. After he sees the stars, glorious planets, wonders of night sky he kneels down and to pray to God again before settling into a sound sleep. He dreams often about the visions and dreams God stated in Joel in the last days as part of end – time prophecy that both children young and the old will see visons and dream dreams. God talks to children as much as HE Talks to adults so deals with all people. He writes down his visions and dreams his parents are amazed about wonderful messages God Reveals to Joshua. If people responds to God RESPONDS so draws near to them. GOD DRAWS NEAR  AND REVEALS HIS SECRETS TO THEM. God loves people to love HIM to discover God as Joshua did. 25a521f4c0ba0444d1f96f0d867b5a74.jpgJoshua gets into bed each night assured of Jesus Present in Spirit with him in his room. He listens to his favourite Gospel music songs to calm Himself down after looking at the wonders of God in the sky. The other children all over the world also know that Jesus loves all the children of the world. Whether they are red children yellow children black and white children Jesus owns all these children no matter where they live on earth. Jesus cares for them all so intercedes for God’s answers to their prayers. Their angels in heaven watch over them too and are sent to help them when in need, sad, lonely, needs a special friend. Joshua Loves Jesus and so warns those hurting them it would be better if a millstone hung around their neck and drowned in the sea than attack HIS BELOVED CHILDREN on earth. God is preparing HIS KINGDOM for children because God says encourage children for theirs is the Kingdom of God. Jesus Says adults must humble themselves like the children to be worthy to please God.  



walking_on_water1.jpgJesus loves all people on earth so visits Ashoka family in Spirit by interceding in heaven for them. God hears Jesus prayer so answers by sending angels to deliver them from all their destructions. In turn the family becomes transformed leading a Godly lifestyle. They pray over all their children asking God blessing on them. preciouslovebymallett.jpgThe Ashoke family love their children so pray set good example in love of God. So the oldest son Funke pretty soon notices the joy, changes and the transformation in parents. Funke goes on his own quest trying to find the answers to “Who am I” in the Bible. He finds answers in books that explain topics at child level. Often reading more details from the Bible.tumblr_static_7tdyveax01s044wksw4oo04c4He spends most of his free time reading after studying and doing his homework. He began to enjoy Bible messages, read stories written about young people in the Bible. He was fascinated, impressed God is available 24/7 to call. In Jeremiah 33:3, God Says ‘Call to me, I will answer you and tell you the great unsearchable things you do not know.’ He shares the good news with his brothers and sisters about God’s Love and Goodness to all. 6667ab77af3c71949d5a96af15be86cf.jpgConsequently, eventually as their family prayed more, they saw miracles, changes in their own personal lives too. They also refused to be part of things displeasing to God. The brother Tunde, sister Lola do join in prayers and Bible studies often. It is Bible stories and memories that helps focus on God and Jesus as they grow. To be useful, they volunteer their time to be in the youth team to help in church. bcba4bd5f9aa77c4520d21f08f499814.jpgInevitability these family changes seen by others in the community made them want to know what is the secret of their good success. They always answered it is the LORD God’s Doing by HIS Grace that they are Strengthened by faith in Christ. They believe with God all things possible so trust God to make perfect all concerns of their family in Jesus name. With God all things are so possible including faith to walk on water like Jesus. God is author and finisher of faith so trust God to keep them to endure till Jesus Returns.   


