PROJECTION

Projection means seeing life through others to blame them for all life’s problems. So defends self against unpleasant impulses denying existence in themselves. So totally refuses to accept any responsibility of any part played in own life. Projection attributes own repressed thoughts to someone else so all problems blamed on parents, teachers, neighbours, spouse, friends and colleagues. Such ego defence mechanism projects and blames thoughts, impulses and feelings onto others. So transfers and also counter transfers past and present situation onto the dearest and nearest. Therefore loved ones bear most the brunt of projection as closest to the projector. Projector’s automatic mental behaviour is under girded by preconceived traditional standards so set in own ways. Feels strongly angry so uses defence mechanisms to repress, deny and project trouble onto others. All their frustrations, difficulties, failures, are somebody’s fault. Living in delusion of grandeur sets heights too high above their station in life so thinks too highly of  themselves. They do not care what damage or hurt they cause others. Life basically only revolves around them. They must always be the centre of focus or feel dehumanized. This pattern of unhealthy behaviour starts innocently from terrible 2 years running family around. So carries on into adulthood with warped worldview. Addicted to having own way not nibbed in bud in early years. So married unleashes to blame spouse for all their life problems. Each day, they find something wrong with those intimate with them. They may complain the spouse is too thin so must eat to avoid being seen as their child. So the spouses gains some weight they approve of. However, any extra weight is seen as fat so nagged to lose weight. So one is never sure where one stand with them though supposed to care about. Next they are told they are too short, so start wearing platform shows to increase height. Although, the spouse is forced to wear heels at all times to please them, they soon find the next thing wrong with the partner. On and on the go comparing their cooking with their mothers, house keeping with their mothers. It is as if they would have liked to marry their mother. forgetting their wife is not their mother. Eventually as spouse bears children so he must rise to the task to do his bit as a loving  father. Instead he feels abandoned, displaced angry and jealous of attention given to his own child. Sulking, complaining of poor housekeeping soon finds comfort elsewhere. So justifies his terrible betrayal by blaming the wife. In some primitive societies, wife is lashed with stick for not fulfilling intimate duties commitment whether she wants it or not. Feels sense of entitlement to whatever wanted whenever irrespective of impractical reality of demands so generally anxious. This projection behaviour extends to finances whereby all his personal needs are met but the family may lack food, electric, clothing, shoes, yet he is immaculately dressed. To the outside world he is a saint and a good role model. Yet the wife and children are suffering under his yoke of bondage too ashamed and too embarrassed to get help. Those who dare tom report him to the family or friends are not believed. Or he denies and undermines her more telling them she is a bitter jealous woman who hates his interaction with them. This continues until bruises appear on the woman and children with cover story not to expose him. He may threaten to treat them worse or will seek divorce and take away the children. So this takes place for years. The wife succumbs to his disrespectful relationship, bullying and his abusive ways for the sake of the peace.Meanwhile, spouse’s behaviour gets worse with unpredictable outburst constant arguments. So a terror at home who picks on the children. He may resort to violence by beating or punishing unreasonably for slightest perceived irritation. Forgetting children need to play to have innocent fun freely at home. So goes on attacking family wrongly believing entire life happiness depends on perfect performance of wife. After years tormenting wife may gamble, drink or do drugs to numb disappointments so cannot keep work schedules. Finance is affected because he has an insecure world view.

