Projecting life on others blaming people for all your life’s troubles but don’t take responsibility for your actions. Sees self as perfect, never makes mistakes, gives excuses blaming others for your life’s problems. Defensive against unpleasant impulses reject help but if it goes wrong refuses to accept any responsibility but affected by consequences. Projection is seeing other people’s faults but not see their own. Projects own repressed anger onto someone so problems blamed on parents, teachers, neighbours, spouse, friends and colleagues. Egoism defence mechanism projects thoughts, impulses and feelings onto others transferred and counter transfers past and present situation to dearest and nearest. Loved ones bear brunt of projection closest to projector. Projector’s automatic mental behaviour undergirded by the attitude of preconceived ideas set in own ways. Feels angry uses defence mechanisms to repress, deny and project trouble onto others. All their frustrations, difficulties, failures, are somebody’s fault. Living in delusion of grandeur sets heights too high above their station in life so thinks too highly of  themselves. They do not care what damage or hurt they cause others life revolves only around them. They must always be the centre of focus and attention or feel dehumanized. This pattern of unhealthy behaviours starts innocently from their terrible 2 years running family. Carries on to adulthood with their warped distorted worldview. Addicted to having own way not nibbed in bud in early years marries unleashes blame spouse for all their life problems. Always sees things wrong with the most intimate friends or family complaining spouse too thin must eat to avoid being seen as child. Then spouse gains weight approved of but extra weight seen as fat so nags to lose weight. One is never sure where one stands with them but cares for them. Told they are too short so start wearing platform shoes to increase the height. Spouse forced to wear high heels at all times to please them soon find the next thing wrong with partner. On and on it goes comparing cooking and house keeping with their mothers. Its as if they would have liked to marry their mother. forgetting their wife is not their mother. As spouse bears children he must rise to the task to do his bit as a loving father. Not feel abandoned, displaced angry or jealous of attention given to own child. Sulking, complain of poor housekeeping finds comfort elsewhere so justifies his terrible betrayal by blaming the wife. In some primitive societies, wife is lashed with stick for not fulfilling her intimate duties commitment but its not her fault lists lists for stolen water. Feels sense of entitlement whatever wanted whenever irrespective of the impractical reality of demand consequences become anxious.Projection behaviour extend to finances all his personal needs met but a family lacks food, electric, clothing, shoes so he is immaculately dressed. To the outside world he is a saint and good role model, but wife and children suffer under his yoke of bondage, ashamed embarrassed to get help. Those who dare report him to family or friends are not believed or he denies, undermines, telling them she is a bitter jealous woman who hates his interaction with family. Continue hurts bruises appear on woman or children buy covers story not to expose him. He may threaten to treat them worse or seek divorce and take away children. So this takes place for years wife succumbs to a disrespectful relationship, bullying and abusive ways for the sake of peace. Spouse’s behaviour gets worse with the unpredictable outbursts and constant arguments, a terror at home who picks on children. He may resort to violence beating or punishing unreasonably for slightest perceived irritation. Forgetting children need to play to have innocent fun freely at home. So goes on attacking family wrongly thinking life’s happiness depends on the perfect performance of wife. After years tormenting wife may gamble, drink, do drugs to numb pain of disappointment can’t keep jobs or work schedules. Finance is affected because of his insecure distorted world views.189377_298415886930257_435613120_n (1)Without rent, bills unpaid so debt piling begins to fight threatened by creditors or debt collectors. So instead of seeking help to address situation picks on wife more. Builds resentments towards wife, plots to poison, maim, electrocute, kill begin secretly prepare to plot demise. Forgets in moment of anger or madness consequences and effects of destruction brought on himself. Doen’t think clearly ahead of impact on his future or where he will spend rest of his life. Carries out actions heard in news a husband killing wife, electrocutes for bearing daughters or hacking by chopping head off by row. Don’t recognise child’s gender from God maker of fe/male chromosomes its not a wife’s fault. Use acid attacks or gunshot strangle life but not take responsibility it takes two to make a child from God. So have direct connection with God first as a Christian believer then encourage a partner to lead life accountable to God first. Remain connected strongly to God in first love in Christ Jesus. Realise God is source of ultimate fulfilment to stop making impossible demands of partner to meet all your emotional, physical and material needs. No one man can save another except God in Christ so learn to do right thing acceptable for personal well-being relationship. Man is head of woman Christ Head of man and Church submit to God to grow up responsibly.    needs_of_singlesLook up to Christ as perfect Bridegroom of love to follow his leadership not copy romance from novels, TV drama reality shows etc. May be useful during dating but true reality of marriage is give and take, compromise, forgiveness, building each other up. If married with children let children play so give them attention in the home. Don’t insists on keeping a home so spotless its show room or kept unkempt the children untrained to tidy up after themselves. The husband must help, stop comparing her to his mother. Some mothers work full-time, have no time to clean and polish silver ware. Do not insist your wife works full-time and run home full-time like an unemployed. Don’t ignore your spouse, sit reading the papers or watching football full-time so leave her alone to fend for the children as if a single parent. God is able to keep the marriage entrusted to God to make perfect all that concerns both in Jesus Name with thanks to God. Confide dark thoughts to trusted people to seek help before too late to act wrongly. Develop talents, music, art, drama, dance or sing paint, cook, life coaching, can volunteer, preach, teach etc. Personal development helps to grow to mature wiser each day. Leaving father and mother to cleave as a married couple doesn’t mean abandon your family and neglect caring for your parents. Honour family and support the people who love or care about you and people you meet on way up altar same people on way down. Deal with anger of past issues not to project into future and continue therapy for life and deal with triggers of past trauma damaging life. A projection defence mechanisms leads to conflicts of dumping negative emotions wins battles is lonely too perfect to fit in. Constantly looks for perfect utopia is insecure, always fearful and needy. And codepend suffocate, emotionally drains people doing everything for them but its never good enough always complaining need life coach to help or support them.

