0432fb5fe9e55ef968f9e0163760552a.400x268x1.jpg JESUS WILL VISIBLY RETURN IN PERSON AS FLESH AND BLOOD to earth as Bible says All Eyes will SEE Jesus. An invisible person is not SEEN Jesus comes from heaven in John 14:2-3 to earth. When His disciples watched Him ascend into the clouds; two angels stood by them and said, “Men of Galilee why do you stand here looking into the sky? This same Jesus, who isntaken from you into heaven, will come back in the same way you have seen him go into heaven in Acts 1:11. This same Jesus will come back in person in flesh to earth in same way He was SEEN going into heaven.15672488778164789516421857147924.jpgThose who don’t believe Jesus will Come again in the Flesh are antiChrists. Those deceived who do not acknowledge Jesus Christ’s Coming in the flesh are opposers of the Lord Jesus. Bible says in 1 John 4: 3 anyone against Jesus is not from God. Test every spirit because those who do not confess Jesus Christ came in Flesh  are not of God spirit of antiChrist. So beloved do not believe every spirit, test the spirits whether its from God. Many false prophets in the world antichrists who refuse to believe Christ RETURNS VISIBLY in the FLESH fight God Himself. The Plan of God will not change or stop by twisted misinterpretion of those who continue to lie to cover up error of false predictions. Some say Jesus has already appeared in spirit in 1914 is not true.Rapture.jpgJesus will COME in the RAPTURE SEEN IN PERSON SEEN BY ALL IN CLOUDS in the air to heaven. Believe Jesus and God exist and will return Flesh and Blood to Israel VISIBLY. All Eyes will SEE Jesus on return to earth in Second Coming on the white horse. Jesus Says when SEE Him  the Son of God you SEE Father God. Ask God’s Forgiveness to restore your life in Jesus  Name. In Ezekiel 33:3 /3:33 people told to warn others about God and Jesus wrath against those who reject God. The Bible shows Jesus is the same yesterday,  today and forever so He has not turned into Archangel Michael. Jesus will Come back to live on earth. Informe all about Jesus Testimony because Jesus comes to Mount Zion with the 144000 in Israel to reign forever. Jesus didnt dematerialise into invisible form but REALLY VISIBLE SO WILL BE SEEN BY ALL ON RETURN.  God APPEARS HUMAN FLESH 44 TIMES IN BIBLE SEEN; ATE WITH PEOPLE SO GOD WILL COME IN FLESH LIKE JESUS HIS PERFECT IMAGE OF GOD. All people are created in God’s Physical Image as a Father God known to HIS Children.ahnsahnghong-in-the-flesh.pngWhen Jesus ascended first into heaven to present Himself to God after resurection in Glorified body in John 20: 17, Jesus told Mary, ‘Do not touch me, for I have not yet ascended to my Father; I must ASCEND to My Father and your Father and My God and your God. Jesus returned to earth on same day in John 20:19 so went through wall as the doors locked in Upper Room and visits disciples in GLORIFIED FLESH. Despite Glorified body Jesus was back on earth as Flesh and Blood before His final ascension in 40 days. Yet some continue fabricated lies using any selected verses to try to diminish, belittle, reduce Jesus Christ Highly Exalted HONOURED Son of God in Philippians 2:9. God Bestowed on Jesus Name Above all names at the Name of Jesus every knee shall bow and tongue confess Jesus is Lord to Glory of Father. Jesus Exclusively Earned His Sacrifice of redemption for mankind. No other name given among men under heaven can by mankind be saved, only Jesus Saves.the-second-coming-of-jesus-christ-when-why-and-how.jpgTHE LORD HIMSELF WILL DESCEND FROM HEAVEN WITH A SHOUT LOUD VOICE OF ARCHANGEL AND TRUMPET OF GOD. JESUS APPEARS BOLDLY AND PUBLICLY SO ALL EYES WILL SEE JESUS in RAPTURE and SECOND COMING. The replacement theology lies God replaced His people not true. As God’s favourites by special covenant in Christ, Jews and Gentiles rule earth as kings and queens. Nobody replaced Christ or Israel chosen by God to receive Gospel First due to the GREAT Sacrifice of Jesus as Jew, so Jews First and then all NATIONS according to God’s Agenda. Jesus is ONLY CHOSEN as GOD’S SON by SPECIAL COVENANT and as Jesus came in the flesh will return in flesh to rule in God’s Kingdom on earth. God’s specially chosen ones sealed Jews 144,000 in GREAT TRIBULATION with Jesus after rapture reign on Mount Zion. Thess 144,000 Jews in Revelation 7:9 are from the 12 tribes of Israel (Jacob). AND WITH JESUS in Jerusalem Israel. Jesus is going to be SEEN IN CLOUDS BY PEOPLE ON EARTH DURING RAPTURE. Believers IN CHRIST ALIVE WITH THE BELIEVERS RAISED FROM DEATH WITH JESUS GO TO LIVE IN THE MANSIONS PREPARED BY JESUS IN HEAVEN for seven years.tumblr_llig8qMvAV1qizvnso1_500.gifJews keeping accurate record of living history so know their family tree. Those who do not know God REMEMBERS HIS people TO CHOOSE 144,000 HE SEALS in GREAT TRIBULATION. Those not sealed by HOLY SPIRIT of God and hate Christ setting themselves up to be slaughtered. In GREAT TRIBULATION antiChrist is in charge of global trade so no buying or selling takes place unless they take the mark mark of the beast. Repent and be rescued in Rapture or sealed left behind to face consequences. Absolutely