189377_298415886930257_435613120_n (1)Without rent, bills unpaid, debt piling begins to fight threats from creditors amid debt collectors. Instead of seeking help to address the situation picks on the wife more. So builds resentment towards wife and plots to poison,  maim, electrocute, kill wife. So begins secret preparation to plot her demise. Forgetting in the moment of anger and madness the consequences and effects of destruction upon himself. Does not think clearly ahead of impact on his future or where he will spend the rest of his life. So carries out such actions heard constantly in the news of a husband killing wife, electrocuting for only bearing daughters or hacking by chopping head off for a row. Do not recognise child’s gender is from both make and female chromosomes so not wife’s fault. Or acid attacks, gunshot wounds , strangling. Life is first own personal responsibility to God. Each must have direct connection with God first as a Christian believer. Then encourage partner to lead life in same way accountable to God first. Both must remain connected strongly to God with the first love in Christ Jesus. Then both will realise God is their source of ultimate fulfilment so stop demanding impossible from partner to meet all their emotional, physical and material needs. No man can save another except God through Christ so must learn to do the right thing acceptable for personal well being relationship. The man is the head of woman and Christ is Head of man and the church. Both must look up to Christ Jesus the perfect Bridegrooms example love and leadership. Not to copy romance from novels,  TV drama reality shows. Some may be useful during dating but true reality of marriage is give and take, compromise, forgiveness and building each other up. Though married with children in the home insists on keeping house spotless as show room. Neither keep it unkempt because the children untrained to tidy up after themselves. The husband must help the so stop comparing her to his mother. Some mothers were full-time so had time to clean and polish the silver ware. Do not insist your wife works full-time and must runs the home full-time as if unemployed. Neither sit reading papers or watch football full-time and leave her alone to fend for the children as a married single parent. God is able to keep both if the marriage is entrusted to God to make perfect all that concern both in Jesus Name with thanks to God. Confide dark thoughts to trusted people to seek help before too late to act wrongly. Develop talents, music, art, drama, dancing, painting, cooking, coaching, volunteer, preaching, teaching etc. Personal development interest in a team helps although married.needs_of_singles

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ALL IMMIGRANTS ON EARTH

heartworldAll people on earth are immigrants because God Shared His Love by filling earth with people when earth was void and empty. God’s Absolute Love shows God’s marvelous, majestic wonders of creation recorded in the Bible in Genesis 1:1. In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. The earth was a formless void and darkness covered the face of the deep. So the Spirit of God moved upon the face of the waters. God said, Let there be light so there was light. 4God saw the light was good so God separated light from darkness. God called the light Day and darkness, Night so evening and morning was first day. God said, Let there be firmament in the midst of the waters to divide the waters from the waters. God made the firmament and divided the waters under the firmament from the waters above the firmament. God called firmament Heaven so this evening and morning was the second day. God said, Let the waters under heaven be gathered together unto one place and dry land appear so it happened exactly. 10 God called dry land Earth and gathering together of waters the seas so God saw it was good.

11 God said, Let the earth bring forth grass, herb yielding seed, fruit trees yielding fruit after each kind with seed is in itself to replant on earth so it was so. 12 The earth brought forth grass, herb yielding seed after its kind, and trees yielding fruits with seed in itself so God saw it was good. 13 The next evening and morning was the third day. 14 God said, Let there be lights in the firmament of the heaven to divide day from the night for signs, seasons, days, years. 15 The lights in firmament of heaven to give light upon earth. 16 God made two great lights, the greater light to rule day, lesser light rules night so God made stars also.17 God set firmament of heaven to give light upon the earth. 18 To rule over day and night to divide light from darkness so God saw it was good. 19 The next evening and morning was fourth day. 20 God said, Let the waters bring forth abundantly living creatures, fowls to fly above earth in open firmament heaven. 21 God created great whales, all living creatures so the waters brought forth abundantly so God said it is good.

