A LONG SILENCE IN HEAVEN

Revelation 8:1 when the Lamb of God Christ Jesus broke the 7th seal, there was silence in heaven for about half an hour. A 30 minute’s silence in heaven means a lot so is a great deal because worship in heaven continues non – stop in addition to other activities. So for heaven to keep silent for half an hour is a sign of foreboding event about to be unleashed. Silence is used in muted deep reflection and lamentations when too overwhelmed to use language and words to express feelings. One is said to be dumbfounded by shock news makes it impossible to talk about real feelings. Feelings too hard to find appropriate words to use to express happenings so silence takes place to reflect on pain.kirkjustjori_notendur_thorhallur_my_documents_my_pictures_god_jesus_throne_cat_rel_hist_02roberttbarrett.jpgAs the contents of the seal to be read out and unleashed upon earth and sea by 7 angels sounding the trumpets was very serious. It was so sad heaven was mourning and grieving in advance of the consequences of the astounding tribulation on earth. It was disquieting and disturbing so much is why there was silence in Heaven. In the beginning was silence, but after this big silence in heaven, prophet John and other end time prophets are sent from God with messages to warn of doom and gloom going to happen to the earth. The sound accompanying opening of the seals is revealed as described.slide_13The seals read out unleash earthquakes, hailstorms, tornado, tsunami, monsoon, wildfires mingled with blood tragedies, floods, locusts, plagues, disasters in the sea with one third of ships destroyed, one third trees green grass burnt, rivers polluted and bitter contaminated by wormwood it kills those in contact or drinking it. Darkness forms where sun used to shine but the inhabiters of earth continue to take God for granted. God continues sea destruction, hurricanes, thunderings, lightenings hurled to earth from heaven by God’s wrath.God and heaven is so sad because their hands are forced and compelled despite their loving heart to act because of opportunities rejected. So God is now forced to unleash destruction on earth. This is due to rebellion and punishment being enforced by God due to mankind’s stubborn will. Blood moon is significant apocalypse of changes on earth. Even though sun turned into darkness, and the moon into blood before the great Day of the Lord. Sky gazers see glimpse of blood moon crossing Earth’s shadow is a sign of God’s wrath causing silence in heaven due to damage on earth.  The question is why is God extremely angry to totally destroy some parts of the earth? The answer is found in Revelation 9:20 to depart from evil works of  hands, not to worship devils and idols of gold, silver, brass, stone, wood which cannot see, hear, talk or walk. to repent of murders, sorceries, witchcraft, fornications, robberies. This is reason why God’s anger and wrath is unleashed for rejection of God, Christ, do own thing. Tridents are foreshadow catastrophic war plus solar storm. God’s wrath storms are motif of hell on earth. Heaven half hour silence is expression of grief for God’s wrath punishment. The 5th angels begun to release the key of hell which unleashed  smoke and locusts  to torment  and torture to hurt for 5 months those without the seal of God. God is calling for repentance for all have sinned and fallen short of the Glory of God in Romans 3:23. Nobody knows exact day or hour for rapture but God is now showing consistent signs for people to take His warnings to repent on earth seriously. Why merciful loving God unforgiving? The answer is God’s warnings from prophetic voices ignored means endtime wrath takes place.Traumatic event’s tragedies are marked by a minute’s silence in most nations. Such a silence happens on the earth on 11/11/11 and other occasions when the whole world or the nations stop all activities to hold a minutes silence. The whole world stops to commemorate each year and celebrate end of a world war or traumatic events. God has had enough changes are happening to warn mankind to wake up to repent before its too late when tribulation sets in after sealed remnants rapture of those sealed and saved from all nations, and tribes.In Revelations 10:6 another mighty of God standing upon the sea and earth, angel swore by God who lives forever and ever, the creator of heaven and earth, and all things that there should be time no longer extended. So God’s patience is running out to complete and finish the mystery declared to God’s servants prophets. Damage destructions are attention calls to take God more seriously. God sends wildfires and the earthquake tsunamis to destroy ships trees and priceless homes by His angels.The pain so intense people will cry out in vain for death but God commanded it to flee from them. Then the 6th angel released 4 angels prepared for 1 year 1 month 1 day 1 hour to slay 1/3 of all mankind. God is warning all to repent, change and be sealed for rapture by Christ. Jealous God wants you to remain His number one Christian believer in life whether married or single. Too much hype oversells status of mankind above Christ. God wants to be restored as priority in the life of all His creation.After 7th seal during those chosen saved all tribes marked and taken to Heaven. The nations repent, some accept Christ and make changes in their lives. But tragedy soon forgotten some blame God so reject, accuse Him for their tragedy. Some rebuild and reconstruct disaster zone recreate more beautiful structures. In spite of loss, a new opportunity arises to develop better architectural buildings improves quality of life. What is meant for evil turns to good with even better modern furniture replacing old tattered ones. God’s warning message ignored so the world must repent and turn to God.Tragedy soon becomes insurance claims broker’s day and time for business to boom and flourish as usual. So building contractors make good money from demolitions as a result. Things return to normal until another tragic hits triggers memories. Pretty soon people forget so things return to same old rebellion acts against God. This is sad heaven’s silence must be taken seriously to repent to seek God’s face for mercy. The number of army battle horses about 200,000,000. Power in their mouth for martyrdom of unbelievers and physical disturbances in sky and surface of earth destroyed. Christ, is only person worthy to open scroll’s seven seals in Revelation 5:1–5 all judgment entrusted to Jesus in John 5:22. The first six seal’s judgment on the earth in great tribulation period people hide in caves, mountains, rocks, call fall on us and hide us from face of HIM who sits on throne and from wrath of  Lamb!The great day of their wrath has come, and who can withstand it in Revelation 5:16–17. Then Revelation 7 innumerable people before throne of God, proclaim, “Salvation belongs to our God, who sits on throne and to Lamb in Revelation 7:10. In Revelation 8:1 Jesus breaks  the seventh seal and, “there was silence in heaven for about half an hour,” after loud songs of heavenly worship it stops every mouth and silences all of heaven. Scripture did not specify reasons for the silence in heaven for half an hour, here are The silence in heaven half an hour is deep respect and awe in presence of the Judge of all the earth as courtrooms silence as judge presides so “Be silent before the Sovereign LORD, for the day of the LORD is near” in Zephaniah 1:7. “The LORD is in HIS holy temple let all earth be silent before HIM  in Habakkuk 2:20. The half-hour silence in heaven is reflects on what is revealed when Jesus Christ breaks seventh seal, the scroll of God’s judgment is revealed a first time. Heaven saw God’s plan to judge the evil wickedness of earth, destroy kingdom of the beast to set things right. All heaven remains silent as God’s righteousness is on display in God’s awesome presence, like Job, “I am unworthy to reply to you, I put my hand over my mouth in Job 40:4. The silence in heaven is for actions the LORD God allows to take of trumpet judgments in Revelation 8:2 and bowl judgments of the seventh trumpet. The  judgments are worse than anything the world ever seen in Mark 13:19–20. The catastrophes befall earth as silence and stillness fill heaven. “Be silent, all flesh, before the LORD for HE is roused from HIS holy dwelling” in Zechariah 2:13. In silence heaven sees the final judgment on earth seventh seal Day of the LORD.Results is the tragedy people’s attention captured by trauma changes are made after. Unprepared churches become full of people crying and sighing and calling upon God for mercy in aftermath of tragedy. Soon repeats the patterns from tragedy turns to recover from traumatic events of life. Instead of learning life lessons to draw closer to God becomes new opportunity rather to show off the cosmetic designs of prowess redevelops rebuilt aesthetically on grand scale. The remnants saved from all nations and all tribes on the earth translated to heaven.The remnant who receive Christ and remain faithful to God will rejoice and many people from all nations will be saved despite the traumatic hell on earth. While the human condition in glamorised aggrandized sophistication perishes by gaining the world and losing the soul. So heaven’s silence is a warning to the world to change! Whosoever calls upon the name of the Lord shall be saved in Jesus Name. Those who usurped and exploited and reject Christ are destroyed.God’s punishment against noisy words, thoughts, fear, loathing, spite, pain, suffering, panic, ungratefulness, hatred, snobbery, injustice and exploiting evil men. So the rich men, and the chief captains, and the mighty men, and every bond man, and every free man, hide themselves in the dens and in the rocks of the mountains. It is important to think seriously about what people will see, feel and experience when the physical events of the Lord’s return begin to unfold. So understand life will change on that day when the great day of God’s wrath comes! Be prepared and take God seriously to be saved in Jesus Name.

 