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Men say they want food, sex and silence so surely that cannot be too much to ask of women? If so why does such a simple request seem impossible, complicated, causing more arguments and fights? Is it realistic to focus on only these 3 things when relationships demand more than love, sex and silence? Does what men want agree with what women want and are these congruent with what a family needs as a whole? Women do need more than love, sex and silence so this causes conflict in the relationship as what love means to each is completely different to what assumes. Women need men to be more sensitive in handling love with deeper affection due to mood changes caused by cycle and hormones. Mutual love understanding needs men’s support for women’s wants too. Wants or needs are completely different issues including family stability, intimacy, and security. Some women give up more for marriage in terms of health, wealth or happiness. As a result need specific clearly defined love although natural hormonal mood swings impact love, sex silence desired by the men. Complying exclusively to only 3 demands of love, sex silence will not make a relatipnship work. Since both give and take it is not just meeting men’s needs but woman’s needs for both to be happy. Originally men were not made to be alone with women 24/7 but part of a bigger family group support mechanism essential for survival of the community. Men and women isolated is part of problem of unrealistic demands on couples. Silence in relationship is an unrealistic desire in successful coupling.162452,xcitefun-man-time-5.jpgRelationship is not exclusive attention for only men’s needs but about essential needs of women too plus more issues of discussing finances, bills, housework, or duty of care to children, parents as they grow, cooking, work shifts? As originally God intended for women as full – time carers, men are supposed to be working outside in family business. The changes through life education brought the roles to be mixed up in modern times. Some traditional man continue in masculine role jobs, others find themselves called upon to do non -masculine domestic work. Means swapping roles sometimes as the woman becomes a bread winner. It requires the man to up their game to multi-task equally like when house work done by women. As women naturally are brought up in a way to do housework the pressure on a man to deliver to woman’s standard causes problems. The man can be cooking, cleaning, baby sitting, doing all yet still not appreciated.  Similarly, some men are better running, managing home so cannot fanthom why a woman is not maintaing home efficiently as he expects. May take over responsibility of domestic side to help a woman to ease the burden. Then expect the woman in turn to contribute upkeep financially by working too. Better for both parties sit down to decide what works best for their home. And review roles as time goes on adapt to changing dynamic needs of life. So important not to compare spouse or a partner to parents or siblings as better than her. Judge Judy says, ” You Chose that person” knowing their strengths or weakness so learn to accept them warts and all.  A happy wife and man makes deeper love connection for more sex. Man Bashing.jpgUnnatural demand on men to perform a traditional roles means some women do nag to complain about everything done by the man. Instead of valuing, showing gratitude and appreciation to the man are always finding faults and attacking man with verbal insults, physical fights, withdrawl of affection and intimacy. As this negative behaviour continues it can to resentment and sexual frustration. A man may feel rejected than being taught a lesson to wake up to function better. It is necessary to understand that it may not come naturally as it is for some to do housework so both need to discuss and help support each other. If help available they can ask and get help from friends and family if okay to do so. If financially able then get a housekeeper or nanny to ease the pressure with clear boundaries. The men in a relationship owe duty of care to the changing needs of women’s body and supporting women to become the spouse and partner they desire. The couple must adjust to changes of being parents and still make time for love, sex and silence after children asleep quiet time to meet each other’s needs too. So not become lost in the process of their parenthoid roles. Women body changes are the men’s business to support them.49b975cc5c82f4b96aa19291bd57a383.jpgMenstruation natural cycle interfering in sex is disliked for intruding in intimacy. Menopause hot and cold flashes causes disputes between men and women about room temperatures or windows opened or shut. So women’s genuine concerns dismissed as going ‘Mental’ or mentally unsound paranoia not taken seriously for help and support. This affects peace of mind causing mental breakdown, stress, and peri-natal / depression. All women’s problems begin with men not empathic lacking understanding of real needs the women deal with. Nobody is perfect so must learn more to tolerate compromise as team. If a person’s favourite colour is red but you cannot stand red, controlling behaviour does not permit you to insist they get rid of all red and change to your favourite colour blue they cannot stand either. The fact that the two becomes one flesh does not mean take over their lives to run it for them in own way. Each person is completely a whole person so deserves to be treated with great respect. Possessiveness is sign of insecurity and low self esteem so a relationship is for all member’s well-being including the man, woman, children and whole family. There is no relationship that cuts itself off from good source of help by isolating themselves exclusively then wonder why they are not happy. No man is an island so learn to give and take, be thankful to God for people in your life. Treat them politely with respect, dignity, honour sees love flowing back to you.