22 God blessed them to be fruitful, multiply, fill the waters in the seas, fowls multiply in the earth. 23 The next evening and the morning were the fifth day. 24 God said, Let the earth bring forth living creatures after its kind, cattle, creeping things, beasts of earth so it was so. 25 God made beast of the earth and cattle after their kind, things creeping on earth and God saw it was good. 26 God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness to have dominion over the fish of the sea, fowls of the air, cattle, over all the earth, and creeping things on earth. 27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. 28 God blessed them and said to them Be fruitful, and multiply, to replenish the earth and subdue it. Have dominion over fish, sea, fowls of the air, other living things on the earth. 29 God said, I give you herbs bearing seed upon the face of earth and trees with fruit yielding seed to you for meat. 30 All animals of the earth, fowls of the air, creeping living things on earth, green herbs for meat. 31 And God saw every thing that he had made, and, behold, it was very good. And the evening and the morning were the sixth day.

godisloveheartIn Genesis 2:1, The heavens and earth was finished and all host of them. On seventh day God ended His work so God rested on seventh day from all his work He Made. God blessed 7 day so sanctified it and God rested from all Work of creation. Generations of heavens and earth created by God dwell on earth and heavens. God was pleased and impressed with His creation so God called all good and very good. All things were perfect because they were made by THE PERFECT GOD. God’s Love fill His creation to enjoy God’s Super Abundant resources provided until eternity. God expects all creation to Appreciate, Obey, Thank, Treat God as Bona fide Authentic, Prototype, Patent Owner of mankind made in God’s Image. In the beginning God had great wonderful relationship with mankind. God enjoyed their company so came down regularly to fellowship with Him directly. God relaxed, thought mankind fully understood, accepted His Commands something happened. To God’s Shock and Horror mankind preferred to listen and follow a creeping crawling creature’s instructions than Loving God. God could not believe Adam and Eve’s greed and lack of contentment.God provided all they needed including material wealth, onyx, riches, bdellium, gold, silver, rich minerals resources, cattle on 1000 hills. In Genesis 3:6, conned by rebellious devil thrown down from heaven, perfect mankind Adam and Eve due to greed sin against God and ate from the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil. Contaminated by devil’s deception God expelled Adam and Eve from Garden of Eden for disobedience. Soon first murder occurs due to envy and jealousy of Able’s meat sacrifice accepted and Cain’s rejected shortly after mankind’s first sin. God became sad, angry, disappointed and broken-hearted by mankind’s misdemeanor yet still loved His people. God missed those precious moments of fellowship, laughter, joy, conversations so longed  for restoration of lost love relationship. God sent several warnings and punishments of floods in Noah’s days in Genesis 5:32-10:1-8 ff in vain. Fire in Sodom and Gomorrah in Genesis 19 ff had no effect. God sent prophets, priests, ministers to warn to mankind to cajole to repent in vain. God sent Jesus Christ, The Ultimate Priceless Blood Sacrifice to save yet mankind more stubborn than ever. Christ Jesus came to restore Love lost between God and mankind. Mankind is helpless and hopeless without God’s input. In fact, complicated man-made ideas excluding God have tragic consequences.Man deludes in control God’s creation without obeying God’s command. Mankind will never have good success aside of God. The heart of man is very evil due to greed, love of money the root of all evil so the world loves money than God. Stock and share market celebrate bank balance not souls won. God’s Greatest Desire is to Restore Eternal Love relationship with mankind. So all people on God’s earth are immigrants. Nobody brought anything into the world so nobody takes anything out of this world. Those attacking fellow immigrants on earth will pay in hell if they do not repent to ask God’s mercy and forgiveness. In 2 Chronicles 7:14, God said if My People called by My Name, humble themselves repent, call on God, He will hear and answer prayer to heal earth to bring perfect peace and perfect love again on God’s Earth. The earth is the Lords and the Fullness thereof. God’s Point of View Perspective of earth is perfect from space with no political demarcation lines. God’s Vision of Earth remains as designed by God despite scramble land grabbing destruction of earth. God Jehovah Nissi Will Arise in Jesus Name at right time to end suffering for all immigrants on earth.

There is a song which says: God is Coming, The creator of the earth is coming, God the judge is coming, Friend this earth does not belong to you. God owns all creation, the silver, gold, and cattle on a thousand hills. All are immigrants on earth.

