SILENCE IN HEAVEN

In Revelation 8:1 when the Lamb of God Christ Jesus broke the 7th seal, there was silence in heaven for about half an hour. A 30 minute’s silence in heaven means a lot so is a great deal because worship in heaven continues non – stop in addition to other activities. So for heaven to keep silent for half an hour is a sign of foreboding event about to be unleashed. Silence is used in muted deep reflection and lamentations when too overwhelmed to use language and words to express feelings. One is said to be dumbfounded if shock of a news makes it impossible to talk about feelings. Such feelings are often too hard to find appropriate words to use to describe happenings so silence takes place.

As the contents of the seal to be read out and unleashed upon earth and sea by 7 angels sounding the trumpets was very serious. It was so sad heaven was mourning and grieving in advance of the consequences of the astounding tribulation on earth. It was disquieting and disturbing so much is why there was silence in Heaven. In the beginning was silence, but after this big silence in heaven, prophet John and other end time prophets are sent from God with messages to warn of doom and gloom going to happen to the earth. The sound accompanying opening of the seals is revealed as described.

The seals read out unleash earthquakes, hailstorms, tornadoes, tsunamis, monsoons, wildfires mingled with blood tragedies, floods, locusts, plagues, disasters in the sea with some ships destroyed, trees  green grass burnt,rivers polluted and so bitter contaminated by wormwood it kills those in contact or drinking it. Darkness forms where the sun used to shine, Yet still the inhabiters of the earth seem to continue to take things for granted. God continues with as seal destruction reveals hurricanes, thunderings, lightenings hurled unto the earth from heaven.

God and heaven is so sad because their hands are forced and compelled despite their loving heart to act because of opportunities rejected. So God is now forced to unleash destruction on earth. And this due to rebellion and punishment was being enforced by God due to mankind’s stubborn will. The blood moon is significant with the apocalypse of changes on earth. Even though the sun will be turned into darkness, and the moon into blood before the great Day of the Lord. Sky gazers caught a glimpse of the “blood moon” crossing the Earth’s shadow recently in all its splendour.

The question is why is God extremely angry to totally destroy some parts of the earth? The answer is found in Revelation 9:20 to depart from evil works of  hands, not to worship devils and idols of gold, silver, brass, stone, wood which cannot see, hear, talk or walk. to repent of murders, sorceries, witchcraft, fornications, and robberies. This is the reason why God’s anger and wrath is so unleashed for rejection of God and Christ Christ Jesus to do own thing. Tridents and others – foreshadow a coming catastrophic solar storm. God’s storm coming, has another motif of hell on earth.The 5th angels begun to release the key of hell which unleashed  smoke and locusts  to torment  and torture to hurt for 5 months those without the seal of God. God is calling for repentance for all have sinned and fallen short of the Glory of God in Romans 3:23. Nobody knows exact day or hour for rapture but God is now showing consistent signs for people to take His warnings to repent on earth more seriously. So why does a merciful loving God turn so unforgiving? The answer is found in God’s warnings released by prophetic voices warning in the end time. So traumatic events and tragedies are marked by a minute’s silence by most nations. Such silence happens on earth on 11/11/11 and other occasions when the whole world or nations stop all activities to hold a minutes silence. The whole world stops to commemorate each year and celebrate end of a world war or traumatic events. God has had enough so changes are happening to warn mankind to wake up to repent before it is too late when tribulation sets in after sealed remnants rapture of those sealed and saved from all nations, and tribes.In Revelations 10:6 another mighty of God standing upon the sea and earth, angel swore by God who lives forever and ever, the creator of heaven and earth, and all things that there should be time no longer extended. So God’s patience is running out to complete and finish the mystery declared to God’s servants the prophets. Damage destructions are attention calls to take God more seriously. God sends wildfire and earthquake tsunamis to destroy ships and homes by angels.

The pain was so intense people cry out in vain for death commanded to flee from them. the 6th angel released 4 angels prepared for 1 year 1 month 1 day 1 hour to slay 1/3 of mankind. God is warning to repent, change and be sealed for rapture by Christ. The jealous God wants to remain number in Christian believer’s life whether married or single. Too much hype oversells status of mankind above Christ, God so God wants to be restored as priority in the life of all His creation.
After 7th seal during storm of life the chosen saved of the tribes were marked and taken to Heaven. The nations seems repentant so some accept Christ and make changes in their lives. Yet pretty soon that tragedy is forgotten even though some blame God so reject Him accusing for their tragedy. As rebuilding and reconstruction of disaster zones recreate more beautiful structures. So it appears as if in spite of loss, a new opportunity arises to develop better architectural buildings to improve the quality of life. So what was meant for evil turns to good with better modern furniture replacing old tattered ones. God’s warning message seems ignored so the world must turn to God.
Tragedy soon become insurance claim broker’s day and time for business to boom and flourish as usual. So building contractors make good money from demolitions as a result. Things return to normal until another tragic hits triggers memories. Pretty soon people forget so things return to same of rebellion against God. This is why heaven’s silence must be taken seriously to repent to seek God’s face for mercy. The number of the army and battle horses were 200,000,000. Power in their mouth for martyrdom of unbelievers and physical disturbances in sky and surface of earth.

As a result of the tragedy people’s attention is captured by the trauma so changes are made immediately after. Unprepared churches become full of people crying sighing and calling upon God for mercy in the aftermath of tragedy. Soon repeated patterns from tragedy turns to seasoned recovery from traumatic events of life. Instead of learning life lessons to draw closer to God, it becomes opportunity rather to show off cosmetic design prowess to redevelop and rebuilt aesthetically on grand scale. However, the remnant are saved from all nations and tribes.

The remnant who receive Christ and remain faithful to God will rejoice and many people from all nations will be saved despite the traumatic hell on earth. While the human condition in glamorised aggrandized sophistication perishes by gaining the world and losing the soul. So heaven’s silence is a warning to the world to change!  Whosoever calls upon the name of the Lord shall be saved in Jesus Name. Those who usurped and exploited and reject Christ are destroyed.

God’s punishment against noisy words, thoughts, fear, loathing, spite, pain, suffering, panic, ungratefulness, hatred, snobbery, injustice and exploiting evil men. So the rich men, and the chief captains, and the mighty men, and every bond man, and every free man, hide themselves in the dens and in the rocks of the mountains. It is important to think seriously about what people will see, feel and experience when the physical events of the Lord’s return begin to unfold. To understand what will life will be like on that day when the great day of God’s wrath is come!