BLACK HISTORY ON SLAVERY

The Black History Month celebrates the survival of blacks every October in UK and February in USA to remind the world of the consequences suffered today from slavery, colonialism, and trauma havoc damage many still suffer worldwide. The above poster was for International Day of Remembrance of the Victims of Slavery and Transatlantic Slave Trade. As a result it is essential to talk about the subject of Black history as not properly taught in schools. After years of emancipation veterans who fought in the wars were deemed of no use any longer so sent to Liberia from USA, Sierra Leone from UK. Experience new discrimination from indigenous tribes they do not trace roots due to name changes enforced by whites to strip them of identity and language. This technique deprived them of tracing ancestral roots of origin like Kunta Kinte did from USA to Gambia.Slaves were packed like sardines in ships during West Africa Trans – Atlantic Slave Trade Africa into South African mines, into Cuba, Brazil, Chile, Argentina, Mexico, Haiti, Caribbean Islands and to USA. Portugal was first the European country to trade in slaves from Africa. Initially brought only to Portugal  32,000 African slaves in the 16th century. The Transatlantic slave trade included European nations like Belgium, Britain, France, Germany, Spain, Netherlands Holland Dutch, Sweden, Denmark, Austria, Norway, Italy, Genoa sponsored, condoned, actively participated so were involved in trade of slaves through forts on Gold Coast of Ghana including Fort Fredensborg in Fetu and British Castle at Cape Coast, Ghana. Slave shipped from the castles at the seaside to West Indies. Although huge numbers of slaves were taken to the Spanish plantations, most arrived in Portuguese, Italian-Genoese, Dutch, French and British ships.painting of a ship used in slavery Often unidentified 16-gun ship is typical of the vessels used in the slave trade is shown in a port profile against a wooded coastline, sailed to Africa. France in slave trade in West Coast of Nantes, Lorient, La Rochelle, Bordeaux built wealth through triangular trade. Slaves on French vessels were taken to French Caribbean colonies Saint-Domingue, Martinique. Charles V granted German Flemish courtier Lorenzo de Gorrevod authority to ship 4,000 captive Africans to America in 1518. This was beginning in earnest of slave trade so from this point thousands of captive Africans shipped annually to New World. Slaves worked on plantation colony and cheap goods sent back to Europe. This triangular system perpetuated demand for slaves by Europeans so increased the country’s wealth by selling to them their shipped goods. Europeans were slave holders but in 16th century thousands of Europeans were captured by the Muslim privateers along the coasts of Mediterranean Sea, Atlantic Ocean, North Sea, sold in slave markets from Alexandria, Egypt to Meknes, Morocco. Seamen, fishermen, traders, travellers, soldiers by seaborne raiders. The Ottoman Empire expansion in Europe meant peasant families were enslaved by the combatant soldiers. The pressure to supply millions of slaves meant capture and enslavement of people. Spain contracted buying and transport of enslaved Africans to European middlemen slave trading companies with the best deals. With aforementioned pressure imposed quota to supply more slaves. When slave trade was at its peak, furnished with guns to use to fight each other. So they captured and auctioned slaves to other Europeans in Africa and shipped them to European colonial lands including Jamaica. Greed and ability to control economy is unprecedented. “Thus he shall act against the strongest fortresses castles with foreign god, which he shall acknowledge, and advance its glory; and cause them to rule over many, and divide the land for gain” in Daniel 11:39. Daniel foretold of accumulation of great riches because of total domination of the economies of the nations under union of dictatorial control. “Through cunning cause deceit to prosper under rule; to exalt self in the heart and destroy many in their prosperity in Daniel 8:25a.

Whereas the slave master yielded power through mortars, guns, swords, the victims had spears or used fist fights that was no match for attackers. Since onset of atomic bombs, planes, sophisticated weapons of war, plight of ordinary people was sealed. The Transatlantic slave trade between 1501-1867 Atlantic triangular trade, sold at least 12.5 million black Africans as slaves by Europeans countries. After 400 years officially counting end of slavery supposed to end earlier slavery still took place in large numbers. Kings who fought back in wars exiled like Prempeh from Gold Coast, Ghana. Gold mines and country colonised in lucrative slavery source of Western wealth. So has power over treasures of gold and silver, over all the precious things of Egypt; the Libyans, Ethiopians  follow at his heels” in Daniel 11:43.

While mocking the victim of their lack of civilisation and progress due to laziness. So a gigantic super abundance is created by usurper while those depleted are ridiculed daily by them. When blacks speak of the genocide being committed against African people on a global scale, this is the work of the system of white supremacy gentlemen and the individual racists. Slavery wealth costs the Africans blood, backs, bones, lynchings and death of millions of the ancestors unaccounted for. Taken from the motherland by force against their will many lost, millions of lives unaccounted for. Prempeh defence of Ashanti Kingdom against conquest led to exile to Sierra Leone and Seychelles.

Authentic rulers and kings were deposed like Prempeh to Seychelles by the British who took over rule of Ashanti Kingdom, gold mines and ruled Ghana. So stooges enstooled to promote imposed bully’s lifestyle. The slave trade followed a triangular route between Europe, Africa and the Americas. European goods, cloth and guns were traded for slaves in Africa. Although it takes 2 to tango, those who continue to greatly benefit most from slavery and colonialism still accuse victims of total blame of slavery and exiled their kings.

The conqueror writes books to portray their victims as those barbaric savages without knowledge and morals who need enlightenment to become civilised. Through the triangular trade exploitation of natural resources. Human cargo in exchange for sugar, rum, cotton fed industries in garments making, trickles for thousands of generations still continued. For a bottle schnapps, scotch whisky, brandy, gin and tonic exchanged hectares of fertile lands including gold mines. Cocoa and rubber plantations allegedly signed off by the illiterate kings who respect sacred land forced like Naboth’s vineyard. Africans although victims bullied by slave traffickers accussed and blamed for supposed greed for mirrors, alcohol introduced to them sold loved ones.
Many were captured and enslaved after wars incited by guns given to fulfil demand for quotas for slave plantation business booming. As a result, forced to torch innocent families rounded up separated from loved ones. Sold in droves of millions intoxicated by drinks to enrich themselves. Kunta Kinte from Gambia was not safe to walk or go to forest as slave traders on the look out to capture. Unfortunately the convenient divide and rule history legacy left blacks disunited but rightfully waiting to  get back usurp wealth. Women and children continue to the bear brunt of slavery and the mass destruction weapons for too many generations. In 1471 Portuguese built Elmina Castle to protect Portuguese trade from the European competitors, and hostile to Africans. In Elmina Castle near Cape Coast Castle in Ghana, they kept slaves in dungeons in castles built to store slaves until departure from the point of no return. Thousands of castles and dungeons still exist all over Africa recorded in various books in Ghana’s Gold Coast. Castles owned by British were Cape Coast Castle in Ghana among others. In Ghana, President Barack Obama, First Lady Michelle Obama and daughters Sasha 8, Malia 10 toured Cape Coast Castle a former slave fort. European slave traders gave America onions, olives, rice, turnips, coffee beans, peaches, pears, grains, wheat, barley, oats, livestock, cattle, sheep, pigs, horses, most importantly disease. Smallpox, measles, sicknesses affected native Americans killed or poisoned to take land. Education continues teaching slave masters principles and methods. Economic slavery is still doing extremely well. Much of the social life of Western Europe in 18th century to date depends on the product of slave labour. In homes, coffee houses people meet over coffee, chocolate, tea, sweetened by Caribbean sugar. Wear clothes made by American cotton, smoke pipes filled with Virginian tobacco. In the church above dungeons, worship God but slaves treated badly!
Furniture made from mahogany, tropical woods, coral, palm oil to build castles, export to Europe and North America. So deprive gold, diamond, timber, bauxite, oil, cocoa, spice, coffee, cotton. Demand for cheap goods traded in African fabrics, cotton, from Americas encourage trade and industry in the Midlands and North-West England, the heart of the Industrial Revolution. African natural resources in motherland never recovered from under development sabotage. The profit makes the Western nation merchants rich and investors make fortunes from the trade. Many land owners’ estates in Caribbean provide large incomes. Profits of slavery gives an undue advantage to European capitalist economic growth so expanding their global control of all nations.

Income from the slave trade exchanged cowries for  gold, diamond, salt, cotton, ivory, and slaves for horses, red cloth, and iron. So made people wealthy, bought land, built large houses, invested in banking, industry, support charitable institutions. Built museums, universities libraries, hospitals on blood and toil of slaves. These nations continue to dictate and subjugate their  fear of united front against them to recover the wealth in retaliation. Most Africans slaves include, Wolof, Mandinga and Bati etc. Castles exist in many parts of Africa where slaves taken for trafficking human black gold. Many Castles remain in Africa and some are ruins tourists visit to learn the living history. Cape Coast, Elmina Castle along coasts others are inland in Ashanti Region among other places in Africa . In dungeons, there were hundreds and perhaps thousands of slaves housed at the same time awaiting transportation; there were no toilet facilities. Slaves ate, slept in the same place; they urinated and relieved themselves in the same place. A channel in floor carried waste away from a point to another along floor. Taking baths was out of question and no ventilation to keep alive. In 1480s, Portuguese established entrepôts of São Tomé, Elmina to serve regular trade routes from Congo and Benin. Muslim fortress of Ceuta, North Africa, 1415. Conquered Portuguese rulers turned attention to trade goods delivered across Sahara. Skirting coast, royalty sponsored explorers brought rich supplies of gold, precious goods to source bypassing coasts. Created conflict divisions among those tribes not getting along with each other. These divisions reinforced wars and conquests. Insubordinate kings who refused to stand by to take abuse labelled enemies, blacklisted and exiled abroad. Stooges were installed in place of real kings so continued trauma of enslaved people. With constricting rules and laws reinforce in them divide and rule. One expects progress in modern times to see changes as equals in the 21st century. God Does not endorse such greed abuse endured from generation by victims so vengeance belongs to God who created all people. Constant propaganda news media continues to bombard the victims as villains just for asking to be treated fairly and equally as human beings. Embedded image permalink

God provides more than enough resources for all His children on earth yet black cargo was chosen as the preferred commodity to exploit due to greed and selfishness of others. Despite slow progress of one or token non threatening black man or woman hardly any real changes have taken place economically since African holocaust. Ghana eye is an exhibition exploring the history and legacy of the European Slave Trade. Britain’s slave trade history can be traced in the local landscape, museums, history books showing abject poverty before slavery. However, the irony is the paradigm shift of exchange of their poverty shift to original owners of the natural resources watching the usurper waste God given resources to blacks.

They lack compassion for victims fighting among themselves like house slaves and field slaves. Their accomplices are coconuts well endowed who have no idea how those on the other side live by improving and doing without. The injustice of black history cannot be fully redressed by the slave master for it is like asking wealth and resources to be returned on a silver platter. The basic bare necessities of life have become an uphill struggle and battle field for blacks. Those responsible for depleting under-develop fellow humans with no clue of the true origins of wealth usurped for many generations. Below of summary of chronology of slavery and abolition.The African Queen of Sheba rode chariots to visit King Solomon in 1 Kings 1:10-12, when she heard of fame of Solomon concerning the name of the LORD. To prove him with hard questions Makeda,  the Queen of Sheba 960 visited in BC. As most of Black history is suppressed, and distorted it is important to educate people about the wealthy kingdoms of Africa before slavery and colonialism. She came to Jerusalem with great train, camels carried spices, gold, precious stones. Black history lifestyle unknown in other countries. Queen of Sheba brought Solomon’s so many spices and gifts never seen before or ever since and saw wisdom, house built for God, the meat of his table, sitting of the servants, attendance of ministers, apparel, and cup bearers, and ascent by when went up to house of the LORD. Impressed as true report  heard in own land of acts of wisdom, prosperity exceeded all fame.