Courtesy:Image Credit




heartworldAll people on earth are immigrants because God Shared His Love by filling earth with people when earth was void and empty. God’s Absolute Love shows God’s marvelous, majestic wonders of creation recorded in the Bible in Genesis 1:1. In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. The earth was a formless void and darkness covered the face of the deep. So the Spirit of God moved upon the face of the waters. God said, Let there be light so there was light. 4God saw the light was good so God separated light from darkness. God called the light Day and darkness, Night so evening and morning was first day. God said, Let there be firmament in the midst of the waters to divide the waters from the waters. God made the firmament and divided the waters under the firmament from the waters above the firmament. God called firmament Heaven so this evening and morning was the second day. God said, Let the waters under heaven be gathered together unto one place and dry land appear so it happened exactly. 10 God called dry land Earth and gathering together of waters the seas so God saw it was good.

11 God said, Let the earth bring forth grass, herb yielding seed, fruit trees yielding fruit after each kind with seed is in itself to replant on earth so it was so. 12 The earth brought forth grass, herb yielding seed after its kind, and trees yielding fruits with seed in itself so God saw it was good. 13 The next evening and morning was the third day. 14 God said, Let there be lights in the firmament of the heaven to divide day from the night for signs, seasons, days, years. 15 The lights in firmament of heaven to give light upon earth. 16 God made two great lights, the greater light to rule day, lesser light rules night so God made stars also.17 God set firmament of heaven to give light upon the earth. 18 To rule over day and night to divide light from darkness so God saw it was good. 19 The next evening and morning was fourth day. 20 God said, Let the waters bring forth abundantly living creatures, fowls to fly above earth in open firmament heaven. 21 God created great whales, all living creatures so the waters brought forth abundantly so God said it is good.

22 God blessed them to be fruitful, multiply, fill the waters in the seas, fowls multiply in the earth. 23 The next evening and the morning were the fifth day. 24 God said, Let the earth bring forth living creatures after its kind, cattle, creeping things, beasts of earth so it was so. 25 God made beast of the earth and cattle after their kind, things creeping on earth and God saw it was good. 26 God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness to have dominion over the fish of the sea, fowls of the air, cattle, over all the earth, and creeping things on earth. 27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. 28 God blessed them and said to them Be fruitful, and multiply, to replenish the earth and subdue it. Have dominion over fish, sea, fowls of the air, other living things on the earth. 29 God said, I give you herbs bearing seed upon the face of earth and trees with fruit yielding seed to you for meat. 30 All animals of the earth, fowls of the air, creeping living things on earth, green herbs for meat. 31 And God saw every thing that he had made, and, behold, it was very good. And the evening and the morning were the sixth day.

godisloveheartIn Genesis 2:1, The heavens and earth was finished and all host of them. On seventh day God ended His work so God rested on seventh day from all his work He Made. God blessed 7 day so sanctified it and God rested from all Work of creation. Generations of heavens and earth created by God dwell on earth and heavens. God was pleased and impressed with His creation so God called all good and very good. All things were perfect because they were made by THE PERFECT GOD. God’s Love fill His creation to enjoy God’s Super Abundant resources provided until eternity. God expects all creation to Appreciate, Obey, Thank, Treat God as Bona fide Authentic, Prototype, Patent Owner of mankind made in God’s Image. In the beginning God had great wonderful relationship with mankind. God enjoyed their company so came down regularly to fellowship with Him directly. God relaxed, thought mankind fully understood, accepted His Commands something happened. To God’s Shock and Horror mankind preferred to listen and follow a creeping crawling creature’s instructions than Loving God. God could not believe Adam and Eve’s greed and lack of contentment.God provided all they needed including material wealth, onyx, riches, bdellium, gold, silver, rich minerals resources, cattle on 1000 hills. In Genesis 3:6, conned by rebellious devil thrown down from heaven, perfect mankind Adam and Eve due to greed sin against God and ate from the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil. Contaminated by devil’s deception God expelled Adam and Eve from Garden of Eden for disobedience. Soon first murder occurs due to envy and jealousy of Able’s meat sacrifice accepted and Cain’s rejected shortly after mankind’s first sin. God became sad, angry, disappointed and broken-hearted by mankind’s misdemeanor yet still loved His people. God missed those precious moments of fellowship, laughter, joy, conversations so longed  for restoration of lost love relationship. God sent several warnings and punishments of floods in Noah’s days in Genesis 5:32-10:1-8 ff in vain. Fire in Sodom and Gomorrah in Genesis 19 ff had no effect. God sent prophets, priests, ministers to warn to mankind to cajole to repent in vain. God sent Jesus Christ, The Ultimate Priceless Blood Sacrifice to save yet mankind more stubborn than ever. Christ Jesus came to restore Love lost between God and mankind. Mankind is helpless and hopeless without God’s input. In fact, complicated man-made ideas excluding God have tragic consequences.Man deludes in control God’s creation without obeying God’s command. Mankind will never have good success aside of God. The heart of man is very evil due to greed, love of money the root of all evil so the world loves money than God. Stock and share market celebrate bank balance not souls won. God’s Greatest Desire is to Restore Eternal Love relationship with mankind. So all people on God’s earth are immigrants. Nobody brought anything into the world so nobody takes anything out of this world. Those attacking fellow immigrants on earth will pay in hell if they do not repent to ask God’s mercy and forgiveness. In 2 Chronicles 7:14, God said if My People called by My Name, humble themselves repent, call on God, He will hear and answer prayer to heal earth to bring perfect peace and perfect love again on God’s Earth. The earth is the Lords and the Fullness thereof. God’s Point of View Perspective of earth is perfect from space with no political demarcation lines. God’s Vision of Earth remains as designed by God despite scramble land grabbing destruction of earth. God Jehovah Nissi Will Arise in Jesus Name at right time to end suffering for all immigrants on earth.