ON BLACK HISTORY MONTH

The Black History Month is celebrated every October in UK and February in USA to remind the world of the consequences suffered today from slavery, colonialism, trauma havoc damage still faced by many worldwide. The above poster was for International Day of Remembrance of the Victims of Slavery and the Transatlantic Slave Trade. As a result it is essential to talk about the subject of Black history as not properly taught in schools. After years of emancipation veterans who fought in the wars were deemed of no use any longer so sent to Liberia from USA, Sierra Leone from UK. Experience new discrimination from indigenous tribes they do not trace roots due to name changes enforced by whites to strip them of identity and language. This technique deprived them of tracing ancestral roots of origin like Kunta Kinte did from USA to Gambia.painting of a ship used in slaverySlaves were packed like sardines in ships during West Africa Trans – Atlantic Slave Trade Africa into South African mines, into Cuba, Brazil, Chile, Argentina, Mexico, Haiti, Caribbean Islands and to USA. Portugal was first the European country to trade in slaves from Africa. Initially brought only to Portugal  32,000 African slaves in the 16th century. The Transatlantic slave trade included European nations like Belgium, Britain, France, Germany, Spain, Netherlands Holland Dutch, Sweden, Denmark, Austria, Norway, Italy, Genoa sponsored, condoned, actively participated so were involved in trade of slaves through forts on Gold Coast of Ghana including Fort Fredensborg in Fetu and British Castle at Cape Coast, Ghana. Slave shipped from the castles at the seaside to West Indies. Although huge numbers of slaves were taken to the Spanish plantations, most arrived in Portuguese, Italian-Genoese, Dutch, French and British ships. Often unidentified 16-gun ship is typical of the vessels used in the slave trade is shown in a port profile against a wooded coastline, sailed to Africa. France in slave trade in West Coast of Nantes, Lorient, La Rochelle, Bordeaux built wealth through triangular trade. Slaves on French vessels were taken to French Caribbean colonies Saint-Domingue, Martinique. Charles V granted German Flemish courtier Lorenzo de Gorrevod authority to ship 4,000 captive Africans to America in 1518. This was beginning in earnest of slave trade so from this point thousands of captive Africans shipped annually to New World. Slaves worked on plantation colony and cheap goods sent back to Europe. This triangular system perpetuated demand for slaves by Europeans so increased the country’s wealth by selling to them their shipped goods. Europeans were slave holders but in 16th century thousands of Europeans were captured by the Muslim privateers along the coasts of Mediterranean Sea, Atlantic Ocean, North Sea, sold in slave markets from Alexandria, Egypt to Meknes, Morocco. Seamen, fishermen, traders, travellers, soldiers by seaborne raiders. The Ottoman Empire expansion in Europe meant peasant families were enslaved by the combatant soldiers. The pressure to supply millions of slaves meant capture and enslavement of people. Spain contracted buying and transport of enslaved Africans to European middlemen slave trading companies with the best deals. With aforementioned pressure imposed quota to supply more slaves. When slave trade was at its peak, furnished with guns to use to fight each other. So they captured and auctioned slaves to other Europeans in Africa and shipped them to European colonial lands including Jamaica. Greed and ability to control economy is unprecedented. “Thus he shall act against the strongest fortresses castles with foreign god, which he shall acknowledge, and advance its glory; and cause them to rule over many, and divide the land for gain” in Daniel 11:39. Daniel foretold of accumulation of great riches because of total domination of the economies of the nations under union of dictatorial control. “Through cunning cause deceit to prosper under rule; to exalt self in the heart and destroy many in their prosperity in Daniel 8:25a.

Whereas the slave master yielded power through mortars, guns, swords, the victims had spears or used fist fights that was no match for attackers. Since onset of atomic bombs, planes, sophisticated weapons of war, plight of ordinary people was sealed. The Transatlantic slave trade between 1501-1867 Atlantic triangular trade, sold at least 12.5 million black Africans as slaves by Europeans countries. After 400 years officially counting end of slavery supposed to end earlier slavery still took place in large numbers. Kings who fought back in wars exiled like Prempeh from Gold Coast, Ghana. Gold mines and country colonised in lucrative slavery source of Western wealth. So has power over treasures of gold and silver, over all the precious things of Egypt; the Libyans, Ethiopians  follow at his heels” in Daniel 11:43.

While mocking the victim of their lack of civilisation and progress due to laziness. So a gigantic super abundance is created by usurper while those depleted are ridiculed daily by them. When blacks speak of the genocide being committed against African people on a global scale, this is the work of the system of white supremacy gentlemen and the individual racists. Slavery wealth costs the Africans blood, backs, bones, lynchings and death of millions of the ancestors unaccounted for. Taken from the motherland by force against their will many lost, millions of lives unaccounted for. Prempeh defence of Ashanti Kingdom against conquest led to exile to Sierra Leone and Seychelles.

Authentic rulers and kings were deposed like Prempeh to Seychelles by the British who took over rule of Ashanti Kingdom, gold mines and ruled Ghana. So stooges enstooled to promote imposed bully’s lifestyle. The slave trade followed a triangular route between Europe, Africa and the Americas. European goods, cloth and guns were traded for slaves in Africa. Although it takes 2 to tango, those who continue to greatly benefit most from slavery and colonialism still accuse victims of total blame of slavery. Written books portray their victims as barbaric savages without knowledge and morals who need enlightenment to become civilised. Through the triangular trade exploitation of natural resources. Human cargo in exchange for sugar, rum, cotton fed industries in garments making, trickles for thousands of generations still continued. For a bottle schnapps, scotch whisky, brandy, gin and tonic exchanged hectares of fertile lands including gold mines. Cocoa and rubber plantations allegedly signed off by the illiterate kings who respect sacred land forced like Naboth’s vineyard. Africans although victims bullied by slave traffickers accussed and blamed for supposed greed for mirrors, alcohol introduced to them sold loved ones.
Many were captured and enslaved after wars incited by guns given to fulfil demand for quotas for slave plantation business booming. As a result, forced to torch innocent families rounded up separated from loved ones. Sold in droves of millions intoxicated by drinks to enrich themselves. Kunta Kinte from Gambia was not safe to walk or go to forest as slave traders on the look out to capture. Unfortunately the convenient divide and rule history legacy left blacks disunited but rightfully waiting to  get back usurp wealth. Women and children continue to the bear brunt of slavery and the mass destruction weapons for too many generations. In 1471 Portuguese built Elmina Castle to protect Portuguese trade from the European competitors, and hostile to Africans. In Elmina Castle near Cape Coast Castle in Ghana, they kept slaves in dungeons in castles built to store slaves until departure from the point of no return. Thousands of castles and dungeons still exist all over Africa recorded in various books in Ghana’s Gold Coast. Castles owned by British were Cape Coast Castle in Ghana among others. In Ghana, President Barack Obama, First Lady Michelle Obama and daughters Sasha 8, Malia 10 toured Cape Coast Castle a former slave fort. European slave traders gave America onions, olives, rice, turnips, coffee beans, peaches, pears, grains, wheat, barley, oats, livestock, cattle, sheep, pigs, horses, most importantly disease. Smallpox, measles, sicknesses affected native Americans killed or poisoned to take land. Education continues teaching slave masters principles and methods. Economic slavery is still doing extremely well. Much of the social life of Western Europe in 18th century to date depends on the product of slave labour. In homes, coffee houses people meet over coffee, chocolate, tea, sweetened by Caribbean sugar. Wear clothes made by American cotton, smoke pipes filled with Virginian tobacco. In the church above dungeons, worship God but slaves treated badly!
Furniture made from mahogany, tropical woods, coral, palm oil to build castles, export to Europe and North America. So deprive gold, diamond, timber, bauxite, oil, cocoa, spice, coffee, cotton. Demand for cheap goods traded in African fabrics, cotton, from Americas encourage trade and industry in the Midlands and North-West England, the heart of the Industrial Revolution. African natural resources in motherland never recovered from under development sabotage. The profit makes the Western nation merchants rich and investors make fortunes from the trade. Many land owners’ estates in Caribbean provide large incomes. Profits of slavery gives an undue advantage to European capitalist economic growth so expanding their global control of all nations.