Blessed be the LORD God delighted to set on the throne of Israel because God loves Israel for ever, made king, to do judgement and justice. Sheba gave king 120 talents of gold, spices of great store, precious stones: abundance of spices queen of Sheba gave to king Solomon…for the house of the LORD, and for the king’s house. Psalm 68:31 says, Prince shall come out of Ethiopia shall soon stretch out her hands to God. Acts 8:27 says, Queen Candace’s personal accountant an Ethiopian eunuch of great authority under Candace queen of the Ethiopians, who had the charge of all her treasure, and had come to Jerusalem for to worship God so was baptised by Philip.

Overwhelminglyist evidence in Western museums, hospitals, universities built from raided African artefacts and figures reconstructed, reconfigured portray light skin. Knowledge from African roots eradicated from items made originally by black natives to prove highly skilled in architecture. To endorse the savage label given to blacks because the perfect skill displayed by art pieces were supposed to be too advanced for black intelligence. Before such cruel exploitation to enrich themselves at the expense of Africans, most European nations were so poor had paupers in poor houses to sell urine to tan animal skins to earn income.

pee picture 2Such families used to  pee in pots taken once a day and sold to tannery to survive so-called the “Piss Poor.” The water temperature about the 1500s was so cold people married in June as they took their yearly bath in May. Smelled good by June as brides carried a bouquet of flowers to hide body odour. Hence custom today of carrying bouquet when getting married. Africans enjoy perfumed tree scents like the lady of the night, and fragrance of African Lavender plus other rare species of flaura and fauna brought into Europe. So  bath consist of big tub filled with hot water. The man of the house had the privilege of the nice clean water, then all sons and men, then women and finally the children. Last of all the babies. By then the water was so dirty you could actually lose someone in it.. Hence the saying, “Don’t throw the baby out with the Bath water!” Houses had thatched roofs-thick straw-piled high, with no wood underneath. It was the only place for animals to get warm, so all the cats and other small animals, mice, bugs, lived in roof. It rained, became slippery and sometimes animals slip and fell off roof. Hence the saying “It’s raining cats and dogs.”There was nothing to stop the things from falling into house so posed problem in bedroom as bugs, droppings messed nice clean bed. Hence, a bed with big posts and a sheet hung over the top afforded some protection.

Yet Africans were superich while canopy beds came in to stop floor dirt. Wealthy had no such dirt saying, “Dirt poor.” The wealthy had slate floors that would get slippery in the winter when wet, so they spread thresh straw on floor to help keep their footing. As the winter wore on, they added more thresh until, when you opened the door, it would all start slipping outside. A piece of wood placed in entrance-way. Hence: a thresh hold. While taking great care of themselv maltreated and abused in chains restraints on neck. In those old days, they cooked in kitchen with a big kettle hunging over fire. They lit fire and added things to the pot. They ate mostly vegetables and did not get much meat. They ate stew for dinner, leftovers in the pot got cold overnight stew food for a while. Hence rhyme: Peas porridge hot, peas’ porridge cold, and pea’s porridge in pot nine days old. They obtained pork, and felt special, visitors came over, they would hang up their bacon to show off. It was a sign of wealth a man could, “bring home the bacon.” They cut off a little to share with guests and all sat around and fat cat ate at an expense of slaves. Slaves punished, whipped, shackled, hanged or beaten, mutilated, branded, molested, burnt, imprisoned tortured. Punishment was meted for no reason than hatred and pure evil yet themselves Christians.

Educational materials and documents available in almanacs record the black history events for posterity. So blacks  and whites must study these matters to correct history. Black history in ancient maps show proslavery and Precolonial ancient preposterous empires. They traded gold, salt and spices peacefully among each other. Until greed brought  fighting over slavecoasts and slaves to ship to West Indies, Brazil, South Africa from West Africa. The information must be made known to show that Africans are victims of Western Europeans who deprived them of their natural wealth resources. Africans are villified as those who sold their own flesh and blood for money. Just take a look at Africa to see who gained most from the slavery and the colonialism by Whites.

Those with money had plates made of pewter. Food with high acid content caused some of the lead to leach onto the food, causing lead poisoning death. This happened most often with tomatoes, so for the next 400 years or so, tomatoes were considered poisonous. Bread was divided according to status. Workers got the burnt bottom of the loaf, the family got the middle, and guests got the top, or the upper crust. Lead cups were used to drink ale or whisky. The combination would knock the imbibers out for a couple of days. Someone walking along the road would take them for dead and prepare them for burial. They were laid on the kitchen table for a couple of days as family gathered around to eat and drink and wait to see if they would wake up. Hence custom of holding wake to watch out for dead yet killed blacks.

England was old and small and local folks started running out of places to bury people. So they dig up coffins and take the bones to a bone-house, and reuse the grave. When reopening these coffins, 1 out of 25 coffins were found to have scratch marks on the inside and they realized they had been burying people alive. So they would tie a string on the wrist of the corpse, lead it through the coffin and up through the ground and tie it to a bell. Someone would have to sit out in the graveyard all night graveyard shift to listen for the bell so saved by the bell or considered a dead ringer. Money from slavery built  grand and obscured stately homes, public buildings and private homes.That’s the truth Black African wealth built Harewood House in Leeds among 1000s of others as economy flourishes. Black history extends through apartheid South Africa worldwide in segregation ethnic cleansing, colonialism globally. Slavery and indentured servitude is a capital offence in Exodus 21:16. Paul called slave traders, ungodly, unholy, lawless, rebellious, profane, in 1 Timothy 1:8-10. Systematic kidnapping to enslave countless Africans peaked from the 15th-19th centuries due to greed is absolutely a non-biblical phenomena. Business is booming for descendants exploiters while survivor descendants await compensation from such African holocaust. However, remember that vengeance belongs to God Jehovah Nissi in Jesus Name! So years devoured by locusts, canker and palmer worms God will restore. With more than double portion blessings plus interests as Jewish wealth assets restored. God SAYS if MY people called by MY NAME humble themselves to call upon God, HE WILL HEAR prayer, answer to heal their land in Jesus Name! A White said, THEY ARE STILL OUR SLAVES. We can continue to reap profits from them without the effort of physical slavery. Their IGNORANCE is the primary weapon of containment. A great man once said, ‘The best way to hide something from Black people is to put it in book. They have the opportunity to read any book on any subject through the efforts of their fight for freedom yet refuse to read. Few read consistently, if at all. GREED is another weapon of containment. Last year Blacks spent 10 billion dollars during Christmas, out of their 450 billion dollars in total yearly income (2.22%). We can use them as our target market, for any business venture we dream up, they will buy into it. They function totally by greed. They continually want more, & hardly save. They rather buy new sneaker than invest in a business. Some neglect their children to have the latest Tommy or Jordan, & they still think that having a Mercedes, gives them ‘Status’. They’re fools! A vast majority of them are still in poverty because their greed holds them back from helping to make better communities. With the help of BET, and the rest of their black media that often show destructive images into their own homes we continue to see huge profits like those of Tommy and Nike.

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Surprisingly Hilfiger even jeered them, saying he doesn’t want their money, and look at how the fools spend more with him than ever before! They will continue to show off to each other, white communities improve with profits from our businesses that we market to them. SELFISHNESS is one of the major ways we continue to contain them. Some segments of their culture that has achieved some ‘form’ of success but they didn’t read that the talented 10℅ was responsible to aid The Non-Talented 90℅ in achieving a better life. Instead, that segment created another class that looks down on people or help them in condescending manner. Their selfishness does not allow them to be able to work together on any project of substance. When they do get together, their egos get in the way of their goal Their so-called help organizations seem to only want to promote their name without making any real change in their community. They are content to sit in the white conferences & conventions in our hotels, and talk about what they will do, while they award plaques to the best speaker not the best doer. They refuse to see that Together Each Achieves More (TEAM). They do not understand that they are no better than each other because of what they own, as a matter of fact, most of them are one or two pay checks away from poverty. All of which is under the control of our pens in our offices and our rooms. Yes, we will continue to contain them as long as they refuse to read, continue to buy anything they want keep thinking they are helping their communities by paying dues to organizations which do little other than hold conventions in our hotels. By the way, do not worry about any of them reading it because ‘THEY DON’T READ!! Prove them wrong. Please pass this on! After Reading. We MUST rise from post traumatic slavery disorder. The blessings of the Lord God makes rich without sorrow so seek God’s blessings through tithes and offerings. Emancipate yourself from mental slavery, love and please the living God in Christ in Jesus Name. Sadly, this exploitative state of affairs continues until Almighty LORD God, Patent Owner and Creator takes back power from them and the KING of Kings Jesus Christ Rules earth physically permanently forever in PERFECT PEACE FROM JERUSALEM ISRAEL. Forgive to Make sure you belong to God’s Kingdom in the New Jerusalem.

Now .. whoever said History was boring?

