Projection means seeing life through others to blame them for all life’s problems. So defends self against unpleasant impulses denying existence in themselves. So totally refuses to accept any responsibility of any part played in own life. Projection attributes own repressed thoughts to someone else so all problems blamed on parents, teachers, neighbours, spouse, friends and colleagues. Such ego defence mechanism projects and blames thoughts, impulses and feelings onto others. So transfers and also counter transfers past and present situation onto the dearest and nearest. Therefore loved ones bear most the brunt of projection as closest to the projector. Projector’s automatic mental behaviour is under girded by preconceived traditional standards so set in own ways. Feels strongly angry so uses defence mechanisms to repress, deny and project trouble onto others. All their frustrations, difficulties, failures, are somebody’s fault. Living in delusion of grandeur sets heights too high above their station in life so thinks too highly of  themselves. They do not care what damage or hurt they cause others. Life basically only revolves around them. They must always be the centre of focus or feel dehumanized. This pattern of unhealthy behaviour starts innocently from terrible 2 years running family around. So carries on into adulthood with warped worldview. Addicted to having own way not nibbed in bud in early years. So married unleashes to blame spouse for all their life problems. Each day, they find something wrong with those intimate with them. They may complain the spouse is too thin so must eat to avoid being seen as their child. So the spouses gains some weight they approve of. However, any extra weight is seen as fat so nagged to lose weight. So one is never sure where one stand with them though supposed to care about. Next they are told they are too short, so start wearing platform shows to increase height. Although, the spouse is forced to wear heels at all times to please them, they soon find the next thing wrong with the partner. On and on the go comparing their cooking with their mothers, house keeping with their mothers. It is as if they would have liked to marry their mother. forgetting their wife is not their mother. Eventually as spouse bears children so he must rise to the task to do his bit as a loving  father. Instead he feels abandoned, displaced angry and jealous of attention given to his own child. Sulking, complaining of poor housekeeping soon finds comfort elsewhere. So justifies his terrible betrayal by blaming the wife. In some primitive societies, wife is lashed with stick for not fulfilling intimate duties commitment whether she wants it or not. Feels sense of entitlement to whatever wanted whenever irrespective of impractical reality of demands so generally anxious. This projection behaviour extends to finances whereby all his personal needs are met but the family may lack food, electric, clothing, shoes, yet he is immaculately dressed. To the outside world he is a saint and a good role model. Yet the wife and children are suffering under his yoke of bondage too ashamed and too embarrassed to get help. Those who dare tom report him to the family or friends are not believed. Or he denies and undermines her more telling them she is a bitter jealous woman who hates his interaction with them. This continues until bruises appear on the woman and children with cover story not to expose him. He may threaten to treat them worse or will seek divorce and take away the children. So this takes place for years. The wife succumbs to his disrespectful relationship, bullying and his abusive ways for the sake of the peace.Meanwhile, spouse’s behaviour gets worse with unpredictable outburst constant arguments. So a terror at home who picks on the children. He may resort to violence by beating or punishing unreasonably for slightest perceived irritation. Forgetting children need to play to have innocent fun freely at home. So goes on attacking family wrongly believing entire life happiness depends on perfect performance of wife. After years tormenting wife may gamble, drink or do drugs to numb disappointments so cannot keep work schedules. Finance is affected because he has an insecure world view.