There is a song which says: God is Coming, The creator of the earth is coming, God the judge is coming, Friend this earth does not belong to you. God owns all creation, the silver, gold, and cattle on a thousand hills. All are immigrants on earth.

Courtesy: Credit Image


Size matters as I found out recently after losing weight through a program to change my life. I could not walk without rubbing my legs together sometimes causing bleeding. i had to use plaster to cover the wounds. The salty sweat caused sting of my wounds. So I became desperate to lose weight. I remembered the size was alright without legs rubbing against each other. Although I ate fairly reasonably or so I thought, until I found out excessive hydration was part of cause of weight problem. I made a diet chart to change unhealthy drinks and I realised was also addicted to water without knowing it. I reduced first my food size portion intake. And informed all friends, family, loved ones to serve me smaller portions of all my favourite meals.
It was difficult at first especially as I watched others eat but I had to discipline myself. The first week was particularly difficult because suddenly all shops seem to do bulk discount my favourite food as if to convince me to keep buying. I had to resist and practice self-control to endure the temptation to buy the cheaper plus extra free deals on sale. So I avoided shop aisles with my favourite foods. I choose healthy ingredients and cooked better home-made meals. I still craved foods addicted eaten for so long over the years. My favourite fizzy drink was vanilla cream soda. I drank about 10 litres a day as it was cheaply sold in most bargain shops. In addition I drank coffee plus water because no matter what I drank I could not quench thirst without water.






I was a water addict so carried water with me always. I could not pass by anywhere there is free water without drinking 3-4 cups at a time many times a day. Some people even collapsed from reducing body salt content with too much water with a few fatalities. I cut down on red meat so eat more fish. I cut out fried foods so started grilling or boiling most of my favourite foods. I cleared my home of the fat fryer used to fry bags of chicken and chips everyday to share with family and friends. I started withdrawing from water, fizzy drinks, so much milk gradually. I reduced drinks by 1 glass consistently to dwindle down to acceptable suitable amount daily recommended. Each day I maintain my body’s hydration level adding up all fluids I drink. I learnt large intestines produce water from processing food contents. So careful extra water drank not drown or dehydrate body.

I researched and found out people died from drowning within body with too much water. I could not believe water was capable of causing weight gain. This was surprising to me when I found out. It made sense because I did not realise my weight was impacted by water. Come to think of it water is quite heavy, weighed or carried about. So water used to be one of my favourite indulgences. Now I resist the strong urge to gulp water down. Now my new love is that I learnt to steam – fry eggs, use water to make stew well in place of oil. My skin started glowing and my hair grew better. I realised my clothes started dropping off. At first I used safety pins to hold them firmly on my body. Over time, pins were not suitable so looked ridiculously shaped bulging out-of-place. I changed wardrobe from sizes 24 to 20 at first and 3 months later dropped to size 16.


I eat no more junk fried foods, sweets, doughnuts, cakes and cut down on coffee. I choose fruits, vegetable alternatives, carrot sticks, cucumber slices, grains and nuts. I eat sugar-free usually healthy cereal brands with nuts in them. Over all people started commenting on my size to ask if I was on diet. I said yes but not for cosmetic reasons. I had to change my size to overcome walking and enduring pain from bruises of rubbed thighs. Although, I could wear suitable protective clothing to cover thighs, I still had to endure pain as my legs grew too close for comfort. Now the first thing I do each morning is to I juice and blend varieties of fruits and vegetables according to the desired taste. I make enough to last the whole day. So I take it with me when I am out and about.

I drink juice the whole day. On very hot days I juice twice as I tend to drink more fruit juice. This helps fill me up well so I eat light cereal for breakfast, good healthy lunch and tea time lots of green vegetables and fish supper meal. I make allowances to eat foods I crave once in a while so not to become desperate for missing such taste. I meet up with friends and family to join in to celebrate good food and to exchange recipes. My life is much happier as I do not have to use plasters to cover thighs anymore because bruised legs. I feel I have perfect right size for my weight as I walk easily and faster than before. I enjoy walking about without pain previously endured. I do moderate exercise definitely recommended anyone struggling with weight problems to change in simple small steps at a time. Do not jump from extreme level A straight to Z level down sizing, be gradual.

Seek support of good friends to encourage and help them. Be true to yourself, sincere, keep track of all foods and snacks eaten but not fussy if you relapse on your diet program. Be flexible and human enough to admit you are capable of mistakes. Start again and keep up good work. Enjoy your life daily because life is too short to stress yourself about yo-yo body sizes. I keep a range of clothes and shoes as I recognise my weight changes affect my shoe sizes as well. I do not fix my body size on specific number. I expect changes fairly within my acceptable size range to prevent legs from bruising by rubbing against each due to over weight. I share my testimony with all interested in helping themselves. I lost weight for right health reasons as my body size truly matters.