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A BIBLICAL SEX EDUCATION

A Biblical Sex Education is God’s will for genuine Christian born again believers to teach true values and sound lifestyle pleasing to God. To keep body holy and sanctified in 1 Thessalonian 4:3-4. God’s will is be holy sanctified to abstain from sexual immorality and fornication. 4 To know your body is holy it keep pure to honour God. 1 Corinthian 6:8 says flee from sexual immorality because all sins committed outside the body, but sexual sin is against own body. God’s command in His Holy law is just, good, perfect so agree with sound doctrine of the Gospel. Biblical sex education is God’s way you keep Holy Spirit in you pure. As safe sex education’s unpredictable consequences too late. Educate children from 4 years old a precocious puberty child pregnant at 4:5 years old gave birth at 5 years old. Don’t take Godly education  for granted, teach them in/appropriate touch early. Precocious puberty body develops early growth spurt. Changes of puberty sets in early younger than previous generation.Most societies in the past, used to marry children early before formal education started. Years ago cultures betrothed the children named after birth the potential spouse. As the menstruation starts child was ready so given in marriage by both families who agreed in advance after birth. Children join family professions, informal education, apprentice bakers, barbers, cleaners, as chimney sweepers, cooks, factory workers, farmers, fishers, hunters, builder masons, did pottery, servants, tailors, tanners, thatchers, washers, etc. All did their bit in fields or at home. Child birth is an opportunity to breed to replenish earth workers help elderly aged. Its the win win situation to celebrate childbirth then without an age restriction of modern formal education compulsory. Slum dog millionaires film of Mumbai had their 100% employment of a whole community. Hire extra hands to help so all hands on deck if capable of working. With compulsory education, a long biological clock gap creates many years waiting to be married now affects  children. Pressure is on the girls as child bearers to have the major responsibility for fertility control and moral standard. Men have double standards sowing wild oats sex but demands virgins to marry. Reproduction held at bay despite active sex hormone is subdued. Sexual feeling stimulated in films language suppressed by contraceptive pills, injection, other birth control methods. A pool exists of underage teenager finished compulsory education, unemployed with technology taking over jobs. Generations forced off lands means few have abundant jobs. With plenty of time on their hand, new trends encourage second life computer games preoccupation with intense lust feelings played out. Causes paedophiles online to pester, cajole, plead, charming to seduce children to comprise. Normal healthy platonic display, affection hugs, kisses, embrace, family comfort releases agape affection hormone Oxytocin. This stimulates serotonin attachment feeling bonds of healthy behavioural actions or reward. Embrace increases level of love hormone so creates longing for sense of commitment. Many do not understand a female reproduction of organ menstrual cycle, ovulation, conception, gestation period abuse children. For Biblical sex education use appropriate age language illustration if approproare or necessary.
This agape love hormone strengthens a bond of affection between families. The man and a child abuse intercourse by  Stockholm Syndrome. As sexual instinct hormones kick in the years of puberty, girls told to prove ‘love’ in relationships. But these children do not automatically understand the full functions of private body organs. Some born out of a puppy love affection so naive children lack the knowledge of sexual consequences. So conform and comply like playing with fire but hope not to be burnt. And the newspapers are full of stories of under age children giving birth. Five year old Lina Medina from Peru has named son Gerardo after the doctor but refused to name father. In Singapore at 6 years old in Ukraine, Yelizaveta Gryshchenko, six years H in India, Anna Mummenthaler at 8 years from Switzerland, Mum-Zi 8 years from Calabar Nigeria, 9 years-old Estelle P of USA, 9 year old in 1881, UK. Some coerced by the rape drug perform illicit sex. Other naive ones think hyped intimate bonding remains fixed for live at heightened level fantasize engaged or married. Think joyous love cherishing is owner possessing baby assume love life is easy as playing with the plastic dolls, think they can manage love. So do not consider heat of moment consequences or cost of raising or maintaining a child. Lack frontal cortex brain to understand the needs of a home to live in, income, maturity and how to handle, discipline child, provide care, affection, duties and responsibilities of parenthood because they are children themselves. A family is responsible for mother and child not grown up to ensure child is well looked after. Struggle mentally, emotionally or financially. So lost childhood forced to grow overnight impacts the child born in such circumstances who repeat same pattern of cycle. Children emotionally deficient or materially malnourished so don’t fully comprehend adult issues of a child birth and a child care. In UK, Sean Stewart was 12 year old youngest father in Britain when his girlfriend gave birth to son. Teenage pregnancies of younger mothers and fathers in Guinness book of records is 5 years mother and 11 year old father. Biblical sex education needs to emphasize importance of proper sex education. Home schoolers teach moral  education before its too late! In Genesis 34:1-31 Dinah was raped by Shechem son of Hamor Hivite. 2 Samuel 13:1-21 Tamar raped by half-brother Ammon in Bible. Intense selfish lust desires fantasy craving abused young naive half-sister. Amnon son of David lusted after Tamar, beautiful sister of Absalom in 2 Samuel 13 :1. On pretext sick he faked illness to lure Tamar to cook a meal for him used violence against her to tamper with her virginity. Knew nobody will marry her after rape considered ‘damaged’ goods. David didn’t punish Ammon for rape of Tamar. Let him move on dumped her as his selfish lust seduced fulfilled his flesh for a moment. Lust craving causes some to give engagement ring to seduce girls used and abuse them collect ring back.Ammon discards her after getting what he wanted not interested in a long-term relationship. Men collect engagement ring back without any compensation or alimony for service rendered by the girl whose time is wasted. Some end up with sexual diseases, HIV, paedophile gangs abusing them. Promiscuous girl’s body after birth bonding with baby switches emotion on autopilot maternal instincts. Displaces father once given attention to, causes boys, some men, to feel rejected and abandoned feel left in a lurch. This change dynamics of relationship makes partners distract from her spouse. So fathers must come on board to support the mother doing all the hardwork. Do not seek attention from the next victim looking for love in the wrong places. So cover children with the blood of Jesus soak them up in prayer for God’s rightly chosen spouse to marry in Jesus Name.Watching TV images of sex and listening to sex lyrics of sexualised music, parties, peers, clubs, perverts destroy children. They demand sexual fulfilment promote sex on society bill boards. Advertising, innuendos, jokes, swears, books, strip clubs, adult films, porn or online illicit magazines, lyrics in pop hip hop music highlight sex in the derogatory manner making light sacred intimacy created by God. Teach God’s way and a procreative appropriate age designed by God not to join legalized sin. Alfred Kinsey, SIECUS Sexuality Information and Education of U.S. endorse child abuse but bible never agrees on child or teen sex. Idle hands bored, unoccupied turns entertainment to sex jokes but consequences lasts their lifetime beyond generation of problems. Sex trafficking sells fastest multi-billion business sponsored by pimps as control freaks dominate and sex abuse victims. Teach children the Godly of self-esteem, self-value, self-appreciation appropriate expression of the genuine platonic love. Parental affection for children lowers a hormone stimulated or elevated by hugs and kisses from abusers. Children must be taught clear boundary between the parents and family members entitled to hugs and kisses to embrace transparent public love in the family. To learn touch appropriately for personal care if too young. Teach them to value the body as priceless from God in depth to merit a comprehensive unconditional love of Christ in God for them eternally. Joseph at 17 years old rejected a sexual advances of Portipher’s wife in Egypt said he didnot “want to sin against God.” The sex issue requires teamwork ethos of high expectation, motivation, support for children to overcome many barriers. Pastoral care is essential in schools and the family working together not against them. Confidential support prevents the selfish child centred approach misleads naive children. Effective than waiting to repair aftereffect damage. It costs more to raise teenager childmother and child than use resources to properly educate them. Children hook up with others and end up unprepared as baby mama and father. Not realising the domino effects of no solutions in life exchange problem for another. Teach child a personal care of private parts, there is no 100% safe sex education so don’t use contraceptive at right times. The graphic illustrations demonstrating sex education makes fun of sacred sex and children experiment. There is urgent need for sound reading skills, knowledge, motivation to inspire encourage children for high expectation to attend school to progress in life. An  excellent manner, love themselves first in life no matter humble the beginning, to appreciate and enjoy life. The world sells sex but its God’s idea created for a consummation of a marriage, intimacy, companionship, affection, procreation. Don’t lean on your own understanding to exclude God from sex education. God helps children grow kinder adults with a deeper meaningful lifelong marriage fulfillment. The pornograghy evil spirits possess sexual perverts, sin against God, repent and sin no more in Jesus Name.