189377_298415886930257_435613120_n (1)Without rent, bills unpaid, debt piling begins to fight threats from creditors amid debt collectors. Instead of seeking help to address the situation picks on the wife more. So builds resentment towards wife and plots to poison,  maim, electrocute, kill wife. So begins secret preparation to plot her demise. Forgetting in the moment of anger and madness the consequences and effects of destruction upon himself. Does not think clearly ahead of impact on his future or where he will spend the rest of his life. So carries out such actions heard constantly in the news of a husband killing wife, electrocuting for only bearing daughters or hacking by chopping head off for a row. Do not recognise child’s gender is from both make and female chromosomes so not wife’s fault. Or acid attacks, gunshot wounds , strangling. Life is first own personal responsibility to God. Each must have direct connection with God first as a Christian believer. Then encourage partner to lead life in same way accountable to God first. Both must remain connected strongly to God with the first love in Christ Jesus. Then both will realise God is their source of ultimate fulfilment so stop demanding impossible from partner to meet all their emotional, physical and material needs. No man can save another except God through Christ so must learn to do the right thing acceptable for personal well being relationship. The man is the head of woman and Christ is Head of man and the church. Both must look up to Christ Jesus the perfect Bridegrooms example love and leadership. Not to copy romance from novels,  TV drama reality shows. Some may be useful during dating but true reality of marriage is give and take, compromise, forgiveness and building each other up. Though married with children in the home insists on keeping house spotless as show room. Neither keep it unkempt because the children untrained to tidy up after themselves. The husband must help the so stop comparing her to his mother. Some mothers were full-time so had time to clean and polish the silver ware. Do not insist your wife works full-time and must runs the home full-time as if unemployed. Neither sit reading papers or watch football full-time and leave her alone to fend for the children as a married single parent. God is able to keep both if the marriage is entrusted to God to make perfect all that concern both in Jesus Name with thanks to God. Confide dark thoughts to trusted people to seek help before too late to act wrongly. Develop talents, music, art, drama, dancing, painting, cooking, coaching, volunteer, preaching, teaching etc. Personal development interest in a team helps although married.needs_of_singles

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heartworldAll people on earth are immigrants because God Shared His Love by filling earth with people when earth was void and empty. God’s Absolute Love shows God’s marvelous, majestic wonders of creation recorded in the Bible in Genesis 1:1. In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. The earth was a formless void and darkness covered the face of the deep. So the Spirit of God moved upon the face of the waters. God said, Let there be light so there was light. 4God saw the light was good so God separated light from darkness. God called the light Day and darkness, Night so evening and morning was first day. God said, Let there be firmament in the midst of the waters to divide the waters from the waters. God made the firmament and divided the waters under the firmament from the waters above the firmament. God called firmament Heaven so this evening and morning was the second day. God said, Let the waters under heaven be gathered together unto one place and dry land appear so it happened exactly. 10 God called dry land Earth and gathering together of waters the seas so God saw it was good.

11 God said, Let the earth bring forth grass, herb yielding seed, fruit trees yielding fruit after each kind with seed is in itself to replant on earth so it was so. 12 The earth brought forth grass, herb yielding seed after its kind, and trees yielding fruits with seed in itself so God saw it was good. 13 The next evening and morning was the third day. 14 God said, Let there be lights in the firmament of the heaven to divide day from the night for signs, seasons, days, years. 15 The lights in firmament of heaven to give light upon earth. 16 God made two great lights, the greater light to rule day, lesser light rules night so God made stars also.17 God set firmament of heaven to give light upon the earth. 18 To rule over day and night to divide light from darkness so God saw it was good. 19 The next evening and morning was fourth day. 20 God said, Let the waters bring forth abundantly living creatures, fowls to fly above earth in open firmament heaven. 21 God created great whales, all living creatures so the waters brought forth abundantly so God said it is good.

22 God blessed them to be fruitful, multiply, fill the waters in the seas, fowls multiply in the earth. 23 The next evening and the morning were the fifth day. 24 God said, Let the earth bring forth living creatures after its kind, cattle, creeping things, beasts of earth so it was so. 25 God made beast of the earth and cattle after their kind, things creeping on earth and God saw it was good. 26 God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness to have dominion over the fish of the sea, fowls of the air, cattle, over all the earth, and creeping things on earth. 27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. 28 God blessed them and said to them Be fruitful, and multiply, to replenish the earth and subdue it. Have dominion over fish, sea, fowls of the air, other living things on the earth. 29 God said, I give you herbs bearing seed upon the face of earth and trees with fruit yielding seed to you for meat. 30 All animals of the earth, fowls of the air, creeping living things on earth, green herbs for meat. 31 And God saw every thing that he had made, and, behold, it was very good. And the evening and the morning were the sixth day.