Courtesy: Image Credit



GLBC_Box2011God’s lifestyle packaged in 1 Samuel 25 :18-42 contains lives of all trusting HIM eternally while fighting God’s battles in and out. God, Jehovah Nissi Personally Secures David’s personal protection in God’s Life Packaged Bundle. And David defeats Goliath to protect Saul and the nation but seen as threat by Saul who tried to kill David several times in vain. David was on the run pursued by Saul due to envy and jealousy. David’s army follower band 400 at Adullam increased to 600 soldiers joined by the Cherethites and Pelethites standing army retained after David became king in 1 Samuel 23:13. David’s body-guard army protect defending farms, crops from marauding band raiders. David’s army provided a useful service help using military skill tactics knowledge to defeat enemies. In return David humbles himself and asks Nabal for supplies. Did not take by force without permission but Nabal’s denies David’s request to help treated David as vagabond on run. David, angry wanted a quick revenge killing to destroy Nabal. Abigail his wife acted quickly, bringing David and his men food and supplies.trapped_inside_the_boxAbigail used wisdom to help David not could slaughter her husband Nabal in vengeance for disobeying David’s order to bring gifts to David. Abigail brought presents to David to atone for Nabal’s contempt. Abigail managed to appeal to speak to king David on the run living in caves pursued by king Saul. Told David God preserved his life packaged bundle for a reason. Ensure David’s star throne survived for the birth of Jesus Christ not vanquished. David’s life was precious in God’s sight and David’s house endures after fighting God’s battles. Abigail stood on God’s grace to soften David’s heart to impact him powerfully. Said its beneath David giant killer to condescend to take vengeance on a weak miniscus ant size despicable enemy as Nabal incapable of showing kindness to David. Nabal lacks understanding of significant value and importance of honouring a great king like David. As the king ordained by God Abigail told David, Nabal was beneath his status compared to giants killed by David. She reminded David of his good glorious past to end present troubles. giftbox1 (1)God preserves David’s life to ensure the descendants take the necessary position of king to protect weak defenceless lives precious of people of God so His Saviour Jesus is born. Abigail’s powerful Godly message touched David’s heart not to kill Nabal. David the Psalmist indulged his passion praising God. David realised his conscience to keep peace stays calm reinforced life not to waste his brilliant military reputation on insignificant jerk like Nabal. So the sweetness of Abigail’s words touched the revengeful heart of David to mellow him not to slaughter in angry revenge bitterness. David accepts Abigail plea consideration of his image of fighting a helpless weak man Nabal. Abigail submissive yields to pacify great offence, penitent petitioner but did not excuse husband’s conduct. She blessed David with three blessings prayed, in verse 28, “please forgive transgressions of your maidservant for God will make for my lord an enduring house. Because my lord is fighting battles of God no evil will not be found in you all your days. 29 If anyone rises up to pursue you to seek your life, the life of my lord shall be bound in bundle of the living with the LORD your God. But the lives of your enemies HE will sling out as from hollow of sling. 30 And when the LORD does for my lord according to all good HE spoke concerning you and appoints you ruler over Israel the LORD your God will keep your life safe like HIS treasure hidden in the secured package of life.leadership_cappedDavid’s life is bound up in the bundle of righteousness as the lover of God. God decides to let Godly ones be preserved forever in heaven by God’s Good Choice. God lets evil ones go from God’s bundle of life eternally to be punished in hell by their own doing. God keeps eternal souls of people safe but enemies thrown out. David said to Abigail, Blessed be the LORD God of Israel who sent provisions to bless souls with God bound in bundle of life with Jehovah God. David said to Abigail, Blessed be the Lord. 18 Abigail acted quickly took 200 hundred loaves of bread, 2 skins of wine, 5 dressed sheep, 5 seahs of roasted grain, a 100 cakes of raisins, 200 cakes of pressed figs, loaded them on donkeys 19 Told her servants, go on ahead I will follow you but she did not tell her husband Nabal. 20 She came riding her donkey into a mountain ravine, where David and his men descending toward her met them 21 David said, its useless watching over property in wilderness so nothing of was missing paid back evil for good 22 David furious wanted to kill all males in morning belonging to Nabal next day 23 Abigail before David’s deadline went secretly to supply food, drinks to David. She quickly got off donkey, bowed down before David with face to ground 24 She fell at his feet and said, “Pardon your servant, my lord to let me speak to you so hear what your servant has to say. 25 Please pay no attention, my lord, the wicked man Nabal a Fool for folly goes with him. I did not see the men my lord sent 26 Now, my lord, as surely as God lives and as you live, God kept you from bloodshed from avenging yourself with your own hands. May your enemies and intent harming my lord be Nabal 27 Let this gift brought to my lord, be given to men who follow you. God’s enemies who hurt God’s children since 70 years in Auschwitz in Poland killed innocent people due to ignorant hatred, greed, envy, jealousy, xenophobia, ignorance because man’s heart is very evil. But will pay for their evil deeds on God’s judgement day if they do not repent, ask God’s forgiveness and mercy in Jesus Name. Absolute power makes abusers feel in control but God deals with them. David forgave Abigail’s family so Nabal heard David’s threat. Abigail intervenes to save all the men but Nabal had heart attack from shock orchestrated by God. So died as a tyrant who refused to help David. Abigail’s fear of God her wisdom, maturity impressed David who married her to make her his wife and his queen. download