so true God’s Mercy Compassion extends LOVE so will not annihilate earth due to evils of sins. God lets stubborn horror thrill seekers remain ‘entertained’ by wicked violent destruction. The left behind on earth in unbelief mock God’s Rapture as devil’s levitation. The Rapture Rescue in Christ is God’s Grace in Answer to pray to SHORTEN evil days. God grants relief and respite from evil to all those fed up with destruction of mankind by others. We prefer the joyful peaceful PRESENCE of God through RAPTURE in the interim.the-rapture1.pngBelievers in Christ seen taken up in the great tribulation motivates to believe in shaken to the core by simultaneous evil happenings, awaken in their sense then receive Christ. Shocked intensity of type of evil violence unseen before on earth finally challenge some to understand the true exteng of wrath of God. Those who believe rapture into heaven publicly seen by the whole world. Believers in Christ stay in heaven for 7 years impacted by trust, confidence in God for all accepting Jesus Christ. Countless multitudes from various nations tribes, languages accept Jesus through the evangelism of 144000 Jews working with Moses and Elijah back in Flesh from heaven on earth to save people. In Revelation 7:9 says, After this vast crowd too great to count people from every nation, tribes, languages, standing before the Throne and before Lamb Jesus in Heaven. Serve God day and night 24/7 compared in chronological earth time to highlight understanding God’s Temple in HEAVENLY Dwellings praising God and Jesus for salvation and victory.1-thessalonians-4-5-rapture-7-638 Jesus physically returns with God and all saints from heaven back to the earth in Second Coming to Rule for 1000 years in PERFECT PEACE. Wicked rebellious people wiped out by rejecting Christ as the Son of God, Only Chosen Way. After 7 years Jesus will RETURN to the earth PERMANENTLY to New Jerusalem. Live among people on earth in their midst as satan is bound in an Abyss. More people living during 1000 years accept Christ as Saviour. At the end of 1000 years satan let loose briefly then a final judgement and punishment. God’s Mercy extends to persistent rejectors of God before the final total annihilation hell fire for all non – repentant rebellious ones. Those who refuse to change to accept Jesus as KING of Kings LORD of Lords when He Returns to rule 1000 years on earth will perish said God. Absolutely nothing else can save mankind except Saviour Jesus Christ. The Titles, Status, Ranks, wealth, riches, material possessions are totally useless so cannot save. Bowing knees to acknowledge Christ LORD’s Testimony of God better get act together before it is too late to say sorry to God to be saved. 


Single people get married in experiment as apprehensive of love and marriage so given choice to try before you buy in test run before deciding if this is for them or not. Experiments strongly independent couple moving into relationship to hep over come phobia of giving up their love of their independence. So agree to live together for one week in this experiment filming every moment to figure out what they both want. They discover necessary the changes involved in setting up home together so making room and space for each other. It is interesting to find out how both learn to adjust to each other’s personality and differences. They visit friends to observe their married lifestyle to help them plan how to focus, include, interact to involve each more their new relationship. After visit the young man picks few tips on making couple photo in house to grace it to feel more like home. The man impressed by other’s marriage prepares a meal to surprise his wife too. The lesson here applies idea of marriage to find out potential problems to address them to solve problems. Choice is given to remain open to commitment to take it further in actual marriage if both agree. Sexual intimacy part is withheld to help focus more on bonding, learning to gel together to form a marriage relationship to meet each other’s needs better. This process can be a possible set up to help some people try before you buy to ensure they really want to join together for life. In other cases marriage is much deeper so week is hardly enough to get to know person enough to marry. Marriage is like taking up 30 year mortgage so the house and location must be right. So to keep up in order to achieve a very high standard required they felt best thing to do is to compromise. Both begun to take more notice of the other’s needs to care for the other. They had to learn to adapt to their friends to be more likable and to have special couple time acceptable to friends and family. It is similar in some ways to an experiment to choose couples based on personal profile, interests and hobbies among others. The experiment found couples who agreed to marry but it did not last long. It was not successful as an unnatural unrealistic setting live on TV. Though experiment was organised by team of talented experts, professionals and a free furnished home to live in. It did not last long as family plays major part in marriage relationship eventually.