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SIZE MATTERS

Size matters as I found out recently after losing weight through a program to change my life. I could not walk without rubbing my legs together sometimes causing bleeding. i had to use plaster to cover the wounds. The salty sweat caused sting of my wounds. So I became desperate to lose weight. I remembered the size was alright without legs rubbing against each other. Although I ate fairly reasonably or so I thought, until I found out excessive hydration was part of cause of weight problem. I made a diet chart to change unhealthy drinks and I realised was also addicted to water without knowing it. I reduced first my food size portion intake. And informed all friends, family, loved ones to serve me smaller portions of all my favourite meals.
It was difficult at first especially as I watched others eat but I had to discipline myself. The first week was particularly difficult because suddenly all shops seem to do bulk discount my favourite food as if to convince me to keep buying. I had to resist and practice self-control to endure the temptation to buy the cheaper plus extra free deals on sale. So I avoided shop aisles with my favourite foods. I choose healthy ingredients and cooked better home-made meals. I still craved foods addicted eaten for so long over the years. My favourite fizzy drink was vanilla cream soda. I drank about 10 litres a day as it was cheaply sold in most bargain shops. In addition I drank coffee plus water because no matter what I drank I could not quench thirst without water.

 

 

 

 

 

I was a water addict so carried water with me always. I could not pass by anywhere there is free water without drinking 3-4 cups at a time many times a day. Some people even collapsed from reducing body salt content with too much water with a few fatalities. I cut down on red meat so eat more fish. I cut out fried foods so started grilling or boiling most of my favourite foods. I cleared my home of the fat fryer used to fry bags of chicken and chips everyday to share with family and friends. I started withdrawing from water, fizzy drinks, so much milk gradually. I reduced drinks by 1 glass consistently to dwindle down to acceptable suitable amount daily recommended. Each day I maintain my body’s hydration level adding up all fluids I drink. I learnt large intestines produce water from processing food contents. So careful extra water drank not drown or dehydrate body.

I researched and found out people died from drowning within body with too much water. I could not believe water was capable of causing weight gain. This was surprising to me when I found out. It made sense because I did not realise my weight was impacted by water. Come to think of it water is quite heavy, weighed or carried about. So water used to be one of my favourite indulgences. Now I resist the strong urge to gulp water down. Now my new love is that I learnt to steam – fry eggs, use water to make stew well in place of oil. My skin started glowing and my hair grew better. I realised my clothes started dropping off. At first I used safety pins to hold them firmly on my body. Over time, pins were not suitable so looked ridiculously shaped bulging out-of-place. I changed wardrobe from sizes 24 to 20 at first and 3 months later dropped to size 16.

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I eat no more junk fried foods, sweets, doughnuts, cakes and cut down on coffee. I choose fruits, vegetable alternatives, carrot sticks, cucumber slices, grains and nuts. I eat sugar-free usually healthy cereal brands with nuts in them. Over all people started commenting on my size to ask if I was on diet. I said yes but not for cosmetic reasons. I had to change my size to overcome walking and enduring pain from bruises of rubbed thighs. Although, I could wear suitable protective clothing to cover thighs, I still had to endure pain as my legs grew too close for comfort. Now the first thing I do each morning is to I juice and blend varieties of fruits and vegetables according to the desired taste. I make enough to last the whole day. So I take it with me when I am out and about.

I drink juice the whole day. On very hot days I juice twice as I tend to drink more fruit juice. This helps fill me up well so I eat light cereal for breakfast, good healthy lunch and tea time lots of green vegetables and fish supper meal. I make allowances to eat foods I crave once in a while so not to become desperate for missing such taste. I meet up with friends and family to join in to celebrate good food and to exchange recipes. My life is much happier as I do not have to use plasters to cover thighs anymore because bruised legs. I feel I have perfect right size for my weight as I walk easily and faster than before. I enjoy walking about without pain previously endured. I do moderate exercise definitely recommended anyone struggling with weight problems to change in simple small steps at a time. Do not jump from extreme level A straight to Z level down sizing, be gradual.