Income from the slave trade exchanged cowries for  gold, diamond, salt, cotton, ivory, and slaves for horses, red cloth, and iron. So made people wealthy, bought land, built large houses, invested in banking, industry, support charitable institutions. Built museums, universities libraries, hospitals on blood and toil of slaves. These nations continue to dictate and subjugate their  fear of united front against them to recover the wealth in retaliation. Most Africans slaves include, Wolof, Mandinga and Bati etc. Castles exist in many parts of Africa where slaves taken for trafficking human black gold. Many Castles remain in Africa and some are ruins tourists visit to learn the living history. Cape Coast, Elmina Castle along coasts others are inland in Ashanti Region among other places in Africa . In dungeons, there were hundreds and perhaps thousands of slaves housed at the same time awaiting transportation; there were no toilet facilities. Slaves ate, slept in the same place; they urinated and relieved themselves in the same place. A channel in floor carried waste away from a point to another along floor. Taking baths was out of question and no ventilation to keep alive. In 1480s, Portuguese established entrepôts of São Tomé, Elmina to serve regular trade routes from Congo and Benin. Muslim fortress of Ceuta, North Africa, 1415. Conquered Portuguese rulers turned attention to trade goods delivered across Sahara. Skirting coast, royalty sponsored explorers brought rich supplies of gold, precious goods to source bypassing coasts. Created conflict divisions among those tribes not getting along with each other. These divisions reinforced wars and conquests. Insubordinate kings who refused to stand by to take abuse labelled enemies, blacklisted and exiled abroad. Stooges were installed in place of real kings so continued trauma of enslaved people. With constricting rules and laws reinforce in them divide and rule. One expects progress in modern times to see changes as equals in the 21st century. God Does not endorse such greed abuse endured from generation by victims so vengeance belongs to God who created all people. Constant propaganda news media continues to bombard the victims as villains just for asking to be treated fairly and equally as human beings. Embedded image permalink

God provides more than enough resources for all His children on earth yet black cargo was chosen as the preferred commodity to exploit due to greed and selfishness of others. Despite slow progress of one or token non threatening black man or woman hardly any real changes have taken place economically since African holocaust. Ghana eye is an exhibition exploring the history and legacy of the European Slave Trade. Britain’s slave trade history can be traced in the local landscape, museums, history books showing abject poverty before slavery. However, the irony is the paradigm shift of exchange of their poverty shift to original owners of the natural resources watching the usurper waste God given resources to blacks.

They lack compassion for victims fighting among themselves like house slaves and field slaves. Their accomplices are coconuts well endowed who have no idea how those on the other side live by improving and doing without. The injustice of black history cannot be fully redressed by the slave master for it is like asking wealth and resources to be returned on a silver platter. The basic bare necessities of life have become an uphill struggle and battle field for blacks. Those responsible for depleting under-develop fellow humans with no clue of the true origins of wealth usurped for many generations. Below of summary of chronology of slavery and abolition.The African Queen of Sheba rode chariots to visit King Solomon in 1 Kings 1:10-12, when she heard of fame of Solomon concerning the name of the LORD. To prove him with hard questions Makeda,  the Queen of Sheba 960 visited in BC. As most of Black history is suppressed, and distorted it is important to educate people about the wealthy kingdoms of Africa before slavery and colonialism. She came to Jerusalem with great train, camels carried spices, gold, precious stones. Black history lifestyle unknown in other countries. Queen of Sheba brought Solomon’s so many spices and gifts never seen before or ever since and saw wisdom, house built for God, the meat of his table, sitting of the servants, attendance of ministers, apparel, and cup bearers, and ascent by when went up to house of the LORD. Impressed as true report  heard in own land of acts of wisdom, prosperity exceeded all fame.

Blessed be the LORD God delighted to set on the throne of Israel because God loves Israel for ever, made king, to do judgement and justice. Sheba gave king 120 talents of gold, spices of great store, precious stones: abundance of spices queen of Sheba gave to king Solomon…for the house of the LORD, and for the king’s house. Psalm 68:31 says, Prince shall come out of Ethiopia shall soon stretch out her hands to God. Acts 8:27 says, Queen Candace’s personal accountant an Ethiopian eunuch of great authority under Candace queen of the Ethiopians, who had the charge of all her treasure, and had come to Jerusalem for to worship God so was baptised by Philip.

Overwhelminglyist evidence in Western museums, hospitals, universities built from raided African artefacts and figures reconstructed, reconfigured portray light skin. Knowledge from African roots eradicated from items made originally by black natives to prove highly skilled in architecture. To endorse the savage label given to blacks because the perfect skill displayed by art pieces were supposed to be too advanced for black intelligence. Before such cruel exploitation to enrich themselves at the expense of Africans, most European nations were so poor had paupers in poor houses to sell urine to tan animal skins to earn income.

pee picture 2Such families used to  pee in pots taken once a day and sold to tannery to survive so-called the “Piss Poor.” The water temperature about the 1500s was so cold people married in June as they took their yearly bath in May. Smelled good by June as brides carried a bouquet of flowers to hide body odour. Hence custom today of carrying bouquet when getting married. Africans enjoy perfumed tree scents like the lady of the night, and fragrance of African Lavender plus other rare species of flaura and fauna brought into Europe. So  bath consist of big tub filled with hot water. The man of the house had the privilege of the nice clean water, then all sons and men, then women and finally the children. Last of all the babies. By then the water was so dirty you could actually lose someone in it.. Hence the saying, “Don’t throw the baby out with the Bath water!” Houses had thatched roofs-thick straw-piled high, with no wood underneath. It was the only place for animals to get warm, so all the cats and other small animals, mice, bugs, lived in roof. It rained, became slippery and sometimes animals slip and fell off roof. Hence the saying “It’s raining cats and dogs.”There was nothing to stop the things from falling into house so posed problem in bedroom as bugs, droppings messed nice clean bed. Hence, a bed with big posts and a sheet hung over the top afforded some protection.

Yet Africans were superich while canopy beds came in to stop floor dirt. Wealthy had no such dirt saying, “Dirt poor.” The wealthy had slate floors that would get slippery in the winter when wet, so they spread thresh straw on floor to help keep their footing. As the winter wore on, they added more thresh until, when you opened the door, it would all start slipping outside. A piece of wood placed in entrance-way. Hence: a thresh hold. While taking great care of themselv maltreated and abused in chains restraints on neck. In those old days, they cooked in kitchen with a big kettle hunging over fire. They lit fire and added things to the pot. They ate mostly vegetables and did not get much meat. They ate stew for dinner, leftovers in the pot got cold overnight stew food for a while. Hence rhyme: Peas porridge hot, peas’ porridge cold, and pea’s porridge in pot nine days old. They obtained pork, and felt special, visitors came over, they would hang up their bacon to show off. It was a sign of wealth a man could, “bring home the bacon.” They cut off a little to share with guests and all sat around and fat cat ate at an expense of slaves. Slaves punished, whipped, shackled, hanged or beaten, mutilated, branded, molested, burnt, imprisoned tortured. Punishment was meted for no reason than hatred and pure evil yet themselves Christians.

Educational materials and documents available in almanacs record the black history events for posterity. So blacks  and whites must study these matters to correct history. Black history in ancient maps show proslavery and Precolonial ancient preposterous empires. They traded gold, salt and spices peacefully among each other. Until greed brought  fighting over slavecoasts and slaves to ship to West Indies, Brazil, South Africa from West Africa. The information must be made known to show that Africans are victims of Western Europeans who deprived them of their natural wealth resources. Africans are villified as those who sold their own flesh and blood for money. Just take a look at Africa to see who gained most from the slavery and the colonialism by Whites.

Those with money had plates made of pewter. Food with high acid content caused some of the lead to leach onto the food, causing lead poisoning death. This happened most often with tomatoes, so for the next 400 years or so, tomatoes were considered poisonous. Bread was divided according to status. Workers got the burnt bottom of the loaf, the family got the middle, and guests got the top, or the upper crust. Lead cups were used to drink ale or whisky. The combination would knock the imbibers out for a couple of days. Someone walking along the road would take them for dead and prepare them for burial. They were laid on the kitchen table for a couple of days as family gathered around to eat and drink and wait to see if they would wake up. Hence custom of holding wake to watch out for dead yet killed blacks.