godisloveheartIn Genesis 2:1, The heavens and earth was finished and all host of them. On seventh day God ended His work so God rested on seventh day from all his work He Made. God blessed 7 day so sanctified it and God rested from all Work of creation. Generations of heavens and earth created by God dwell on earth and heavens. God was pleased and impressed with His creation so God called all good and very good. All things were perfect because they were made by THE PERFECT GOD. God’s Love fill His creation to enjoy God’s Super Abundant resources provided until eternity. God expects all creation to Appreciate, Obey, Thank, Treat God as Bona fide Authentic, Prototype, Patent Owner of mankind made in God’s Image. In the beginning God had great wonderful relationship with mankind. God enjoyed their company so came down regularly to fellowship with Him directly. God relaxed, thought mankind fully understood, accepted His Commands something happened. To God’s Shock and Horror mankind preferred to listen and follow a creeping crawling creature’s instructions than Loving God. God could not believe Adam and Eve’s greed and lack of contentment.God provided all they needed including material wealth, onyx, riches, bdellium, gold, silver, rich minerals resources, cattle on 1000 hills. In Genesis 3:6, conned by rebellious devil thrown down from heaven, perfect mankind Adam and Eve due to greed sin against God and ate from the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil. Contaminated by devil’s deception God expelled Adam and Eve from Garden of Eden for disobedience. Soon first murder occurs due to envy and jealousy of Able’s meat sacrifice accepted and Cain’s rejected shortly after mankind’s first sin. God became sad, angry, disappointed and broken-hearted by mankind’s misdemeanor yet still loved His people. God missed those precious moments of fellowship, laughter, joy, conversations so longed  for restoration of lost love relationship. God sent several warnings and punishments of floods in Noah’s days in Genesis 5:32-10:1-8 ff in vain. Fire in Sodom and Gomorrah in Genesis 19 ff had no effect. God sent prophets, priests, ministers to warn to mankind to cajole to repent in vain. God sent Jesus Christ, The Ultimate Priceless Blood Sacrifice to save yet mankind more stubborn than ever. Christ Jesus came to restore Love lost between God and mankind. Mankind is helpless and hopeless without God’s input. In fact, complicated man-made ideas excluding God have tragic consequences.Man deludes in control God’s creation without obeying God’s command. Mankind will never have good success aside of God. The heart of man is very evil due to greed, love of money the root of all evil so the world loves money than God. Stock and share market celebrate bank balance not souls won. God’s Greatest Desire is to Restore Eternal Love relationship with mankind. So all people on God’s earth are immigrants. Nobody brought anything into the world so nobody takes anything out of this world. Those attacking fellow immigrants on earth will pay in hell if they do not repent to ask God’s mercy and forgiveness. In 2 Chronicles 7:14, God said if My People called by My Name, humble themselves repent, call on God, He will hear and answer prayer to heal earth to bring perfect peace and perfect love again on God’s Earth. The earth is the Lords and the Fullness thereof. God’s Point of View Perspective of earth is perfect from space with no political demarcation lines. God’s Vision of Earth remains as designed by God despite scramble land grabbing destruction of earth. God Jehovah Nissi Will Arise in Jesus Name at right time to end suffering for all immigrants on earth.

There is a song which says: God is Coming, The creator of the earth is coming, God the judge is coming, Friend this earth does not belong to you. God owns all creation, the silver, gold, and cattle on a thousand hills. All are immigrants on earth.

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Size matters as I found out recently after losing weight through a program to change my life. I could not walk without rubbing my legs together sometimes causing bleeding. i had to use plaster to cover the wounds. The salty sweat caused sting of my wounds. So I became desperate to lose weight. I remembered the size was alright without legs rubbing against each other. Although I ate fairly reasonably or so I thought, until I found out excessive hydration was part of cause of weight problem. I made a diet chart to change unhealthy drinks and I realised was also addicted to water without knowing it. I reduced first my food size portion intake. And informed all friends, family, loved ones to serve me smaller portions of all my favourite meals.
It was difficult at first especially as I watched others eat but I had to discipline myself. The first week was particularly difficult because suddenly all shops seem to do bulk discount my favourite food as if to convince me to keep buying. I had to resist and practice self-control to endure the temptation to buy the cheaper plus extra free deals on sale. So I avoided shop aisles with my favourite foods. I choose healthy ingredients and cooked better home-made meals. I still craved foods addicted eaten for so long over the years. My favourite fizzy drink was vanilla cream soda. I drank about 10 litres a day as it was cheaply sold in most bargain shops. In addition I drank coffee plus water because no matter what I drank I could not quench thirst without water.