Seek support of good friends to encourage and help them. Be true to yourself, sincere, keep track of all foods and snacks eaten but not fussy if you relapse on your diet program. Be flexible and human enough to admit you are capable of mistakes. Start again and keep up good work. Enjoy your life daily because life is too short to stress yourself about yo-yo body sizes. I keep a range of clothes and shoes as I recognise my weight changes affect my shoe sizes as well. I do not fix my body size on specific number. I expect changes fairly within my acceptable size range to prevent legs from bruising by rubbing against each due to over weight. I share my testimony with all interested in helping themselves. I lost weight for right health reasons as my body size truly matters.

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GOD’S LIFESTYLE PACKAGED

GLBC_Box2011God’s lifestyle packaged in 1 Samuel 25 :18-42 contains lives of all trusting HIM eternally while fighting God’s battles in and out. God, Jehovah Nissi Personally Secures David’s personal protection in God’s Life Packaged Bundle. And David defeats Goliath to protect Saul and the nation but seen as threat by Saul who tried to kill David several times in vain. David was on the run pursued by Saul due to envy and jealousy. David’s army follower band 400 at Adullam increased to 600 soldiers joined by the Cherethites and Pelethites standing army retained after David became king in 1 Samuel 23:13. David’s body-guard army protect defending farms, crops from marauding band raiders. David’s army provided a useful service help using military skill tactics knowledge to defeat enemies. In return David humbles himself and asks Nabal for supplies. Did not take by force without permission but Nabal’s denies David’s request to help treated David as vagabond on run. David, angry wanted a quick revenge killing to destroy Nabal. Abigail his wife acted quickly, bringing David and his men food and supplies.trapped_inside_the_boxAbigail used wisdom to help David not could slaughter her husband Nabal in vengeance for disobeying David’s order to bring gifts to David. Abigail brought presents to David to atone for Nabal’s contempt. Abigail managed to appeal to speak to king David on the run living in caves pursued by king Saul. Told David God preserved his life packaged bundle for a reason. Ensure David’s star throne survived for the birth of Jesus Christ not vanquished. David’s life was precious in God’s sight and David’s house endures after fighting God’s battles. Abigail stood on God’s grace to soften David’s heart to impact him powerfully. Said its beneath David giant killer to condescend to take vengeance on a weak miniscus ant size despicable enemy as Nabal incapable of showing kindness to David. Nabal lacks understanding of significant value and importance of honouring a great king like David. As the king ordained by God Abigail told David, Nabal was beneath his status compared to giants killed by David. She reminded David of his good glorious past to end present troubles. giftbox1 (1)God preserves David’s life to ensure the descendants take the necessary position of king to protect weak defenceless lives precious of people of God so His Saviour Jesus is born. Abigail’s powerful Godly message touched David’s heart not to kill Nabal. David the Psalmist indulged his passion praising God. David realised his conscience to keep peace stays calm reinforced life not to waste his brilliant military reputation on insignificant jerk like Nabal. So the sweetness of Abigail’s words touched the revengeful heart of David to mellow him not to slaughter in angry revenge bitterness. David accepts Abigail plea consideration of his image of fighting a helpless weak man Nabal. Abigail submissive yields to pacify great offence, penitent petitioner but did not excuse husband’s conduct. She blessed David with three blessings prayed, in verse 28, “please forgive transgressions of your maidservant for God will make for my lord an enduring house. Because my lord is fighting battles of God no evil will not be found in you all your days. 29 If anyone rises up to pursue you to seek your life, the life of my lord shall be bound in bundle of the living with the LORD your God. But the lives of your enemies HE will sling out as from hollow of sling. 30 And when the LORD does for my lord according to all good HE spoke concerning you and appoints you ruler over Israel the LORD your God will keep your life safe like HIS treasure hidden in the secured package of life.leadership_cappedDavid’s life is bound up in the bundle of righteousness as the lover of God. God decides to let Godly ones be preserved forever in heaven by God’s Good Choice. God lets evil ones go from God’s bundle of life eternally to be punished in hell by their own doing. God keeps eternal souls of people safe but enemies thrown out. David said to Abigail, Blessed be the LORD God of Israel who sent provisions to bless souls with God bound in bundle of life with Jehovah God. David said to Abigail, Blessed be the Lord. 18 Abigail acted quickly took 200 hundred loaves of bread, 2 skins of wine, 5 dressed sheep, 5 seahs of roasted grain, a 100 cakes of raisins, 200 cakes of pressed figs, loaded them on donkeys 19 Told her servants, go on ahead I will follow you but she did not tell her husband Nabal. 20 She came riding her donkey into a mountain ravine, where David and his men descending toward her met them 21 David said, its useless watching over property in wilderness so nothing of was missing paid back evil for good 22 David furious wanted to kill all males in morning belonging to Nabal next day 23 Abigail before David’s deadline went secretly to supply food, drinks to David. She quickly got off donkey, bowed down before David with face to ground 24 She fell at his feet and said, “Pardon your servant, my lord to let me speak to you so hear what your servant has to say. 25 Please pay no attention, my lord, the wicked man Nabal a Fool for folly goes with him. I did not see the men my lord sent 26 Now, my lord, as surely as God lives and as you live, God kept you from bloodshed from avenging yourself with your own hands. May your enemies and intent harming my lord be Nabal 27 Let this gift brought to my lord, be given to men who follow you. God’s enemies who hurt God’s children since 70 years in Auschwitz in Poland killed innocent people due to ignorant hatred, greed, envy, jealousy, xenophobia, ignorance because man’s heart is very evil. But will pay for their evil deeds on God’s judgement day if they do not repent, ask God’s forgiveness and mercy in Jesus Name. Absolute power makes abusers feel in control but God deals with them. David forgave Abigail’s family so Nabal heard David’s threat. Abigail intervenes to save all the men but Nabal had heart attack from shock orchestrated by God. So died as a tyrant who refused to help David. Abigail’s fear of God her wisdom, maturity impressed David who married her to make her his wife and his queen. download
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CELEBRATING LIFE AS ALIVE