An attempt to train young people on real life experiment to help learn to manage family life and work simultaneously. So a real home life including raising family and babies was arranged for potential young people who plan to have children to fulfil their lives to be happy. The real life crying babies given to some with the real parents nearby with expert support to guide the young people. This brought reality shock of family life to them with one refusing to corporate to do anything realising it was too much. So discovered it was nothing like a walk in the park as imagined in their fantasy utopia in their head. These experiments do bring reality check to awaken naive children thinking of finding love from a baby to feel loved. As they finally realised the sacrifice and the hardwork involved in raising family and children combined with work found out it was not a picknic in the park. It was not as much fun as they thought so in the end made up their minds to hold on to their youth further to enjoy their lives, go to college, train in a skill career before setting up home. Some had to call upon their parents to come over to help them run their home. It turned out that raising a family is not as easy as they had imagined prior to the experiment. These experiments attempt to replace a natural traditional family choosing or arranging marriage by mutual agreement. To some extent, anticipation of new relationship seems exciting adventure in beginning however, pretty soon dust settles down mundane work sets in to run home. It is shock of their lack of awareness of  the responsibility involved causes them to rethink their fantasies. In any case the world allows people freedom of choice to do what is best for them in personal life regardless of the outcome. This is a new way in addition to online dating or other methods that works best for people. So opportunity is given for some to fulfil the desire of their heart and enjoy their choice and decision. 



family-scripture-study_1300345_inlJoshua watched his parent’s reading the Bible to the family sharing stories about the Goodness of God. His parents told the family living history of God and Jesus with pictures and paintings illustrating the stories. He watched family routines daily whem his parents woke up in the morning till night time when he went to his room to sleep. His parents seemed so precise almost exactly on time each day like clockwork. They knelt by their beds each morning together as he walked in to say good morning. He sometimes also knelt by parents sides to join them pray. It was their dedication and love that was the best example he saw and wanted too.married_couple_praying-3Joshua noticed his parents thanked God for everything in their lives, for family, grand parents, friends, work, their home grateful for blessings asking God in Jesus for strength to overcome challenges plus endless list of other numerous matters. Sometimes he dosed off beside parents while at prayer. His little sister Charlene prayed with her dolls too beside her bed too in her room. She seemed to catch the prayer bug as he heard her prayers when he passed by her bedroom into his own bedroom. At times he heard her clearly praying with an innocent voice thanking God for family, favourite foods, siblings and her dolls. It is interesting for Joshua to watch his little sister seem to take to prayer like a duck to water effortlessly. So Joshua wanted some of what she has inside her to be as keen to love God and be full of joy and love. Each morning and night Joshua overheard sister’s prayers. Sometimes praying for him to be closer to God to enjoy a special friendship with Jesus the Special friend of all children.200322906-001Joshua heard Charlene talk to Jesus and God freely kneeling beside her bed like they were in her room with her. He was impressed with her trust and confidence in God and her Joy. At times his parents went with Joshua to pray in his room too with him and with Caleb in his room also Joshua began to pray by his bedside like the family telling God starting about his day, asking God for forgiveness, praying for his friends everyday and also at night time.  He begun to understand what he was missing by not praying as much as his family members did. He found deep peace and calmness inside him so not as angry and frustrated as he used to feel. He felt Presence of God around him so did not feel shy anymore about praying.fall on your knees.jpgJoshua’s new found faith, trust in God to call on God always was highly significant knowledge impressed his parents. They raised him by good example. So did not pressurise him into following their belief but trusted he will discover God in his own time. His parents talked about God and worked on communicating clearly and frequently to ensure family tensions are resolved quickly. The family operates with utmost respect and best intentions as first port of call of duty of care to any emotionally triggered responses. Joshua begun to read the Bible online, on phone played healthy video games inspiring his faith. He was amazed by the wonderful Christian Biblical teachings confirming all his parents taught him at home. He was surprised to learn about good news promoted and shared among peers so realised the world was not just full of evil negative news. He was happy to discover God in other families and children who knowingly love God so want to do the tight thing by Pleasing God everyday.ne13may27-ALL-hearing-with-the-heart-N1305_Romney_Heart_2527_prayingFamilyJoshua was impressed by other families who lived like his own family praying so assured he doing the right thing, humble to believe in God. He was happy to know he had a Special Friend Jesus who