Celebrate your life alive fully, thank God and commemorate life as TV program of “This is your life” brings friends, family, teachers, colleagues together in life with the person to celebrate them. Harry Hill was nominated kept a secret all contacts or relatives, loved ones, and colleagues, classmates surprise him. So put together the relevant or appropriate information collected in book to celebrate him. And  book of honour is given to keep. People chosen efficiently organise the surprise party. Collect photographs memories, or past memorabilia put together into one book. All are invited together surprises them their celebrate lives. After party to eat and celebrate person given the book documenting childhood to an adult life. This is one of the best TV programs and it shows true understanding of meaning of life. It is so important to celebrate life each day if possible with family, friends, or loved ones. Above all to remember to thank and Glorify God Giver of life for years alive before it’s too late or dead. A photo shows buried gold of departed no more of any value to them after death.One need not go on TV to celebrate life but good to remember to honour family and friends at some point in life time in their presence alive. Most people seem to put more effort into celebrating life after death. So funerals big party events with lots of preparation of their earthly treasures stored for future use put into graves. Treasures are useful to preserve past history to show creative artworks. Above is some of a Staffordshire hoard artefacts of 3500 gold shields, swords, belts seen. These items are supposed to help equip owner to enjoy after life. So is pyramids been built for burial with gold, wealth accumulated belonging to a person. Their dead expectated to use it in next life. Gems and gold sit in piles for thousands of years on dusty floors in tombs of Egyptian pyramids or others.The sizes of graves increased according to their status or wealth. In the obelisks were complete tombs with mummified bodies intrigue world. Golden intricate riches set up of tropical luxury wealth plundered and distributed. Treasures of jewelry befitting status, stature of king, swords, their daggers, or weapons and cosmetics. These tomb contents includes vessels, vases of gold, jewelry, gold art works, or sceptres, trinkets, diamonds, topaz, beads, headrests, chairs, stools, or leather sandals, or musical instruments, storage chests, bowls, combs, and other trinkets, along with food. Wealthy ones buried with gold, money cars, furniture, boats, servants, craftsmen, workshops or scribes, soldiers found in tombs so a dead king lives his full lifestyle. Chariots horses, terracotta soldiers guard a king in afterlife. Wives, servants and slaves, killed to accompany king to serve in an afterlife to enjoy companionship. But a brand new or normal beautiful clothing worn for future use in grave is wasted. Artefacts, stored bags of wheat grain in grave stocked piled to provide Egyptian funeral banquets in afterlife. So luxury tombs built by the impoverished slaves, or skilled craftsmen, peasants for kings, queens, noble classes or rich merchants. Artefacts from tombs in museums in the world collected by the archaeologist and archivists for posterity. The citizens left behind fear not giving them grand final farewell to ruler after death will haunt them. Fear punishment of the ancestors watching from plane of immortals. So a pledge and levy paid by citizens in their life pays occasion. People bury dead in a simple graves body is treated, arranged in particular way by their faith or belief. If dead person did not keep written will is buried so regular visits to graveside to tended, sends food and drinks, flowers, teddy bears. Their graves are shown to next generation’s family tree. The living feel it is their duty and responsibility to provide each tomb of lavish decoration. Maintain regular contact visit for solace is comfort and the deceased feels loved. Modern afterlife grave goods are sewing machines, tools of trade buried with the deceased, shoes, money to cross river to pay toll on way. Funeral are big events like a wedding ceremony. Organised by a professional business event managers, funeral contractors who provide music, and entertainment. Food, venue, chairs, tents, meals, drinks, cater for VIP guests ensures things run smoothly to plan. Big donors give huge sums to avoid debt to make profit, fashionable, provide dance services to entertain guests to party.
Understanding of a meaning of afterlife shows earthly riches is not valued after demise. So most richest kings lived to 90 years old, buried on same day draped in simple white cloth in unmarked grave according to custom. Protocol of others use the most expensive designer coffins of shape desired ordered. King dressed in the most expensive clothes or funeral cortege procession. Dressed in the best fabrics chosen by chief mourners and all sympathisers changes into costumes every hour to display wealth to show off. Burials postponed for magnitude of kings stature and status in the society to prepare to give the best funeral party in terms of the age. Preparations can take as long as 5 years with deceased in deep freezer mortuary paid for till all family members afford find time to gather for funeral. Funeral cost millions of dollars. Older deceased bigger have bigger party as king the ceremony is ultimate display of money to signify position of power in the death hierarchy ceremony tradition. The competition keeps up with Joneses, nobody wants to change such standards of funeral traditions. Record on video each ceremony to distribute to friends, family, loved one. Keeps memory alive of the deceased’s funeral event to watch from time to time. Post images, video on facebook online display blog document of events. Enables whole ceremony to share if unable to attend but partake by visual reality. Good to record precious loved one’s passing departure if affords lavish competitive ceremony budgeting. Misguided fear of letting departed down means going to these extreme lengths in debt. Members of family hungry daily, out of school lack fees but not invested in. Contribute to lavish death ceremony events done by poorest of the poor. It is compulsory all citizens join compelled to take loans to prepare for funeral in debt paid for years. Time and amount invested in death can eradicate poverty to build schools or hospitals. Living in fear of ancestors celebrate death more than life. Best to celebrate in a presence of person to honour them is far better than all grand funerals in their absence. Huge funeral costs money spent never spent in their lifetime. Did not afford medical treatment of person alive or the appropriate diet in hospital suitable for improving health. Abandoned for years, family members too busy enjoying life to care about aged elderly. Forget they will grow old what person sows is what they reap. No matter lavished pyramid mausoleum accolade tomb goods, flesh decays souls but lives on. Society needs rethink to redress priorities to celebrate life. The soul goes back to God the flesh decays earth to earth, dust to dust. This pyramid high tier open grave in Japan.P1200014
All who understand and recognise true meaning of life do live practical lives. So use material goods and riches to make the most of life. Beyond life in the after world there is no need to own material goods for prosperity or pack luggage for deceased. God’s abundant mansions of pure gold, diamond, topaz diamonds jasper etc better than earthly goods. So material possessions of earth are not needed in heaven. All the silver, gold, wealth, riches belong to Jehovah God so all people use it on earth. There is more than enough resources Solomon said with God’s Special honour given riches, wealth inventoried in Torah. The Ark of Covenant is made of pure gold. God has super abundant wealth for all God’s creation. So there is no need to kill or destroy another before one becomes blessed by God. At the end of the day, no matter how rich on earth body dies so the soul lives on to give account to God. Maintain God’s soul in you connect with God as most important focus in life. All said and done perished flesh decays but souls lives with God in eternity. So tell all people to celebrate life while alive.