England was old and small and local folks started running out of places to bury people. So they dig up coffins and take the bones to a bone-house, and reuse the grave. When reopening these coffins, 1 out of 25 coffins were found to have scratch marks on the inside and they realized they had been burying people alive. So they would tie a string on the wrist of the corpse, lead it through the coffin and up through the ground and tie it to a bell. Someone would have to sit out in the graveyard all night graveyard shift to listen for the bell so saved by the bell or considered a dead ringer. Money from slavery built  grand and obscured stately homes, public buildings and private homes.That’s the truth Black African wealth built Harewood House in Leeds among 1000s of others as economy flourishes. Black history extends through apartheid South Africa worldwide in segregation ethnic cleansing, colonialism globally. Slavery and indentured servitude is a capital offence in Exodus 21:16. Paul called slave traders, ungodly, unholy, lawless, rebellious, profane, in 1 Timothy 1:8-10. Systematic kidnapping to enslave countless Africans peaked from the 15th-19th centuries due to greed is absolutely a non-biblical phenomena. Business is booming for descendants exploiters while survivor descendants await compensation from such African holocaust. However, remember that vengeance belongs to God Jehovah Nissi in Jesus Name! So years devoured by locusts, canker and palmer worms God will restore. With more than double portion blessings plus interests as Jewish wealth assets restored. God SAYS if MY people called by MY NAME humble themselves to call upon God, HE WILL HEAR prayer, answer to heal their land in Jesus Name! A White said, THEY ARE STILL OUR SLAVES. We can continue to reap profits from them without the effort of physical slavery. Their IGNORANCE is the primary weapon of containment. A great man once said, ‘The best way to hide something from Black people is to put it in book. They have the opportunity to read any book on any subject through the efforts of their fight for freedom yet refuse to read. Few read consistently, if at all. GREED is another weapon of containment. Last year Blacks spent 10 billion dollars during Christmas, out of their 450 billion dollars in total yearly income (2.22%). We can use them as our target market, for any business venture we dream up, they will buy into it. They function totally by greed. They continually want more, & hardly save. They rather buy new sneaker than invest in a business. Some neglect their children to have the latest Tommy or Jordan, & they still think that having a Mercedes, gives them ‘Status’. They’re fools! A vast majority of them are still in poverty because their greed holds them back from helping to make better communities. With the help of BET, and the rest of their black media that often show destructive images into their own homes we continue to see huge profits like those of Tommy and Nike.

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Surprisingly Hilfiger even jeered them, saying he doesn’t want their money, and look at how the fools spend more with him than ever before! They will continue to show off to each other, white communities improve with profits from our businesses that we market to them. SELFISHNESS is one of the major ways we continue to contain them. Some segments of their culture that has achieved some ‘form’ of success but they didn’t read that the talented 10℅ was responsible to aid The Non-Talented 90℅ in achieving a better life. Instead, that segment created another class that looks down on people or help them in condescending manner. Their selfishness does not allow them to be able to work together on any project of substance. When they do get together, their egos get in the way of their goal Their so-called help organizations seem to only want to promote their name without making any real change in their community. They are content to sit in the white conferences & conventions in our hotels, and talk about what they will do, while they award plaques to the best speaker not the best doer. They refuse to see that Together Each Achieves More (TEAM). They do not understand that they are no better than each other because of what they own, as a matter of fact, most of them are one or two pay checks away from poverty. All of which is under the control of our pens in our offices and our rooms. Yes, we will continue to contain them as long as they refuse to read, continue to buy anything they want keep thinking they are helping their communities by paying dues to organizations which do little other than hold conventions in our hotels. By the way, do not worry about any of them reading it because ‘THEY DON’T READ!! Prove them wrong. Please pass this on! After Reading. We MUST rise from post traumatic slavery disorder. The blessings of the Lord God makes rich without sorrow so seek God’s blessings through tithes and offerings. Emancipate yourself from mental slavery, love and please the living God in Christ in Jesus Name. Sadly, this exploitative state of affairs continues until Almighty LORD God, Patent Owner and Creator takes back power from them and the KING of Kings Jesus Christ Rules earth physically permanently forever in PERFECT PEACE FROM JERUSALEM ISRAEL. Forgive to Make sure you belong to God’s Kingdom in the New Jerusalem.

Now .. whoever said History was boring?

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A BIBLICAL SEX EDUCATION

A Biblical Sex Education is God’s will for genuine Christian born again believers teaching a true and sound lifestyle pleasing to God. To keep body holy and sanctified according to 1 Thessalonian 4:3-4, God’s will is to be holy, sanctified, abstain from sexual immorality, fornication. 4 To know and possess body vessel holy to keep pure to honour God. In 1 Corinthian 6:8, flee from sexual immorality because all other committed is outside the body, but sexual sin is against own body. God’s command in His Holy law is just, good, perfectly agrees with sound doctrine of the Gospel. A Biblical sex education is God’s way of to keep Holy Spirit  pure of safe sex education that has shown unpredictable consequences. It important to educate children from 4 years old due to precocious puberty children get pregnant at 4 years old giving birth when 5 years old. Do not take essential educational need for granted, to teach appropriate touch early. Precocious puberty takes place so sexual organs of body develop early. With growth spurt changing fast puberty sets in earlier at younger than in previous generations.

Most societies in the past, used to marry children early before formal education started. Years ago most cultures practised betrothed children by naming soon after birth potential spouse. As soon as menstruation starts child was ready and given in marriage by both families who agreed in advance after birth. Both children joined family professions for informal education as apprentice bakers, barbers, cleaners, chimney sweepers, cooks, factory workers, farmers, fishers, hunters, masons, pottery, servants, tailors, tanners, thatchers, washers, etc. All chipped in to do their bit on fields or at home. And child birth was considered an opportunity to breed to replenish the earth, as workers to replace elderly aged. So was win win situation to celebrate childbirth without age restrictions before formal education became compulsory. Like slum dog millionaires of Mumbai had 100% employment of whole community. Or hired extra hands to help so all hands on deck if capable of working. With compulsory education, a long biological clock gap creates many years of waiting to get married to have children. So pressure is more on the girls as child bearers to have the major responsibility for fertility control.

So reproduction is held at bay despite active sexual hormones subdued. Sexual feelings are stimulated preposterously in films and language daily yet suppressed by contraceptive pills, injection, other birth control methods. A pool exists of under age teenagers, some finished compulsory education, unemployed with technology taking over jobs. Generations forced off lands means few have abundant jobs. With plenty of time on their hand, new trends encourage sims, second life computer games preoccupation with intense lust feelings played out. So causes paedophiles to pester, cajole, plead, charming personality seduce children to comprise. Normal healthy platonic display of affection hugs, kisses, embrace, family comfort releases affection hormone Oxytocin. This stimulates serotonin attachment feeling craving system of behavioural activation and reward. A simple embrace increases level of love hormone so creates further longing for more addiction misdemeanant sense of commitment. Many do not understand female reproductive organ menstrual cycle, ovulation, conception, gestation period, advantage and abuse children. For Biblical sex education use appropriate age language illustration if necessary.