Loved children and prayed for them too from heaven. He understood his parents did not have all the answers to problems of life but relied on God to be with them. As his confidence in God grew his strength in God increased because he realised the Bible has answers to all problems in life as his parents told him daily. He felt the joy seen in his parents especially in his little sister Charlene. Knew in his heart he was on the right track to focus on God as much as he enjoyed playing sport and playing football with friends. He learnt Bible living history creation of how God created all different people from same race in Adam and Eve praying to God too.Ghana-family-praying.jpgSo Joshua sees for himself that children from all over the world pray too and love God as much he does. He feels he truly belongs to a BIGGER Family of God’s Kingdom in Christ. He understand this life is not perfect yet as God Wants it to be caused by the world to go through the unecessary problems of life. He reads on matters affecting him and the world and asks for further clarification from parent if his unsure about anything he read. His parents are happy and willing to answer his questions pointing to specific Bible texts to prove these are God’s words to live by. Joshua continues to grow and to learn more about the world surrounding  him. He prays for all his friends and all still searching for answers in the wrong places encouraged by sceptism in God. He is believing God to continue helping him believe throughout his life into the future eternity into infinity. So learning to love all people as the children of God.praying-couple1-425x280.jpgThose not understanding about Love of God he prays for and applies God’s word to difficult asking what would Jesus do. He learns to torelate others knowing all have the same equal rights as himself to live on earth to enjoy family life as much as he does. He prays for others to learn more about God to remember God in the days of their youth as God Commands. He is learning to partake of good positive things to build up to respect others. He found out people may be less fortunate than himself but not reason to despise, mock or ridicule them. He looks out for children isolated without friends in the playground and encourages them. His mother sometimes gives extra food and fruits to share with children in need. MOM.jpgHe is understanding about Bible word and the world as a whole discovering God is changing things around to bring total peace on earth through Christ. He has good days and bad days, learning to lean more on God genuinely to help peers. He is building a good relationship with his parents to gain Godly Wisdom. He does his best to listen to his parents as God has Commanded to Obey parents so it will be well with him to live long. He is not perfect but does his best to please God to do the best he can. He sees other people enjoying precious times in parks playing music worshipping God. Realises God is praised and worshipped all over in the world in different places according to each culture. Joshua is trained to be nice to other people even if some people are different in lifestyle, tastes, demeanour.Karen-Ard-Photography-Beverly-Hills-Estate-engagement-session-Fab-You-Bliss-001.jpgAbove all, he learnt to Trust Jesus to be with him always surroubded by Heavenly hosts of God Sent to be with him always. He calls on God to be with him in tough times. He thanks God for all blessings he receives because of God’s Favour. There is so much to learn from the wonders of God and the universe. These information is so precious to Joshua he looks up with great confidence to coming of God day or night. This is the hope Joshua has always looking forward everyday to the joy of the LORD God as his source of strength. This confidence in believer holds onto to God to keep on keeping in God in Christ. Boy-Looking-at-Stars-MED.jpgThese days Joshua watches out with joy and hope to the beautiful universe and the wonders of God’s Creation. After he sees the stars, glorious planets, wonders of night sky he kneels down and to pray to God again before settling into a sound sleep. He dreams often about the visions and dreams God stated in Joel in the last days as part of end – time prophecy that both children young and the old will see visons and dream dreams. God talks to children as much as HE Talks to adults so deals with all people. He writes down his visions and dreams his parents are amazed about wonderful messages God Reveals to Joshua. If people responds to God RESPONDS so draws near to them. GOD DRAWS NEAR  AND REVEALS HIS SECRETS TO THEM. God loves people to love HIM to discover God as Joshua did. 25a521f4c0ba0444d1f96f0d867b5a74.jpgJoshua gets into bed each night assured of Jesus Present in Spirit with him in his room. He listens to his favourite Gospel music songs to calm Himself down after looking at the wonders of God in the sky. The other children all over the world also know that Jesus loves all the children of the world. Whether they are red children yellow children black and white children Jesus owns all these children no matter where they live on earth. Jesus cares for them all so intercedes for God’s answers to their prayers. Their angels in heaven watch over them too and are sent to help them when in need, sad, lonely, needs a special friend. Joshua Loves Jesus and so warns those hurting them it would be better if a millstone hung around their neck and drowned in the sea than attack HIS BELOVED CHILDREN on earth. God is preparing HIS KINGDOM for children because God says encourage children for theirs is the Kingdom of God. Jesus Says adults must humble themselves like the children to be worthy to please God.  