Upbuilding men in education will be key to teaching youngsters who have not yet joined social media platforms politeness and respect for women. The controlling behaviour of some now officially made an offence against women has roots in the macho image appeal that projects as strong or more important through such aggressive patterns of behaviour. Its root cause lies much deeper inadvertently not only in actions just tip of iceberg. Some men think being powerful means must pick on weaker gender and the children. Some women are aggressive too saying hurtful things to the spouse, partners, friends online, causing distress. Solution is to give the next generation essential self -confidence self -value training not to project life onto others as extension of self in culde sac relationship thinking. It will help bring awareness of unrealistic demands on women as adults. Men need to better understand women’s emotions, feelings, needs and moods. Men through training will understand, adapt to unique specific needs pertaining exclusively to women men may not know but essential. Hot debates group discussion takes place on helping people value women and each other better. Upholding a sound ground rules between men and women in early years reveals clear that differences exist, so clearly defined, taught regularly to be dealt with to get along better. A lifestyle led by the men exclusively in boardroom misses out on the other side of the coin.7408zoom.jpgA look at deeper lever level starts from the womb with the conception of male and females in first 3months showing an identical features in an early stage. Then during the beginning of the second term of pregnancy, babies clear features are recognised as a boy or girl. The XX or XY Chromosones cells hormones shape both babies to grow specifically as girl or boy accordingly. Some mothers can tell a gender of a baby before ultrascan due to baby movements and other sensations felt by mothers including the heart rate, pulse and size of stomach shapes. Others use taste for some foods and heightened sense of smell, swelling of feet, activity of baby kicks as clues, common features, by expectant mothers to know gender of a baby. Mature wiser mothers nurturing expectant mother due to own experience can tell indepth gender beyond natural look. So hospital scans confirm a gender for people prepare shopping for colour of clothes, prams, beds, cots, toys suitable. Right away, blue colour mostly used for boys pink for girls in Western countries. Early baby psychological conditioning of boys in tune with nature requirements.blessings-images-quotes-sayings-pictures_701.jpgSimilarly family shops for pink items identified for girls programmed to be more girly. This trend continues into schools as boys clearly identify with boys in the playground more and adult males featured around them. The girls grow encouraged by society to be feminine. Puberty changes continue in boy’s voice changes as they learn about genital part experiences. The girls grow breasts and learn about private areas of body and the menstrual periods. Both encouraged to be more masculine or feminiline in line with fashion, culture appropriate roles. Schools teach lessons on reproductive organs and process, changes in moods  swings due to hormones. These trends become ingrained in memory and also entrenched pattern of behaviour of role of boys and girls turning into men and women in adult lives. As these process continues, skills and training designed for each gender is reinforced. During employment trend continues in men’s skills, domestic type of work for women. Eventually progress was being made by encouraging both genders to choose any careers without gender labelling jobs. Is seen as a good sign of integration of men and women. Despite efforts to help both genders coexist, still certain differences exist unaware in childhood conditioning.63f75a613ee93ca52fcfcfb5919189b8.jpgYoung women often expect men to talk to them as if they are girlfriends. They want open deep free conversations so to share their deep feelings to support each other. The men prefer quiet moments to watch football, play games or they read newspapers. The men expect the women to join in without interruptions to talk or tell them about their day. Both have very different outlook on relaxing woman if desperate to offload her mind to their man. If the man not interested sees the woman moaning, nagging, complaining distracting from focussing on his games on computer. So not fully understand a deeper emotional needs of woman. As nurturers, women have the capacity to look, glance, read decode people. There is a deeper insight of merely observing people yet knowing instantly naturally more than meets the eyes automatically. For example, some lack deeper indepth voice recognition in conversation to pick changes in tone, voice, body language, or silent love messages, scent, colour, size, shape, height, favourite food, or minute details usually noted by the women.god-helps-those-dpIt is amazing specific things women pick as clues making decision subconsciously. Others do little things such as fidgeting, nervous smile, frown, inability to focus on what does not interest them present themselves in uncertain way. All these actions mean some women expect a man to pay more attention in more detail to recognise and read their minds. Natural female tendencies are more sensitive so important and meaningful to women for men to consider these issues. Women assume that men already know these things by now because an adult. On the other hand, the man expects the woman to be more in tune with intimacy desire requirements and to respond instantly. Men tend to be outwardly referenced by looks and those appealing as attractive for sex. The two means of using physical looks and sex means lack of deeper level of personal knowledge and development before commitment. Interaction limited to the physical need of sex overshadows bonding. This means a woman wants to marry a man like her best girl friend to talk, shop or do things together. One is to love God first and whole family so one develops confidence to grow and mature.give-birth-to-the-vision-joaynn.pngMen tend to zoom in faster for a physical side of romance passion but cool down to zero emotion after sexual intercourse.  