This same love hormone strengthens the bond of affection between a man and child they have intercourse with called Stockholm Syndrome. As sexual instinct hormones kick in during years of puberty, often girls are told to prove their ‘love’ in relationships.  Children do not automatically understand full functions of private body organs. Some born out of intense puppy love affection cause naive children, lacking knowledge of sexual consequences, to conform and comply.Like playing with fire while hoping not to get burnt, the newspapers are full of stories of under age sex with children giving birth. 5 year old Lina Medina from Peru named son Gerardo after doctor but refused to name the father. In Singapore at 6 years, in Ukraine, Yelizaveta Gryshchenko’ like 6 years old H in India, Anna Mummenthaler at 8 years from Switzerland, Mum-Zi 8 years from Calabar Nigeria, 9 years-old Estelle P from USA, 9 year old in 1881 in UK. Some coerce by rape drugs perform illicit sex. Other naive ones think hyped intimate bonding remains fixed for live at such heightened level so fantasize to get engaged and married. Many fantasize anticipated joyous love from cherishing, owning and possessing a baby. So assume life is easy like abc of playing with plastic dolls, think they can manage love. Some do not consider in the heat of the moment, consequences or cost of raising and maintaining a child. So lack frontal cortex brain to understand need of home to live in, income, maturity to handle, discipline child, ability to provide care, affection, duties and responsibilities of parenthood as they are children themselves. Family becomes responsible for mother and child not fully grown to ensure child is well looked after. So struggle mentally, emotionally and financially. Some loose own childhood as forced to grow overnight so impacts the child born in such circumstances who also repeat same pattern of the cycle. Children are emotionally deficient, materially malnourished to fully comprehend adult issues of childbirth and child care. In UK, Sean Stewart at 12 years old became the youngest father in Britain when his girlfriend gave birth to his healthy son.

Other teenage pregnancies of young mothers and fathers are in the Guinness book of records. So Biblical sex education is essential. Importance of sex education for homeschoolers, must be emphasised before it is too late! In Genesis 34:1-31, Dinah was raped by Shechem son of Hamor the Hivite and in 2 Samuel 13:1-21, Tamar raped by half – brother Ammon in Bible had intense selfish lust desire fantasy craving to abuse young naive half sisters. Amnon, son of David lusted after Tamar, the beautiful sister of Absalom in 2 Samuel 13 :1. On pretext of sickness faked illness to lure Tamar to cook meal for him then used violence against her to temper with her virginity. Knowing fully well nobody will marry her after rape as considered damaged goods in such times. David did not punish Ammon for rape of Tamar. Such men move on and dump the girl, as their motive was selfish lust to seduce to fulfil flesh. Intense passion craving causes some to give engagement rings to seduce some girls use, abuse then collect ring back.

Like Ammon such men discard girls after getting what they want. So do not want long term reality to maintain a relationship. So collect the ring back without compensating alimony of services rendered by the girl whose time they wasted. Some end up with different sexual diseases, including HIV, etc., paedophilia rings and gangs abusing them. On the other hand, girls body changes after birth bonding more to the baby so switch emotions on auto pilot maternal instincts. This displaces the father once intensely given attention to. This causes boys and some men to feel rejected and abandoned so left in the lurch. This change in dynamics equation of relationship makes each partner distracted from each other. Some fathers, instead of coming on board to support the mother do the hard work. So dumps her to seek attention from the next available willing victim looking for love in wrong places. So cover children with blood protection of Jesus and soak them up in prayer.

Watching TV images of sex and listening to lyrics compounded by sexualised  music, parties, peers, clubs, perverts. The irony is the main desirers demanding sexual fulfilment promote sexualized society bill boards. Advertising, innuendos, jokes, swears, books, strip clubs, adult films, porn, on line illicit magazines, lyrics in pop hip hop music highlight sex in a derogatory manner making light a serious sacred intimacy created by God. Teach God’s way, procreative appropriate age designed by God not follow legalised sin. But Alfred Kinsey, SIECUS – Sexuality Information and Education. Education Council of the U.S. and others refer to children as capable of sexual activity so the bible never endorses child or teen sex. With idle hands unoccupied sex is turned into entertainment joke though it has consequences lasting a lifetime and beyond generationally.

Sex trafficking sells as the fastest multi-billion business sponsored by pimps, control freaks who dominate and abuse victims. It is important to teach children especially vulnerable children about Godly self-value, self-esteem, self-appreciation. Appropriate expressions of genuine platonic parental affection for children lowers hormones stimulated and elevated during hugs and kisses from abusers. Also a child must be taught clear boundaries between parents and close family members exclusively entitled to hugs, kisses, embrace transparently and publicly in the family. So allowed to touch them appropriately for personal care in too young. Teach them to value their body as priceless affection from God in deep enough to merit their comprehensive unconditional love of Christ for them. This issue requires team work, ethos with high expectations to motivate and support children to overcome such barriers. Pastoral care is essential between schools and family working together not against them. Confidential support must be prevention support centred more than waiting to repair after effects of damage. It cost more to raise child mother and child than use same resources to properly educate them. Children hook up with others end up creating baby mama and fathers. Not quite realising contradiction domino effect not solutions of exchanging one problem for another. So carefully, teach them about personal care, use of private parts. Tell them there is really no such thing as 100% safe education as most do not have contraceptives or care to use them at times. Graphic illustrations purporting to demonstrate sex education. There is urgent need for sound reading skills knowledge to motivate, inspire and encourage children to have high expectations, attend school, progress in life. To have excellent manners, love themselves first in life, no matter how humble their beginning, to appreciate and enjoy life. Above all, the world is screaming sexual values yet sex is God’s idea and creation for consummation of marriage, intimacy, companionship, affection and procreation, it is better not to lean to own understanding excluding God from sex equation. Through God’s child can grow into the kind of adults who can have deep, meaningful, lifelong marriages filled with spiritual, sexual, and emotional intimacy.

HALLOWED DAY

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Jesus taught the disciples and Christian believers to pray, Hallowed be God’s Name to remember to Sanctify God’s Holy Name on earth. God’s Holiness is celebrated during All Hallows Eve – Holy Evening to honour Christian saints. So started in Christianity to remember saints in Church. It was an international day for serious Christians to ponder martyred saints who sacrificed life to help save souls. It included all who passed also celebrated to love, honour, reverence God for Christ blood sacrifice and of the saints. International Hallowed Day was an evening to be kept pure and Holy for God! It was to prove how Christ conquered death and martyred saints overcame death by emerging alive in heaven. Hallowed day was used to mock and ridicule death to thank and Glorify God for the gift of eternal life through Christ who redeemed sinners from death.

Soon the word Hallowed became adulterated into “Halloween” meaning “hallowed evening” or “holy evening”. It comes from a Scottish term for ‘All Hallows’ Evening as a contraction of “All Hallows Evening. Also known as Allhalloween or All Hallows’ Eve and  All Saints’ Eve,as a yearly celebration. It was observed on 31st October, in many countries it was a Holy Church event on the eve of the Western Christian feast of All Hallows Day. It initiated the triduum of Allhallowtide in the time of the liturgical year dedicated to remembering like memorial day those who passed into heaven, including  the saints called hallows, martyrs and all the faithful departed believers. Within Allhallowtide, the traditional focus of All Hallows’ Eve revolves around the theme of using “sense of humour and ridicule to confront the power of death. It was intended as a form of liturgical worship to diffuse tension of fear of death and take away sting from painful loss of loved ones after death.Yet has opposite effect of celebrating a holiday that honours ghouls, demons, ghosts, and dangerous evil. Those in love and passionate about death they permanently dress to identify their master to show whom they worship daily.

Halloween is another grand occasion for nominal believers to serve their master. Although considered fun and merely implying window dressing, compare image, outlook, appearance represented by Halloween. Jesus conquered death and took away the keys from satan so gave us life through redemption of the cross. So do not need to celebrate Halloween to scare death already a  defeated foe. Every Christian believer has eternal life.

Take a good look at a lollipop guide who stops traffic as uniform garment symbolises power and authority behind them. So according to many academic scholars, All Hallows’ Eve is was a feast initially influenced by Celtic Harvest festivals. Other academic scholars maintain it originated independently of Samhain solely with as All Saints’ and All Souls’ Day but thought to embody strong pre-Christian beliefs and Christian roots. Halloween is presented as a harmless fun to young children never enthusiastically taught to promote Christian faith in God with similar passion and zeal.