GOD HAS HALLOWED NAMES

inverted.20240914_std.JPGJesus told His Christian disciples to pray to Hallow God and Sanctify God’s Holy Name on earth. God’s Holiness Glorifies celebrated All Hallows Eve. This is Holy Evening to honour the Christian saints  remembered each year. Hallow Evening honours saints in Churches who served God with their lives. They helped people so on international day Christians thank God for martyred saints who sacrificed their lives to help save souls. The Saints showed love, honour, reverence to God for Christ blood sacrifice. International Hallowed Day was an evening to be kept pure and Holy for God! It proved Christ conquered death and martyred saints overcame death emerge alive in heaven in the Presence of God. So Hallowed day used to mock and ridicule death, thanks Jesus to Glorify God’s gift of eternal life. Christ Jesus redeems sinners from death with gift of eternal life in resurrection.images (68)1Jesus taught God’s Name to be Hallowed in prayer. Hallowed Evening turns into “Halloween,” “hallowed evening,” “holy evening.” Scottish term for ‘All Hallows’ Evening is a contraction of “All Hallows Evening. Allhalloween or All Hallows’ Eve and All Saint’s Eve celebration. Its observed on 31st October, countries as Holy Church event on eve of a Western Christian feast of All Hallows Day. Then  triduum of All hallow tide in the time of liturgical year dedicated rememberance memorial day to those who passed into heaven. For saint’s hallow, martyrs and all faithful departed believers in Christ.
But All hallow tide traditional focus on All Hallows’ Eve revolves around theme of using “sense of humour and ridicule to confront power of death. It intended it a form of liturgical worship to diffuse tensions of fear of death and take away its sting from painful loss of loved ones after death. Sadly has opposite effect of a celebration holiday to honour ghouls, demons, ghosts, evil spirits, passionate about death dress, identify with master to show they prefer satan worship daily.Halloween nominal believers serve the devil. Although considered fun merely implies dressing in image or outlook by appearance represent Halloween. Jesus conquered death and took away keys from satan to gave us life in redemption on the cross. So do not need to celebrate Halloween to scare death a defeated foe. Every Christian believer has eternal life.The saying is show me your friend and I will tell you who you are. Clothing looks and garments celebrate evil powers. Its  lack of awareness of the implications to children of spirit of satanism behind it. Academic scholars say All Hallows’ Eve feast was influenced by Celtic Harvest festivals. Others maintain it originated independently of Samhain solely with All Saints’ and All Souls’ Day thought to embody strong pre-Christian beliefs and Christian roots. Halloween is presented s harmless fun to young children never enthusiastically taught to promote God and Christian faith with passion or zeal.Overall holiday spending, said Nikoleta Panteva senior analyst market research IBIS World says businesses make huge profits from Halloween. So sell billions of Halloween goodies in various shops globally of item’s sold on display. Once Halloween merchandise hits shelves, society goes into auto drive preoccupied with festivities. Christian Christmas was influenced by the King Constantinople’s intra-faith pagan roots, Gaelic Samhain Hallowed Day now pagan devil worship.Needs to restore origins for God’s Glory and Honour as Sovereign LORD through Christian leaflets to educate and bring awareness about true genuine hallowed day. Organise Christian events, gifts and witness to win more souls for God. Pray for those tortured, martyred for Christ. Cry, sigh, lament, call upon God to have mercy to forgive insolence of mankind against God. Its opportunity to repent for cruelty and wickedness against God by people. Continue to share real, true reasons for God’s Hallowed Evening.God says those He LOVES HE corrects so does not want any to perish. Encourage proper honour of celebration to Hallow God not the devil. The Bible says avoid the appearance of evil so anything that looks like evil even in the name of fun is not worthy of the time and presence of a true child of the Living God. Jesus said the devil has nothing in Him. Christians must not celebrate devil worship which parades as harmless fun. It desensitized people, children against dark horrors of witchcraft. Bonfire was originally bone fire of the martyred Christian saints.People gathered and condoned to jeer persecuted believers in lion’s dens and watched live fire in front of crowds. Not realising their cry is judgement of blood of persecuted generational curses. Such blurred lines destroys clear boundaries between what God approves and what mankind does. Halloween merely seen as party time to have fun to let the hair down. How many Christians take time to prepare an alternative Holy events to share with the family, church, instead of following secular Halloween. October is time to bring wholesome debated about whether Christian believers should get into costume glorifying death.The world rebels against God rejecting Him as Sovereign Lord by abandoning God for the devil in the garden of Eden in Genesis 3:1-7 to do own thing. Bible says resist the devil so he will flee from you in James 4:7. Mankind’s audacity to renounce God as KING Ruler to reign to appoint own ruler. In 1 Samuel 8:7, God told prophet Samuel its not you they  reject but Jehovah Zebaoth they rejected as KING. God’s people since fall of Adam and Eve seriously affected by the ability to relate to one another to live in peace with one another. Celebrates anti-Christ festivals promoted and endorsed by the unbelievers to deride God and Christ’s Jesus resurrection power for all saints.Most importantly, the fall has seriously affected our ability to relate to God and to live at peace with Him. The main theme of the Bible concerns the restoration of our relationship to God and the redemption of man from his sinful state, climaxing at the cross of Christ, which made the way for us to return to God. Just as man chose to rebel against God in his sin, so man can also choose to return to God by accepting the sacrifice of Christ to pay the price for his sin. Thus, Christ’s sacrifice, in a sense, undoes the event of the fall and brings man back to God. So let God’s Kingdom come and His will be done on earth!The Bible is indeed history of mankind so Christian believers must not bend over backwards to accommodate evil in church. The world is to follow Christian church example in holiness to be saved.  No one can serve two masters either you will hate one and love other or you will be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve both as Matthew 6:24-25 and Luke 16:13. So one cannot truly belong to God and the devil at the same time. Prepare good Christian programs to celebrate God’s Hallowed day to help people become excited about learning, to grow in faith by friendship with God. Check local Christian Book stores, UCB Word for Today online have alternative Hallowed Christian package events for born again believers. Intercede in Jesus Name to fast against spiritual warfare.Christian’s, teachers be saints in leading young children to God in Christ’s Gospel to believe to accept Christ Jesus as Lord. It is good and beautiful to feed children soul food early to adore and hallow God to receive Jesus’ salvation. God loves all Children and Christ to be in their hearts to be saved and go to heaven. No child is too young to give their life to Christ to follow teaching of the cross of Jesus for eternal life. Read Christian story books to them from birth take them to church their entire young life. And talk to them about Jesus sing songs about God, watch Christian stories on television and read Bible at home. Reinforce Jesus Message, reverence God, significant adults in life.Testify as picture shares the message in at child level with tone of voice to make a difference. Teach to give life to Christ as a child to receive boldness by power of Holy Spirit to witness to others. This boy in photo talks to people about Jesus on air planes, in grocery store, ball field and led a little boy to Christ during his sister’s dance recital. He continues to pray for salvation of those he witnesses to not receptive to Message at the time. The parents said they people must know words impact others. Sometimes God is placing you in the path of others for HIS purpose of speaking Jesus into their life.

A LITTLE SECRET EVIL LIES

'Brainwashed': Young women gather around Victor A. Barnard, the leader of an alleged cult who is wanted for allegedly repeatedly sexually assaulting the girls, whom he called his 'Maidens'Little secret lies are used to manipulate naive children who know nothing about sex. Issues of sexual abuses often swept under carpet denied by perpetrators its important and necessary to educate children early on matters concerning their lives. This simple easy format helps children, parents, guardians, significant others to help children understand their intimacy issues early in life. Children don’t know about intimacy automatically. So do not wait or assume they will grow and learn it. Numerous real life painful stories of sexual abuse makes it necessary parents teach children early about preciousness of their body as God’s Holy Temple.This true account will help parent gain better awareness of sexual abuse. Dawn was 4 years old and her mother offered to help heavily pregnant neighbour. By shopping for her, she left Dawn under her care for a few hours for some time to help prepare for delivery. Then Peter, the oldest son of that pregnant woman started entertaining and playing with Dawn to occupy her. Peter’s mother was busy preparing meals for family or food to freeze during days of confinement. Child play soon turned into nurses and doctors for many months continued to play together. Abuser had audacity to sit Dawn playfully on his knees in presence of family together nobody knew its little secret. Dawn told the parents of Peter’s games played so Peter’s father, a prison officer whipped the son until his bottom burst open, turned into wound oozing pus. This saved Peter from abuse but it destroyed their beautiful relationships between friendly neighbours. Worst of all abuser attended police academy at time of abuse yet successfully qualified so carried on profession in place where no one knew his dirty little secret.isbn9780340970577-1x2aDawn grew up before becoming aware of and  understood what happened then during childhood at 4 years old. Peter’s father sought transfer and moved to another town to work there. Dawn had no idea or knowledge of intimacy so did not understand abuse. At 4 years old too young to know such things happened in life. Families do not deem it necessary to teach children an awareness to know differences between appropriate touch. Use simple words meaningful at a child level to create a family code for private part to clean themselves. Ask or remind child to clean wee if girl or pee if boy to clean properly without embarrassment by direct supervision but not to violate their privacy if old enough to clean by themselves. Cleaning teeth helps brush until well-trained enough on own to cope by themselves. Remember a safe environment for each child’s maturity level is different! Teach children body belongs to God so Holy Spirit dwells in them through Christ. In 1 Corinthians 6:19-20, “Know your body is a temple of Holy Spirit received from God. Do you not know you are God’s temple or God’s Holy Spirit dwells in you. And if anyone destroys God’s temple, God will destroy him. “Do you not know your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God?The body is not for sexual immorality, but for the LORD, and the LORD for the body. 1 Corinthians 6:13 – 18, flee from sexual immorality. Urge brothers and sisters in the LORD God’s mercy to offer your bodies as living sacrifice Holy and pleasing to God, teach children to value body. Their Private parts not touch vest, chest, fondling breast or bras. If a little girl old enough to dress, teach priceless value of body and boundaries, innocent play turning to disaster. Keep eyes open to teach children to tell the little secrets, plays, hide out and gender boundaries. Its better to be safe than sorry, trauma of abuse lingers on in life affecting all aspects of life. Train children very early to KEEP PRIVATE PARTS PRIVATE as sole owner of PRIVATE BODY. Must not allow anyone to touch vests, bras, underwears or permit any trespassers to enter in! Its hands off zone to others not accepted to assist like parents and genuine nanny carers, doctors etc. From the age 2 years some children dress themselves. But it depends on child’s spurt growth level of maturity. The parent’s input train child early to do simple little things: pulling up pants, take off vests until able to take personal hygiene care of themselves. A P.A.N.T.S is easy way to explain to child key elements of NSPCC Underwear Rule:Clipboard03.jpgPrivates are private so child’s parts of body covered by underwear is PRIVATE explained to child no one should see or touch their private parts or ask them to look at or touch other’s. Doctors, nurses or family members clean poo or change nappies if young. Explain that is OK, but people should explain why and ask your child if it’s OK first before cleaning them P = PRIVATE Remember body belongs to God. No one has a right to make them do anything to feel uncomfortable. And if anyone tries, tell your child they have the right to say no. Remind child always to talk to you if upsets.

A= Always protect body: No means NO

Make sure your child understands they have the right to say “no” to unwanted touch to a family member or someone they know or love. To be in control of their body and “no” feeling respected. If child feels confident to say no to family, they are more likely to say no to others. N=No Talk teaches secrets upset life. Explain differences between ‘good’ and ‘bad’ secrets. Phrases like “it’s our little secret” is abuser’s way of making a child feel worried, scared to tell others about what is happening to them.

  • Good secrets can be things like surprise parties or presents for other people.
  • Bad secrets make you feel sad, worried or frightened.

Your child needs to feel able to speak up about secrets that worry them and confident that saying something won’t get them into trouble. Telling secret will not hurt or worry family or love ones. 

T=Tell Secret Speak up and get help.

S=Speak up tell others about feelings. 

Tell child if sad, anxious or frightened they should talk to an adult they trust. It doesn’t have to be only family member. Tell teacher,friend’s parent: ChildLine.

Remind them whatever problem, it’s not their fault so not in trouble for speaking.

  • P=PRIVATE BODY AREAS
  • A= ALWAYS PROTECT BODY
  • N=NO MEANS NO TOUCHING
  • T= TELL SECRET OF ABUSER
  • S=SPEAK UP ABOUT FEELINGS 

1. Be alert if parent sees changes, body language, behaviour be wise, help.

2. Be careful not entrust child to others if unsure.

3. No matter how sweet playful bond follow gut feelings.

3. Be aware, never leave child alone with abuser, avoid stranger danger.

4. Use camera if in doubt; check child’s Stockholm syndrome empathy with the abuser.

5.Do not sacrifice child for family honour and reputation image

6.Put child care first and work from home for first 5 years if possible.