walking_on_water1.jpgJesus loves all people on earth so visits Ashoka family in Spirit by interceding in heaven for them. God hears Jesus prayer so answers by sending angels to deliver them from all their destructions. In turn the family becomes transformed leading a Godly lifestyle. They pray over all their children asking God blessing on them. preciouslovebymallett.jpgThe Ashoke family love their children so pray set good example in love of God. So the oldest son Funke pretty soon notices the joy, changes and the transformation in parents. Funke goes on his own quest trying to find the answers to “Who am I” in the Bible. He finds answers in books that explain topics at child level. Often reading more details from the Bible.tumblr_static_7tdyveax01s044wksw4oo04c4He spends most of his free time reading after studying and doing his homework. He began to enjoy Bible messages, read stories written about young people in the Bible. He was fascinated, impressed God is available 24/7 to call. In Jeremiah 33:3, God Says ‘Call to me, I will answer you and tell you the great unsearchable things you do not know.’ He shares the good news with his brothers and sisters about God’s Love and Goodness to all. 6667ab77af3c71949d5a96af15be86cf.jpgConsequently, as their family prayed more, they saw miracles, changes in their own personal lives too. They also refused to be part of things displeasing to God. Brother Tunde and sister Lola join in prayers and Bible studies. It is Bible stories and memories that helps focus on God and Jesus as they grow up. To feel useful they volunteer time in the youth team to help in their church. bcba4bd5f9aa77c4520d21f08f499814.jpgFamily changes seen by others in their community helps others want to know the secret of good success. They always answer, its the LORD God’s Doing by HIS Grace they are Strengthened in faith in Christ. They believe with God all things possible so trust in God to make perfect all things concerning their family life in Jesus Name. With God all things are so possible including faith to walk on the water of life like Jesus. God is author and finisher of faith trust God to keep you to endure to end till Jesus Returns.   


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Men say they want food, sex and silence so surely that cannot be too much to ask of women? If so why a simple request it seems, impossible, complicated, causing arguments and fights? Is it unrealistic to focus on the 3 things when relationships demand more than just love or sex and silence? Do what men want agree with what the women want? And are these congruent with what family needs as a whole? Women do need more than love, sex and silence so this causes conflict in relationships. What love means to each is completely different to expectation so cannot assume love, sex, silence only is all that creates relationship. So women need men to be sensitive in handling a practical love with deeper affection due to mood changes caused by the cycle or hormones. Mutual love understanding needs men’s support for women’s wants too. Both want needs met completely in different ways issues that include their family stability, intimacy, and security. So women give up more for marriage in terms of health, wealth or happiness. As a result need specific love in the natural hormonal mood swing. It affects a love relationship, sex, silence desired by the women too. Need more support to help with children, comfort and an exclusive time for quality time. So three demands of love, sex, silence make a relationship work for a short season. Both must give and take by expressing feelings so is not just meeting men’s needs too. Woman in need of caring love for both to be happy. Originally men not made to be alone by side of women 24/7 but part of a bigger family group and a support mechanism essential for survival of the community. Men and women today isolated as part of problem of unrealistic demands on a young couple. Silence in relationship is unrealistic for a successful coupling.162452,xcitefun-man-time-5.jpgA relationship is not exclusive attention for only men’s needs but about essential needs of women too. And more issues of discussing finances, bills, housework, or duty of care to children, parents as they grow, cooking, work shifts. Originally as God intended women were a full – time carer, men supposed to work outside in a family business. The changes through life education brought new roles mixed up in modern times. So traditional men continue in a masculine role job, others find themselves called on to do the non -masculine domestic work. Swapping the roles sometimes means the woman is a bread winner. It requires men grow up up and help to multi-task equally when house work needs to be done. A woman naturally brought up to talk to express feelings and emotions. Helping to do the housework is sexy to some women for feel valued and appreciated. A pressure is on man to live up to modern women’s standard causes problems. The man can help cook, clean, baby sit, do laundry so both can have quality time. Women are still not appreciated but some men are better running, managing home. Choose what is best for couple to fanthom how women maintai home efficiently as they expect. Take on some responsibility of a domestic side to help woman ease their burden. The women in turn contributes upkeep financially working too. Better both parties sit down to decide what is best for their home. Review role time to time adapt changing to dynamic of life. 15652569466357529003341902984011.jpgDo not to compare spouse or partner to parents or siblings as better than them. Judge Judy says, ” If you choose a person knowing their strengths and a weakness accept them warts and all. A happy wife is a happy life and makes a deeper love connection for more sex. Stop innatural demand on men to perform traditional roles if not doing it well. Do not nag or complain if everything done by man not up to your standard. Value, show loving gratitude and appreciation to the man not always finding faults and attacking men with verbal insults, physical fights. Do not withdraw affection and intimacy using that negative behaviour continues to cause resentment and men’s sexual frustration. Men feel rejected not taught a lesson to wake up to function better. It is necessary to understand its unnatural to do housework. Both need to discuss it and get help to support each other. Help available so ask to get help from friends and family if okay to do so. If financially able get a housekeeper or nanny to ease pressure with clear boundaries. Men in relationship owe duty of care to women and a changing needs of women’s body. To support women to be the spouse and partner desired. The couple must adjust to changes as parents yet make time for love, sex and silence. Children sleeping is quiet time to meet each other’s needs too. Not lost in a process of parenthood roles. Women body changes are men’s business to support them in love daily.49b975cc5c82f4b96aa19291bd57a383.jpgMenstruation natural cycle interferes in sex is disliked for intruding in intimacy. Menopause hot and cold flashes causes disputes between men and the women about room temperatures or windows opened or shut. The women’s genuine concerns dismissed as going ‘Mental’ or mentally unsound paranoia not taken seriously for help and support. It affects peace of mind cause mental breakdown, stress, and peri-natal / depression. All a woman’s problems begin with men not understanding of real needs the women deal with. Nobody is perfect so learn to be more to tolerant and compromise as team. If person’s favourite colour is red but hate red cannot control a behaviour to permit you to insist they get rid of all red and change to your favourite colour blue they cannot stand either. The fact is two becoming one flesh is not taking over their lives to run it your own way. Each person is completely whole person and deserves treated with great respect. Possessiveness is sign of insecurity, low selfesteem in relationship for member’s well-being as men, woman, child and whole family. No relationship cuts itself off from good source of help by isolating exclusively wondering why they are not happy. No man is an island learn to give and take, be thankful to God for people in your life. Treat politely with respect, dignity, honour, love flows back to you.