I was a water addict so carried water with me always. I could not pass by anywhere there is free water without drinking 3-4 cups at a time many times a day. Some people even collapsed from reducing body salt content with too much water with a few fatalities. I cut down on red meat so eat more fish. I cut out fried foods so started grilling or boiling most of my favourite foods. I cleared my home of the fat fryer used to fry bags of chicken and chips everyday to share with family and friends. I started withdrawing from water, fizzy drinks, so much milk gradually. I reduced drinks by 1 glass consistently to dwindle down to acceptable suitable amount daily recommended. Each day I maintain my body’s hydration level adding up all fluids I drink. I learnt large intestines produce water from processing food contents. So careful extra water drank not drown or dehydrate body.

I researched and found out people died from drowning within body with too much water. I could not believe water was capable of causing weight gain. This was surprising to me when I found out. It made sense because I did not realise my weight was impacted by water. Come to think of it water is quite heavy, weighed or carried about. So water used to be one of my favourite indulgences. Now I resist the strong urge to gulp water down. Now my new love is that I learnt to steam – fry eggs, use water to make stew well in place of oil. My skin started glowing and my hair grew better. I realised my clothes started dropping off. At first I used safety pins to hold them firmly on my body. Over time, pins were not suitable so looked ridiculously shaped bulging out-of-place. I changed wardrobe from sizes 24 to 20 at first and 3 months later dropped to size 16.


I eat no more junk fried foods, sweets, doughnuts, cakes and cut down on coffee. I choose fruits, vegetable alternatives, carrot sticks, cucumber slices, grains and nuts. I eat sugar-free usually healthy cereal brands with nuts in them. Over all people started commenting on my size to ask if I was on diet. I said yes but not for cosmetic reasons. I had to change my size to overcome walking and enduring pain from bruises of rubbed thighs. Although, I could wear suitable protective clothing to cover thighs, I still had to endure pain as my legs grew too close for comfort. Now the first thing I do each morning is to I juice and blend varieties of fruits and vegetables according to the desired taste. I make enough to last the whole day. So I take it with me when I am out and about.

I drink juice the whole day. On very hot days I juice twice as I tend to drink more fruit juice. This helps fill me up well so I eat light cereal for breakfast, good healthy lunch and tea time lots of green vegetables and fish supper meal. I make allowances to eat foods I crave once in a while so not to become desperate for missing such taste. I meet up with friends and family to join in to celebrate good food and to exchange recipes. My life is much happier as I do not have to use plasters to cover thighs anymore because bruised legs. I feel I have perfect right size for my weight as I walk easily and faster than before. I enjoy walking about without pain previously endured. I do moderate exercise definitely recommended anyone struggling with weight problems to change in simple small steps at a time. Do not jump from extreme level A straight to Z level down sizing, be gradual.

Seek support of good friends to encourage and help them. Be true to yourself, sincere, keep track of all foods and snacks eaten but not fussy if you relapse on your diet program. Be flexible and human enough to admit you are capable of mistakes. Start again and keep up good work. Enjoy your life daily because life is too short to stress yourself about yo-yo body sizes. I keep a range of clothes and shoes as I recognise my weight changes affect my shoe sizes as well. I do not fix my body size on specific number. I expect changes fairly within my acceptable size range to prevent legs from bruising by rubbing against each due to over weight. I share my testimony with all interested in helping themselves. I lost weight for right health reasons as my body size truly matters.

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GLBC_Box2011God’s package bundle of the living is stated in 1 Samuel 25:18-42. So contains lives of all who trust him eternally while fighting God’s battles within and without. God, Jehovah Nissi Personally Secures David’s personal care and protection in God’s Life Package Bundle. David defeats Goliath to protect Saul and the nation yet seen as threat by Saul who tried to kill David several times in vain. So David was on the run pursued by Saul due to envy and jealousy. David’s army of follower band of 400 at Adullam increased to 600 soldiers around him. Afterwards added Cherethites and Pelethites as standing army retained after David becomes king in 1 Samuel 23:13. David’s body-guard army protected, defended farms, and crops from marauding band raiders. So David’s army provided a useful service to help using military skill tactics knowledge to defeat enemies. In return David humbles himself to ask Nabal for supplies not taking it by force without permission. Nabal’s denies David’s request to help treating David as vagabond on run.