7. Educate children on an appropriate touch or no go private body areas.

8. No fondling of boobs, butts, pinching, keeping little secrets!

9. Teach child to dress to cover body in childhood.

10. If it seems good melts your heart protect child!

11. Ensure health, safety protects children’s lives.

12. Talk with confidence on private body areas.

SELF-WORTH

Self-worth is valued in many ways by different people. There are 3 main broad umbrella general typical self-worth categories discussed here. The 1st group believe their self-worth is derived from God Almighty their Lord and King in charge of all areas of their lives. They sincerely believe God created them so knows them better than anybody. So the acknowledge God 24/7 and exalt His Holy Name. They live for God totally, seek God’s face for every decision and ask God’s blessings through the Name of Jesus. They understand they are God’s property so God is their source of life not their networth. Their family, promotion, rewards, material riches, wealth, assets, prosperity. houses, lands, businesses are from God the author and finisher of their faith. They feed on God’s soul food the Bible for self-esteem in Christ.

They depend on God to supply all their needs according to His riches in Glory from heaven by Christ Jesus. Where to live, what to eat, what to wear is supplied by God who knows their needs. So they give due respect, thanks, Honour, Glory to God for their breath, their life, their strength, their healing, their comfort, their grief, their sorrow in God’s hands. The work of their hands belongs to God, their fruits and ministry belong to God. In fact they are so blood bought and purchased by God  through Christ Jesus they are sold out to God. They are in the world but not of the world as peculiar people, their feet is on earth but their heart is in heaven.

They are actively winning ans sponsoring others to win souls and ready for rapture! They constantly talk of God in almost all conversations and addicted to God. They see their self- worth only through God’s worth and God’s Image imprinted in their spirit, soul and body. They are God focused, hot for God though not perfect they fall many times but rise again in Jesus Name like good soldiers of the cross. Confidence is in God’s guidance to embark on projects and dedicate them to God. By turning the mind healthy in actions, thoughts to reflect Godly self-esteem.The 2 category of self-worth is defined by one’s own self- effort, self-achievement, self-confidence, own, strength, and self- made abilities, connections, status, class, wealth, riches, friends, family and relationships. Put pressure on themselves to improve self in many 12 step programmes. May try to maintain diet to keep size in shape, height, status,  etc keep changing to adapt to desired taste. So feel they needs regular tummy tucks or other tucks here and there to redesign themselves for the perfect ultimate shape intended. So proceed to make themselves feel better through various big time changes to improve looks, enhance and implant boobs or reduce them not for medical reasons.I'm awesome

Liposuction, pump butts, enlarge phallus, redesign private parts. They may become product junkies so regular updates are required to keep up changes worth thousands if not millions of dollars. True self-esteem does not come from a bottle or products. Self-worth derives from self-confidence in God confidence. It includes self-respect and self-belief, self acceptance and self-love. It is in the interest of many multi- billion industries and companies many people live insecure life. So they become their source of making them look like what they deem fit as best suited for them. So people become addicted to stimulants and substances to try to numb self-worthlessness, shyness, mask pains, masking behaviour by mentally blocking feelings. So keep up the façade by maintain the charade.
Yet unaware of billions of so much wasted land fill sites meant for houses and homes. It’s Each change feels good for so long then the cycle is repeated to maintain and keep up appearances with the Jones. There seems to be a nagging void so no matter what is done to present self well is never satisfied. Years and years of longing for fulfilment through things is never enough. One is into the hyped epic of the latest gadgets and the toys and the most expensive item believing the costlier the higher the quality transferred into self-worth to enhance image before others trying to impress. It is true self-confidence is the foundation of good success and achievement. However, self-esteem philosophy which originated in 20th Century secular psychology is deeply embedded in Christian teaching with name it and claim it selfish system.

The 3rd self-worth group seems to have no self-belief concept of the precious value of their life, abilities, talents, wealth or talents. No matter what everyone else sees in them or tells them about  God’s beauty and Image in them, they feel ugly and have low self-esteem.  The falsely think humility means low self-esteem. So worry, are anxious, constantly looking outward not within for self-worth. Some may or may not use external cosmetic enhancement but still never feel good enough. They may be kind-hearted, sweet-natured, loving, generous, compassionate yet do not think they are worthy to receive or enjoy their life to the full.

They are impressionable and easily led so influenced by others because they want to please everybody except themselves. In the process  receive many contradictory advise so become confused so cannot make up their own minds. They may be vulnerable and  bounce off other people as misery loves company. They may worry and look for underlying reasons for their low self-esteem through non-existent health conditions or blame others, their background. Such a habit is really destructive and totally unnecessary so must understand the emotional drain on themselves and stress put on others under pressure from them. Many adults are still dealing with self-worth issues of childhood.

So have no value for their life, family, assets or wealth. They do not feel they deserve anything good in life. On the other hand may have no filters or boundaries so underneath the mask is underlying issues of anger, may be hiding deeper feelings of hurt and vulnerability. Some project their hurt onto others and not even aware of such treatment of others. As they do not learn to control emotions they cannot separate good feeling from bad feelings mixed in their life. They may show the world one attitude yet feeling another. However it is important to be congruent to configure feelings to admit true inner feelings and thought to be true and honest with self. Often the body language expression shown reflect or gives clues and hints of symptoms of expressions of true feelings underneath.

So change low self-worth denigrating self- attitudes because no one is worthless. Even if hurt by others respond and do not react to result into negative self-worth vibes transmitted and radiated by own actions and words. Obsession with self- worth is also detrimental as one is constantly changing like chameleon to fit in and blend. God made all perfect for His Glory to stand out and be counted. So nobody is a sea of identical faceless invisible clones modelled on a particular self-image. It is important to know one’s self-worth is through God’s Image imprinted since creation. So families raising children in Godly value life is are highly regarded and appreciated by God. People are created as God’s inmost being knit together in womb as stated in Psalm 139:3. So each child is from God granted life on earth according to God’s will.

APPROPRIATE TOUCH

Appropriate touch is important especially in a tactile society where considered essential, necessary. Ethics requires establishing and maintaining appropriate professional boundary with people. Since no one lives alone as an island, one is bound to meet and run into people often as possible. Parents, guardians nurses, doctors, fire men, first aiders, health professionals, provide nurturing appropriate assistive touch during care. Other significant people provide care as part of duty, responsibility to help those totally dependent on them. Due to many reasons and factors, appropriate touch is used for care during formative years as child is trained for personal care from 2 years onwards. Depending on child’s spurt growth maturity level, care continues until if able to do so unsupervised. People express love openly demonstrating affection in specific manners acceptable to that society. Some demonstrate affection publicly by kissing, holding hands, hugging, touching each other in meaningful ways. To various people in other cultures including married couples, one cannot openly flaunt love as it is not acceptable in that environment. Although, it may seem like freedom of expression to openly verbalize or express feelings of affirmation, some cultures have own standard expressing love in their context. So it is good to find out in each context, to know how people relate. In some communities, one cannot keep an eye contact to show respect to adults but must bow head, look down if talking or listening.  So it is considered rude to look straight in the eye in some socities.

Those who concentrate on appropriate touching, feel better and positive by touching. As touch serves a primary role to prove besotted in love with affection to publicly declare undying love. Touch is also used to console other individuals. For example, we put arms around people, hold head in our hands, hold hands or hug them in attempt to empathize more fully. To such a touching person nothing speaks more deeply than appropriate touch. It helps them feel they become one with others in ideal empathic understanding. So feel more loved or consoled as allowed to touch them. Those familiar and used to stirred emotion of touch use appropriate comforting words plus touch. Though it seems unnatural to those not used to such learned behaviour of touching for moral or infection control.

Others in non – touching society allow women to keep to female groups to work in team although married.  It is considered rude for women to be seen in company of men not their father, brother, husband or relative. Untrained eyes may see boundaries as suppression and lack of freedom. Such clear boundaries are set to teach moral awareness early to respect arms length personal space. From tender early years appropriate touch is defined clearly so genders have clear roles crucially for interactive behaviour boundaries. There is no right or wrong issue involved in taught touch or non-touching as none is better than the other. Those who prefer touch may feel isolated, unloved, excluded by others who seem cold to them for no appropriate touch. If unsure ask if allowed to kiss, hug or group hug as family boundaries are specifically clear.To those from non- touch background see blurred interaction too close for comfort. Hence do not allow people to touch if not used to touch. Due respect and honour is given to highly value place of touch in here and now and for future moral boundaries. Families feel responsible to ensure family members turn out right so perform roles and duties ordained for destiny. Touch avoidance morals ensure child protection from inappropriate touch. In contradiction girls are strictly brought up differently from boys. This sends a wrong message to boys girls are good for pleasure as they please though demand pure girl unspoilt as spouse or vice versa. Appropriate touch keeps clear boundaries in a relationship. Those touched inappropriately must seek support, help and not condone body violation.60276-grief_consoling2Inconsistent moral diversity creates double standard for teenage boys who turn into men who disrespect women and vice versa. Such fixed behaviour patterns means touching only one relationship after marriage seems impossible. So become used to having own way for so long over the years ingrained in mind. So entrenched inappropriate touch behaves recklessly. Also, they continue to think entitled to touch anyone, anywhere, oblivious to effect of embedded abuse on self or others. So lack awareness or respect for others indulge in sexual harassment jokes, touching breasts, pinching bottoms. Inappropriate touch contact is sign of immaturity and lack of respect for self or others.