63f75a613ee93ca52fcfcfb5919189b8.jpgFeel sorry for being a man? Upbuilding boys in education is key to help growing up to them equip to face challenges in life. Teach boys to be men as youngsters to understand social interaction. Before they join social media platforms train in good manners, politeness and respect for self and women. To stop controlling behaviour offence against women roots of macho image projected as a strong or entitled aggressive pattern behaviour. Root cause is deeper  by the actions men thinking powerful means picking on the weaker gender and children. If women are aggressive saying hurtful things to spouse, partners, friends online, causing distress. Solutions for next generations is self -confidence, self -value projecting life on others in culde sac relationship thinking. Bring awareness of unrealistic demands on women, men need to better understand women’s emotions, feelings, needs and moods. Men through training will understand, adapt to unique needs of women to know these essentials. Hot debates group discussion takes place on helping people value women and each other better. Upholding a sound ground rules between men and women in early years reveals clear differences exist, so define, teach to deal with and get along better. A lifestyle led in the boardroom misses out on the other side of the coin.7408zoom.jpgA look at deeper lever level starts from the womb with the conception of male and females in first 3months showing an identical features in an early stage. Then during beginning of the second term of pregnancy, babies clear features are recognised as a boy or girl. The XX or XY Chromosones cells hormones shape both babies to grow specifically as girl or boy accordingly. So mothers can tell the gender of a baby before ultrascan due to baby movements and other sensations felt by mothers including the heart rate, pulse and size of stomach shapes. Others use taste for some foods and heightened sense of smell, swelling of feet, activity of baby kicks as clues, common features, by expectant mothers to know gender of a baby. Mature wiser mothers nurturing expectant mother due to own experience can tell indepth gender beyond natural look. So hospital scans confirm a gender for people prepare shopping for colour of clothes, prams, beds, cots, toys suitable. Right away, blue colour mostly used for boys pink for girls in Western countries. Early baby psychological conditioning of boys in tune with nature requirements.blessings-images-quotes-sayings-pictures_701.jpgSimilarly family shops for pink items identified for girls programmed to be more girly. This trend continues into schools as boys clearly identify with boys in the playground more and adult males featured around them. The girls grow encouraged by society to be feminine. Puberty changes continue in boy’s voice changes as they learn about genital part experiences. The girls grow breasts and learn about private areas of body and the menstrual periods. Both encouraged to be more masculine or feminiline in line with fashion, culture appropriate roles. Schools teach lessons on reproductive organs process changes in moods  swings hormones. Trends ingrained in memory and entrenched pattern of behaviour of role of boys and girls turning into men and women in adult lives. Process continues, skills and training designed gender is reinforced.  During employment trend continues in men’s skills, domestic type of work for women. Eventually progress was being made by encouraging genders to choose careers without gender labelling jobs. Is good sign of integration of men, women. Despite efforts to help both genders coexist, still certain differences exist unaware in childhood conditioning.63fa5d125e23c429fe52cad68ebe3352f2594d3c6ebb26a9ad7fd425a802bc56Young women often expect men to talk to them as if they are girlfriends. They want open deep free conversations so to share their deep feelings to support each other. The men prefer quiet moments to watch football, play games or they read newspapers. The men expect the women to join in without interruptions to talk or tell them about their day. Both have very different outlook on relaxing woman if desperate to offload her mind to their man. If the man not interested sees the woman moaning, nagging, complaining distracting from focussing on his games on computer. So not fully understand a deeper emotional needs of woman. As nurturers, women have the capacity to look, glance, read decode people. There is a deeper insight of merely observing people yet knowing instantly naturally more than meets the eyes automatically. For example, some lack deeper indepth voice recognition in conversation to pick changes in tone, voice, body language, or silent love messages, scent, colour, size, shape, height, favourite food, or minute details usually noted by the women.god-helps-those-dpIt is amazing specific things women pick as clues making decision subconsciously. Others do little things such as fidgeting, nervous smile, frown, inability to focus on what does not interest them present themselves in uncertain way. All these actions mean some women expect a man to pay more attention in more detail to recognise and read their minds. Natural female tendencies are more sensitive so important and meaningful to women for men to consider these issues. Women assume that men already know these things by now because an adult. On the other hand, the man expects the woman to be more in tune with intimacy desire requirements and to respond instantly. Men tend to be outwardly referenced by looks and those appealing as attractive for sex. The two means of using physical looks and sex means lack of deeper level of personal knowledge and development before commitment. Interaction limited to the physical need of sex overshadows