Courtesy Image Credit

BBC This Is Your Life


Pianohouse1.jpgPsalm 81:1-7, says all to praise God with musical equipment, songs, grand piano  violin lyre or harps. Grand piano in Huainan China was built in 2007 by the architectural students, Hefei University of Technology truly amazing. Entrance is through violin escalators grand piano is perfect music symbol of God’s Glory. 4b25c1b54d109d43d80ad3e424c85c7dPraise God with loud music and guitars of all shapes and sizes to celebrate life.20191124_124146.jpg Praise God’s Name and make music to God with tambourine drums trumpets. Worship the Lord for HIS Excellence, Mercy, Grace, Compassion in Jesus.Psalm 149, praise God’s Name by  violin, grand piano, organ, bless God rejoice.e64d0-img_4254Psalm 150:1 Praise God in His Sanctuary praise Him in firmaments of His power.Praise God’s Name Worship the LORD Excellence, Mercy, Grace, Compassion. Psalm 150:2 Praise God for His Almighty acts and for HIS excellent Greatness.Praise God in HIS Sanctuary and in the firmament of His power with the flute and lyre. Sing music to trumpets timbrel lures, make merry to sounds of harps.wp-1574599780135.jpgharpist-on-stage-8.jpg _wsb_356x302_H.jpgThe harpsichord is played by thousands in heaven to worship to celebrate God everyday and at all times by all people.Praise God, with sound of the trumpets, praise him with the psaltery and harp.Psalm 150:4 declares Praise God in HIS sanctuary privilege to enjoy God among us. Praise him with timbrel, dance with stringed instruments and organs.Singing to drum music makes the heart merry to various sounds of this drums. Praise God with loud guitars or cymbals and upon high sounding cymbals.Let every thing that hath breath praise the Lord. Praise ye the Lord.


Courtesy: Image Credit


A freedom of self-expression with sense of humour directed at yourself calms a situation to avoid tension. Talking about life issues must not bring any conflict to focus on you in selfish ways. Break from evil manipulation of others, walk away to cool down in a healthy way. Avoid the further argument to agree IN ADVANCE on key word alert from the danger zone of aggressive fight. Use sense of humour to can calm the situation to make people feel comfortable. Highlight the body like Will Smith’s jokes of his distinguished ears in the Prince of Bell Air. Avoid dark sense of humour sarcasm joke, it doesn’t sit well with people in other cultural contexts. Poking fun at various traits in people, spots, birth marks, unique tribal features, physique, height, little or extra tall people, large nose highlights God’s Majestic beautiful creation’s marvelous life. God says the Christian believers to greet and speak words of God in Bible in Psalms, hymns of good report builds people up. God didn’t create the seven billion identical clones one exact kind of creation deemed better than all others. Diversity of a different facial types, skin tones, head shapes are all part of God’s bigger picture of God’s Creation. Bible says nobody can tell God how to design or what variety creation to make. The world needs to realise and value, equal rights, opportunities of a diverse people and stop ageism elderly abuse by young bullies. Must respect, conform, comply, agree with God’s Wisdom of diversity to know they will grow old too. Important and necessary to train children to value and honour old people. God’s diversity celebrates beauty in creation so attacks  on others for features or deformity is an insult to God. A person attacked has no control over their features, colour, race, hair type, bald genes in family. God says youth must give due respect to all elders to honour them youth too will grow old.
The Bible in 2 Kings 2-23-25 says that Elisha prophet of God went to Bethel to minister. On his way young children in the city mocked him and said, “Go up, you bald head go up, you bald head! Elisha often passed through to Bethel so had to put up with teasing for years of ridicule from this uncouth children. The elderly Elisha, stressed and exhausted had double responsibility left behind by Elijah in heaven who abandoned work due to evil torments of Jezebel. A toupe would have solved Elisha’s looks but the children did not leave him alone or pick other imperfection. Elisha hoped they will change or stop but things got worse. Extremely tired on his circuit from one place to another they attacked him once again. He would prefer offer of a cup of tea, glass of water to quench thirst and bread to stop hunger. Instead he looked behind him and saw them mocking so cursed them in the name of the LORD. Two bears came out of the woods and tore up forty two children. Elisha went from there to Mount Carmel so returned to Samaria. This action seems extremely harsh in a liberal society idolising spoilt children. Young children attacked God’s wisdom of creation, query human form designed by God’s will, purpose or plan. God permitted the rude youths of Bethel to be destroyed for hurting Elisha for so long without discipline of their parents. Probably inherited rude character from parents to attack God’s prophet so youth mocked and ridiculed Elisha to “go up” like Elijah to heaven. Prophet is shocked by rude insolent children brought up in Torah Tanakh to honour elders so life is well to live long. Some feel punishment is too great for offence felt Elisha was not kind. People excuse bad behaviours of disobedient rebellious children not corrected not taught to behave towards elders. If their parents aware of Elisha’s complaint to stop their rude behaviour by his past efforts were all in vain.          20200524_150347Jesus loves children to behave as He did by good example. They taunted Elisha minding his own business led to the sad drastic consequence the children faced. Elisha used God’s power to teach them a lesson not to insult elders or the man of God. Families in towns and cities gain from hearing gospel so wicked evil bullies must be stopped, change for God not to strike them dead. Train children  to be good citizens by excellent example of parents. Unsupervised children roam free without discipline, idle hands devil uses to hurt themselves. Teach fruits of righteousness in Christ to celebrate and praise  God. Put fear of God in children early to lead to a respectful law abiding citizen. Honour God’s servants not make fun of them so families, adults, young people, little children and infants teach reverence of God’s prophets. Crucial not to mock or to ridicule God’s leaders and senior citizens. This matter of respect of elders is a command from God Almighty Jehovah. God’s strict discipline is for the good reason to protect lives for a child’s own good. God’s prophet or man of God belong to God called as choosen leaders so Bible teaches children to know their place and to respect authority. As future leaders children must live by the golden rule to treat all with equal respect. God intervened on behalf of other rebellion against Moses and Aaron led by Korah. God considers it serious offence directly against God to mock God’s servants by the head shape, looks, size, ethnic tribe, race in Miriam’s leprosy punishment for racism against Moses’ wife Zipporah.      jesus-chilren1Jesus loves all children but God will not let elders be mocked by rude free liberal views of free expression at the expense of God’s servants or elders. This matter offends and provokes God but Western society can make some rude children  think they are above correction. Think they “your majesty the child” served by adults. Elisha’s Divine action  may seem strange, extreme in comparison to God’s hell fire torment. Elisha’s action stopped their rude malicious behaviour. In most cultures respect due honour is given to the hierarchy of elders. Some kings and queens prostrate flat on a floor to greet king above them in authority rank, God is Glorified and Highly Esteemed. So the righteous are humble, God hates proud arrogant insubordinate adult leading by rude example dishonour authority. And young people are trained to be afraid of speaking rudely to elders, leaders. They are punished with extreme discipline to correct them. God notices all said and done, recorded in Book of Life so detests mockery of a defective mind, body, peril at scorn of those minding own business. Parents must train children to drive out the foolishness in the hearts of children. Children grow to become like parents so influence the family or next generation. Jesus loves children and wants the best for them. Parents must ensure the child is respectful, age appropriate discipline is not cruelty. As bad behaviour undealt with can fester, lead to condemnation in hell due to careless bad example set by parents. In Matthew 26:51, Mark 14:47, John 18:10, Jesus in Gethsemane Garden dealt with Peter’s impulsive behaviour vengeance but Jesus forgave soldier and healed him. Peter drew sword to cut off Malchus servant soldier of high priest’s right ear. Jesus forgave his enemies and made Peter head of Church. Jesus taught Peter it wasn’t Peter’s business to try to defend Jesus, God’s Power, God defends His Name, Plans, Purposes in His Son Jesus or God’s servants. To taunt or ease pain some towns in Brong Ahafo, Ghana celebrate insult festival each year. So go out to freely insult each other without a fight breaking out in revenge. Its not all people who celebrate insult so teach the children to respect and honour a man of God and all elders. Teach the children to control their loose tongues to speak if it is necessary on important facts. To keep a stiff upper lip not to be rude to others and by a loose careless tongue insulting people. Rude free speech self-expression killed children who went too far as their families endorsed their brat, spoilt, out of control behaviour. God says get rid of foolishness in the hearts of children so start from the early years. The children who are disciplined, respect themselves, peers, adults and authority. Are polite, and have good manners so make people like them  and to enjoy their company.  