The overall holiday spending, said Nikoleta Panteva, a senior analyst with market researcher IBISWorld involves many businesses making huge profits. Shop sell millions of Halloween goodies in various shops which turn out items for sale on display. Once Halloween merchandise hits the shelves, the society goes into auto drive preoccupied with festivities. Like Christianity and Christmas was influenced possible by Constantinople’s intra-faith pagan roots, particularly so did the Gaelic Samhain change Hallowed Day into pagan devil worship.

To restore God’s Glory and Honour Position as Sovereign Lord. To prepare Christian leaflets to educate and bring awareness about the true and genuine hallowed day. To organise events, gifts, and witness to win more souls for God. To remember to pray for those tortured, martyred for Christ. So cry, sigh, lament and call upon God to have mercy to forgive insolence of mankind against God. It is an opportunity to repent for the cruelty and wickedness against God by people so continue to share the true reasons for hallowed day.

God says those He Loves He corrects so does not want them to perish. So encourage proper honour and celebration of hallow more than they currently are. The Bible says avoid the appearance of evil so anything that looks like evil even in the name of fun is not worthy of the time and presence of a true child of the Living God. Jesus said the devil has nothing in Him. So Christians must not celebrate devil worship which parades as harmless fun. It desensitized people especially children against dark horrors of witchcraft. Bonfire was originally part of bone fires of martyred Christians.People gatherings condoned and jeered persecuted believers in lions dens and fires live in front of crowds. Not realising cry judgement blood of persecuted becomes evil generational curses. Such blurred lines destroy clear boundary between what God approves and what mankind does. Halloween is seen as yet another party time to have fun and let the hair down. How many Christians take time out to prepare alternative Holy events to share with family, church, instead of following Halloween. Once again October time brings this whole debate about whether Christians should be getting in costumes glorifying death.

The world rebels against God by rejecting Him as Sovereign Lord by abandoning God for the devil in the garden of Eden in Genesis 3:1-7 to do own thing. The Bible says resist the devil and he will flee from you in James 4:7. Mankind with audacity renounced God as King Ruler to Reign over them to appoint own ruler. So in 1 Samuel 8:7, God said to prophet Samuel it is not you they rejected but me Jehovah Zebaoth they rejected as their King. God’s people since the fall have been seriously affected by ability to relate to one another and to live in peace with one another. So celebrate Anti-Christ festivals promoted and endorsed by unbelievers to deride God and Christ’s resurrection power.

Most importantly, the fall has seriously affected our ability to relate to God and to live at peace with Him. The main theme of the Bible concerns the restoration of our relationship to God and the redemption of man from his sinful state, climaxing at the cross of Christ, which made the way for us to return to God. Just as man chose to rebel against God in his sin, so man can also choose to return to God by accepting the sacrifice of Christ to pay the price for his sin. Thus, Christ’s sacrifice, in a sense, undoes the event of the fall and brings man back to God. So let God’s Kingdom come and His will be done on earth!This is what the story of the Bible is indeed, and the history of mankind is all about. Believers cannot continue to bend over backwards to accommodate evil in church. The world is to follow the Christian church example in holiness to be saved. No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both as Matthew 6:24-25 and Luke 16:13.as one is loved but other is hated. One cannot truly belong to God and the devil at the same time. Prepare good programs to celebrate God’s Hallowed day to help people become excited about learning, growing in faith and friendship with God. Check local Christian Book stores, UCB Word for Today on line for alternative Hallowed Christian package events for born again believers. Intercede in Jesus Name.

Christian teachers be saints in leading children to God through gospel to believe and accept Christ  Jesus if possible. It is good and beautiful to feed children soul food early to adore and hallow God to receive Jesus’ salvation. Children need Christ into their hearts to be saved and go to heaven. No child is too young to give their life to Christ to follow teaching of the cross of Jesus for eternal life. So read Christian story books to them since birth, taken them to church their entire young life. Talk to them about Jesus. Sing songs about God, watch Christian stories on television and read bibles in the house. To reinforce the message of Jesus other revered significant adults in their life.

As testified above in this picture the same message in a different voice makes all the difference.Since giving his life to Christ the child received a the boldness of the Holy Spirit to witness to others. He talks to people about Jesus on air planes, in the grocery store, on the ball field and even led a little boy to Christ during his sister’s dance recital. He continues to pray for the salvation of those he witnesses not receptive to the message at the time. The parents stated, we never know the words we say impact another person. There are times we are placed in the path of others for purpose of speaking into their life.

LITTLE SECRET

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Many issues of sexual abuse are often swept under the carpet so it is important and necessary to educate children early on matters that concern their lives. This simple easy to use format will help children, parents, guardians, significant others to help children understand intimacy issues early in life. Children do not know about intimacy automatically. One cannot wait or assume they will grow and learn about it. With numerous real life painful stories of sexual abuse it is necessary to teach children early about preciousness of their body as God’s Holy Temple.

This true account will help parent gain better awareness of sexual abuse. Dawn was 4 years old when her mother offered to help a heavily pregnant neighbour. By shopping for her, she left Dawn under her care for a few hours for some time to help her prepare for delivery. The Peter, oldest son of the pregnant woman started entertaining and playing with Dawn to occupy her. Peter’s mother was busy preparing meals for the family and more food for freezing during her days of confinement. Child play soon turned into nurses and doctors for many months as both continued to play together.

Abuser had audacity to sit Dawn playfully on his knees in the presence of family together yet nobody knew little secret. Eventually Dawn told parents of Peter’s games played. Then Peter’s father, a prison officer whipped the son until his bottom burst open, turned into a wound later oozing with pus. Basically this saved Peter from further abuse but destroyed the beautiful relationship between friendly neighbours. Worst of all abuser attended police academy at time of abuse yet successfully qualified so carried on his profession in a place where no one knew his dirty little secret. Dawn grew up before became aware or understood what happened in childhood at 4 years old.

Peter’s father sought transfer and so moved on into another town to work there. Dawn had no idea or knowledge of  intimacy so did not know understand abuse. At 4 years old such a thing never happened in family so it was not deemed necessary to make aware to know the difference between appropriate touch. Use simple words meaningful to child to create family code for private part to clean themselves. Ask or remind child to clean wee if girl or pee if boy to clean properly without embarrassment or direct supervision to violate their privacy if.

Like cleaning teeth help brush until well-trained enough to cope by themselves. Remember each child’s maturity level is different! Teach all children their body belongs to God so Holy Spirit dwells in them through Christ. In 1 Corinthians 6:19-20, “Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God?Do you not know that you are God’s temple and that God’s Holy Spirit dwells in you? If anyone destroys God’s temple, God will destroy him. “Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God?

The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. 1 Corinthians 6:13 – 18 So flee from sexual immorality. So be urged brothers and sisters in the Lord, in view of God’s mercy to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God and teach children to value their body. Private parts include others not touching vests, the chests, fondling breasts or bras of little girls by anyone if old enough to dress themselves. Take time out to teach the priceless value of the body and boundaries during innocent play that turns into disaster. Keep an eye and teach children to tell little secret plays, hide out or cross gender issues. It is better to be safe than sorry for trauma of abuse lingers on in life affecting all aspects of life. Train children early about keeping private parts private as sole owner of their private assets and property. So must not allow anyone to touch vest, bras, underwear or trespassers to enter in!

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It is a hands off zone to others not accepted to do by assistive care like doctors, parents, etc. From age 2 some children can dress themselves. So it depends on the child’s spurt growth level of maturity. The parent’s input train child early to do simple little things like pulling up pants, taking off vests until able to take personal hygiene care of themselves.