A woman wants to be loved, be embraced, held often, hugged, kissed comfortably, appreciated, verbally and told beautiful. A man may drop of to sleep soundly yet woman may feel dissapointed lying in bed looking at ceiling. Or on the phone to text best friends or research shopping items to buy. It may come as a complete surprise to some but knowing this will make relationships better in the world. In terms respecting each other to realise how both function will change things to become improved. Conscious training to prepare both to treat others according to their gender difference needs helps to communicate better. So understanding improves communication to help avoid frustration felt by both unable to express themselves. These natural tendencies of traditional generational gender roles are define how men behave towards women and vice versa. On a personal level both want to feel loved, heard, highly valued and appreciated. Yet each seems unable to really get across their true feelings or emotions. Conditioning boys to be boys to play with boy’s toys, girls encouraged to play with dolls seem as necessary so acceptable norm. To sustain community roles and functions of each gender these are separate human relations generally.IMG_20160519_212107Focus, too much emphasis on each other as separate entities mean they are not prepared to deal with other’s needs. So to correct misconceptions to support a gender properly both need to know how men and women operate in life. It is said men are from Mars and women are from Venus metaphorically speaking. There is a symbolic element of truth to an extent because physical earth exists inbetween Mars and Venus. This implies there is a direct block in communication between both so needs extra effort to overcome the block in communication. There is a need for the effort to consciously get to know women better to respect them. All human beings are born by women and so play vital role as God’s co-creators. So necessary to train young boys and girls to develop a good attitude towards each other early. Most often form an opinion about each other by TV drama scenes or playground break times. It is essential to educate both early about proper respect for each other. From 5 years old children can understand sharing toys, asking for things, have due regard for one another to include friends in conversations.God's opinion.jpgIt is important to teach good manners to take turns to express real true feelings emotionally feel heard not ignore quiet ones. Adults, teachers and significant others must not awaren their comments and jokes influence children for life. An awareness of emotion and love feelings understood by young children some may not be able to verbalise deep feelings of affection to others so use kiss, pull a girl’s hair, hug, put arms around a girl. Some think real adult intimacy ‘fighting’ in bed copy similar action ‘innocently’ as seen in cartoons, films or in real life. People think cartoons seem as innocent fun but scenes in cartoon sometimes unsuitable inappropriate. In addition, children watch role models or team of experts so want to be like them. Pressure to be like due to their low self-esteem neediness, thinking it is only the others responsible for their happiness without equal input can make them feel happier in life. Pressure other made responsible for his total happiness not reciprocated. Begin to look for partner to meet needs rather than help meet each other’s need through interdependence. Such ideas are formed so tend to make teenagers look for love in wrong places instead of God.Connect-1140x460.pngThe pressure on youth to grow up and be independent means many do not stay at home long enough to mature to learn family. Without the practical experience or involvement helping to understand relationships better, learn from women they become involved and make it as they go along learning the hard way. Though seem to profess love for each other, yet cannot relate. Jesus stayed hom 33 years with a foundation to upbuild values. Relating to others must start from 5 years using play activities at the children’s level to teach love. Good seeds planted early starts to bear good fruit if boys LEARN EARLY TO RESPECT GIRLS AND WOMEN AND VICE VERSA. The world will be a better place if both males and females are deliberately trained to recognise and understand differences early. Young children watch adults relate with to form copy ideas of love seen. Others see romantic cartoons displaying perceived affection concept of love expressed in films. Make life-long impression on them. They often watched loved up couples, imitate them without chaperon support. Many misunderstand reality of demand, pressure relationship thinking without others have no life so impose their happiness upon partner.64fc26f76d1ea307a705e660a51d5e8cIt is impossible to demand others fulfill all unmet needs from an early childhood. Each person must seek professional help first to overcome issues that can damage the relationship. General misconception is great lovers will fix all life’s problems for them. Ability to understand both is a work in progress to relate better. There is need to treat women with due regard greater respect lacking in some because of macho views of men about women. So women need to be trained to talk to men in specific terms straight to the point to tell them needs not take it for granted he should remember. Men wired providers traditionally so externally referenced go out to work. Women attach more deeply to children as extension of themselves due to body contact in pregnancy better equipped emotionally bonded to care for children. Feminism however demands equal right so men compelled to take on