 Courtesy: Image Credit

The Prophet Elisha curses the children who mocked him, by Willem van Bundel

The Children of Bethel mourned by their mothers (Laurent de La Hire, 1653


Moses and Aaron threatened by some people called a meeting to their resolve grievances against them. After the years of toiling in bondage torment of slavery in Egypt the whole nation of millions in refugees in camp found themselves not doing much in luxury of their masters anymore. Without the basic necessities or any adequate enough clean running water, sumptuous meals, sophisticated medical facilities, resources of luxury in Egypt. No regular gardening, farming, fishing, building pyramids, constructing super big structural works, felt bored. The harsh desert environment impact them to have contempt for Moses and Aaron. The devil finds work for an idle hand angry frustrated, unaccomplished. Begin to look for things to do, try to preoccupy themselves. With not much the luxury resources in wilderness are ungrateful unthankful to God. Begun attacking, mocking, murmuring, even ridiculing, taunting, complaining and moan try to sabotage by recruiting and inciting others to join to confront and harass, blaming Moses and Aaron for life problems in wilderness. Start trying to use their gossip to damage Godly leadership reputation of leaders Moses and Aaron. Instead submission to God’s authority encourages corporate support leading by good example to discuss any perceived grievance against leaders.       1546769563978364228563.jpgRather than humbly approach them in a civilised manner to solve their problem and to recreate the new self – sufficient community in wilderness attacks Moses Aaron. Despite the position of authority and privilege not loyal or God Fearing. Seethed with bottled rage vented anger by ganging up with others to challenge leadership of Moses and Aaron. So went looking for opportunities to query or to destroy God’s Chosen Appointed leaders Moses and Aaron. They focussed anger towards Moses thereby enraging God Who Chose Moses and Aaron to lead them. In Numbers 16:1-35, Korah son of Izhar, son of Kohath, son of Levi plus Dathan, Abiram sons of Eliab, son of Peleth Reubenites, took men rebelled against Moses, with their 250 leaders of community from assembly. Assembled against Moses and Aaron saying, “You take too much upon yourselves seeing whole community is holy, every one of them and God is also among them. Why then do you exalt yourselves above the community of the Lord?” 16:4 When Moses heard it he fell down with his face to the ground. 16:5 Then he said to Korah and to all his company, “In the morning the Lord will make known who are His and who is holy. God will cause that person God CHOSE, HE WILL cause to approach HIM. 16:6 Do this, Korah, you and all your company, take censers, 16:7 put fire and set incense on them before God tomorrow. The man the Lord chooses will be holy. You take too much on yourselves sons of Levi.16:8 Moses said to Korah, “Listen now, you sons of Levi! 16:9 Does it seem too small a thing to you God of Israel separated you from the community of Israel to bring you near to himself, to perform service of the tabernacle of the Lord, to stand before the community to minister to them? 16:10 God brought you near and all your brothers, the sons of Levi, with you. Do you now seek the priesthood also? 16:11 You and all your company assembled together against the Lord! And what has Aaron done that you murmur against him?” 16:12 Moses summoned Dathan and Abiram, sons of Eliab, but said, “We will not come up. 16:13 Is it a small thing you brought us out of land flowing with milk and honey to kill us in wilderness? Now do you want to make yourself a prince over us?16:14 Moreover, you have not brought us into a land that flows with milk and honey, nor given us inheritance of fields and vineyards. Do you think you can blind these men? We will not come up.” 16:15 Moses was very angry, and he said to the Lord, “Have no respect for their offering! I have not taken so much as one donkey from them, nor have I harmed any one of them!”16:16 Then Moses said to Korah, “You and all your company present yourselves before the Lord and leaders tomorrow. 16:17 Each of you take his censer, put incense in it and present his censer before the Lord. 250 censers along with you and Aaron, each of you with his censer.” 16:18 So everyone took his censer, put fire in and set incense on it stood at entrance of tent of meeting with Moses and Aaron. 16:19 Korah assembles their community against Moses and Aaron at entrance of tent of meeting. The GLORY of the Lord appeared to the whole community in Numbers 16:20 God spoke to Moses and Aaron 16:21 “Separate yourselves from community to consume them instantly.” 16:22 Then they threw themselves down with their faces to the ground and said, “O God, God of spirits of all people, will you be angry with whole community when only one man sins?”16:23 So the Lord spoke to Moses: 16:24 “Tell the community: ‘Get away from around the homes of Korah, Dathan, and Abiram.’” 16:25 Then Moses got up and went to Dathan and Abiram; and the elders of Israel went after him. 16:26 And he said to the community, “Move away from the tents of these wicked men, and do not touch anything they have, lest you be destroyed because of all their sins.” 16:27 So they got away from the homes of Korah, Dathan, and Abiram on every side, and Dathan and Abiram came out stationed themselves in the entrance of their tents with their wives, children and toddlers. 