P.A.N.T.S is an easy way for you to explain to your child the key elements of the NSPCC Underwear Rule:

Privates are private

Picture of pants with letter PBe clear with your child that the parts of their body covered by underwear are private.

Explain to your child that no one should ask to see or touch their private parts or ask them to look at or touch anyone else’s.

Sometimes doctors, nurses or family members might have to. Explain that this is OK, but that those people should always explain why, and ask your child if it’s OK first.

 P =Private


Always remember your body belongs to you

Picture of pants with letter ALet your child know their body belongs to them, and no one else.

No one has the right to make them do anything that makes them feel uncomfortable. And if anyone tries, tell your child they have the right to say no.

Remind your child they can always talk to you anything which worries or upsets them.

 A= Always protect body 


No means no

Picture of pants with letter NMake sure your child understands that they have the right to say “no” to unwanted touch – even to a family member or someone they know or love.

This shows that they’re in control of their body and their feelings should be respected.

If a child feels confident to say no to own family, they are more likely to say no to others.

 N=No


Talk about secrets that upset you

Picture of pants with letter TExplain the differences between ‘good’ and ‘bad’ secrets.

Phrases like “it’s our little secret” are an abuser’s way of making a child feel worried, or scared to tell someone what is happening to them.

  • Good secrets can be things like surprise parties or presents for other people.
  • Bad secrets make you feel sad, worried or frightened.

Your child needs to feel able to speak up about secrets that worry them and confident that saying something won’t get them into trouble.

Telling a secret will never hurt or worry anybody in your family or someone you know and love. 

T=Tell Secret


Speak up, someone can help

Picture of pants with letter STell your child if sad, anxious or frightened they should talk to an adult they trust.

This doesn’t have to be a family member. It can teacher,friend’s parent, ChildLine.

Remind them whatever problem, it’s not their so fault not in trouble for speaking up.

S=Speak up


1. Be alert as parent to notice changes in body language, behaviour,

2. Be careful not to entrust child to anyone if unsure even if charming.

3. No matter how sweet playful bonding follow your gut feelings.

3. Be aware, never leave child alone with abuser or stranger danger.

4. Use camera if in doubt; check child addiction Stockholm syndrome

5.Do not sacrifice child for family honour and reputation image

6.Put child first to care for them and work from home for first 5 years.

7. Educate child on appropriate touch and the no go private parts.

8. No fondling of boobs, butts, pinching, or keeping little secrets!

9. Teach children to dress appropriately from childhood.

10. Even if they seem good and melt your heart protect your child!

11. Ensure health and safety at all times to protect their lives.

SELF-WORTH

Self-worth is valued in many ways by different people. There are 3 main broad umbrella general typical self-worth categories discussed here. The 1st group believe their self-worth is derived from God Almighty their Lord and King in charge of all areas of their lives. They sincerely believe God created them so knows them better than anybody. So the acknowledge God 24/7 and exalt His Holy Name. They live for God totally, seek God’s face for every decision and ask God’s blessings through the Name of Jesus. They understand they are God’s property so God is their source of life not their networth. Their family, promotion, rewards, material riches, wealth, assets, prosperity. houses, lands, businesses are from God the author and finisher of their faith. They feed on God’s soul food the Bible for self-esteem in Christ.

They depend on God to supply all their needs according to His riches in Glory from heaven by Christ Jesus. Where to live, what to eat, what to wear is supplied by God who knows their needs. So they give due respect, thanks, Honour, Glory to God for their breath, their life, their strength, their healing, their comfort, their grief, their sorrow in God’s hands. The work of their hands belongs to God, their fruits and ministry belong to God. In fact they are so blood bought and purchased by God  through Christ Jesus they are sold out to God. They are in the world but not of the world as peculiar people, their feet is on earth but their heart is in heaven.

They are actively winning ans sponsoring others to win souls and ready for rapture! They constantly talk of God in almost all conversations and addicted to God. They see their self- worth only through God’s worth and God’s Image imprinted in their spirit, soul and body. They are God focused, hot for God though not perfect they fall many times but rise again in Jesus Name like good soldiers of the cross. Confidence is in God’s guidance to embark on projects and dedicate them to God. By turning the mind healthy in actions, thoughts to reflect Godly self-esteem.The 2 category of self-worth is defined by one’s own self- effort, self-achievement, self-confidence, own, strength, and self- made abilities, connections, status, class, wealth, riches, friends, family and relationships. Put pressure on themselves to improve self in many 12 step programmes. May try to maintain diet to keep size in shape, height, status,  etc keep changing to adapt to desired taste. So feel they needs regular tummy tucks or other tucks here and there to redesign themselves for the perfect ultimate shape intended. So proceed to make themselves feel better through various big time changes to improve looks, enhance and implant boobs or reduce them not for medical reasons.I'm awesome

Liposuction, pump butts, enlarge phallus, redesign private parts. They may become product junkies so regular updates are required to keep up changes worth thousands if not millions of dollars. True self-esteem does not come from a bottle or products. Self-worth derives from self-confidence in God confidence. It includes self-respect and self-belief, self acceptance and self-love. It is in the interest of many multi- billion industries and companies many people live insecure life. So they become their source of making them look like what they deem fit as best suited for them. So people become addicted to stimulants and substances to try to numb self-worthlessness, shyness, mask pains, masking behaviour by mentally blocking feelings. So keep up the façade by maintain the charade.
Yet unaware of billions of so much wasted land fill sites meant for houses and homes. It’s Each change feels good for so long then the cycle is repeated to maintain and keep up appearances with the Jones. There seems to be a nagging void so no matter what is done to present self well is never satisfied. Years and years of longing for fulfilment through things is never enough. One is into the hyped epic of the latest gadgets and the toys and the most expensive item believing the costlier the higher the quality transferred into self-worth to enhance image before others trying to impress. It is true self-confidence is the foundation of good success and achievement. However, self-esteem philosophy which originated in 20th Century secular psychology is deeply embedded in Christian teaching with name it and claim it selfish system.

The 3rd self-worth group seems to have no self-belief concept of the precious value of their life, abilities, talents, wealth or talents. No matter what everyone else sees in them or tells them about  God’s beauty and Image in them, they feel ugly and have low self-esteem.  The falsely think humility means low self-esteem. So worry, are anxious, constantly looking outward not within for self-worth. Some may or may not use external cosmetic enhancement but still never feel good enough. They may be kind-hearted, sweet-natured, loving, generous, compassionate yet do not think they are worthy to receive or enjoy their life to the full.

They are impressionable and easily led so influenced by others because they want to please everybody except themselves. In the process  receive many contradictory advise so become confused so cannot make up their own minds. They may be vulnerable and  bounce off other people as misery loves company. They may worry and look for underlying reasons for their low self-esteem through non-existent health conditions or blame others, their background. Such a habit is really destructive and totally unnecessary so must understand the emotional drain on themselves and stress put on others under pressure from them. Many adults are still dealing with self-worth issues of childhood.

So have no value for their life, family, assets or wealth. They do not feel they deserve anything good in life. On the other hand may have no filters or boundaries so underneath the mask is underlying issues of anger, may be hiding deeper feelings of hurt and vulnerability. Some project their hurt onto others and not even aware of such treatment of others. As they do not learn to control emotions they cannot separate good feeling from bad feelings mixed in their life. They may show the world one attitude yet feeling another. However it is important to be congruent to configure feelings to admit true inner feelings and thought to be true and honest with self. Often the body language expression shown reflect or gives clues and hints of symptoms of expressions of true feelings underneath.