Celebrating life alive acknowledges life to the full to commemorate life as seen on TV, “This is your life” program. Harry Hill is nominated by loved ones but kept a secret. All contacts kept with utmost secrecy with all relatives, loved ones, colleagues, class mates to surprise him. All the suitable relevant or appropriate necessary information is collected so to celebrate and honour him as the person chosen. Efficiently organised the chosen person remains unaware of this going on behind their back. Old photographs or past interesting memorabilia are put together into one book. The date is set so all invited gather together to really surprise. During meeting all turns out well to celebrate life. There is an after party to eat and celebrate the person given the book documenting childhood throughout to adult life. This is one of the best programs on TV showing true understanding of meaning of life. As it is important to celebrate life daily as much as possible with family, friends, loved ones. Above all to remember to thank and Glorify God Giver of life for years alive before it’s too late or dead. A photo shows buried gold of departed no more of any value to them after death.One may not need to go on TV program necessarily to celebrate your life but it is good to remember to honour family and friends at some point in life time in their presence alive. Most people seem to put more effort into celebrating life after death. So funerals big party events with lots of preparation of their earthly treasures stored for future use put into graves. Treasures are useful to preserve past history to show creative artworks. Above is some of a Staffordshire hoard artefacts of 3500 gold shields, swords, belts seen. These items are supposed to help equip owner to enjoy after life. So is pyramids been built for burial with gold, wealth accumulated belonging to a person. Their dead expectated to use it in next life. Gems and gold sit in piles for thousands of years on dusty floors in tombs of Egyptian pyramids or others.The sizes of graves increased according to their status or wealth. In the obelisks were complete tombs with mummified bodies intrigue world. Golden intricate riches set up of tropical luxury wealth plundered and distributed. Treasures of jewelry befitting status, stature of king, swords, their daggers, or weapons and cosmetics. These tomb contents includes vessels, vases of gold, jewelry, gold art works, or sceptres, trinkets, diamonds, topaz, beads, headrests, chairs, stools, or leather sandals, or musical instruments, storage chests, bowls, combs, and other trinkets, along with food.Wealthier ones buried with furniture valuables too numerous to list here. Boats, scenes of food production, craftsmen, workshops, professions, the scribes, soldiers found in tombs. To enable the dead king to live full lifestyle chariots, horses, terracotta soldiers guards king in after life. Wives, servants, slaves, killed to accompany the king to serve in an after life to enjoy companionship indulged on earth. Others include brand new or normal beautiful clothing worn packed for future use in grave. Artefacts include, stored bags of wheat grains, grave goods to provide essential Egyptian funeral banquets in after life. Luxury tombs built by impoverished slaves, skilled craftsmen, peasants for kings, queens, noble classes and rich merchants. Most artefacts from tombs are in museums all over the world collected buy archaeologist and archivists for posterity. The citizens left behind strongly believe not giving grand final farewell to ruler upon his deattill here would be punishment of ancestors now watching the population from the plane of the immortals. So a pledge and levy is pain by each citizen throughout their lives life to prepare for such an occasion. Other people bury their dead in a simple grave. The body may be treated, arranged in particular way to faith belief. Most did not keep written evidence but kept regular visits to graveside to tend it, send food and drinks, flowers, teddy bears. The grave is shown to younger generations to trace family tree. The living feel it is their duty and responsibility to provide tomb lavish decorations. Maintain regular contact visit for solace and comfort so deceased feels loved. Information on modern afterlife custom include sewing machines, tools of trade buried with deceased, shoes, money for river crossing journey to pay toll on way. Some turn funeral into big events bigger than wedding ceremony. So organised by professional