trapped_inside_the_boxAbigail used wisdom to help David who could slaughter husband Nabal in vengeance for not obeying orders to bring gifts to David. Abigail brought presents to David to atone for Nabal’s contempt. Above all, Abigail managed to appeal to speak to king in David. David though living in caves was pursued by Saul believed God preserved his life for a reason. To ensure star on David’s throne survives for the birth of Jesus Christ not to be vanquished. So David’s life was precious in God’s sight and David’s house endures for fighting God’s battles. She relied on God’s grace to soften David’s heart to impact David powerfully. She said it is beneath David the giant killer to condescend to take vengeance on weak meagre meniscus ant despicable enemy Nabal incapable of showing kindness to David. Nabal could not understand significant value and importance of honouring such a great king like David. As a king ordained by God Abigail told David, hurting Nabal was beneath his status in the reputation of giants killed by David. So reminded David of his glorious end from present troubles. giftbox1 (1)God preserves David’s life justly so not to take unnecessarily weak defenceless lives away. The precious lives of especially the people of God his Saviour. Abigail powerful Godly message touched David the Psalmist so indulged his passion of praising God. David’s conscience, peace, calm reinforced did not to waste his brilliant military reputation on insignificant ordinary person like Nabal. So the sweetness of God’s words touched the revengeful heart of David to mellow him not to slaughter in snubbed anger, revenge, bitterness. So David changed to accept the pleas of Abigail and reconsidered his image in fighting a helpless weak man like Nabal. Abigail was submissive, yielding to pacify great offence. She was penitent petitioner so did not excuse husband’s conduct. So blessed David with 3 blessings, she prayed, in verse 28, “please forgive transgression of your maidservant for God will certainly make for my lord an enduring house. Because my lord is fighting battles of God evil will not be found in you all your days. 29 Should anyone rise up to pursue you to seek your life, the life of my lord shall be bound in the bundle of the living with the LORD your God. But the lives of your enemies He will sling out as from the hollow of a sling. 30 And when the LORD does for my lord according to all the good He has spoken concerning you, and appoints you ruler over Israel the LORD your God will keep your life safe like a treasure hidden in a secured package.

leadership_cappedDavid’s is bound up in bundle of righteousness as a lover of God. God decides to let the Godly ones be preserved forever in heaven by God’s Good Choice. But God lets evil ones go out from God’s bundle of life eternally to be punished in hell by their own doing. God keeps eternal souls of people safe but enemies thrown out. David said to Abigail, Blessed be the LORD God of Israel who sent provisions to bless souls with God bound in bundle of life with Jehovah God. David said to Abigail, Blessed be the Lord. 18 Abigail acted quickly so took 200 hundred loaves of bread, 2 skins of wine, 5 dressed sheep, 5 seahs of roasted grain, a 100 cakes of raisins and 200 cakes of pressed figs, and loaded them on donkeys.19 Then told her servants, go on ahead I will follow you but she did not tell her husband Nabal. 20 She came riding her donkey into a mountain ravine, where David and his men descending toward her met them. 21 David said, it was useless watching over property in the wilderness so nothing of was missing but paid back evil for good. 22 David furious so said will severely kill all males in morning belonging to Nabal!”23 So Abigail, before David’s deadline went secretly to supply food and drinks to David. 

She quickly got off her donkey, bowed down before David with face to the ground. 24 She fell at his feet and said, “Pardon your servant, my lord to let me speak to you so hear what your servant has to say. 25 Please pay no attention, my lord, to the wicked man Nabal the Fool for folly goes with him. I did not see the men my lord sent.26 Now, my lord, as surely as God lives and as you live, God kept you from bloodshed from avenging yourself with your own hands. May your enemies and all intent on harming my lord be Nabal.27 And let this gift brought to my lord, be given to men who follow you. God’s enemies intent on hurting God’s children since 70 years in Auschwitz in Poland killed many innocent people due to greed, envy, jealousy, xenophobia, ignorance because man’s heart is very evil. But will pay for their evil deeds on God’s judgement day if they do not repent, ask God’s forgiveness and mercy in Jesus Name. Absolute power makes abusers feel in control but God deals with them. David forgave Abigail’s family so Nabal heard David’s threat. Abigail’s intervention saved all the men but Nabal had heart attack from shock orchestrated by God. So died as tyrant who refused to help David. Abigail’s fear of God, wisdom, maturity impressed David who married her to make her queen. 