bonding. This means a woman wants to marry a man like her best girl friend to talk, shop or do things together. One is to love God first and whole family so one develops confidence to grow and mature.give-birth-to-the-vision-joaynn.pngMen zoom in faster for a physical side of romance passion but cool down to zero emotion after sexual intercourse. A woman loved, embraced, held, hugged, kissed comfortably, appreciated, told verbally beautiful. Men sleep soundly woman feel dissapointed lying in bed looking at ceiling. Or on phone to text best friends or research shopping items to buy. Complete surprise to some but knowing this will make relationships better in the world. In terms respecting each other to realise how both function will change things to become improved. Conscious training to prepare to treat others according to gender difference helps communicate better understands improves communication to help avoid frustration to express themselves. These natural tendencies of the generational gender roles are define men behave towards women and vice versa. On a personal level both want to feel loved, heard, highly valued and appreciated. Yet each seems unable to really get across their true feelings or emotions. Conditioning boys to be boys to play with boy’s toys, girls encouraged to play with dolls seems acceptable norm. To sustain community roles and functions of each gender these are separate human relations generally.IMG_20160519_212107Focus, too much on others as separate entities mean they are not prepared to deal with other’s needs. So to correct misconceptions to support a gender properly both need to know how men and women operate in life. It is said men are from Mars and women are from Venus speaking has symbolic element of truth because physical earth exists inbetween Mars and Venus. This implies direct block in communication between both so needs extra effort to overcome the block in communication. The.effort to get to know women better to respect them. All human beings are born by women and so play vital role as God’s co-creators. So necessary to train young boys and girls to develop a good attitude towards each other early. Most often form an opinion about each other by TV drama scenes, playground break times. It is essential to educated early on proper respect for each other. From 5 years old children understand sharing toys, ask for things, have due regard for to include friends in conversations.God's opinion.jpgIt is important to teach good manners to take turns to express real true feelings emotionally feel heard not ignore quiet ones. Adults, teachers and significant others must not awaren their comments and jokes influence children for life. An awareness of emotion and love feelings understood by young children some may not be able to verbalise deep feelings of affection to others so use kiss, pull a girl’s hair, hug, put arms around a girl. Some think real adult intimacy ‘fighting’ in bed copy similar action ‘innocently’ as seen in cartoons, films or in real life. People think cartoons seem as innocent fun but scenes in cartoon sometimes unsuitable inappropriate. In addition, children watch role models or team of experts so want to be like them. Pressure to be like due to their low self-esteem neediness, thinking it is only the others responsible for their happiness without equal input can make them feel happier in life. Pressure other made responsible for his total happiness not reciprocated. Begin to look for partner to meet needs rather than help meet other’s need through interdependence. Such ideas are formed so tend to make teenagers look for love in wrong places instead of God.Connect-1140x460.pngThe pressure on youth to grow up and be independent means many do not stay at home long enough to mature to learn family. Without the practical experience or involvement helping to understand relationships better, learn from women they become involved and make it as they go along learning the hard way. Though seem to profess love for each other, yet cannot relate. Jesus stayed hom 33 years with a foundation to upbuild values. Relating to others must start from 5 years using play activities at the children’s level to teach love. Good seeds planted early starts to bear good fruit if boys LEARN EARLY TO RESPECT GIRLS AND WOMEN AND VICE VERSA. The world will be a better place if males and females are deliberately trained to recognise and understand differences early. Young children watch adults relate with to form copy ideas of love seen. Others see romantic cartoons displaying perceived affection concept of love expressed in films. Make life-long impression on them. They often watched loved up couples, imitate them without chaperon support. Many misunderstand reality of demand, pressure relationship thinking without others have no life so impose their happiness upon partner.64fc26f76d1ea307a705e660a51d5e8cIt is impossible to demand others fulfill all unmet needs from an early childhood. Each person must seek professional help first to overcome issues that can damage the relationship. General misconception is great lovers will fix all life’s problems for them. Ability to understand both is a work in progress to relate better. There is need to treat women with due regard greater respect lacking in some because of macho views of men about women. So women need to be trained to talk to men in specific terms straight to the point to tell them needs not take it for granted he should remember. Men wired providers traditionally so externally referenced go out to work. Women attach more deeply to children as extension of themselves due to body contact in pregnancy better equipped emotionally bonded to care for children. Feminism however demands equal right so men compelled to take on nurturing role not