Deliberately hand-pick and hire specific body types preferred so fire them if uncooperative so victims need support. Those power drunk deluded chose vulnerable naive children to groom for wrong motives. Some lack total control despite having most loving spouse get kick out touching inappropriately. Some camouflage with gifts, reward, promise to promote, buy material goods for victim to silence them. Others cover perverted track badmouthing dignified spouses who build them up. They fool naive victims they will leaving spouse for them. The truth is some have absolutely no lives without spouse blackmailed. So continue inappropriate touch, texts, faxes, tweets, face book seeking  non-existent.perfect partner

Some modern  relationships seem to take cues mostly from films, adverts, drama, or peers.  Those not conditioned to touch do not miss touch as they do not know, experience such touch. Seek to understand the standard set by each context. Not feel restricted and limited for not allowed to express love. Especially under influence of alcohol or substances abuse, act anyhow, anywhere, without restraint. Cause offence with consequences to dignified cultures training people to respect a person’s body so not to touch innappropriately. Some do not allow strangers to have any form of bodily contact in expressing affection. So allow male to male contact greeting communication.Those naive may be taken in by manipulation abuse to fall victim. Worst of all, some sabotage themselves by filming inappropriate touch for others online. So it is very important to train children and teenagers to value their body as temple of God highly valued and created in Image and Likeness of God. A true life of contentment and fulfilment is not filled by fleshly desire lustful touch. It is misconception of media and drama using lust in storyline as ultimate satisfaction in life. It misleads people to crave dependency on momentary actions of intimacy as be all and end all of life as thousands of inappropriate lustful innuendos, direct words of phallus, private part aired.images (35)It is unbelievable how much society condones and promotes lust in car adverts, food and perfumes etc on TV to influence and appeal to control the mind. So many generations grew up with especially women portrayed as sexual objects for profit in newspapers, adult cartoons, nude magazines, strip clubs, porn, adult cinemas, films, massage parlours, red districts, pimping sell intimacy as freedom of expression and choice. Yet on the other hand frown on the impact such liberal actions cause from promoting sex in selling everything.Generations have no idea of word of God but know such places and freely partake as they feel they have the right to do so. It concerns the owner of the human body God Almighty, an organ overrules and controls the mind strong emotions on a whole life. To even detriment and undermine reputation, career, spouse, promotion, without seeking help prior to actions. One becomes what one watches and reads especially in secret so the first step is to ensure thoughts are controlled. Then safe scenario created to enhance positive images to build up spirit in a healthy way. Perverted thought become stronghold if not nipped in the bud by God’s grace, mercy and mentor’s help.

Birds fly without one’s control over the head but one has power to prevent them from nesting in the hair. If addicted to alcohol do not work in a pub or if clumsy do not take up a job in china plate shop! It may seem obvious enough but living in denial in delusion of grandeur as a cover does not eradicate pervert emotions. Be honest and true to realise a few moments thrill may be not even remembered years later. Life is much deeper and more valuable not to be limited to only 20% aspect of life. Most people prefer to be touched by those they are close to, and then solely in situations where the touch is appropriate if needed. Be aware you can look but can’t touch.

Hyped lust creates a false delusion of a satiety never accomplished because it is a non – existent mirage. It creates disrespect for spouse unappreciated and not valued. Thinking there is real pot of lust gold at end of the rainbow somewhere better than now to satisfy. False belief causes unrealistic hollow lifestyle never content or at peace but always in search of ultimate gratification in life. Some think thrill of unlawful touch will make them happy though soon forgotten in search of new thrill seeking not caring of hurting others. So mind the feelings of others when touching!

STOP THE DOMESTIC ABUSE

Stop abuse which begins to show signs during dating although but it may seem as genuine love, affectionate caring concern at first at the beginning of a relationship. The partner devotes time and attention all day long calling, texting, tweeting, on face booking, instagraming, viber, whats upping,  blogging, selfieing, showering with gifts person to pays extra attention. This wonderful novelty of relationship blossoms overlooks danger signals and warnings from concerned relatives. One may be dined and wined, taken on holidays, pampered, cars bought for, designer clothes, etc. This reassures a partner of special place in a loved one’s heart to reciprocate to extend similar affection. Focus is on external physical aspect of the relationship of keeping up appearance so loving attention intimacy addictive weapon of control. So used to manipulate seduce abusive partner who in turn is charming. Is provider or the main source of income so partner bends over backward, tolerates, accommodate putting up to maintain the sophisticated lifestyle standard. Such motives keep up good front to get married and to remain together but in denial. Some feel too ashamed and embarrassed to speak out or seek help so suffer in silence and battle on at personal cost.Some continue with abuse with a more expensive reward of gifts compensating victims. To the outside world it seems the couple’s life is perfectly beautiful, with glamorous homes, luxury cars, jets, gifts of designer clothing, fame, fortune. Provider becomes possessive obsessed egotistic investments buying affection of trophy partner for status. As time goes by victim more attached so abuser takes further control so strips victim of normal actions like asking them to stop smiling, or crying, clothes to wear until victim is totally lost self and deprived of human dignity. Unaware of emotional transition taking place isolated by the partner who retain them exclusively. Any comments and body language, eye contact with others is an issue. Jealousy means boundaries blurred, phone calls monitored, phone call history checked, password violated by insecure partner harrassing and accuse them but ones guilty of cheating. They restrict, confine to home but abuser freely goes out. Can talk to certain people at certain times so not allowed out with friends, family or colleagues. Meanwhile partner is free to do as they please without meeting such a required demand from victim. Many spend lives in search of success, seeking physical material values. After attaining values if their relationship is wonderful relationship misrepresented like a Mills and Boons as happily ever misleads to finds in reality exactly unexpected. Start picking on each other’s faults known and seen all along but ignored danger signals. Some partners assume love will fix everything and intimacy will seal the deal in time habits become irritating.The razor sharp vitriol mouth talks and texting, constantly victim calls non-stop asking partner to account for every action for second of the day. It seems at first like caring love but nuisance call. Victim is blamed for all the problems in a relationship. Instant disposable throw away culture unhappy abuser looks for another. Shifts attention to focus to new partner instead of dealing with own insecurities. Thrill of their exciting new relationship overrules the redressing of their current imbalanced relationship. Provider thinks is above correction so cannot be challenged by partner as they feel they have not done anything wrong. So abuser continues with next victim. If they do it with you the partner fuelling strive discord snatches partner to do it to you too. Although conned and manipulated to feel better or superior to previous partner one joins victim list. If previous tie not properly cut off before current relationship starts may be entangled in each other’s business in unhealthy way.  The partner wants to retain the partner but wants extras alongside. If challenged threatening to leave or to kill, or maim partner. Close friends, family sense all is not well but deny saying things alright. Perpetrators becomes the victim’s life-line develops Stockholm syndrome in touch with ex. God says forsake all ex to take hold of spouse. They see perpetrator as really loving on the one hand yet verbally and physically abuser on the other hand. Their mixed message confuses victim who refuses to believe they are abused living in denial partner intensifies the physical or verbal abuse. Issue of abuse is bigger than known publicly as it takes place behind closed doors. Victim covers bruises, broken body with numerous scars excused. If reported by well wishers, victim refuses to press charges charmed, manipulated by perpetrator. Other times, stress, debt pressure, ill health, cause abuse so it is important to deal with the underlying causes of tension and violence not to project their problems onto others. The current partner is undermined so made to feel responsible for partner’s misery and unhappiness.  So blackmails victim using same channels and avenues used to woo partner at the beginning of relationship. This continues till both separate bedrooms, mealtimes etc yet continue addictive side of intimacy. Let your yes be yes do not send mixed messages about the relationship. Some adopt mutual  agreement to engage in side relationships alongside current partner. Be clear of need in relationship and your role to build each other up.Over time complicate matters worse so partner wants out or feels they invested too much in to leave compromise with abuse. Perpetrator lives in denial with excellent reputation outside in position of power and authority in some cases. The victim made to look like a mentally unsound villain trouble maker who is attention seeking wants to undermine partner. Things get worse as partner is involved with another partner as open secret known to all except suspicious partner told they are dreaming. Soon the partner senses something does not add up. If children are involved the abuser wants to eat their cake and have by playing their cards right. They main provider wants to keep an upper hand to maintain both relationship to their advantage. The victim may threaten to leave but actually not able to do so without support. The provider takes back wealth to punish and he refuses to maintain the children. They humiliate, diminish, wear out partner to feel insecure emotionally to damage victim unaware to reject scorn. Sometimes the abuser feels right to control partner’s letters intercepts them to cause delay to any important hospital appointments, family visits, or the relevant general information for well-being of partner. Children as baggage in tow may lose out on work opportunities by relying solely on partner as provider. It is an intricate complicated intense emotional set up as changes relationship builds up tension and resentment. The partner may not want victim but will not let go to seek happiness elsewhere. If they cannot have a partner nobody else must have them. Above all, the thought of another partner raising their children enrages them with possibility of a new family unit they are excluded from being part of. With court orders and shared parenting visitation rights their new relationships feel interfered with. One relationship exchanged with a new set of problems with children bearing the brunt of changes. The two most loving couple now sworn enemies who cannot stand each other or be in the same room unsupervised. Some cultures do not an allow ex alone or in the same room. Cannot compromise, get involved, give and take, respect, kindness, generosity, during difficult challenging times faced together. Changing times means family previous support unavailable for the couple. Puts pressure and stresses of isolation cause domino affect on them. Those afraid feel they cannot survive without perpetrator’s input so refuse to leave hope and believe things will get better to change partner. However if things get worse victim becomes more vulnerable. By isolating victim often friends and family may be incapable of knowing how to protect victim. Some think they cannot find anyone to love them or fear loneliness so tolerate abuser. It is better to value life to choose to live safely before it becomes too late and be sorry. No human being can satisfy or fulfil like Christ so people must stop impossible demands on partners by battering them and blaming them for not being happy. Or accusing them of not cooking, cleaning, waiting on them well hand and foot. They are lazy so refuse to lift a finger to help domestic chores and duties. Do not send mixed message to confuse partner. God made people perfectly whole in His Own Image so source of life, love, strength whether single or coupled so find Biblical soul care.finding-true-joy-series-315x210images (35)Relationships must tell true reality and responsibility of cost, business sacrifice, and compromises for peace, harmony respect. Remember abusers are friends, acquaintance, neighbours, colleagues, loved know you who once vouched and vowed you can count on them promised you the moon. But it turned into control freaks using rude comments, sarcasm, innuendos, snarky vicious comments, to insult and attack. Do not accept, receive negative feedback maligned comments. Rise above and get the help with talking therapy and counselling to rebuilt their self esteem. Confidence in God essential to surviving and thriving in life rather to rely solely on analysis or opinions of others. Put confidence in God to protect and guard your life in Jesus Name for its impossible to make it in life without a help from God. Do not listen to online or virtual stranger than seeking help from your loved ones who care about you. A soul food is necessary for healthy soul as much as healthy meal is essential for healthy body. Do not spend your entire life developing your academic life, work but ignoring emotional well-being. God made you Whole in OWN HIS IMAGE so you are good enough in God’s Eyes to be who you are. Do not let fears of jealous spouse ruin your life to lose confidence, joy, career, hope, good success in life. A good circle of friends and family is still essential even if married don’t cut off a contact with colleagues and others. You still have personal life even if you are in loving relationship accountable to God. Healthy-Soul1-e1378548707903Seek back up support, move house to refuge centre, change phone, avoid 3rd party influence friends who update abuser of whereabouts. Be alert, watch out for own personal safety. Do not assume anyone is actively protecting you to keep up your guard to save your life. Once an abuser always abuser unless miracle takes place to change stony heart to heart of flesh. Meet in public supervised by professionals in secure contact centres until children are old enough to defend themselves. Be sensible not to involve children in adult couple conflicts to bear brunt of broken relationship. There is always Christ, the Light at the end of the darkest tunnel. You can only change yourself not anybody so focus to heal and thrive in Jesus Name. Avoid rebound relationship so used, abused and dumped. God will allow what you allow by permissive will. God may not approve but allow you to find out yourself what He already knows in advance. You have authority in the earth so be honest and love yourself first to be able to interact and love others in a healthy way for finding true joy. Be accountable to experienced couples with Godly track record reputation as testimony. Learn from mistakes, transform and renew your life in Jesus Name. Without sound foundation in God people are free to be whatever they choose to be so they are not fearful of God or submissive to any authority. With attitude of entitlement it is becoming more difficult for people to tolerate others ways of doing things. So may expect its only their way or no way without any room for compromise. This is bound to create conflict and the fights that cause misunderstandings. Be more kind, forgiving and helpful to others. 