16:28 Then Moses said, “This is so you will know the Lord has sent me to do all these works, for I have not done them of my own will. 16:29 If these men die natural death or share fate of all men the Lord has not sent me.15467678840431603215414.jpg16:30 But If the Lord does something entirely new, and earth opens its mouth and swallows them up along with all they have and they go down alive in grave to know these men have despised the Lord!” 16:31 When Moses finished speaking these words the ground under them splits open. 16:32 Earth opened mouth and swallowed with households, Korah’s men and all goods. 16:33 They and all that they had went down alive into the pit, and the earth closed over them. So they perished from among the community. 16:34 All Israelites around them fled at their cry, for they said, “What if the earth swallows us too?” 16:35 Then a fire went out from the Lord and devoured the 250 men who offered incense. God has His Way of dealing with people rebelling against chosen leaders. God’s chosen leader is not perfect or liked according to man’s decision. God ordains leaders so directly accountable and responsible to God. Reluctant tyrant does not account to God, respect people but lord themselves over people. This enrages and infuriates some members of the community to try to take the law into own hands. God does not yield to anger and destructive rage anarchist’s personality nature in name of God. God responds decisively by opening earth to bury rebellious families alive. God is capable of directly dishing quickly HIS OWN Judgement Punishment on behalf of His People HIS OWN Way or Timing. Its important to Fear God and to give leaders due honour. Egyptian bondage after Exodus in desert wilderness exists, in Christendom today. Moses and Aaron did not entertain self – righteous leaders and members wanting control to direct the Church in the place of God. Many leaders like Moses and Aaron appointed and called chosen by God Jehovah still face challenges. Infightings by flimsy excuse, issue complains about colour of carpet, decor, soft comfortable pews, sitting positions in front of church to be seen on TV. Ignorant of their financial responsibility of running mega televised Church costing in millions of dollars per week. Leaders expected to please a high maintenance sophisticated funders and heavy duty backbone contributors want to run leader’s life and church agenda. Leaders who dare correct inappropriate behaviour abandoned by such regular sponsors and supporters. Inadvertently responsible for those creating pyramid scheme church lifestyle leaders became accustomed to. Develop taste for good things of life, wanting more to keep up with the Joneses’ sophisticated lifestyle. Si God is out of Centre of worship with sermons becoming insinuations at long suffering members of the congregation. Church life is chaotic as leaders are self-serving. God, Ultimate Owner of people with Christ as Head of Christian Church.15467676662081603215414.jpg This means leaders or the congregation are both directly accountable to God. The Church first pleases and worships God before tackling personal grievances privately during counselling. God asked Pharaoh to let people go to worship and serve God but refused drowned in red sea. Whole purpose of God’s people on earth is to acknowledge God First in Christ as HIS Creation, priceless people in HIS firmaments. And God wants total an exclusive attention on HIMSELF First and Foremost before honour is given to honourable leaders. Leaders are God’s Stewards but rather please people and Moses refused to compromise, endorse condone destructive rebellious tyrant. Some leaders demand consultation fees to counsel members who pay upfront. This in turn means they become source of wealth so, members are banned from associating with Christian affiliations to retain control over their lives. So having given all their life savings to them have nowhere else to turn. Meanwhile, watch leaders get richer, members get poorer. Resentment sets in and atmosphere is tense but they are coupled for life. Some are paired to marry so the become the pawn of those leaders. God’s Word is used to influence and cajole them into submission. God is not at helm of affairs or at Centre in heart of such a Church. Having the forms of godliness but deny God’s Powerful Presence through Holy Spirit. Churches’ routine ritual gimmick emotions, grumbling factions, bickering gossips rules such churches. However God says HIS judgements will begin in the House of God. Preaching or sitting in pews does not make one a born again believer unless one accepts Jesus Christ as personal Lord and Saviour in Jesus Name. Studying Bible like Bereans to get to know God better and understand HIS WORDS in Bible. Not sweeping brewing issues under the carpet until it becomes the fully blown scandal beyond public concealment. The truth of the matter is both become victim of success, tolerate, to enable and to condone. Avoiding any correction due to fear of man so leaders massages egos above Godly ‘worship’ of people in place of God Almighty.  Do not recognise pattern of behaviour of taking God’s adulation honour for themselves. Yet God Comes First in the person’s life empowered by the Holy Spirit through God’s Word meets together to celebrate God in Jesus Name. And fellowship with others as one people in House of God. End time warnings of Jesus predict the events will cause some to be angry and vexed because of perilous times. Stress and pressure make some to target their anger on others needlessly. They do not seek face of God concerning their lives but always gang up with others to cause chaos and confusion. As hurting people hurt others it’s wise to be careful not to react to naive ignorant people look for trouble to distract attention from their own pain and problem by themselves. 

Courtesy: credit image