event managers, funeral contractors to provide music, entertainment, food, venue, chairs, tents, meals and drinks. So cater for VIP guests to ensure everything runs smoothly according to plan. Big donors give huge sums to avoid debt so make profit. Events are fashionable, provide dance services to entertain guests.Due to understanding of the meaning of after life recognised no earthly riches is of any value after demise. This is one of the most richest kings who ever lived to 90 years old, buried immediately on same day draped with simple cloth in unmarked grave according to custom. This was according to protocol although the king could afford the most expensive designer coffin of any shape desired to order. The king could be carried in the most expensive funeral cortege procession. Dressed in the best most priceless fabrics could be chosen by chief mourners and sympathisers to change into costumes every hour to display wealth to show off. The whole burial would have been postponed because of the magnitude of the kings stature and status in the society to prepare to give the best funeral party in terms of age. Some preparations take as long as 5 years with the deceased in deep freezer mortuary paid for until all family members can afford to find time to gather for funeral. By then, funeral costs rise to millions of dollars. The older the deceased the bigger the party and as king the ceremony is ultimate display to signify position of power in death hierarchy ceremony traditions of men. This almost becomes now a competition of keeping up with the Joneses. Nobody wants to change the standard funeral traditions. People record by video, ceremony to distribute to friends, family, loved one. So keeps memory alive of the deceased’s funeral event to watch from time to time. They post images, video on the facebook and online to display in blog documented events. Enables the whole ceremony to stored to show those unable to attend to partake by visual reality. It is so good to remember to record the precious loved one’s passing departure if affords lavish these competitive ceremony budgeting. Misguided fear of letting departed down means going to the extreme lengths in debt. Members of family hungry daily, out of school due to lack of fees not invested in. Contribute to a lavish death ceremony events done by the poorest of the poor. Its compulsory for all citizens do so compelled to take loans to prepare for funeral in debt to pay years to come. Time and amount invested in the death mongering can eradicate the poverty to build schools and hospitals. Those living in fear of their ancestors must realise celebrating life in presence of person in honour is far better than grand funerals in their absence. Huge funeral amounts of money spent never spent in lifetime. Some cannot afford medical treatment when person alive. They cannot provide appropriate diet in hospital suitable for improving health. Abandon for years family members too busy enjoying life to care about an aged elderly.  Yet forget they too will grow old as what person sows is what they reap. So no matter lavished pyramid mausoleum accolade tomb goods, flesh decays souls lives on. So society needs to rethink and redress priority to celebrate life. Above all it is the soul that matters most so goes back to God. The flesh decays earth to earth, dust to dust. This pyramid shows 3 highest tier opened grave in Japan.P1200014
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Those who understand and recognise true meaning of life live practical lives. So use material goods and riches to make the most of life. Beyond life in the after world there is no need to bring along own material goods for prosperity. Or pack luggage for use by the deceased. God has abundant mansions of pure gold, diamond etc better than earthly goods so not required in Heaven. All silver, gold, wealth, riches belong to God for all people to use on earth. There is more than enough resources as Solomon favoured with God’s Special honour given riches, wealth inventoried in the Torah. The Ark of Covenant is made of pure gold. God has super abundance for all God’s creation so there is no need to kill or destroy another before one becomes blessed by God. At the end of the day, no matter how rich on earth body dies so soul lives on to give account to God. Maintaining Godly soul connection with God is most important focus. All said and done, all perishable flesh decay but their souls lives with God eternally, celebrate life while alive.