originally. Lack of any unfavourable atmosphere not conducive to love or sex. Underlying tension does not auger well. A meaningful successful outcome depends on good indicators of circumstances and events. So falling in love alone is not enough to resolve life-long issues of marriage or sex. This is why relationships dismissive of these matters cannot thrive. This is the reason why men and women deserve the proper understanding from an early age.tumblr_nhhyem3xn51r9bipco1_500.jpgRelationship compromises both parties involving extended family. The isolation causes pressure from anything affecting each other. Real expectation is originally to be part of bigger family for support for the couple’s own good. Men cannot be possessive to exclude a woman’s friends and family who embraced him in family to take over to isolate her. A happy wife is a happy life so mansions, cars, gifts, holidays not enough because a personal hands on one-to- one relationship is what women want. Though not too close for comfort  as each have me times, man caves, girl’s night out, continues family. Forsaking all others to take to hold vow disconnects all previous potential rival contender hand in marriage. A marriage licence is not guarantee to abuse spouse to cut off and isolate woman because the new sole owner monopoly management. Extra support helps women flourish and be happy. How can the emphasis on only academic education lasting a few years take precedence over matters pertaining to life beyond infinity be left to chance. The sixties education trained people to play real roles as part of a team. Modern society tends to draw people away from God Who said it is not good to be alone so created Eve for Adam. Studying God’s Principles of marriage, helps work God plan for marriage for mankind.God-the-reason-to-never-quitLove and sex seem not the only reason to marry or to relate but does involve much deeper needs not taught in the textbook. Economic issues mortgage and children, work schedules, baby sitting, affect love, sex among others. These fundamental matters need to be properly addressed to educatepeople involved to know what they are letting themselves into before they embark on such journey of life. The two major complaints in relationships is the lack of understanding others perspective helps transition to mature love levels. Not to damage relationship beyond repair. The men cannot assume in a relationship is sex make happiness without applying golden rule, ensure woman’s emotional health and well being. Men’s mistake is provision of material needs for family equals love and affection. Wonder why spouse not content and happy seem being away on business reinforces their relationship better. Partner address the improves relationships. Men must be trained before dating to be aware and more sensitive to women. Important to teach responsibility in a relationship on how best to respond to mood swing and emotional outbursts. A relationship has unpredictable episodes be prepared for in advance. So some women complain their men never there for them.” The other complaint is there is not enough intimacy connection felt deeply by those women. The women feel alone even in relationship in many ways so find it hard to relate and to trust the men to be there for them when they need them most. Emotionally available, listening, deep heart connection to help safeguard their hearts in God in Christ. 6e5426e42cdd5d426a39d245fc668379Men complaint women nag, talk too much, too many arguments fight about not having enough sex so feel unloved. Such men feel lonely in relationship yet want intimacy from women. They feel intimacy better less fighting enjoy more sex. Deeper connection enhances love affection, increases respect so both do not feel alone anymore. Such a genuine emotional connection, in turn leads to trust, giving women complete feeling of being loved, needed and appreciated. If partner feels sad, angry, needs affection taking time to show love and empathy than neglect deepens relationship. No one can fix another person unless they want to. A woman’s emotions have hormonal, periodic, menopausal, other factors so not to be taken lightly. Not to treat women as having tantrum try to fix sabotage, minimize, scoff, ridicule, mock ignore. Deep connection includes family, relatives in appropriate way. The imagined fantasy expectations created in the mind of relationship differ from practical real life experiences. Focus to deal with these issues at hand problems to determined if the relationship works instead of a greener grass syndrome as more interesting. The relatively simple fundamental skill of deeper connection relationship with women changes love profoundly. Helps the work of parenting from friendship or other relationships. IMG-20190902-WA0001.jpgIMG-20190905-WA0005.jpgThe men who learn emotional deep connection ultimately gain better in their relationships with more love and more amazing sex. Men often have more intimacy libidos than  women so want some more like Oliver Twist in the bedroom. Regular sex means love intimacy to feel loved. Sometimes a cuddle, kiss, hug, holding hands are all some women want to relationship fresh not over indulge to ruin sacredness of sex. To avoid becoming worked up so not feeling rejected, not bothered frustrated this conversation must take place before childbirth and breast-feeding demands on couples changes a relationship. This is simply what women REALLY want if time is taken to treat relationship with passion and respects. Love and passion treated with love and dignity lasts long. It keeps the bed warm at night because two are better than one if they agree to walk together in life in marriage. So God Almighty Conducted the First marriage and said it not good to be alone so the well-being of relationship needs God.