To celebrate life means to acknowledge life to the full to commemorate as seen on TV This is your life program. Harry Hill is person nominated by loved ones but kept in the dark. Contact is kept with utmost secret with all relatives, loved ones, colleagues, class mates. All suitable relevant appropriate necessary information is collected to celebrate and honour him as the person chosen. It is so efficiently organised the chosen person remains unawares of things go on behind their back. Photographs or past interesting memorabilia are put together into a book. The date is set so all invited gather together to really surprise. During meeting all turns out well to celebrate life. There is an after party to eat and celebrate the person given the book documenting childhood throughout to adult life. This is one of best programs showing true understanding of meaning of life. As it is important to celebrate life daily as much as possible with family, friends, loved ones. Above all to remember to thank and Glorify God Giver of life.






One may not need to go on TV necessarily to celebrate life but it is good to remember to honour family and friends at some point in their life time in their presence. Most people seem however to put more effort into celebrating after life. Hence funerals become big party events  with lots of preparation of earthly treasures stored for future use in graves. Most of the treasures are useful in preserving past history to show creative artworks. Like these Staffordshire hoard artefacts of 3500 gold shields, swords, belts etc seen here. These items are supposed to help equip the owner to enjoy the after life. Pyramids have been built for burial with gold, wealth accumulating belongs to the dead in expectation of use in next life. Gems and gold sit in piles for thousands of years on dusty floors found in tombs of the Egyptian pyramids among others.

The size of graves increased according to status and wealth. In the obelisks were complete tombs with mummified bodies that intrigued the world. The golden intricate riches setting of tropical luxury wealth made from plunder and tribute. The treasures include jewelry befitting status, stature of king, swords, daggers, weapons and cosmetics. Tomb content include vessels, vases of gold, jewelry, gold art works, sceptres, trinkets, diamonds, topaz, beads, headrests, chairs, stools, leather sandals, musical instruments, storage chests, bowls, combs, and other trinkets, along with food.Wealthier ones buried with furniture valuables too numerous to list here. Boats, scenes of food production, craftsmen, workshops, professions, scribes, soldiers found in tombs. To enable dead king to live full-scale lifestyle chariots, horses, terracotta soldiers to guard king in after life. Wives, servants, slaves, killed to accompany king to serve in after life to enjoy companionship indulged on earth. Others include brand new or normal beautiful clothing worn packed for future use in grave. Artefacts include, stored bags of wheat grains, grave goods to provide essential Egyptian funeral banquets in after life. Luxury tombs built by impoverished slaves, skilled craftsmen, peasants for kings, queens, noble classes and rich merchants. Most artefacts from tombs are in museums all over the world collected buy archaeologist and archivists for posterity. The citizens left behind strongly believe not giving grand final farewell to ruler upon his death would be punishment of ancestors now watching the population from the plane of the immortals. So a pledge and levy is pain by each citizen throughout their lives life to prepare for such an occasion. Other people bury their dead in a simple grave. The body may be treated, arranged in particular way to faith belief. Most did not keep written evidence but kept regular visits to graveside to tend it, send food and drinks, flowers, teddy bears. The grave is shown to younger generations to trace family tree. The living feel it is their duty and responsibility to provide tomb lavish decorations. Maintain regular contact visit for solace and comfort so deceased feels loved. Information on modern afterlife custom include sewing machines, tools of trade buried with deceased, shoes, money for river crossing journey to pay toll on way. Some turn funeral into big events bigger than wedding ceremony. So organised by professional event managers, funeral contractors to provide music, entertainment, food, venue, chairs, tents, meals and drinks. So cater for VIP guests to ensure everything runs smoothly according to plan. Big donors give huge sums to avoid debt so make profit. These events are fashionable so provide dance services to entertain guests.