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TYPES OF MUSIC EQUIPMENT

Pianohouse1.jpgPsalm 81:1-7, says all to praise God with musical equipment, songs, grand piano  violin lyre or harps. Grand piano in Huainan China was built in 2007 by the architectural students, Hefei University of Technology truly amazing. Entrance is through violin escalators grand piano is perfect music symbol of God’s Glory. 4b25c1b54d109d43d80ad3e424c85c7dPraise God with loud music and guitars of all shapes and sizes to celebrate life.20191124_124146.jpg Praise God’s Name and make music to God with tambourine drums trumpets. Worship the Lord for HIS Excellence, Mercy, Grace, Compassion in Jesus.Psalm 149, praise God’s Name by  violin, grand piano, organ, bless God rejoice.e64d0-img_4254Psalm 150:1 Praise God in His Sanctuary praise Him in firmaments of His power.Praise God’s Name Worship the LORD Excellence, Mercy, Grace, Compassion. Psalm 150:2 Praise God for His Almighty acts and for HIS excellent Greatness.Praise God in HIS Sanctuary and in the firmament of His power with the flute and lyre. Sing music to trumpets timbrel lures, make merry to sounds of harps.wp-1574599780135.jpgharpist-on-stage-8.jpg _wsb_356x302_H.jpgThe harpsichord is played by thousands in heaven to worship to celebrate God everyday and at all times by all people.Praise God, with sound of the trumpets, praise him with the psaltery and harp.Psalm 150:4 declares Praise God in HIS sanctuary privilege to enjoy God among us. Praise him with timbrel, dance with stringed instruments and organs.Singing to drum music makes the heart merry to various sounds of this drums. Praise God with loud guitars or cymbals and upon high sounding cymbals.Let every thing that hath breath praise the Lord. Praise ye the Lord.

praise-and-worship-hymns-10-728TODAYS WORD: WE KNOW FOR SURE GOD IS IN CONTROL OF ALL YOUR LIVES SO CONTINUES TO PROTECT AND COVER ALL WITH JESUS BLOOD. WE STAND IN AGREEMENT IN PRAYER WITH JEREMIAH 33:6, SO GOD WILL BRING HEALTH, HEALING AND CURE FOR ALL ENJOY AN ABUNDANT PEACE SECURED IN JESUS NAME, THANKS TO GOD ALMIGHTY SAYS JEREMIAH 33:6

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