nurturing role not originally. Lack of any unfavourable atmosphere not conducive to love or sex. Underlying tension does not auger well. A meaningful successful outcome depends on good indicators of circumstances and events. So falling in love alone is not enough to resolve life-long issues of marriage or sex. This is why relationships dismissive of these matters cannot thrive. This is the reason why men and women deserve the proper understanding from an early age.tumblr_nhhyem3xn51r9bipco1_500.jpgRelationship compromises both parties involving extended family. The isolation causes pressure from anything affecting each other. Real expectation is originally to be part of bigger family for support for the couple’s own good. Men cannot be possessive to exclude a woman’s friends and family who embraced him in family to take over to isolate her. A happy wife is a happy life so mansions, cars, gifts, holidays not enough because a personal hands on one-to- one relationship is what women want. Though not too close for comfort  as each have me times, man caves, girl’s night out, continues family. Forsaking all others to take to hold vow disconnects all previous potential rival contender hand in marriage. A marriage licence is not guarantee to abuse spouse to cut off and isolate woman because the new sole owner monopoly management. Extra support helps women flourish and be happy. How can the emphasis on only academic education lasting a few years take precedence over matters pertaining to life beyond infinity be left to chance. The sixties education trained people to play real roles as part of a team. Modern society tends to draw people away from God Who said it is not good to be alone so created Eve for Adam. Studying God’s Principles of marriage, helps work God plan for marriage for mankind.God-the-reason-to-never-quitLove and sex seem not the only reason to marry or to relate but does involve much deeper needs not taught in the textbook. Economic issues mortgage and children, work schedules, baby sitting, affect love, sex among others. These fundamental matters need to be properly addressed to educatepeople involved to know what they are letting themselves into before they embark on such journey of life. The two major complaints in relationships is the lack of understanding of each other’s perspective to help transition to mature love levels if not damages a relationship beyond repair. The men cannot assume in a relationship is just sex only to make them happy without applying the golden rule ensuring woman’s emotional health and well being. Some men mistake their provision of material needs for family as equalling love and affection. So wonder why spouse not content and happy seem being away on business reinforces their relationship better. In reality partner not addressing needs sooner festers causing resentment damaging relationship. Men must be trained before dating sets in to be aware and more sensitive to women. It is important to teach responsibility in a relationship on how best to respond to mood swing and emotional outbursts. A relationship has unpredictable episodes so had to be prepared for in advance. So some women complain their men never there for them.” The other complaint is there is not enough intimacy connection felt deeply by those women. The women feel alone even in relationship in many ways so find it hard to relate and to trust the men to be there for them when they need them most. Emotionally available, listening, deep heart connection to help safeguard their hearts in God in Christ. 6e5426e42cdd5d426a39d245fc668379Men complaint that women nag, talk too much and have too many arguments. So fight about not having enough sex and so feel not loved. Such men feel lonely in a relationship yet actually want intimacy as much as women. They feel intimacy is better if there is less fighting enjoy more sex. Enabled deeper connection enhance affection, increases respect so both do not feel alone anymore. Such a genuine emotional connection, in turn leads to trust, giving women complete feeling of being loved, needed and appreciated. If a partner feels sad, angry, needs affection taking time to show love and empathy than neglect deepens relationship. No one can fix another person unless they want to. A woman’s emotions often have hormonal, periodic, menopausal, other factors so not to be taken lightly. Not to treat women as having tantrum try to fix sabotage, minimize, scoff, ridicule, mock ignore altogether. Such deep connection includes family, relatives in appropriate way. The imagined fantasy expectations created in the mind of relationship differ from practical actual real life interaction experience. Focus to deal with issues at hand grasss problems if determined the relationship works instead of a greener grass syndrome as more interesting. So the relatively simple fundamental skill of deeper connection in the relationship with women changes love profoundly. It helps at work, in parenting frienship and in all relationships. The men who learn emotional deep connection ultimately gain better in their relationships with more love and more amazing sex. Men often have more intimacy libidos than  women so want some more like Oliver Twist in the bedroom. Regular sex means love intimacy to feel loved. Sometimes a cuddle, kiss, hug, holding hands are all some women want to relationship fresh not over indulge to ruin sacredness of sex. To avoid becoming worked up so not feeling rejected, not bothered frustrated this conversation must take place before childbirth and breast-feeding demands on couples changes a relationship. This is simply what women REALLY want if time is taken to treat relationship with passion and respects. Love and passion treated with love and dignity lasts long. It keeps the bed warm at night because two are better than one if they agree to walk together in life in marriage. So God Almighty Conducted the First marriage and said it not good to be alone so the well-being of relationship needs God.