PAYING ATTENTION IN LIFE

To pay attention life is one of first words remembered in life a parent’s favourite word helps focus more learning to read as children. He accentuated his version with French tone though we are English people. He got us more alert in the few minutes of his command soon drifts off to play again. We memorised Bible text verses, times tables, spelt as calculators non existent then. Like sound of music training his children but not extreme to wear military uniform. Attention means focus fully, zoom in zone minute details be more alert. Growning up and taking on similar roles understand our father’s use of the attention word and attention on God. Attention encourages a support others learning to read or write, a better understanding but takes love, hardwork numerous data, paperwork for children to learn to read or write. We appreciate father’s devotion love and precious time dedicated to help improve skills for life and best thing for God’s ATTENTION.Attention means God tells us to remain still, silent, alert on the look to listen to hear him at times. As seasons constantly change it brings dynamic adjustment to adapt to keep on top of things. Attention helps attend to jobs at hand in here and day or night. Various games and riddles help spot the difference, missing words, scramble, countdown words to enhance brain focus to see minute details to the eyes. Distractions affect attention as TV controls life looking at a TV role model misses REAL ATTENTION FROM GOD IN CHRIST WHO SACRIFICED HIS LIFE TO SAVE ALL! Stand in agreement and call on Spirit of the LORD for good Attention in JESUS NAME from game addictions!Work towards the highest possible level of efficiency to focus to produce the real ultimate goal. Children’s TV game affect attention span and concentration, focus, and mental well-being, electro-magnetic wave radiation. Seems as sophistication. but children stay up late to play games unknown to parents in their bedrooms. Be firmly if on business trip train child to read or write, build a self -confidence to focus attention on the good words to stands out in mind. Loud speakers blurt out word attention! attention! attention! to listen to important announcement so  be ready to pay attention  to God’s call. Obsessive attention seeking behaviour is intense desire and craving  be always  at the centre excludes others. A shared  sense of feelings of achievement is better enjoyed ravel in the moment real. This reminds us of the nearby company many times in a day calling attention to warn to keep people safe in premises within certain perimeters to ensure a safe distance as vehicles passed by. Life well ordered is pleasant with everyone knowing their place. There is respect of unspoken honour hierarchy submission to authority. Easier to obey do as told as than if consequences of rebellion loudly implemented. Attention is inbuilt focus concentration designed by God to do things properly. Attention is required for detail accuracy, specific information, health, safety. Godly ATTENTION knows and understands Jesus Christ. Attention to detail helps perform better, enhance abilities, talents, skills, career. Attention is external action of adulation expected. Given by screaming fans, crowds doing outrageous things to get noticed for 15 minutes of fame. Deepest level of inner concentration to achieve joy and good is success inside. Yet paying attention to God is the best source of strength for all to make it life. Attention is gateway key to success to decide what enters mind. Take time think set up of environment impacts attention. Attention deficiency, centre of attention, attention seeking, attention span, modern words thrown around get attention from others. Many complain gets no attention from spouse, family, siblings, colleagues attention but ATTENTION 2way street not cul de sac.Its possible to equate feeling good factor in getting attention from their external sources but unrealistic deeper lifestyle. Staring at one another all day long to seek fake approval by demanding focus on you is abuse attention seeking to talk exclusively about you. Loved ones and friends will not stay too long if value of life is only in selfis private property and possession chasing. Understand life as a is perfectly created in GOD’S IMAGE. It is decisions or choices in seeking God’s Face personally that matters most. God is love so your love couhts to confirm assurance of others. As sounding board echoes to reflect thoughts and feelings to others. Being in a spotlight limelight, flagged constantly by paparazzi getting attention is  negative stranger attention. Take time to DO THINGS PROPERLY in a  CORRECT way. A MULTITASKING shows actions in MOTION not SIMULTANEOUS.Keep driving with due focus, care and attention of reasonable consideration as its for you and others on roads. Modern technology and instant communication ability to share selfies people cannot wait to get home old fashioned family conversation at the dinner table any more. Attention saves lives and the Bible says there is a time and season for everything in life. It is good to keep in touch to ensure all is well with loved ones. Attention thrill seeking gives new meaning but some watch porn driving cause fatal accidents to ruin innocent lives focus for few minutes to make the heart fonder. Stop panicking, worrying thinking the world will end for not indulging in endless talk. Spend quality time praying for loved ones or nations or wait till you are sadly at destination to talk or call. Pay attention on roads.

GOD’S POINT ON EMOTIONS

God’s point on emotions shows a sign of living range of feelings intensified and often triggered by many circumstances.  Emotionally healthy person can express appropriate emotions of joy, love, peace, happiness, hope, strength, encourage, dignity, care, kindness courage response to impact others with good positive emotions. God’s inbuilt emotions helps to enhance life so taught to help express feelings better. Emotions can condition and control life if not kept in check. God gave emotions not to create zombies. It is important positive emotion drives life in right direction, over-bearing high – maintenance, high-strung negative emotions unaware affects others.Indulge negative emotions negative self-talk, low self-esteem, fear, anxiety, hate doubt, worry, anger, strife, arguments, fights. Emotional people wear heart on sleeve motions poured in public without restraint filters. Emotions relieve stress and pressure to some extent. The stoic bottle emotions but implode with low immunity and health issues caused by bitterness, unforgiveness, stress due to lack of sleep. Negative emotions replay takes over person’s life to detriment of excellent qualities a person possesses. Melancholics see negative view of life and sad most of the time. Some may turn to drinks to numb pain or sadness but compound so worsen negative emotion. It is good to express emotion by using the appropriate tone of voice, body language and facial expression. Negative emotions cost time and waste energy rather to be invested in good outcomes. World view, man-made ideas often contradict God’s wisdom which seems foolishness to the world.Life is full of up, downs, through the fire flood, storms of life. Positive emotion is essential to sustain life in a good way. Life is full of contradictions, bound with disapointment of unmet expectations. Life is dynamic so one has to be flexible to meet all the constant changing needs of life. Reality of life is different from fantasy utopia in soap opera drama. God influences thoughts actions, habits, behaviour challenging secular opinion. Emotions push people in two different directions to please God or man. Stress confuses some so take time to recharge life batteries to be still in God’s presence to seek HIS Face, stand strong on God’s word doing all to stand, stand boldly in Jesus Name. A Godly emotion fuelled by Holy Spirit so bears good fruits of Spirit of Living. God put mechanism switch in our system to be fully in control of our emotions. God gives right frame of mind to clear head to deal with emotions of pain, substance abuse if not incapable of selfcontrol or selfdiscipline seek help.If incapable others step in to support, guide help to develop peaceful positive emotion outlook on life. Practicing Godly positive good emotion overtakes negative tantrum as light drives away darkness in Jesus Name. Always apply Godly emotions daily, read, study, reflect, meditate on emotion in the Bible as God delivers and heals emotions from oppression.They drain resources and waste time of many who input own available sacrificed to help but still complains. This personality refuses to grow up to take responsibility for action or change to adapt with the times. This causes domino effect on those guilt tripped for not helping enough. No matter what is done for them they never seem to cope or remain calm to experience good emotional feelings.If these negative emotions are left and undealt with, sooner or later becomes nagging victim mentality damaging conspiracy theory. Seek help in a safe space to unwind and safely deal with negative emotions. Ask God Almighty to help you to deal with all emotions. Invite Jesus to take control over emotion and welcome the Holy Spirit to all master emotion.Study by Finnish researchers published in Proceedings of National Academies of Sciences confirm emotions affects body, blood circulation and bile production poisons the blood causing toxic health complications. People with very high emotional roller – coaster behaviour do not want to change. It brings negative attention as misery loves company yet never content. Mummies and the dead have no emotions so control emotions as it bears good fruits in life.The just live by faith not by emotions and feelings. Negative emotions cause sin : Genesis 4 : 2-6. Impulse emotions in Judges 11: 29-40, Emotions for worship Ezra 3:1-13, Positive emotion heals the broken hearted Psalm 34:18, and Guard Emotion in Proverbs 4:24 to prevent an emotional crush. And Proverbs 15:13, Control emotion in Proverbs 19:2. Christ expressed emotion John 11:35,  but stop unreliable emotion in Galatians 5:1-17, stop emotional sin in Ephesians 4 : 31.