Due to understanding of the meaning of after life recognised no earthly riches is of any value after demise. This is one of the most richest kings who ever lived to 90 years old, buried immediately on same day draped with simple cloth in unmarked grave according to custom. This was according to protocol although the king could afford the most expensive designer coffin of any shape desired to order. The king could be carried in the most expensive funeral cortege procession. Dressed in the best most priceless fabrics could be chosen by chief mourners and sympathisers to change into costumes every hour to display wealth to show off. The whole burial would have been postponed because of the magnitude of the kings stature and status in the society to prepare to give the best funeral party in terms of age. Some preparations take as long as 5 years with the deceased in deep freezer mortuary paid for until all family members can afford to find time to gather for funeral. By then, funeral costs rise to millions of dollars. The older the deceased the bigger the party and as king the ceremony is ultimate display to signify position of power in death hierarchy ceremony traditions of men. This almost becomes competition of keeping up with Joneses. Nobody wants to change standard funeral traditions. People record by video, ceremony to distribute to friends, family, loved one. So keeps memory alive of the deceased’s funeral event to watch again from time to time. Then post images, video on face book and online display blogs of documented events. This enables the whole ceremony to be stored to show those unable to attend to partake by visual reality. It is good to remember to record precious loved one’s passing departure if can afford lavish competition ceremony budget. Misguided fear of letting departed down means going to extreme lengths in debt. Meanwhile the members of family hungry daily, out of school due to lack of fees not equally invested in.

Contributing to lavish death ceremony events is done by the poorest of the poor. As it is compulsory for all citizens do so. So compelled to take loans to prepare for funeral in debt to pay years to come. Time and amount invested in death mongering can eradicate poverty to build schools and hospitals. Those living in fear of ancestors must realise celebrating life in presence of person honours far better than grand funerals in absence. Funeral amount money spent is never spent in lifetime. Some cannot afford medical treatment when person alive. They cannot provide appropriate diet in hospital suitable for improving health. Some abandon for years family members. As too busy enjoying life to care about aged elderly.  Yet forget they too will grow old as what person sows is what they reap. No matter lavished pyramid mausoleum accolade tomb goods, flesh decays but soul lives on. So society needs to rethink and redress priority to celebrate life. Above all it is the soul that matters most so goes back to God. The flesh decays earth to earth, dust to dust. This pyramid shows 3 highest tier opened grave in Japan.



Those who understand and recognise true meaning of life live practical lives. So use material goods and riches to make the most of life. Beyond life in the after world there is no need to bring along own material goods for prosperity. Or pack luggage for use by the deceased. God has abundant mansions of pure gold, diamond etc better than earthly goods so not required in Heaven. All silver, gold, wealth, riches belong to God for all people to use on earth. There is more than enough resources as Solomon favoured with God’s Special honour given riches, wealth inventoried in the Torah. The Ark of Covenant is made of pure gold. God has super abundance for all God’s creation so there is no need to kill or destroy another before one becomes blessed by God. At the end of the day, no matter how rich on earth body dies so soul lives on to give account to God. Maintaining Godly soul connection with God is most important focus. All said and done, perishable flesh decays but soul lives with God eternally.

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Psalm 81:1-7, says praise God with music equipment, songs including grand piano, violin, lyre and harp. This grand piano in Huainan, China built in 2007 by architectural students at Hefei University of Technology, is truly amazing. Entrance is through violin escalators. This grand piano will play real mighty perfect music to God’s Glory.  

Praise God’s Name and make music to God with tambourine drums trumpets. 

 Worship the Lord for His Excellence, Mercy, Grace, Compassion in Jesus Name. Psalm 149, praise God’s Name by  violin, grand piano, organ, bless God rejoice in God.


Psalm 150:1, Praise God in His Sanctuary: praise Him in the firmament of His power. Worship the Lord for His Excellence, Mercy, Grace, Compassion in Jesus Name. 

Psalm 150:2  Praise God for His mighty acts according to His excellent Greatness. Praise God in His Sanctuary and in the firmament of His power with flute and lyre. 

 Singing to the music of trumpets, timbrel, lyre to make merry to the sound of the harp.The harpsichord is played by thousands in heaven to worship and celebrate God.

Praise God, sound of the trumpets, praise him with the psaltery and harp. Psalm 150:4 declares Praise God for His sanctuary privilege enjoyed God is among us

Praise him with timbrel, dance with stringed instruments and organs.

Singing to the music to make merry to the sound of drums, harp.


Praise God with loud cymbals and upon the high sounding cymbals.

Let every thing that hath breath praise the Lord. Praise ye the Lord.


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