So change low self-worth denigrating self- attitudes because no one is worthless. Even if hurt by others respond and do not react to result into negative self-worth vibes transmitted and radiated by own actions and words. Obsession with self- worth is also detrimental as one is constantly changing like chameleon to fit in and blend. God made all perfect for His Glory to stand out and be counted. So nobody is a sea of identical faceless invisible clones modelled on a particular self-image. It is important to know one’s self-worth is through God’s Image imprinted since creation. So families raising children in Godly value life is are highly regarded and appreciated by God. People are created as God’s inmost being knit together in womb as stated in Psalm 139:3. So each child is from God granted life on earth according to God’s will.

APPROPRIATE TOUCH

Appropriate touch is important especially in a tactile society where considered essential, necessary. Ethics requires establishing and maintaining appropriate professional boundary with people. Since no one lives alone as an island, one is bound to meet and run into people often as possible. Parents, guardians nurses, doctors, fire men, first aiders, health professionals, provide nurturing appropriate assistive touch during care. Other significant people provide care as part of duty, responsibility to help those totally dependent on them. Due to many reasons and factors, appropriate touch is used for care during formative years as child is trained for personal care from 2 years onwards. Depending on child’s spurt growth maturity level, care continues until if able to do so unsupervised. People express love openly demonstrating affection in specific manners acceptable to that society. Some demonstrate affection publicly by kissing, holding hands, hugging, touching each other in meaningful ways. To various people in other cultures including married couples, one cannot openly flaunt love as it is not acceptable in that environment. Although, it may seem like freedom of expression to openly verbalize or express feelings of affirmation, some cultures have own standard expressing love in their context. So it is good to find out in each context, to know how people relate. In some communities, one cannot keep an eye contact to show respect to adults but must bow head, look down if talking or listening.  So it is considered rude to look straight in the eye in some socities.

Those who concentrate on appropriate touching, feel better and positive by touching. As touch serves a primary role to prove besotted in love with affection to publicly declare undying love. Touch is also used to console other individuals. For example, we put arms around people, hold head in our hands, hold hands or hug them in attempt to empathize more fully. To such a touching person nothing speaks more deeply than appropriate touch. It helps them feel they become one with others in ideal empathic understanding. So feel more loved or consoled as allowed to touch them. Those familiar and used to stirred emotion of touch use appropriate comforting words plus touch. Though it seems unnatural to those not used to such learned behaviour of touching for moral or infection control.

Others in non – touching society allow women to keep to female groups to work in team although married.  It is considered rude for women to be seen in company of men not their father, brother, husband or relative. Untrained eyes may see boundaries as suppression and lack of freedom. Such clear boundaries are set to teach moral awareness early to respect arms length personal space. From tender early years appropriate touch is defined clearly so genders have clear roles crucially for interactive behaviour boundaries. There is no right or wrong issue involved in taught touch or non-touching as none is better than the other. Those who prefer touch may feel isolated, unloved, excluded by others who seem cold to them for no appropriate touch. If unsure ask if allowed to kiss, hug or group hug as family boundaries are specifically clear.To those from non- touch background see blurred interaction too close for comfort. Hence do not allow people to touch if not used to touch. Due respect and honour is given to highly value place of touch in here and now and for future moral boundaries. Families feel responsible to ensure family members turn out right so perform roles and duties ordained for destiny. Touch avoidance morals ensure child protection from inappropriate touch. In contradiction girls are strictly brought up differently from boys. This sends a wrong message to boys girls are good for pleasure as they please though demand pure girl unspoilt as spouse or vice versa. Appropriate touch keeps clear boundaries in a relationship. Those touched inappropriately must seek support, help and not condone body violation.60276-grief_consoling2Inconsistent moral diversity creates double standard for teenage boys who turn into men who disrespect women and vice versa. Such fixed behaviour patterns means touching only one relationship after marriage seems impossible. So become used to having own way for so long over the years ingrained in mind. So entrenched inappropriate touch behaves recklessly. Also, they continue to think entitled to touch anyone, anywhere, oblivious to effect of embedded abuse on self or others. So lack awareness or respect for others indulge in sexual harassment jokes, touching breasts, pinching bottoms. Inappropriate touch contact is sign of immaturity and lack of respect for self or others.

Deliberately hand-pick and hire specific body types preferred so fire them if uncooperative so victims need support. Those power drunk deluded chose vulnerable naive children to groom for wrong motives. Some lack total control despite having most loving spouse get kick out touching inappropriately. Some camouflage with gifts, reward, promise to promote, buy material goods for victim to silence them. Others cover perverted track badmouthing dignified spouses who build them up. They fool naive victims they will leaving spouse for them. The truth is some have absolutely no lives without spouse blackmailed. So continue inappropriate touch, texts, faxes, tweets, face book seeking  non-existent.perfect partner

Some modern  relationships seem to take cues mostly from films, adverts, drama, or peers.  Those not conditioned to touch do not miss touch as they do not know, experience such touch. Seek to understand the standard set by each context. Not feel restricted and limited for not allowed to express love. Especially under influence of alcohol or substances abuse, act anyhow, anywhere, without restraint. Cause offence with consequences to dignified cultures training people to respect a person’s body so not to touch innappropriately. Some do not allow strangers to have any form of bodily contact in expressing affection. So allow male to male contact greeting communication.Those naive may be taken in by manipulation abuse to fall victim. Worst of all, some sabotage themselves by filming inappropriate touch for others online. So it is very important to train children and teenagers to value their body as temple of God highly valued and created in Image and Likeness of God. A true life of contentment and fulfilment is not filled by fleshly desire lustful touch. It is misconception of media and drama using lust in storyline as ultimate satisfaction in life. It misleads people to crave dependency on momentary actions of intimacy as be all and end all of life as thousands of inappropriate lustful innuendos, direct words of phallus, private part aired.images (35)It is unbelievable how much society condones and promotes lust in car adverts, food and perfumes etc on TV to influence and appeal to control the mind. So many generations grew up with especially women portrayed as sexual objects for profit in newspapers, adult cartoons, nude magazines, strip clubs, porn, adult cinemas, films, massage parlours, red districts, pimping sell intimacy as freedom of expression and choice. Yet on the other hand frown on the impact such liberal actions cause from promoting sex in selling everything.Generations have no idea of word of God but know such places and freely partake as they feel they have the right to do so. It concerns the owner of the human body God Almighty, an organ overrules and controls the mind strong emotions on a whole life. To even detriment and undermine reputation, career, spouse, promotion, without seeking help prior to actions. One becomes what one watches and reads especially in secret so the first step is to ensure thoughts are controlled. Then safe scenario created to enhance positive images to build up spirit in a healthy way. Perverted thought become stronghold if not nipped in the bud by God’s grace, mercy and mentor’s help.

Birds fly without one’s control over the head but one has power to prevent them from nesting in the hair. If addicted to alcohol do not work in a pub or if clumsy do not take up a job in china plate shop! It may seem obvious enough but living in denial in delusion of grandeur as a cover does not eradicate pervert emotions. Be honest and true to realise a few moments thrill may be not even remembered years later. Life is much deeper and more valuable not to be limited to only 20% aspect of life. Most people prefer to be touched by those they are close to, and then solely in situations where the touch is appropriate if needed. Be aware you can look but can’t touch.

Hyped lust creates a false delusion of a satiety never accomplished because it is a non – existent mirage. It creates disrespect for spouse unappreciated and not valued. Thinking there is real pot of lust gold at end of the rainbow somewhere better than now to satisfy. False belief causes unrealistic hollow lifestyle never content or at peace but always in search of ultimate gratification in life. Some think thrill of unlawful touch will make them happy though soon forgotten in search of new thrill seeking not caring of hurting others. So mind the feelings of others when touching!